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How the fuck do we find fat partners? Anonymous 12/22/2025 (Mon) 22:29:08 Id:3b6e54 No. 76168
The Thread name says it all, really. I see people talk about having them, but never HOW they got them. In a space pretty male dominated, I'm hoping I can get some genuine answers from other guys who got lucky.
>>81133 he has to be shes at a level of obesity where shes only attracting guys that want her huge if not bigger
>>80791 > A few years ago I was reading the Ned Sonntag cartoon about the woman possessed by a feedee ghost and realized that “feedees are born they’re made” and most women are just too into themselves and society to do it: but if you can find someone whose kinda slow, kinda isolated and very suggestible you have a shot and boy, it worked. My gf is totally dependent upon me since we got together last year and I’ve packed a good 45 pounds on her since then just buying her shit food and making her eat The elites don’t want you to know this but the volition of retarded women is free you can take them home. I have a 458 pound retard at home.
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>>81222 That dude with the girl with all the childhood trauma that made her get fat has it pretty good. I wonder how you find one of these child sex crime victims (as adults!)
>>81213 I’ve told multiple women I was a feeder, had them tell me that they weren’t going to gain weight, then watched them gain from 200 or so to 260 lbs while complaining and exercising the whole time because I removed the one fear they had that was keeping them skinny, not getting validation from a man. You don’t have to manipulate women, they have so little personal responsibility. Unfortunately it doesn’t make for a good dynamic unless they learn to accept it, and some women are just too high ego to ever be ok with it.
>>81273 You've got a very short window of opportunity. Your best bet is to approach them while you are both still in high school and foster a relationship. Public school is very often the only thing keeping them from staying indoors away from the public permanently
>>81213 >>81273 You degenerates don’t even deserve to have wives, retarded or no. May Kisame derail every thread you ever post. Get therapy.
>>81322 The reality is that 1/5 women get sexually assaulted at some point, it's probably better that they're with a feeder that cares for them than never finding anyone. And half the population is below average IQ, because that's how the distribution was supposed to work. What are we supposed to do, not fuck them? I understand the moralfag argument, I prefer smart women for long term relationships myself, much harder to condition but much more satisfying and they can hold down jobs and generally not be completely dependent. But if you have the means to support a 500 lbs retard that you get to use as a fleshlight in return, what's the actual harm?
>>81322 Antisemite. Can’t you incels just live and let die without pillorying poor Ned Sontagg for being against consent politics?
>>81327 >half the population is below average IQ Yeah, that's why you try to ignore their presence as much as possible. >support a 500 lbs retarded fleshlight Because I sure am at the edge of my seat for the 'caring for a mentally disabled retard until it dies' experience without the help of a partner. If I wanted to fuck a 500lbs girl I'd just go for a hookup (and considering the stock of 500lb girls here, emigrate to the US).
>>81334 > the 'caring for a mentally disabled retard until it dies' experience Who said anything about caring? My girls already on govt support, when I’m done with her she’ll be their problem.
>>81330 >”consent politics” Sounds like you need therapy, buddy
>>81344 >when I'm done with her You're inhumane and should be on some kind of registry.
>>81387 Nah, he just needs someone to show him the wrong side of "consent politics", lol. This man is clearly in need of a good ol fashioned gang rape.
>>81327 >half the population is below average IQ Yeah bro, that’s how statistics work. I can guess which half you’re on lol
>>81393 >>81394 Where’s your suicidal empathy when another slows fat lady needs the welfare state because she’s too fat to work? You fucking liberals are gonna destroy the west importing Muslims while policing everyone’s free choices and can’t ever help normal people.
>>81437 Penis.
>>81437 I don't know what that means. I am a hobo still in medication and a junkie.
>>81411 Not responding because the internet is dead
What if you're too retarded to pick up fat chicks?
>>81474 Kill yourself because at that point you shouldn't reproduce anyway
>>81478 If someone's too retarded to get with a fat girl I don't think they'd understand the insult at all. There is always a kind fat girl out there to get with.
>>81474 > What if you're too retarded to pick up fat chicks? I’d say date retarded fat women? But they seem to be in high demand with dominant alpha feeders these days.
>>81478 >>81477 >Dont tell someone to kill themselves No no... he may be onto something
>>81487 All three of them. For every feederist there are 20 fat girls.
>>76168 Someone else in this thread said "feedees aren't born, they're made" and I guess that's true. I've been a fat fetishist/feedist/psycho like you guys for all 21 years of my life, and though I've done a decent amount of shit with my life I still think feederism is the subject which I am most qualified to discuss. This is pretty much my sexuality. Anyways, you think the space is male dominated but your reality is skewed my friend. This wouldn't exist without women. Fat women are EVERYWHERE as it is, and if women weren't so brutally awful to eachother they'd probably ALL be fat. I guess guys can be terrible too. They're afraid! Theyve been told their whole lives "watch your weight", nothing but skinny depictions in media and small clothes in stores and diet products everywhere and now this ozempic shit... being fat is hard. You get winded quick, you have to be driven places, you can't fit in public transport or go on amusement rides, etc... and all the while you get treated like the scum of the earth by the general public. If you ask me, that's the number one reason this shit (getting a fat gf) is so fawwwking difficult. Most women aren't open minded enough or sweet enough to take on that burden for you and would literally rather kill themselves than be over a 25/30 bmi. I mean, and I'm just talking my generation. I imagine older women dont really give a shit. Enough of that though. Let me try to give you advice. I met my girlfriend 6 months ago when she was 230lbs. 5'7... so fairly heavy but she was active and just "big boned". She carries the weight well, in other words. She did marching band, walked to class, ate like a bird, etc etc... she took good care of herself. This January, she weighed herself for the first time for me and clocked in at 269lbs. Two days ago, she hit 308. She's gained SOO much weight for me that I think we're just gonna roll right into 350 for the summer. I'm super excited, and I'm most happy about the fact that she seems to be too. I believe most women need nothing more than a genuine loving relationship and clear evidence that fat is what you want. Half the fun is watching them grow anyways, so you gotta realize your feedee could be ANYONE. The validation is going to change a girls life if she loves to eat and be lazy. Smoking weed is also an amazing trait to find in your potential gurrrrl. My girl is a picky eater too... she loves her butter pasta/mac n cheese <3 And listen, no matter how you "enjoy" the fetish (what about fat/weight gain turns you on?) I think it's best to frame it that "you love her and you do these things for her (feed her, drive her everywhere, do all physical labor for her) because you want to take care of her, and fat is a physical manifestation of that"... which for me is true. I also enjoy it in other undisclosed ways :-) but this will help her see her weight as a good thing. If your potential feedee is already a little chubby weight WILL come up after you guys have sex, if not sooner, and if you're just honest that's the best way to introduce it and see if it can work out! Also when she outgrows clothes sell them on depop and buy bigger ones. It's never been easier to thrift second hand plus size clothes because of all this ozempic shit. All fat people had type 2 so now all fat people are losing weight like crazy lol Anyways anon good luck. Anyone can be a feeder with a car and the McDonald's app. You don't find people who are already into feederism, you introduce them to it and hope they like it- if you're lucky they will love it ☆ the relationship probably won't work out if they don't. To me, that's the best way to do such a thing because then weight is a personal thing to you both and it's just big big foid points to be the reason your GF can now do everything she wants to do. And women who were exposed to feederism themselves, like us, are probably already fucking crazy and you don't want to deal with that. Happy Sunday everyone
>>80791 > A few years ago I was reading the Ned Sonntag cartoon about the woman possessed by a feedee ghost and realized that “feedees are born they’re made” and most women are just too into themselves and society to do it: but if you can find someone whose kinda slow, kinda isolated and very suggestible you have a shot >>81568 > Someone else in this thread said "feedees aren't born, they're made" and I guess that's true. God. There is not god and you people are proof.
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>>81574 >hates feeder/feedee dynamic >browses bbwchan general Sometimes I really do believe those schizo "dead internet" posters because what other reason would someone comment this than to just cause mindless discord? Do you think any of us were born into this? If you ask me, we are all products of our environment. Why don't you share YOUR strategy for finding feedee partners mister?
>>81578 Fetish boards have relatively loose moderation and so they're perfect daycare for the insane, as well as trolls who are so starved for connection they have (literally) nothing better to do than provoke reactions just to feel something. Best to ignore them, I know, but they smear their shit all over every decent thread on /gen anyway so what's the difference? Shame because this should/would be a great place to talk fat.
>>81568 Some women do grow up with some sort of fatsexuality on their own. It’s super uncommon, but having dated more than one of them, it definitely exists.
>>81578 > Why don't you share YOUR strategy for finding feedee partners mister We’ve all got the same game plan. Try and find a socially isolated woman who’s not very bright or sane and convince her to gain hundreds of pounds of blubber. It’s doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand why, smart women with degrees can afford ozempic… borderline retarded women, impoverished/uneducated and borderline personality disorder are pretty much the only hot women who can be fattened in 2026. Find someone with a good addiction and low abstract thinking ability is the plan.
>>81624 I mean, just meeting people, talking to them, and finding one who like the same stuff as me or who like me enough to do that stuff because they want to has always worked for me. But your way is also a way, I guess.
>>81632 I don’t know how things are in Great Britain or wherever but in the west women’s standards are through the roof. Even the mentally challenged fatoids think they deserve six foot tall man earning six figures.
>>81632 Agree with this chap >>81634 You overestimate how much women value masculine appearance over an actual enjoyable non-shit personality.
>>81634 This incel shit blows my mind. "Women have standards, wtf man???" Get off the fucking internet and learn to like women as people. The rest will fall into place, short, broke clown that you are.
>>81660 Unless you're the ugliest, baldest dwarf on earth looks ought to not be an issue. Even fat guys pull with the female FA crowd.
Kisame here I tricked a fat girl into confessining and going back into the loony bin. She was a minor now she killed her puppy and two midgets
>>81624 > Try and find a socially isolated woman who’s not very bright or sane and convince her to gain hundreds of pounds of blubber. It’s hard to spot the kind of slow loris that you can turn into a feedee. Aim young, these gen-z kids might as well be some kind of retarded from what I see.
>>81764 I am going to March Madness. April is when I will be last Kisame, then May I am free
Confession: I somehow matched with a BBW with a semi-well known Instagram account on a dating app. Unfortunately I was very inexperienced with online dating and she unmatched with me after a couple of days of chatting. I think any potential relationship was kinda doomed to begin with since she lived over an hour away from me, but I can't stop beating myself up over that.
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>>76168 >go on tinder >99% of the women are skinny as fuck hikers >look up which state has the lowest obesity rate >it's mine
>>82061 CO? Basically for LA types who couldn’t afford LA? Gotta go to the American south. People aren’t very educated here so stuff’s pretty cheap and it isn’t hard to look like a pimp because you own a 250k 4 bedroom house on half an acre.
Deal drugs, especially weed. >b-but I don't want to do that Then die bitchless.
Sometimes the key to finding a mate that will plump up quick is a compromise: don't look for a feedee, nor manipulate a potential mate into feederism. Instead, look for a "foodee" and work on encouraging what they already love to do, which is eat. Think about it, there are millions of women out there that LOVE to stuff themselves for the love of food, even though there is no erotic attachment to it. What do you do? You encourage them to enjoy their pleasure and let them know how increasingly sexy they are over time. Done. Thoughts?
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I saw the sexist latina BBW working the drive thru of a Dunkin Donuts. She was at least 230 lbs. Then I saw she had a ring on left hand. I genuinely consider just driving head on into oncoming traffic at that point.
>>82414 Don't give these retards a working strategy and increase the competition, asshat.
>>81764 > Try and find a socially isolated woman who’s not very bright or sane and convince her to gain hundreds of pounds of blubber. >It’s hard to spot the kind of slow loris that you can turn into a feedee. Aim young, these gen-z kids might as well be some kind of retarded from what I see. Where do you guys live that there are all these mentally challenged beautiful hungry women??
>>82500 Rural midwestern and southern areas are FULL of them
If youre going for cold approach alot of the biggest girls go to the gym at like 6-7am once a week or grocery shop at Walmart in the morning. This is where I see them the most often. I think both are because fatties want to feel like theyre making good life decisions by getting up early. In my city I very rarely see them out past around 5 because im guessing the mega fatties are too tired to go out at night except for rare exceptions
>>82548 I suspect that they choose these times not so much to appear virtuous but for the simple fact that they want to meet as few people as possible in these venues because they are self-conscious about being judged for their massive weight.

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