>>53778 >We don't call men who like only fit women, fit-chasers, and we don't call men who only like thin women thin-chasers. So why is it when a man likes big women that suddenly "no that's wrong". I agree with you to a degree but I think the reason people think it's "wrong" is because most other common preferences are for physical characteristics that are either a neutral or a positive on someone's health/wellness. Big boobs signify fertility. Glasses signify intelligence. (Not saying these things are true, but it's the subconscious bias). Liking a specific ethnicity of person can be seen as weird, but is still considered relatively harmless. Liking fat is considered transgressive largely because modern society has hyper-internalized that fat people are unhealthy, lazy, have no self control, are low income or low education, etc. So if you're into fat, you're bucking societal norms on how we're "supposed to" see overweight people. And as a species, we're evolutionarily programmed to be suspicious/rejecting of people who ignore societal norms. For the record I think most of the social perceptions are bullshit and like I said I agree with you, in an perfect world liking fat women should just be seen as a preference equivalent to liking athletic women or blondes or whatever. It's complicated.

>>53848 There's a clear difference between your so-called "bullshit societal perceptions" and "common preferences" in that you attach negative cultural connotations to fatness, without considering that such connotations are not universal or on the level of the "common preferences". You can speak only for yourself ameritard, not for the masses of individuals from more tolerant cultures.

>>53801 99% of fat women hate their bodies more than you or I have ever hated anything. If fat was jews, fat women would make the nazis seem like a human rights organization. If fat was mexicans, fat women would make trump famous for saying "tear down this wall!" They hate their bodies so much that they genuinely, actually choose to believe they are living in a different reality, and are the most delusional people alive. A world where contradiction doesn't exist; where they are simultaneously thin, fat, worthy of love for who they are on the inside and their body doesn't matter, their bodies are sexy, don't need society's approval, deserve society's approval, are healthy, don't need to exercise, don't need to change their diet, are currently on a diet, don't need to lose weight, are currently losing weight, the men can only get off to thin women should be able to get off to them, and that the men who can only get off to fat women are gross. None of it makes sense because it's 100% delusion. The 1% of fat women who don't mind being fat are happy, fulfilled and get laid significantly more than thin women do.

>>53887 I hate to acknowledge how accurate this is. And unfortunately it's justified, no matter how much we admire and support them. Even beyond health/mobility or any other practical issues, the way most of society looks at fat women is unbelievably brutal. The shit that gets said out loud is just the tip of the iceberg. Even fat women look down at other fat women.

>>53889 >Even fat women look down at other fat women. Bring up an SSBBW when talking to a BBW - guarantee they will eventually confess they're happy they're not THAT fat. Even among the fat community, there's othering.

>>53893 Fat is like Jewishness. It’s normal enough but indicative of greedy morality and poor genetics. Poor people are fat for they’re lazier than greedy.

>>53904 Yet obesity rates are fairly low among Jews, huh. It's because you're lazy and stupid and unaccomplished as a result, and thus resent others you perceive as successful.

>>53920 > obesity rates are fairly low among Jews What does that have to do with Jewishness and obesity being outward facing signals for poor genetics and poor morality?

>>53923 >Fat ... indicative of greedy morality and poor genetics >Jewishness ... indicative of greedy morality and poor genetics Yet relatively few Jews are fat. Doesn't add up. Then again, you wrote this sentence: >Poor people are fat for they’re lazier than greedy. Because you're stupid.

>>53932 Don't you have a rowof schoolbusses full of Palestinian children to bomb, you nazi jew? Gtfo here. Fucking jews

>>53920 I dunno, antisemite and the alt right are being ignored by MAGA. Trump is throwing those wacky evangelicals under the bus cause he doesn't want to play by their rules. That Russia fed money must be worthless. I can see Trump winning if only because his handlers are doing a good job keeping him out of prison

as others have said, it's mostly presentation. the line between 'it's a fetish' and 'it's a type' really comes down to how you act for something like this. most people like when they're your type, relatively few like being your fetish. the difference is that being someone's type means you have a better chance at winning them over with your other qualities, but being someone's fetish means your other qualities are much less important. think about it this way: imagine you have persistent acne. it's probably something you're insecure about. if an attractive woman says she thinks acne is cute, you might take that as a win, because hey, you might be able to score. but if she talks about it at length, maybe even says she wants to make sure you don't practice skincare, that you should eat an oilier diet to promote acne, you'd get creeped out. if it's an insecurity, you like a little compliment because it makes the insecurity seem like less of a burden, but the more emphasis someone adds, the more it feels as though your acne is the only thing that matters. that's not great even if you also have an acne fetish, and if you don't it's crushing. this is basically true of all dating tbh. if you're looking for a relationship, you probably want to at least feel as if you're winning on your personality. even if they're totally conventionally attractive, most people will want to feel as if they're also a catch beneath the looks. for fat people, they aren't conventionally attractive, so they REALLY want to feel like they're valuable beyond appearance.

Consider that high testosterone men are more predisposed to liking fat women. Neanderthals had higher testosterone levels during puberty, and made the famously fat venus figurines. BRCA genes show a strong common ancestry between Neanderthals and Ashkenazi. Ancient Egyptians practiced feederism as a cultural practice, fatness equalling beauty. If scripture is to believed, that Jews lived in Egypt, it's likely they would have retained some cultural practices. The above evidence can only be explained by the theory that fat fetishism is a Jewish conspiracy. Forcibly starving Gazans is therefore not only injury, but insult to the beauty of their women also.

>>53753 Don't particularly care. I'm a very gay girl. On the one hand, I find men mostly annoying, stupid and repulsive. On the other hand, they make a lot of cool fetish art of cute girlies for me to enjoy,

>>53811 go lay your neck on a busy railway line and go to sleep you fucking subhuman

>>53824 kill yourself you fucking scum

If you're already a fat/bigger guy no one bats an eye because you're already viewed as low value. And it would make sense that a fat guy ends up with a fat woman. If you're skinny or a ripped chad and prefer BBW women you're gonna get ostracized for it. People will think you have a fetish since you're going after women shaped very differently than yourself.

>>53948 That acne example was one of the best comparisons I ever read. Saving it for when needing to explain.

>>54511 > And it would make sense that a fat guy ends up with a fat woman. Tell that to all the fat women dating in shape and thin men. > If you're skinny or a ripped chad and prefer BBW women you're gonna get ostracized for it. Do you live in real life? Do you know anyone but your mother?

>>53778 I'm late in responding to this, but I'm not sure I 100% agree here. The reason why liking fat girls is treated differently is because it lies further outside of the norm than liking more conventionally-attractive women. The further someone's attractions are from what's mainstream, the more glaring it will be in contrast to the rest of society. Fit women are pretty mainstream, but the women who put on a lot of muscle are, and thus, attraction to them is more treated as a fetish than just garden-variety fit women. Similarly, being attracted to chubby women isn't looked at the same way being attracted to SSBBW/USSBBWs is.

>>54633 I feel like you've got a point there. I'd love if it were just as easy as some guys liking blinds and others going for brunettes. With someone liking fat women I fell like it's mostly: Does he really like her body/How can someone even like/prefer fat women when he could date a skinny woman. Could he just pull this obese fatty? etc. But people who prefer blond women never think: How can he like brunettes... Just the thought of some men actually liking fat women seems so far fetched for many.

>>54511 > And it would make sense that a fat guy ends up with a fat woman. Fat women are perfectly fertile. Short men are meant to be weeded out of the genome but SIMPs fought for a govt run marriage market to create socialism for the incels and assign them wives based on income. Its less deregulated and fucking short men can’t stop complaining they’re not getting govt pork anymore.

>>54673 I also support eugenics for eradicating incels

>>54706 Pretty much. Any incel complaints basically are unprofitable businesses complaining that customers prefer better business and competition isn’t good, it creates losers (and winners). We’ve weakened our gene pools by letting any man who completes a BA degree in accounting reproduce.

>>54706 Seems the problem of celibates breeding other celibates solves itself...?

>>54713 > Seems the problem of celibates breeding other celibates solves itself...? See it doesnt because of things like society and farming. Check the genetic history. Since the advent of agriculture in the Stone Age possible to kill your neighbors and steal their land, goats and wives (kinda like modern day Israel)…this has lead to a reproduction gap between women and men to be as high as 15:1 female ancestors for every male. This died down to a lower ratio for most of the premodern era or enforced monogamy. Largely due to a culture of rewarding veterans with land lead to govt enforced Betadom during the Iron Age. This takes us to the modern age where thanks to the dating opportunities opened by the cell phone, websites, postal service, etc as well women’s hard won reproductive freedoms we enter in a new epoch in human history where there’s no limit on the number of children a sperm donor can father (aka Elon), nor is there any real use for most men’s bodies. This is creating a new era where the rich men and the studs are the only men capable of pulling women and getting fresh poontang. Thank you and I’ll be taking questions in the back by the bathrooms.

>>54723 Illiterate and schizo like most anti-semites. If you're trying for humor it's even more pathetic. The only reason you're back by the bathrooms is to give free blowjobs.

>What do women think about guys who are into BBWs? Probably think of us very lowely.

>>57244 > Illiterate and schizo like most anti-semites Is Israel not killing tens of thousands of civilians, targeting boys age 12-14, jornalists and doctors while stealing the land under violation of international law? Ohh? Right that’s antisemetic. Facts are antisemetic apparently.

>>54734 Calling all reasonable criticisms of Israeli Zionist war crimes ”antisemitism” is the Jewish people’s way of telling the world: “yes we are all racist thieves that kill children”. Turns out blood libel was true. What about the Germanic NatSocs right to self defense against such a vile and barbaric species of inhuman monster?

>>57260 Hey brb going to take a shower no not just stand theire I'm going to walk and take a shower.

>>57257 I am a schizo and I support Israel and Ukraine

>>57263 So it’s not about international law it’s about proximity to whiteness? The white Ukrainians vs the Asian Russian? And the white Jews vs the brown Arab? Just wait till this logic is turned against the Jews again and you got no Allie’s outside of the KKK.

>>57264 Russia is making crap up to save face that their expendable communist units are losing to Ukraine. Soviet Units are for guerilla tactics and not coordinates. Putin is what happens when a guy plays too much Halo and Call of Duty, or watch Gundam and think they're generals.

>>57260 We all know you're too bitch made to fight terrorists quisling

>>57269 Calls people a coward while posting the photo of a rich man dodging the draft.

>>57270 Sorry, I don't speak raghead. You still cranky the Taliban beats you for looking at them funny?

it's too early for these white boy comments

>>57272 I don't speak commie flag burner

>>57271 Sorry, all I remember is OBAMA KILLING BIN LADEN

>>57283 All that accomplished was making Obama and Biden come crawling back to conservatism cause the Bin Laden Family supported Trump who committed jihad, and won reelection. Is Green Day and System of a Down still salty they can't go to Bonnaroo without greatest American president of all time? I

>>57283 Now America is united, Republicans will hold onto power, while the left worse off since 2004. That Kenyan kid ain't coming back to bail out progressives from failing Main Street. I even got rid of Cheney, Rumsfeld, Powell, who's the 4D Chess Wizard now?

>>53753 I think it can go either way and depends how you approach it. Obviously some think it's weird but in my experience most seem to appreciate being adored and haven't experienced it much in life. Overall it's not that uncommon it like a bigger girl... it's the fattening deliberately part that starts to become weird to some people

>>53753 Had a few more thoughts on this. I think the answer depends a lot on the individual women and the context of the attraction. For many women who identify as BBWs, knowing that someone genuinely appreciates their size and sees beauty in their body can feel empowering and validating....especially in a world where larger bodies are often stigmatized. That said, like with any attraction, intent matters. If the interest comes across as reducing someone to just their body or treating them like a “category” instead of a person, it can feel fetishizing or objectifying, which might understandably come off as creepy. But when the attraction is paired with respect, genuine connection, and appreciation for the whole person, it’s usually a different story. It’s also worth considering that society as a whole still grapples with size bias, which can color people’s perceptions of these relationships. Outsiders might assume it’s “just a fetish” because they can’t imagine that attraction to larger bodies could be as multi-dimensional as any other preference. At the end of the day, it’s about balance: appreciating someone’s physical beauty while also seeing them for who they are beyond that. Most women, BBWs or otherwise, would probably respond positively to someone who makes them feel valued for their entire self...not just their body.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/jzon9q/i_went_over_to_rbbw_out_of_curiosity_and_while_i/

as a fat woman myself i can say it depends on how guys express their interest people who like fat degrading shit and death feedism is generally not someone i want to interact with LOL but otherwise i think its good that guys like bbws cuz we deserve some real sexual love...... plus its like a primitive thing so likeeee

i can only speak for myself, but it’s more or less a requirement for me that my partner have a fat preference or fetish. i’m uninterested in guys who “don’t mind” or “love me anyway” and guys who “love all women” are suspect. i don’t want to feel like i’m being settled for, even by someone who loves me on the inside. much of our lives and capacity to connect with others are external. when i look at my body i feel undeniably sexy. i think my curves and softness make me sexy. i want a partner who feels the same, ideally even more than me. i want my partner to be ravenous about my body. because i’m fat, that more or less requires a fat fetish. that said, i’m also not interested in a guy who ONLY likes my fat, and puts up with my personality/interests/etc to gain access to it. it’s gotta be both. maybe that’s a high bar, but i’m fine being single, i like myself. besides, i’m ideally just looking for one man to devote myself to. he’s out there. and if he loves me and also gets off on my size or feeding me or whatever, then… whatever. it’s not my fetish, but it’s definitely not an ick. i can get into it. it’s better than the alternative of someone who either resents my size or feels like a saint for dating me. way better. lovely, even. as for the existence of fat fetishists i’m not personally involved with? as a whole i find knowledge of their existence interesting and comforting, but some of them are creepy or gross or assholes or terminally socially inept autists/schizos. same as any fetish population.

>>59592 Definitely looking for a diamond in the rough. To me it's all about a good balance but even rarer to see someone who is not into this lifestyle still be able to embrace it. You say you would gain for a partner but are you concern with how far this could go? Of course rules should be in place but do you wait to do this down the road, in a long term relationship or even wait till marriage type of lifestyle? My partner and I we establish a ground rule early on. We both live this lifestyle though and need it in our relationship. We agreed to a certain weight and size and it's in the 500+lbs range. We want kids but if that's not an option we will put immobility on the table (as it's a huge fantasy for her). Your partner would have to definitely be able mind and body on respecting you and a lot of people with this lifestyle only see it as playing real life Barbie and Ken.

>>59280 That's a tragic page to read but I keep in mind that online discourse is heavily tilted towards unfulfilled, unhappy people. Fetishism is a shitty consequence of aspie fixation and the social stigma of fatness being a character flaw but then on the other side women are rejecting objectification ABSOLUTELY which is throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Everyone with a functioning sex drive objectifies and more besides. That's literally how our minds work. I sometimes wonder if people who argue that their physical appearance shouldn't matter have ever felt real attraction. You can objectify someone and still think of them as a whole person, that's called being '3-dimensional'. Traditionally you start attraction from the physical and then it grows into more aspects and that's what we call love. Sometimes it might even go the other way. Anything else is a fairytale.