I forgot how transactional this site feels. Like I know feeding/stuffing isn't free, and it is pretty rude to go so far as to assert yourself as someone's feeder or any advanced relationship if you aren't willing to feed them, but at the same time I don't remember there being SO MANY people who were just asking for food or money upfront. Like I message not even a girl but a guy and he starts off asking me to send him doordash. I'm willing to pretend to be gay because a gut's a gut here, where's the fucking horny DMers who want to talk about fat shit? I stated a Grommr just to see if I could have more fun, and so far, way more bites. Lmao, someone messaged me the minute I made my account. He was strange but it felt validating.

>>78084 > forgot how transactional this site feels. Like I know feeding/stuffing isn't free Man with no game try’s to pick up a prostitute and complains about the price. Seriously, that’s a you problem. If you keep talking to a whore after realizing she’s a whore, you’re just negotiating the price. Never once have I paid for sex, flirting or video chats. How much of an ugly little bitch are you? Can you get laid off feabie? Because the competition for real feedees is fucking higher on feabie than at an Arbie’s.

>>78095 >see girl >look at profile >realize she's a prostitute >oh, ok, I won't message them >see guy >look at profile >no advertising of patreon, onlyfans, whatever >ok, this must not be a prostitute >message >they ask for food 2nd message No anon. >Never once have I paid for sex, flirting or video chats. Are you trolling me right now?

>>60801 The problem with feabie is that like with all social communities, it becomes a circlejerk with a dominant demographic. Women vent and become cynical to who they see as outsiders (men) because of the actions of men who are frankly stupid, further alienating people who come in with good intentions because regardless of what leftists think, absolutely no one squashes their heuristic ability. You've noticed this. It's also full of people who see themselves in some way marginalised (women in general, but also fat women) which leans towards revanchist political positions towards men/white people. It's not a great place to be and it feels uncomfortable. Furthermore, it's now relatively well known amongst anyone who's a bit weird, fetish adjacent so girls go on there, pretend to be a feedee and ask for money. Worse, some have no intention of putting on weight and just full on scam you. So you're essentially pushing shit uphill to even have a conversation with these people. Most of the women who view my profile are mid/late 30s or 40s and have been since I was 18 - it's people with enough life experience to know what they want and to sort of ignore the circlejerk. It's that or they're from countries where people realistically cannot afford this fetish and as a result are even more prone to the scammy behaviour. So what do you want? There's no solution here. Maybe if you're a dirty seppo you can make something work, you guys seem to travel everywhere all the time anyway. Basically all you can really hope to do if you really want to partake in this fetish is roll the dice and hope.

>>78084 "Pretend to be gay" brother you cant pretend and participate 😭 tell yourself whatever you want but its chill to be gay literally nobody gives a fuck

When the last person u talk to wants to identify with shrek and lives in her swamp, I'm done. Feabie sux, I'm out

>>79553 Tell us more.

>>60801 I took a 6 year break from Feabie and I have been back for 2 weeks now. I don't remember there being so much begging from the last time I was on there. It's like every other post on my feed is either women begging for money or men complaining that women are begging for money. And those posts always made by the same people and commented on by the same people.

>>79575 No I'm probably not gonna tell anyone, cuz they weren't very nice. sorry.

>>79658 FFS.

>>60801 Gotta find the low-followers ones if you're just looking for fat chat/pic trading. Usually better chances if they hide their faces. I managed to find a 400+ meatball that's likely posting behind a spouse's back. Hasn't stopped her from enjoying my dick.

Living in the Midwest of America sucks besides living in Chicago (IRL Gotham City) there are no bbw, stuffers, bloaters, or inflators. Even if there are some they are most definitely not on feabie.

>>81043 The Midwest is one of the fattest places in the US.... Wtf are you talking about

>>69036 It looks like the same person "using the same filter", yep a man faking his own identity. (>>65332, >>65333, >>65390) these people are "probably" the same scammers inviting people on Feabie (>>75302, >>75306) so in conclusion this is why Feabie is not a dating site, but the reason why Putin enjoys destroying Ukraine: MONEY!

at the very least southern new england is very sparce, and i've been on 3 years and haven't gotten any woman interested who wasn't a scammer

>>60801 I used it last year for about a month. This February I made an account again and nothing has really changed. Within hours of creating your account you'll get messaged by the same two scammers that watch the new members list. Male/female ratio is extremely skewed, which is to be expected online. As a dude you must be active in sending messages if you want in on the action, or you'll be stuck on the sidelines forever. Of all the interactions I've had so far: majority don't respond, a few scammers, a few give uninterested replies and one got as far as connecting on discord with her, but she was a little crazy. The verdict? In 2026 I'd say Feabie is only good for looking at photos of large ladies. Everything else should be treated as an optional extra. This is certainly not a dating site, at least in the traditional sense. I was able to meet a very nice 300-something lb girl on a traditional dating platform. She's not into feederism, just an ordinary girl with a big appetite.

>>81517 Completely agree with you. That’s for what I used Feabie mainly too, just for seeing pictures. And yeah seeing women profiles with hundreds or even thousand subscribers and 0 following says all I guess. They are interested only in money or to get attention/confirmation that men like her.

>>64606 >natural monkey branching hypergamy Source?

Does anyone have an account that they are not using that I could borrow? My account got banned for "spamming"

>>60894 Is politics the only thing you habe going on in your life

>>82514 > Is politics the only thing you habe going on in your This is how all the maga faggots sound now that everyone knows they’re retarded goons of a pedo thief. Have fun paying 5$ a gallon.

>>82514 I am Kisame17 and am diagnosed with anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, PTSD, from the doctor. If you want the politics of it being mentally ill means I have poor performance.

>>82524 The Treasury Secretary was out on Mineola yesterday and he supports the $14 burgers, $20 pancakes, that these turnpike diners still seem to love. So 5 bucks on gas isn't farfetched. I am the most inefficient person with my 40 minutes commutes but I will pay for the car

>>79577 I remember i made a ponst on there calling out the begging and i got absolutely dogpiled by everyone on there.

>>82524 I didn't even vote, they're both the same side of the same israel owned front. Not everyone is some trump cocksucker dude.

>>82564 > didn't even vote, they're both the same side of the same israel owned front. This is what every brocaster and maga faggot is saying right now because they look stupid getting themselves drafting while crashing Bitcoin. At least we are all shared in our hatred of da joos.

>>82564 So, you voted for Trump via inaction? If you don’t vote, that’s not saying you don’t want either candidate, that’s saying you’re fine with whatever result you get

>daily 20 picture full size on newsfeed cycles >get bombarded with stupid meme pictures people uploaded Unfiltering my newsfeed was a mistake. Wish my "my type" filter was allowed to have exceptions and conditions.

>>82583 Kisame here, I am out getting a car under Trump and no real interest in the arts

>>82583 Trump has fat door dash women delivering McDonald's. Orban lost cause just doesn't have charisma

Scammers and true losers essentially begging for money by pretending to be into what they advertise. Everyone feels like they are pretending. I had some good luck but I’m more into inflation. The quality of person on it is also usually pretty bad and extremely lazy. It’s a mix of high neurotics and overly agreeable, non self-aware people defaulting to using the site like facebook instead of exploring something that turns them on

>>86633 Or not “exploring” but instead of engaging with something that turns them on. It’s basically the worst behaviors of online social media packaged behind people who can’t commit to what they are doing there in the first place so it’s like walking on eggshells

saw this thread and decided to do a search for who's online right now near me. Only one of these is a regular woman. Two are trannies, one's a sex worker, and one's obviously insane.

>>86660 Congratulations retard, you have now convinced even more normal women to never engage in this community by doxing 6 innocent profiles who never did shit to you besides be different than you. And, bro... come the fuck on, it's fucking Porltand you fuckin retard. Go to Idaho or Utah or some shit if you want a trad wife

>>86660 The amount of troons on that site is insane. Plus the amount that message you even if you only have “women” as your only ‘interested in’. Just asking to be roasted sliding into straight people’s DMs

>>86662 How in the fuck is this doxxing? These are public profiles you troon

>>86760 It's not public if you need a token. If you need to login or anything like that, it is not public. Fuck you asshole.

>>86660 Are you out of your mind?! There are still white knights here who will defend anything and everything to save their fantasy world or to avoid facing reality, apparently, there are a lot of them here. We have the same problem with the women on this site, they’re either fantasy women or just want to be fed online to fleece men.

>>86768 Can’t believe a supreme gentleman like yourself is frustrated.

>>86730 Some weeks back, I did a search for women who are 6' or taller out of curiosity. Plus, I have a thing for tall women. The overwhelming majority of search results were troons. I'd say at least a good 3/4ths of them, if not more. On one hand, they're going to be taller than women on average, simply due to male-female height difference, but even factoring that in, it felt like an insane overrepresentation.

>>86660 And the one you think is a regular woman is a bot lol. Anyone who spends more than 10 minutes at a time on there is crazy. The girls who only log in every few days are the ones actually worth talking to. Obviously YMMV applies. I think Feabie is worse than it used to be but I don't think this is the best way to prove that.

This was in the Vegas BBW mansion Doc

There's like a cult of the "cool" crowd on feabie that seems really awesome to be a part of. They like/comment on each others' posts and sometimes meet up irl. If you're not part of the club its awful and they don't seem to let new people in

>>88097 Go to a bash. Meet them in person. They'll probably let you in if you're funny. It's the making a lasting impression online part that is fucking impossible.

>>60801 When i first turned 19, I chatted with the most gorgeous woman who has ever given me attention to date. 6’4”, 590lbs, voice like an angel. She lived too far and we fell out of contact because of time and the age gap. I think about her from time to time. She lost a whole lighter in her bellybutton for weeks. Weeks!!! That one experience must have convinced me to keep trying when I shouldn’t, because every person I’ve talked to on there since has been a tremendous letdown. Eight years off and on. Fun stories, zero success. Talked to and got to know Vanilla when I was younger, before she got into modeling. She’s the best. I’m glad it all worked out for her. Nobody is looking for anything serious. Anyone big enough who is, isn’t coming from somewhere mentally stable enough to maintain that. Sad, isn’t it? If you have enough dignity to keep your face off your profile, they don’t like that. They don’t like desperation, but there’s nothing more desperate in a guy than a profile with his face on it and a lot of them don’t understand this. Obviously you don’t bother buying pussy, unless that’s your thing. Sex workers on Feabie for some reason are like the meanest, most dislikable crop of sex workers. Can’t wrap my head around it. Don’t know why you’d bother. Just meet someone at a cosplay convention or something. Fuck. I met one girl, on the taller side maybe three years ago who could barely fit in her own car. There was chemistry but no real connection between us so I figured she’d at least let me hit for the trouble. A mismatch of expectations turned out to be the culprit. It took some time to find out that I wasn’t in the wrong by having apprehensions and wanting to take it slow, as opposed to committing myself entirely to being the instant boyfriend of a girl I met that night, who I knew virtually nothing about, because she wanted it. Her staunch sense of entitlement and overeagerness to burden a total stranger with late game romantic pursuits turned me off, which sucked because her naïveté really worked for me. You’re actually supposed to properly vet the people you’re dating to marry if you’re dating to marry, judgment calls and whatnot. You also have to be hot enough to not have the other person worry about this. I found out she was nuts some time after we stopped talking. She’s happily married to some other guy now. Its plenty of losers out there who go for that. It’s your competition, if you want to be “in competition” with that type of thing. Since then I’ve had middling success on the apps. Most meaningless flings were from Tinder (great sex), most dates that went nowhere were from Hinge (interesting people). Bumble people don’t even want to be on there, and you can tell by the way they message you—the fact that they’re even on that app sickens them (shit, me too). They’re miserable and not particularly fat either. Feabie’s really the worst of it though. Anyone saying they get on there and nothing changes is right. You’ll find somebody, we all will. But not there. I’d say most of the eligible women there are just looking for reasons to be upset. They certainly aren’t looking for anything more substantial than a hit of male attention every now and again. Having read all this fascistic rightoid cope nonsense, maybe I don’t blame them. If there’s a Hayley out there for me, that isn’t how I would be talking about her. I can’t say the feeling of frustration isn’t lost on me. It’s gotten so much worse out there. All over. That’s okay though. You only need to get lucky once!

>>88112 Feabie isn't great; most people have given up. It's a network for fat people, the strongest, only reason to use it -- you can not mistakenly date someone skinny and your odds are greater on an entire website with them. Dating and relationships had to be reboxed and rebranded, there were too many male pick up artists and women getting beaten up cuz they were 'polyamorous' and no guy knew what that meant cuz none of them went to school or Yahoo Group Sex cult. Feabie is 80% women pictures, 11% post about overidentifying "The Scene" or Communtiy, the remaining 9% are awful posts, awful people, vague call out posts, Or another one from PizzaWolf telling you to feel bad because this is your life calling and you are denying yourself, and HE IS NOT THE BIGOT , YOU ARE!!! YOUUU!!!! Feabie is not great -- I'm not joining facebook to DM fat people or force conversations on them like that Tinder was bad too, not enough fat ppl.

i got a week ban for making a request thread

Tbh the strangest aspect of feabie is that the people who are consistently unlucky in romance seem completely incapable of doing any introspection and acknowledging that they're the common denominator. I mean this for both men and women. I get that introspection and accountability are uncomfortable but so many of these people are destined to die alone.

I post whatever is on my mind. Most of the time has nothing to do with feederism or weight gain. What happens most of the time is that women will look at my profile but that's about it.

>>88152 I hate saying this a lot; site activity is only really going to match expectation with more money, and the "buy me dinner" aspect. Otherwise, unless you're recycling community pillars or pushing some 'fat-and-proud' crap, no one is paying attention. If you're looking for cheap thrills and parasocial stuff, its all there but if you are looking for something real/lifelong, try to be patient; There are way more men and they are way more invisible. It's probably better that way too -- your inbox hasn't been flatlined with one words or one-liners that your brain has reduced them all to "useless". And dudes really aren't competing for attention from one girl, its the one girl wanting her dm's to be more interesting. They'll even give you tips and write out their favorite things and life story -- most to none will care; its the entire blueprint to their heart, and still, an endless inbox of dick pictures and single words I feel like all the big assholes who were men and women apart of the OG site launch have mostly left though And most if not all the ones still around have moved pretty hard into Onlyfans, Twitter, ManyVids, and Clips4Sale.