>>77756
>>77731
I have now dated a few women, all of whom are well past being overweight. I don't think of my self as being that amazing of a man, although I could just be too hard on my self. But nearly every woman I have dated thought I was the most amazing man they could ever have, or at least the best they could get.
While I personally don't want a woman with a low self esteem due to the number of issues that brings and mine not being particularly high. I think a lot of plus sized women feel inferior and that they would never be someone's first choice or would have to settle or would be cheated on the instant their man could find someone "better".
I recall when my ex and I started dating, she asked me something about if I was with her because she was "easy". Which I had no idea what she meant at the time, but she meant "easy" as in an "easy pick because I guess I look so attractive and hopefully would have a good paying job after college while she was an unemployed USSBBW. It just feels strange to think about, since I only find obese women attractive and find biggest of that group to be the most physically desirable to me, so I didn't feel like I was picking someone well below my looksmatch I guess.
>>77775
Dating apps also actively throttle how many matches you can get, and paying for them usually doesn't do you much better. So using multiple apps simultaneously is the only effective way to really get matches in a reasonable amount of time as a man.