OP here, I'll just clear some things up so people don't get the wrong idea.
I deleted the curvage and reddit not because of any consent issues or doxxing. My gf knew about me posting and we saw it as a way of sharing this fetish/kink together. Everything is fine and there have been no problems, but i think we did not realize the popularity that the posts would garner and so we had a talk about it and neither of us felt comfortable moving forward. It was fun for a while, but it was something that was seemingly always on our minds and the thought of doxxing etc. was outweighed by the fact that were weren't really getting any monetary gain from it.
I appreciate all the words you guys have said and we may post more in the future, but we're just stepping away from it for now.
TL;DR lots of attention, stepping away but might post again in the future.