How this thread has changed me: I came in this thread believing:
- Stefan was a convicted or nearly convicted rapist
- Shay is hot but not very smart or mentally stable (mainly based on what other people said)
- Spanx is a hot and nice person
- Stefan is a manipulative and toxic person. He uses sweet talk and his money to manipulate woman to live with him and have sex with him
- The women who live with him are either golddiggers who gladly take the offer in exchange for the nice free housing, or naively fall head over toes for his attention and sweet talk.
After following this thread, I believe:
- Stefan may be manipulative and a bit too physical, but he is not a rapist
- Shay is much smarter and mentally stable than I thought. She has brought a consistent and clear story and is the person who convince me the most. I don't like her shaming of Spanx with the scooter and diapers though
- Spanx is hot but not so nice, (maybe jealous because she got dumped by Stefan?), in any case deliberately falsly accusing Stefan by overexagerating things that happened long time ago
Stefan is a manipulative person. He uses sweet talk and his money to manipulate woman to live with him and have sex with him
- The women who live with him are either golddiggers who gladly take the offer in exchange for the nice free housing, or naively fall head over toes for his attention and sweet talk. If they get dumped, they seek revenge.
I have only heard one side of the baby story, so I have no opinion on that yet, but if that is true, it is even much more serious than the alledged rape.