>>60550 Dumb post. I already explained it to you. 1) Get in shape. Get a good job. Get a good haircut. (Be attractive) 2) Don’t be ashamed and hide your fetish, that sorta dishonesty is attractively feminine, own your shit proudly and move on if she’s disgusted by you—many will be, if you can’t handle that kinda rejection you aren’t built for this game. (Don’t be unattractive) Figure out your lane and stick to it, don’t chase Stacy if no Stacy ever let you fuck her from behind without dating. You might have to go ugly if you want to get a woman excited to engage in fetish play with a less than handsome/masculine man. Find women that are excited to fuck you and are fine with kinky shit. (If you’re short, bald, or ugly lower your standards appropriately.) Generally speaking, dominant men are more in demand but the occasional sub finds a far dominatrix, but don’t be some wishy-washy simp whose afraid to take control, because who’d let some loser fatten them to immobilization?

>>60554 I’m 6’5 and good looking so that’s not a problem , of course I’m not everyone cup of tea but my looks shouldn’t be what’s holding me back I think you underestimate how few women are ok with this kink. I’ve been with a woman who was a 9/10 tall tanned amazing boobs and legs hot face green eyes , but she had a bit of a chubby belly and it was enough for her to feel like a whale and be too self conscious to wear any tight dresses. Where I live women who are anything besides thin or muscular seem to think they look like shit and there’s nothing I can do to convince them otherwise Meanwhile I know muscular women with heads like a sack of smashed crabs that think they’re goddesses The one time I brought up feedism to a woman when we were talking about kinks after she told me she had a rape fetish and her roommate has an adult baby fetish I thought it was safe to mention feedism but she flipped out I feel like realistically my chances of finding a woman who’s even ok with being a bit chubby is really slim especially since I’m into hot women who haven’t given up on themselves like some women clearly have . And my chances of finding someone on board with feedism are basically zero But I guess you’re right I should be more upfront about it

Beauty norms also moving away from plus size back to 90s heroin chic and lean muscular which doesn’t help

>>60568 Man that is terrible and what a one off. A rape fetish vs a fattening one are sooo opposites. The rape is far worse.

>>60554 It's not dumb, and you don't know everything.

>>60550 >>60579 Stop posting.

>>60580 You're rather incurious and arrogant

>>60568 What you are describing is 100% aiming out of your “fetish league”, which is a good point or two lower than your “dating league”. —Lower your standards until you get the results you want.— Hookup with some fatties and chubbos, maybe nerdier ones with degrees who aren’t pretty pretty, or broke girls who know a good deal when they find one. If you were US I’d suggest going the visa route. A woman who knows she can’t do better will be much happier to disfigure herself for your enjoyment.

>>60540 > To rub salt into the wound these women often wind up with guys who wish they were thinner and make them feel shit about themselves This right here. Be upfront about your fetish, if she’s not down to at least agree “yeah I’d be still be hot with a fatter ass” then move on. Insecure women who want to be thin, want to date men who validate their ability to fit into the skinny-hot-girl box—normies like this aren’t worth dating, they’ll never not see “fatter” as “worse” unless you’re a good cut above every guy they’ve ever had a chance with.

>>60568 >I’m 6’5 and good looking so that’s not a problem, of course I’m not everyone cup of tea but my looks shouldn’t be what’s holding me back Same here. But in my case I think what's holding me back is my autism and reclusiveness more than anything. I have dated a few BBWs and SSBBWs. Most of them were pretty insecure about their weight, which I find annoying, but you can deal with it depending on how bad it is or how desperate you are. >But I guess you’re right I should be more upfront about it Being upfront about it is a double-edged sword IMO. It depends whether feedism is an absolute necessity for you in a relationship. If it is, you should be upfront, because otherwise you'll never be satisfied. But you have to be able to deal with the fact that you're going to scare off 95% of women that way. I am an FA rather than a full-on feeder. Feedism is kind of hot but it's not something I require or expect in a relationship. I am very upfront about being an FA. Even that scares some women off, but that's a price I'm willing to pay, to be frank. >>60600 >Lower your standards until you get the results you want I kind of disagree. I mean, I tried that and it didn't really work for me. I lowered my standards for the last two women I dated and I regret dating them. But again, it depends how important feedism is to you. I lowered my standards because I wasn't having any luck with girls in general, not because I was desperate to find a feedee. >>60601 >Insecure women who want to be thin, want to date men who validate their ability to fit into the skinny-hot-girl box—normies like this aren’t worth dating, they’ll never not see “fatter” as “worse” unless you’re a good cut above every guy they’ve ever had a chance with. I would simplify this and say that (in my experience) the vast majority of fat girls want a boyfriend who'll basically just pretend she's thin, rather than a boyfriend who actually likes her fat. You are right that if you're "out of her league" it contributes to that feeling for her. But if you're an FA it kind of backfires because: yes, you have a hot fat gf, but she won't let you touch her belly while you're having sex, so what's the point? In my experience they kind of pretend to be okay with being fat in the beginning to lure you in, then the insecurity rears its ugly head after a few weeks or months.

>>60599 You're gay and retarded.

>>60606 Dude. Shut up. You’re a loser and always will be. All you do is ruin threads with your pity parties. > I lowered my standards for the last two women I dated and I regret dating them. No you didn’t and I’d bet they regret dating you too busy. We’ve heard your ““classical handsome” autist who takes no accountability for his failures” bitchfits on every forum here. You’re much less attractive than you think, and your sad-sack-of-shit personality is disgusting to women, outside of the autism and other genetic abominations that define your existence. > You are right that if you're "out of her league" it contributes to that feeling for her. But if you're an FA it kind of backfires because: yes, you have a hot fat gf, but she won't let you touch her belly while you're having sex, so what's the point? Have you never been with a woman that likes you? Plenty of people will get on board with feet, belly, and whatever mild fetish you have if you’re not throughly unlikeable bitch with nothing going for you.

>>60614 The "classically handsome" guy is Aussie.

>>60616 Thanks Brazil, everything else still applies. Women generally suck, but there’s nothing to be done with a man who chooses to blame “all women” and achieve nothing in life. Instead they should shoulder the responsibility for their failures, blame themselves accordingly and possibly improve their circumstances.

Australia is shit for proud fat girls let alone actual feedees.

>>60479 It's social media's fault. Same reason furries and even trannies are commonplace appearances now. Fringe interests that get exposed enough for people to form interest groups that then bleed into the physical world simply normalize them. Hell the same thing happened to video games, originally they were for a group of people called 'nerds' - now it's the most profitable entertainment industry. Feedism is no different. Women discovered through Twitter that you could be a fat fuck, pretend to enjoy being fat, and horny men on the internet would buy you food. Feabie probably started with good intentions, but it was the last nail in the coffin for what was originally an obscure kink you had to dig through YouTube to find. Now 60% of women on there are "Looking for a feeder!! <3 <3". Same with models too. It was understood they were fat as hell and probably at least somewhat into the fetish, or at the very least self described as 'kinky'. Now half of them are just Instagram or TikTok influencers with an OnlyFans on the side... which describes even non-fat/fetish influencers. Women just discovered that self-produced porn can be low-effort and cheaply made and they'll still turn a profit. >tl;dr: Social media made it easy for women (with little to no fetish interest) to make money on their bodies and for things that were originally a taboo fetish to just become a slightly weird kink, thereby making "genuine" kinksters the minority. Seems like Tumblr still has a good chunk of non-profiteers.

>>60641 To make a further point, fart fetishism was considered borderline scat-tier to any normal person before like 2018. Now you get a fair amount of """ironic""" videos on Instagram or whatever of women farting on the face of boxing dummies with the comments full of "hear me out..." or shit like that. I don't know what goes through the mind of a fart fetishist when they buy content from some Instathot ripping ass only to find out she's not that into it and trying to make a buck, but I'd say the phenomenon for feedism is much, much different for retards who throw money at fat women who don't care about the kink. I imagine it's because they feel deceived by someone who's more or less cashing in on a lifestyle choice that they didn't *choose*, but instead were to weak-willed to get out of - and I think that describes all modern day models. If you asked them if they could be thin tomorrow, no consequences, they'd take it in a heartbeat.

>>60641 Careful on Tumblr. They may be less non profiters but you run into the mental cases who are absolute insane. These women are fucking nuts when you get with them vs how they dm you.

>>60631 Yeah it’s fucked and it’s getting worse Any remotely chubby woman these days is so insecure and dresses to conceal herself with high waisted jeans and sun dresses and shit On dating apps I almost never see chubby chicks and I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman with a belly … of course they’re going to use their most flattering photos but it’s ridiculous how I can swipe through 500 profiles and only see women that are either stick thin , muscular or so fat they can’t even hide it In person there might be like ~5 chubby women in an entire club if you’re lucky and chances are they’ve got shit personalities (It’s weird you would think the chubbier one of the group would be forced to be a bit less bitchy than her friends in better ‘shape’ but I find the opposite is often true) And now with stuff like ozempic and celebrities and influencers ditching plus size curves for thin/lean again it seems like there’s less ‘excuse’ for being fat so there’s insane pressure - several women from my extended friend group who used to be a bit chubby have lost so much weight recently they frankly look sick their boobs are half the size they used to be and even my friends without a fat fetish were wondering why the hell they did that to themselves. It just seems like the worst time and place to be into chubby women especially women with belly fat , let alone feedism I’ve completely given up on that

Most body image pressure also comes from other women not men but that doesn’t fit their little narrative about how women all have each others backs while men are always making them feel bad about themselves Any woman who went to fucking school knows that girls can be extremely catty and mean to each other so idk where the fuck that argument came from When women obsess over a roll of belly fat or their fake tan not quite being perfectly applied or their nails not being right or a bad hair day or something it’s other women that they’re trying to appease because most men don’t even notice nor give a shit about that stuff they just see the overall picture And body positive influencers only make things worse by hyper focusing on physical imperfections even if they claim they embrace them the fact they keep going on self pitying monologues about their cellulite dimples or pinch of fat or whatever leaves most women feeling worse about it .. if they wanted to normalise it they should just upload normal photos showing it off without drawing attention to it I digress

>>60647 Maybe you were just unlucky to be born as a Millennial.

>>60648 Aussies use fake tan? Wew lad, I thought that was just a British and Irish thing Forget about fatness etc, trying to find a girl in Ireland who doesn't use fake tan is like looking for a needle in a haystack

>>60659 >Aussies use fake tan? Snooki?!

>>60659 Speaking of Irish women are they known for being really fickle? Literally every single one I've ever tried to date has flaked out on me or ghosted me after a date that I thought went well , it must have happened with like 10 chicks over the years I don't think any took 5 seconds to sent me a message saying hey thanks for the date but I didn't feel much spark good luck with things' And their mood would change on a dime one minute they're interested then they're stone cold They can be cute with good senses of humor (compared with most women) so Im still open to dating them but I don't know what the deal is Maybe that shit is more normalized in Ireland? Maybe Ive just been unlucky or I'm not short pale and alcoholic enough for their liking

>>60656 Definitely missed out on all the muffin tops in the mid 2000s when women were pressured to wear the most tight low rise jeans... maybe that's what got me into this

>>60716 The word I would use is "flaky" rather than "fickle". I wouldn't say that Irish women are particularly known for being flaky, but it is something I've noticed as well. I would say that Irish women are known for being standoffish more than anything.

>>60727 Maybe they just catch onto the fact that your a well camouflaged skin changer when the whiskey wears off? Passive aggressive people blaming in face of personal failures is indicative of a very unattractive mental illness known as “being a bitch”.

I think the extreme feedism scene is in a drought, but the fat acceptance / HAES types on tiktok are filling a huge niche on the amateur side. If you're only into fat chicks with a denial of weight gain or a bratty / ojousama type personality then it's a golden age for fat fetishism.

>>60744 I blame the Jews. They’ve turned it into one big chance to squeeze people for all their worth.

I agree, I think the fat acceptance trend has been great for the fetish. More woman than ever are comfortable being not just chubby but fat. Many of these women are also comfortable with their bellies getting touched and seem to tend to gain weight due to their unhealthy lifestyles. My current girlfriend while certainly not a feedee is one of the fat acceptance types and without any pushing from me has gone from around 240lbs to 300lbs and doesn't seem to be slowing down.

>>60534 >>60539 I’ve been making content about 4 years and I’m also an irl feedee. The past year it’s been a lot harder for me to make stuffing videos so I'm focusing more on other kinds of content. It’s more than just turning the camera on and filming yourself eating, but maybe I’m getting too wrapped up in my head about it. Personally I like to do my hair and makeup. Then I don’t want it to be boring so I have to play with my belly, touch my body, think of things to say, try to look cute and sexy then on top of that pushing myself to eat. Off camera I stuff myself regularly way more than I’ve been able to eat on camera in a while. Usually while I’m watching TV it’s easy to just mindlessly eat a lot. It’s way different when I’m overthinking it on camera. Also I have a very active feeder now. Several times a month he will order me a ton of food, a bottle of wine and we will hang out on the couch watching YouTube or a movie. I just relax while he gives me belly rubs and before I know it I ate all the food and drank the full bottle. By the end of the night I can barely even walk up the stairs to go to bed. It feels impossible for me to get myself that full on camera now. Anyway I’m just saying it’s not as easy as just turning on the camera and filming yourself eating a ton of food. If that was all I had to do then you would have to watch me eat while I watch YouTube. It’s true there is some skill that goes into making it look sexy and stay interesting.

>Feabie probably started with good intentions, but it was the last nail in the coffin for what was originally an obscure kink you had to dig through YouTube to find. Now 60% of women on there are "Looking for a feeder!! <3 <3". try 80%.

>>60780 Hear hear! My model friends have expressed this too - they don't want to monetize every moment of their lives because not all of it is content worthy, and the stuff that is requires so much prep work and effort that it takes the joy out of it. Turning on the camera and putting on a performance distracts you from doing exactly what people are asking; you're not playing yourself up for fans and jiggling yourself when you're stuffing yourself fully, you're just focusing on food and it's not as sexy as it sounds. How the sausage gets made isn't usually profitable to sell and might actually hurt your sales when your more vocal fans accuse you of a cash grab when you put out too much.

>>60780 Thanks for the insight and I get what you’re saying but also I actually would just like to see women stuff themselves as a fly on the wall, maybe with an it of belly play at the end but for the most part I don’t need commentary and moaning and groaning and I’m sure there are a lot of guys in the same mind. But I realise why that sort of content might feel boring, but it also feels more intimate and a throwback to how things used to be in the scene Your feeder sounds like a lucky guy And I mean lucky, because I just saw on curvage that men outnumber women 6:1 so the chances of connecting with a local feedee is so goddamn slim for the average guy, but I’m sure he’s a decent dude

>>60791 Thank you. I'm lucky to have him. I feel for you guys. Dating is rough, and even more so when you have a kink. I was under the impression that most people don't like plain eating videos. I don't mind doing them. If I do make a video with minimal or no talking I usually make it clear in the description. A few months ago I made a video where I stuffed myself silly for 30 minutes in lingerie then masturbated and I still got a review that it was boring lol.

>>60791 > And I mean lucky, because I just saw on curvage that men outnumber women 6:1 so the chances of connecting with a local feedee is so goddamn slim for the average guy, but I’m sure he’s a decent dude It’s really not. Only pyscho, uggos and broke losers say that shit. Like shooting fish in a bucket.

>>60807 Imagine finding out that the amateur pornographer you have a crush on existing in a male saturated environment. That 6:1 ratio doesn’t mean anything other than you’re an incel chasing after sex workers selling you a fantasy instead of dating real people. Losers shit. Bitch shit. Embarrassing beta ass behavior. Were you raised by a single mother or have a different reason to be so lacking in maturity and masculinity?

>>60791 I'm also okay with plain eating videos, but for different reasons. I think that as long as the video is good on its technical merits, the actual *stuffing* aspect can make up for any (non-technical) sacrifice necessary for a better stuffing. If a video has a shitty camera angle/quality, shitty/no audio, so many cuts it calls the actual stuffing into question (or just disrupts the video too excessively), then the video becomes hard to watch. But as long as the technical merits are met, then I personally believe that many aspects of "traditional belly stuffing videos" can (and should) be sacrificed for the sake of stomach capacity if necessary. Belly play/body touching doesn't have to take place all the time, maybe just rubbing a full stomach after the stuffing. Not much conversation needs to be made, maybe a sentence every 4-5 minutes, and if that's too much then nothing at all is alright. Whether it takes pushing oneself to eat or mindlessly eating to get more food into a stomach makes no difference, the act of eating a shit ton of food is what makes a model sexy. No matter how hot your body is, no matter where and how much you touch yourself, no matter how interesting what you have to say is, no matter how attractive you try to make yourself come off, if you eat barely any food than the video's dogshit and uninteresting regardless of all that prior stuff. At the end of the day, eating a large amount of food with a good camera angle is all it takes to make at least a good stuffing. Or maybe I'm some autistic deviant about belly stuffing specifically but I don't think I'm too off-base with what I said.

>>60791 Do you go to the strip club and complain how hard it is to pick up the strippers while paying them to talk to you?

>>60850 while literally *not* paying them. That's the problem, it's an expectation mismatch. Here's the secret with most of these professional hoes. You pay to play. That's it. If you don't want that, you can still find a civvie on there. Your numbers drop from like 6:1 to maybe 50:1, good luck have fun.

>>61465 they are being told to add cuts. someone sent this to me from the model only forum. unfortunately this is where we are heading.

>>61466 That post in no way suggests that they should add cuts. It’s clearly about ensuring the quality of the content for the consumers. I say great! So many models upload pure crap. No one wants a 15-minute clip that only shows a girl’s face eating without showing anything more. There are numerous models who know nothing about feedism and have no interest in the fetish. They simply believe that they can earn money by eating and assume that 15 minutes of just their face is what people desire. It’s commendable that Curvage takes the initiative to try and discourage models from uploading low quality, uninteresting content. >>61466

yup, very plainly states tightly framed "face only eating content" with nothing else in the video is the issue and says "we understand a long eating sequence is required" but asks for them to show more after the eating is finished. asks for more angles and body shots. seems fine to me.

>>61479 >>61480 My bad I cropped the screenshot with the question to protect the models privacy but I needed to include it. I already deleted it though but I'm trying to get it again. But the original question was the model asking if she should include long chewing sections or just edit them out and just leave in the good stuff like belly play and burping. She asked if more or less cuts were better. The question had nothing to do with face only content.

>>60479 The scene as a whole has been regressing for a long time now and I think it's gotten to the point where fat women have become a novelty with in their own scene, like Curvage is more or less comprised totally of skinnyfats who have no intention of gaining weight or in some cases are actively losing weight yet guys still simp for them nonetheless. It shows that feederism really isn't the fetish being pushed anymore rather it's about selling a "girlfriend experience" and considering how lonely guys are now it makes sense to pivot in that direction but it's still sad to see.

>>61465 Since they're a moderator they have to keep up appearances, but I'd bet few if any of the face only cams are done that way in good will. It's women who saw a tabloid about getting paid to eat and don't want to do anything even close to sexual

>>60780 All I hear are excuses. Don't lie to us what you can do.

>>61599 Also; what’s the deal with dumped feedees never finding a new feeder and just aging into their 40s and 50s alone trying to avoid sitting on her cats: Chloe, LittleYellowSpider, Ms Fat Booty, etc. All had feeder relationships while they were blowing up then seem to have lost any interest in gaining and are slowly deflating with seemingly no interest from men they’d date?

>>60481 >Just watched a podcast with two fat sex workers discussing our community and how they make money off of it. Link?