Don't understand why so many people make a big deal out of not finding their friends girlfriend attractive. I'm thankful my closest friends are dating girls that are not my type because it makes it easier having a platonic relationship with them and I don't end up accidentally sleeping with them after they've broken up or something.

>>71582 When you date fat girls, it's not just that your friends don't find them attractive. It's fatphobia, a lot of them literally think you must be mentally ill to be with them. It sucks. But it's part of the price you pay to date the girl you really want to be with, and the sense of validation that borders on Ecstasy you feel when you are next to them. The fatphobia runs so deep, I knew this one guy, only slightly overweight, that thought this one super thin super attractive woman who was into him was some sort of deranged lunatic. I'm like, bro, you struck gold, you found one of the only FFA's on the planet. But nope, completely fucked it all up and continued trying to date non FFA's on his dating app with 15 year old pictures before he gained weight. Fucking retard.

So please tell us how it is to date an obese woman, we like the insights. How much is your girlfriend eating ? Is she confortable eating a lot with you ? Do you feed her ? What kind of activities do you do together ? I'm sure we all like hearing the details of it

>>71617 It’s actually so amazing man, like for real. the sex is literally so good, i don’t think i can ever go back to skinny girls (to boring), not that i would want to anyway. it’s also so nice to date a girl that accepts me for being a feeder you know, and is open to exploring it with me. i have never shared this interest with anyone ever, so it feels like i can finally be myself (with her). sounds cliché, but it is how i feel. she also let’s me play with her fat all the time, it is so soft and jiggly, truly mesmerizing. She can eat quite a lot, although i found out she is more of a snacker/grazer. she doesn’t eat a lot in one sitting, but she is constantly eating (especially since i make sure there are always snacks around, and she doesn’t question it). the activities we do together are pretty laid back (shocker). like going to the movies, binging movies at home, playing (board)games, eating out, billiard etc. and at the end of november/ beginning of december we will also be going on a (small) holiday together, where to we have not yet decided.

>>71729 Noted quite literally. Talking to a girl rn, and she's talking about never linkng the idea of being skinny, saying she's always liked how undefined everything is, saying it could actually happen, and I might needs tips on how to get the chemistry going.

Does she have any kinks of her own? And how does she feel about your thing for feedism?

>>71732 sounds like another succes story in the making m8, keep us posted! >>71734 nothing too wild, she has a praising kink and is into sub/dom dynamics.

>>71737 Thanks my friend, interesting fact, I found out my old family name was Oppenberek which is apparently Dutch. Yeah, I think she might have a secret kink for it. She's also complementing my skinny ahh body 💀

Thanks for the update buddy. Good to know you are keeping the fridge full of snacks and she doesn't question it. Perhaps you will get the opportunity to feed her (shakes or something) and make her gain🫣. I have been dating obese women too and what is nice is to see is their clothes that are so tight on them actually look fucking huge. Would you share more pictures later maybe ?

>>67393 Still talking to her, takeaways, she's damn curvy, she vibes with me a lot and was showing me her cosplays and lingerie she bought for herself. Massive giant thighs and her boobs are explosive lol. 🙈 she plays into thigh play. Not looking to gain but thats fine already see her as perfect.

>>72130 awesome man! lovely to hear

>>71778 i am a bit hesitant to share a lot of pictures, but i will share this one! of her huge ass :0

>>72205 That looks nice man, you can tell the softness from the back alone.

>>72207 Right?! i have always considered myself a "belly man", but her ass has made me reconsider haha

1. her ass is great congrats on that one(backshots are hella loud) 2. Im happy you matured and sre now a ass guy and 3. wouldn't it be great to make a lil group with the active chaters in here that can share their storys too and show pics

>>72205 My God Thats insanely smooth for her size. You're very lucky man.

>>72210 I was trying to get a thread or some discord sever where we can share our gfs/wives without schizos. Not sure how to execute from here though.

>>72205 That ass looks so perfect wtf OP definitely living the dream

Wow her ass is absolutely huge ! You are a lucky man ! I guess her belly is just as huge. Keep feeding her and live the dream buddy

I also used to be a belly dude but when the woman has everything it's just the BEST. Reminds me of a girl I used to date. Was so FAT and got even fatter since then. Like +20kg I have many pictures I would like to share but this is definitely not the best place for that.

>>72205 Oefff, lekker man. Jackpot geraakt! Geniet vooral van elkaar!

thanks for all the sweet words guys! i will make sure she gets spoiled good tonight :)

>>72205 Lol treat her right you lucky bastard. Seriously.

guys small update! we thought it would be fun to do a weighin (or well i thought it would be fun, to be real). she has gained weight! and i have too haha. she gained like 5kg since the beginning of september, seeing that increase turned me on quite a bit!

>>73078 Good work! Looking at through an English lens, that's almost a whole stone in two months. Keep going at that rate and she's going to double in size...

>>73090 haha that would be heaven!! but unrealistic haha

Wow congratulations buddy that's a big gain so quickly ! You must feed her sooo much food! You should definitely share with us what she eats in a day or so, would be thrilling

Unfortunately, it's over guys. Sorry for failing

What an amazing thread. You're living the dream. Fucking cherish her, man.

>>73078 Nice! How did she react? Was she excited? Just read about the weird reaction from your friends. Fuck them honestly, if they can’t support you when you’re happy with your women of choice.

lucky man, congrats :)

Did you ever go on that trip bro?

>>77829 I did man! it was amazing, just lots of hanging out together, with a lot of food and lazing around.

>>73556 She is fine with it, not unhappy per se. i think she likes how much i like it, she has grown more comfortable around me regarding her weight and habits. yeh i have kind of distanced myself a bit from those friends, and just spend more time with her

>>78001 Yo, bro your back, anything cool happen. Recently new habits, or nah?

Had a shitty week at work, just stumbled upon this thread while taking the train back home from the office. It really put a smile on my face. A lot of it feels relatable. Keep up the good work! Looking forward to read more, wish you all the very best!

>>78001 Good to hear that you guys are enjoying each other. Has she gained (even more) weight recently?

>>78000 Where did you go?

>>78044 as boring as it sounds not a lot has changed tbf haha. >>78048 i am not sure, we have not checked. i myself have noticed gaining some weight myself. >>78050 Tenerife

>>78052 Relationship weight is normal on both sides. It’s a sign that you two are comfortable. Really happy that you guys make it work, really a fairytale story. On another note: is the sex still as amazing as it once was?

>>78052 do you mind posting a pic again im curious lol

>>78052 >Tenerife Nothing like a good holiday in an all-in resort to gain some weight.

What's life been like recently man?

You fucking retard what do you need advice for either u you aproach her if u think shes hot or you don't the fuck are we supposed to do

>>81622 >This nigga didn't read the thread at all

>>81622 Least Toxic Dutchman

alright i’m alive, suprised to see that this post is still om the board, and for those wondering i am still with her. honestly the reason i haven’t posted is because nothing “crazy” happened, it just kinda… turned into normal life together, which sounds boring but isn’t. like i am at her place most of the time now. it’s gotten to the point where i don’t even think about “planning dates” anymore, we hang out, and i practically live at her place now. and yeah before anyone asks, she’s definitely gotten bigger. i’m not even saying that to flex or whatever, it’s just noticeable. we haven’t done a proper weigh-in in a while but you can tell. her clothes fit tighter, she complains more about jeans being uncomfortable, stuff like that the biggest difference isn’t even the size though, it’s how comfortable she’s gotten when we first started dating she’d kinda pretend she wasn’t eating that much, or like make small comments about it. now she just… doesn’t care at all. we’ll be watching something and she’ll just keep grabbing snacks without even thinking about it. like chips, chocolate, ice cream, whatever’s there, it just disappears over the evening. i don’t even have to push it. i just make sure there’s always stuff around and she goes for it on her own. feels way more natural like that. also something i’ve really noticed lately is how little she moves if she doesn’t have to. like she’ll genuinely take the car for the shortest trips. at first i thought it was just convenience but, she just prefers it that way. same with being at home, once she’s comfy she’s not moving unless she has a reason not complaining obviously. on my side, yeah i’ve gained a bit too. not gonna lie about that. nothing insane but i’m definitely softer than i was when i was actively going to the gym. still training, just not as strict with food anymore and sometimes i skip a week (kinda impossible when you’re constantly eating with her anyway). thought i’d care more but i really don’t tbh. the weird part is i’m actually way more chill mentally than before. like with other girls i always felt like i had to hide what i’m into or kinda filter myself. with her i just don’t. she knows, she’s fine with it, sometimes she even plays into it. she’s still not like a full on feedee or anything, but she clearly likes that i like her the way she is. and over time she’s just stopped holding back completely also she’s gotten way more affectionate. at the start she was a bit reserved, now she’s clingy as hell. always leaning on me, grabbing me, wanting to cuddle, that kinda stuff. not gonna lie i’m into it. sex is still great too before someone asks. if anything it’s better now just because we’re more comfortable with each other only real downside is still the friends thing. some of them never really dropped the jokes about her and it just got annoying. i didn’t make a big deal out of it, just slowly stopped hanging out as much. rather spend time with her than deal with that shit. and honestly i don’t regret it kinda wild thinking back to that first post where i was stressing about approaching that random girl at the gym. never saw her again btw. so yeah that’s where i’m at not some crazy story anymore, just… actually in a relationship that fits me for once i’ll update again if something happens but for now i’m just enjoying it tbh

>>83548 Good man, thats the kinda love that stands time, i think they call it companionship love when youve moved passed the honey moon. From the photo youve shared previously shes quite big, so she looks like ssbbw

>>83548 living the life. ENJOY IT! :)

>>83548 You using VPN now? Why American flag all of a sudden instead of Netherlands?