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How the fuck do we find fat partners? Anonymous 12/22/2025 (Mon) 22:29:08 Id:3b6e54 No. 76168
The Thread name says it all, really. I see people talk about having them, but never HOW they got them. In a space pretty male dominated, I'm hoping I can get some genuine answers from other guys who got lucky.
>>77641 I mean, part of the process is convincing a self-hating fatty to embrace it, right? As for the second part of the message - just because there are worse people out there, doesn't mean that it's okay. I am not obsessed with consent, but I want someone who knows what she is doing and is into it. It is just that much hotter when a girl is exactly aware of it, and not just some oblivious piece of cattle that will be shipped off to the glue factory when the consequences catch up to her.
I had a summer fling with this girl about 350 pounds who was clearly pretty intelligent and studied some pretty heavy shit. I noticed that she had pretty much no friends however. Basically just a good old fashioned nerd/shut in. She was genuinely super cute and we had many nice conversations but after a few months I realised why she didn't have any friends and no social skills and I don't think either of us could handle talking with eachother so she ended up blocking me. At least in this relationship it was definitely not her being not stupid that was the issue. If you think lack of intelligence is bad, lack of emotional intelligence is even worse.
>>77646 > I am not obsessed with consent, but I want someone who knows what she is doing and is into it. It is just that much hotter when a girl is exactly aware of it, I only rape and assault people capable of feeling victimization isn’t the moral high ground you think it is.
>>77652 You're taking my statement out of context. I mentioned the non-obsession with consent in response to the allegation that was the only thing I valued in preferring a woman without (intellectual) disabilities.
>>77555 What is this obsession with “aware of herself”? Plenty of people how all kinds special minds, are they not supposed to have sex ever? Your as bad as those people who ruined Anna Stubblefield‘s life over a nothing burger.
I feel like even meeting fat chicks at the bar is near impossible now. What the fuck happened?
>>77707 The Internet has allowed fat women to find the highest quality chubby chaser dick in their general area and get simp attention/money from around the globe. It’s over for normie men unless we’re willing to dip into less “conventional” populations of fat women, or women who can easily become fat.
>>77715 They overestimate their worth because some men want a quick fuck (even tho these men would never be in a serious relationship with them)... It's over
>>76168 Seriously. I feel like 600lb women would be super easy to bag if I could find any.
>>77715 > dip into less “conventional” populations of fat women, or women who can easily become fat. Impoverished, uneducated and maybe retarded women are my bread and butter. Not proud of it but they’re easy to clean up with. Back when I sold pills I had a lot more luck but those women were not quality and mostly there because I had supply plus pills didn’t help them stay fat. Weed heads and alcoholics are also pretty easy to fatten if you have the bankroll (I don’t).
I downloaded WooPlus and I noticed half the women around here have profiles with the "I'm looking for this in my partner" section filled with something like "Needs to be loyal and shouldn't cheat". I thought "not cheating" was a given. Is the bar really that low for men who date fat girls?
>>77756 Yeah, I wonder about this. I assume everyone writing that has been cheated on, but I also think a lot of ppl of both sexes on those apps are running more than one opp at once as a matter of course. So maybe the meaning is 'I want to be the only woman you're working on right now'. Which would be totally unreasonable as it's very much a numbers game for the men.
>>77756 >>77731 I have now dated a few women, all of whom are well past being overweight. I don't think of my self as being that amazing of a man, although I could just be too hard on my self. But nearly every woman I have dated thought I was the most amazing man they could ever have, or at least the best they could get. While I personally don't want a woman with a low self esteem due to the number of issues that brings and mine not being particularly high. I think a lot of plus sized women feel inferior and that they would never be someone's first choice or would have to settle or would be cheated on the instant their man could find someone "better". I recall when my ex and I started dating, she asked me something about if I was with her because she was "easy". Which I had no idea what she meant at the time, but she meant "easy" as in an "easy pick because I guess I look so attractive and hopefully would have a good paying job after college while she was an unemployed USSBBW. It just feels strange to think about, since I only find obese women attractive and find biggest of that group to be the most physically desirable to me, so I didn't feel like I was picking someone well below my looksmatch I guess. >>77775 Dating apps also actively throttle how many matches you can get, and paying for them usually doesn't do you much better. So using multiple apps simultaneously is the only effective way to really get matches in a reasonable amount of time as a man.
>>77776 >>77775 >>77756 You guys are really this naive? These women regularly fuck guys with skinny wives who have a fat kink or want to change things up. That’s it. All the shit you’ve written makes sense to you, but it these women really though so reasonably they wouldn’t be single hoeing it up hoping it’ll work out different with this new Brad.
>>77785 This is why it’s over for regular joes. Every woman thinks some 6’ tall 6 figure man in their DMs is going to marry them, instead of just trying to fuck, which is already unfair enough that these women are fucking men more attractive than their leagues. We’re only 60 years into the invention of birth control and 15 years into Internet dating/social media. Men are doomed as a species.
>>77785 I don't think this is true, most of the women on there are only chubby, not especially fat enough to be sought after by married men with fat kinks.
Any actual women want to chime in on this?
>>77954 Plenty of men with skinny wives like fucking chubby women… that’s why it’s called chubby chaser. Totally common complaint among chubsters.
>>77776 >I have now dated a few women, all of whom are well past being overweight. I don't think of my self as being that amazing of a man, although I could just be too hard on my self. But nearly every woman I have dated thought I was the most amazing man they could ever have, or at least the best they could get. It really is this easy. There's just too much Doom Posting on this site because the Men here aren't trying this IRL, and are having their reality distorted by the internet. All the stories they hear from women online? Not true. Those very same women who post these whiny brain dumps, if a guy talked to them normally for an hour or two would be naked and in bed with them that same day. There was an anon here who fucked an SSBBW in a wheel chair that he met all in one day. She even made him dinner, which, if she's wheel chair bound, is a real fucking effort. That's how easy it to get these women: Be nice, talk for a bit, make her feel good, and she'll be making you feel good in no time. Also the growing Zoomer population on here is fucked. The Zoomer mindset is incredibly black-pilled, and nothing gets a woman more turned off, even a fat desperate woman, than the zoomer mindset. That's why you see so many women in their early 20s throwing themselves at men 35+.
>>77989 > That's why you see so many women in their early 20s throwing themselves at men 35+. It’s the economy stupid. “Women like men with money who can buy them stuff more news at 11” —You, A Boomer
>>77994 Nah. I've gotten tons of pussy over the years with 0 dollars spent. You probably haven't experienced this cuz you're a wet blanket of a human
>>77994 > It’s the economy stupid. I don't buy this for a second. At my job we are constantly short staffed because no one wants to work. I get all sort of perks with my job because I consistently show up for work everyday. And just yesterday the Cashier at the grocery store was telling me she was swamped because they're short staffed because all the young little shit workers call in, not because of sickness, but because "they don't feel like working". So no, it's not the economy, it lazy zoomers who want instant gratification and aren't willing to put in the hard work to get it. Fuck it isn't even hard work, it's the bare fucking minimum you lazy shits can do. >Boomer Sorry, I'm a xillennial. >>77997 And it's soaking wet because he cries himself to sleep every night. How could this happen to such a innocent little angel! The school system said he'd make a zillion dollars if he just went and got a masters degree in basket weaving!
>>77998 No one wants to work for starvation wages that don't even pay the bills.
>>78002 >starvation wages There's plenty of jobs even right now that aren't filled that pay above minimum wage, that all you need is your high school diploma. If you manage your money properly, you should be doing just fine.
>>78003 Of course. The jobs you mentioned aren't in that category. Cashier? Give me a break. It's wild to me that you look at the administrative policy of intentionally running businesses with skeleton crews and just in time supply chain strategies and blame the worker. If a business can't pull in workers that's the fault or the business not the workers
>>78002 What the hell are starvation wages? Minimum wage is 17 and I work at Shake Shack
>>78004 Cashier's at grocery stores here pay above minimum wage. Even then, you can still live comfortably if your not a retard with your money. I had friend who dropped out of high School who did a min-wage gig full time instead of going to college, and by the time most of us graduated, he had put away close to 100K by being super frugal. > If a business can't pull in workers that's the fault or the business not the workers No, it's because the younger generation are legit fucking lazy and have no work ethic. But hey, more bonuses and perks for me because the Bosses love it when you show up every day and don't bitch and moan that you don't wanna work today.
>>77998 >>78002 >>78003 >>78004 I'm a zoomer. None of us want to work the shittiest jobs that barely pay over minimum wage and internationally cut hours so you can't work 40hrs a week. Which forces some to have to work two shitty jobs. Leaving them with options of still living with their parents or moving into a mediocre apartment with 2 other guys.
>>78005 Starvation Wages is code for "I'm a lazy fuck who would rather mooch off everyone around me then put in 5 minutes of actual work". >>78007 Manage your money better then. I have no sympathy for poor fags. Especially the Zoomer Participation Trophy generation. Jeez no wonder 2/3's of your lame ass generation hasn't even held hands with a woman.
>>78008 I like my 21hr a week job. Better than working 7.25, 60 hrs, hoping 20 hrs of overtime kick in. 40 hours are cut cause normies aren't spending to show off their wealth or spending on daddy's credit card.
>>77989 >>77997 Thank you black gods for gracing us pathetic white cuckolds who will never know a woman's love with your divine knowledge.
>>78014 I guess Kisame with his bipolar was too optimistic and corny?
>>77736 > Impoverished, uneducated and maybe retarded women are my bread and butter. Not proud of it but they’re easy to clean up with. I think a lot of us do the same, or are in complete denial of how much of the fetish involves slumming it with the lower social orders.
Anyone have tips on having sex with a BBW when you have a below average dick?
>>78030 Learn the art of eating/playing with pussy. It'll engorge everything making it easier to make her orgasm. Even if you have an average or above average dick you should be doing that.
>>78030 Work out on pelvis movements so you can keep on going for long at a high tempo. A higher pistoning speed can make a difference.
>>78030 Aim for younger women’s that haven’t been run through yet. They tend to be less spoiled and demanding. The problem is them not you.
>>77972 Agreed. I'd like to hear from a lady how their partner attracted them.
>>78066 > I'd like to hear from a lady how their partner attracted them. You’re asking a fish about good bait. Literally the dudes macking on retarded girlies in Special Ed have better advice.
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>>76168 Make them from scratch. (warning: expensive $$$)
>>78113 I took the retardpill and legitimately am swimming in pussy. More ass than a toilet. My bitches come in flavors.
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>>78126 You sound like one of these. Somehow, I am disinclined to believe it.
>>78113 Feedism is hard to get someone good for - but it is all worth it. Home-made fatties taste better, don't you know?
>>78158 >don’t believe it Simple mathematics. With the sexual market dynamics present in modernity your average man’s league is depressed relative to himself enough to justify building a harem out of social rejects for many men in the lower mid-quartile. Even the average man’s league includes some retards (reminder on average: 5’9” tall, $42k income, 5.5 inch penis, associates degree… IQ 100). Consider the “league” of a IW 75 woman (not retarded just “slow” and not hideous just homely). I know these women, they’re getting with guys like me and rejecting guys like you.
>>78161 Lucky that I am not this "average" then, lmfao. God, Americans are tiny (and short, that too).
>>76183 /thread Thanks based architect >>76362 Not him but met my 230-->280lb gf 5 months ago at uni. Most fat women are fat because they LOVE food, and have been told their whole life that it's bad to enjoy that which they love the most. Enabling that part of them, even just a little bit, will not only make them depend on you for self esteem and approval, but will also make them BALLOOON. I told her about my fetish and she had a very good reaction, and now she lets me feed her during sex. Her words, "i get dicked down and fed yummy foods? Why wouldn't I love that?" I love her. We would never do porn, even though it would be fire. You don't want your gf doing porn either anon. Find a real fat girl and tame her like the true feedist you are
>>76168 IDK I've kinda just given up
>>78193 > I've kinda just given up Don’t give up, your expectations are blocking any success you could have. Just ride the decline and try to open your eyes to women you might not have ever considered dating. Not everyone has to be dating attractive girlbosses with her own apartment, if you can imagine fucking a girl try asking her out. Doesn’t matter where she works or how intelligent she is.
>>78196 if you can imagine fucking a girl try asking her out. Doesn’t matter where she works or how intelligent she is. I understand what you're trying to say, but telling a guy with a fat fetish to imagine fucking a fat chick is a fairly easy thing to do lmao. I've matched with several girls on dating apps, but it rarely went anywhere. The best interactions I've had are with women in other states. I'm the common denominator in all my failures so I'm focusing on improving myself if I ever intend to try again.
>>78205 You sound neurotic. Just take the retard pill. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. You’re “respecting them” too hard and seem like an microdick doormat. American women aren’t that bright or nice annyway anyway so they know you’re being a phony. Talk to them with righteousness not flattery. She’s no princess and you’re no gentleman. Get your dick wet young sir.

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