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Someone else in this thread said "feedees aren't born, they're made" and I guess that's true.
I've been a fat fetishist/feedist/psycho like you guys for all 21 years of my life, and though I've done a decent amount of shit with my life I still think feederism is the subject which I am most qualified to discuss. This is pretty much my sexuality.
Anyways, you think the space is male dominated but your reality is skewed my friend. This wouldn't exist without women. Fat women are EVERYWHERE as it is, and if women weren't so brutally awful to eachother they'd probably ALL be fat. I guess guys can be terrible too. They're afraid! Theyve been told their whole lives "watch your weight", nothing but skinny depictions in media and small clothes in stores and diet products everywhere and now this ozempic shit... being fat is hard. You get winded quick, you have to be driven places, you can't fit in public transport or go on amusement rides, etc... and all the while you get treated like the scum of the earth by the general public. If you ask me, that's the number one reason this shit (getting a fat gf) is so fawwwking difficult. Most women aren't open minded enough or sweet enough to take on that burden for you and would literally rather kill themselves than be over a 25/30 bmi.
I mean, and I'm just talking my generation. I imagine older women dont really give a shit.
Enough of that though. Let me try to give you advice. I met my girlfriend 6 months ago when she was 230lbs. 5'7... so fairly heavy but she was active and just "big boned". She carries the weight well, in other words. She did marching band, walked to class, ate like a bird, etc etc... she took good care of herself. This January, she weighed herself for the first time for me and clocked in at 269lbs. Two days ago, she hit 308. She's gained SOO much weight for me that I think we're just gonna roll right into 350 for the summer. I'm super excited, and I'm most happy about the fact that she seems to be too. I believe most women need nothing more than a genuine loving relationship and clear evidence that fat is what you want. Half the fun is watching them grow anyways, so you gotta realize your feedee could be ANYONE. The validation is going to change a girls life if she loves to eat and be lazy. Smoking weed is also an amazing trait to find in your potential gurrrrl. My girl is a picky eater too... she loves her butter pasta/mac n cheese <3
And listen, no matter how you "enjoy" the fetish (what about fat/weight gain turns you on?) I think it's best to frame it that "you love her and you do these things for her (feed her, drive her everywhere, do all physical labor for her) because you want to take care of her, and fat is a physical manifestation of that"... which for me is true. I also enjoy it in other undisclosed ways :-) but this will help her see her weight as a good thing. If your potential feedee is already a little chubby weight WILL come up after you guys have sex, if not sooner, and if you're just honest that's the best way to introduce it and see if it can work out! Also when she outgrows clothes sell them on depop and buy bigger ones. It's never been easier to thrift second hand plus size clothes because of all this ozempic shit. All fat people had type 2 so now all fat people are losing weight like crazy lol
Anyways anon good luck. Anyone can be a feeder with a car and the McDonald's app. You don't find people who are already into feederism, you introduce them to it and hope they like it- if you're lucky they will love it ☆ the relationship probably won't work out if they don't. To me, that's the best way to do such a thing because then weight is a personal thing to you both and it's just big big foid points to be the reason your GF can now do everything she wants to do. And women who were exposed to feederism themselves, like us, are probably already fucking crazy and you don't want to deal with that.
Happy Sunday everyone