>>9880
I avoid begging myself and very VERY rarely involve money talk or anything, but it's incredibly frustrating when I get encouragement and then I have to pump the brakes constantly go "yeah uh, I can't afford $80 in mcdonald's three days in a row man, maybe a cream chug or pasta or a costco pizza?" The majority of feeders online expect you to just be filthy rich by default and get uncomfortable when you are forced to explain that money's tight and not every stupid meme meal is going to work every day. I got into it with one girl who just frustrated me because every day she was demanding updates on me getting another job, telling me to order takeout stickers to steal people's food while delivering, and going off the rails into fantasy land.
It's like nobody who likes fatties can listen to reason. The assumption is that you're a retired millionaire who should send scale readings and bellyshots exactly when messaged, immediately, every day. Nevermind money, nevermind being busy, nevermind just taking a couple hours and fucking watching a video essay, no. Your life is fat, so you must have infinite money and time and stomach capacity or I'll get bored and ghost you.
That's the real reason poor gainers/feedees have trouble with the gainer sphere. They're surrounded by others who have fuck all else in their lives, who expect them to have everything settled at age 23 so they can be the permanent camwhore for them. It's suffocating. I'm trying like hell to get fatter. Yet it's not enough, and then I'M the asshole when I say, "if you're gonna be this needy and overbearing, then YOU pay the doordash bill today."