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How the fuck do we find fat partners? Anonymous 12/22/2025 (Mon) 22:29:08 Id:3b6e54 No. 76168
The Thread name says it all, really. I see people talk about having them, but never HOW they got them. In a space pretty male dominated, I'm hoping I can get some genuine answers from other guys who got lucky.
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>>76168 Lonelygirl has been complaining about no guys wanting to date her. Just go hit her up and make it happen. That’s the secret its like looking for houses when they’re on sale to buy. She is currently on the market so try your shot like at a lotto and you might get lucky. This is loneylgirl right here she is a model on curvage and has her own tik tok channel where she complains that there are no men around willing to take her out on a date. Get it while its hot my dude!
I've found most of mine on dating apps and some from school. Facebook dating is pretty good, as it will learn your body-type preferences, so if you start swiping on fat girls, it will give you only them. There's plenty of fat girls to go around so you just gotta get out there and shoot your shot.
>>76169 For the benefit of the hopelessly naive, don't waste your time this way. All the women who whine about why nobody wants to be with them do so for two reasons: 1) every man who's ever met them runs a mile; 2) they're just attention-whoring because they have literally nothing interesting to say. The best way to meet fat women is just to proceed as you would with any woman: just go out and approach them in real life, or you could try a conventional dating app. It's very unlikely you'll meet some who's into gaining, but you could get lucky with a fat girl who's comfortable in their skin and doesn't mind if they gain "accidentally." Just for crying out loud, don't be sucked in by the whores and retards screaming for attention on the internet.
OP, most guys on here aren't dating feedees, their just meeting regular fat women whom you could meet and talk to like any other girl. My current girlfriend weighed 230lbs when I met her, now she weighs 315lbs after a couple of years. She isn't a feedee but doesn't really have an issue with her size and even embraces it because she is very into the body positivity stuff online. She lets me grab her belly when we have sex, buy her all kinds of food etc. Just date a normal fat woman and if she's a feedee great, if not just find one who has some confidence in her size. >>76169 If you genuinely believe one of these models when they say that "no man wants me," "my ex broke up with me because he said I was too fat" etc then you are incredibly gullible. They are just saying these things to get your attention so that you spend money on them.
>>76183 Exactly, just go around in real life, join a social group, church, or hangout and find one. The goal is to treat her like a human first and just be polite and be yourself. True I haven't found anyone to date, but doing this has helped me gain some confidence at least. Plus it's fun talking to women once you realize most of them are decent and you don't take the interactions too seriously.
I hate basically being a hikki so much, especially since I feel that I wouldn't even do too badly with women. My interests are incredibly solitary
>>76168 Id get chunky for my future husband but he would have to be a skelly and financially stable so I can be a SAHM/house wife
>>76168 Be black. >b-b-but I'm a shrimp dicked white cuckold! Tough.
Online dating. Idk whats popular now, last time I used anything was like 5 years ago. Tinder always worked the best for me. Had a roommate who did better on bumble. I guess hinge is good nowadays bc it shows you more fatties if you like a lot of fatties. But online dating is a super easy way to meet fat chicks because if you just matchbwith then and talk to them like people, youre doing better than 95% of the competition.
Imagine thinking anyone on BBWCHAN actually has a partner.
>>76168 Partner 1: IRL, through mutual friends Partner 2: On a regular dating site Partner 3: On a plus-size dating site
>>76300 Would you mind sharing which dating sites you used? Oh, and also maybe some that did not work out so well...? Thanks!
Easier said than done. It's not just getting the fatty but how you get her. If you don't feel so great about yourself and attracting girls, you're going to be happy with the first one that gives you a chance. It is hard these days no doubt. However, you don't want the pain of a relationship. You want the joy. Getting her to "let you" be with her will result in tremendous pain from my experience. Perhaps you'll be luckier but I recommend focusing on increasing your status the best you can. You don't have to wait to be accomplished but at least feel on track. A real good gf will see and appreciate that and that's what you want. Otherwise, you will be criticized, challenged etc and at worst used for whatever a girl thinks your worth. It's hard enough so if you focus inward, get yourself going and then put yourself out there, you'll attract a better woman for you. Best of luck!
Feabie (years ago though), Woo Plus, Craiglist (waaay back in the day), Snapchat, TikTok, being able to have conversation showing genuine interest. Being their type helps too for sure. Focus again more on being your best self and choose the girls who share good chemistry and you'll have confidence asking them out, taking them out etc. Share your interests, post food pics on snapchat and see the foodees and hopefully a feedee respond...Best!
>>76322 We have the original Trump admin to thank for the murder of the Craigslist personal section.
>>76183 How did you and her actually meet?
I'm dating myself here, but OKCupid. It took quite a few misses for things to work out, but bad dates are just practice in hindsight. Dating only worked out for me after I came to terms with the fact that I was going to be open about my preferences (got over my personal hang-ups with being out and about with 300+ lb women as a 160ish lb gym built guy) and got over other confidence issues I had at the time.
>>76321 To this point I'd say that a good first step is just getting out and talking to people in general. Doing volunteer work was a good confidence builder for me. I definitely had better luck dating when I didn't hate myself.
try feabie
Ducking useless thread, probably because no one on this site actually gets any dates.
>>76391 My opinion is probably out of date, as I haven't been single or on a dating site in 10+ years but OkCupid is where I had most success back in the day. I was very honest about my preferences for big gals on my profile, but without going into fetish territory. I've had 3 long term relationships out of that site over the years, all with ladies in the 250lb - 350lb range.
>>76186 Fuck my schizoid chungus life
The more you get out there and meet people in general the better chances you’ll have of course… but… We forget how heterodox this whole fetish is It’s entirely possible to meet 10 women and not have a single one be receptive to gaining a pound let alone indulging in feedism for you, in fact most will be disgusted by the idea of it If you really require them to have a kink for it then it’s safest to either look on feabie (though it’s a cesspit these days) or be upfront about your preferences immediately so you don’t waste time and energy Either way it’s a tough row to hoe
>>76168 Unless you live in America, not happening The American lifestyle seems to enable people to move from state to state fairly easily, it seems to be fairly easy to rent and buy a house, and it's also the only place that really has feedees I cannot, for me to move is genuinely a huge effort. It would require uprooting my life in such a way that I'm just not prepared to do, as well as years of effort to become qualified in a field relevant in another country. I'm not a weird terminally online retard either, I'm not going to build a parasocial online relationship with someone who is probably seeing other people I have to drive a day just to leave my state. There are 2 feedees where I live and Ive shot my shit with both. One of them is an insane middle eastern conservative, and the other is a woman in her 50s who gets off on cheating on her partner. I can speak to others in Australia too, yeah they may have a few more people to talk to in general but the chances of actually getting one? Don't bother.
I'd say tinder is best simply because the sheer number of users. Out of 8 girls that sent me likes first, 7 were overweight. Most weren't even ugly. It almost feels like it has something with algorithms because on other apps I'm receiving plenty of likes from thin ugly girls or other non-conventionally attractive users but that doesn't seem to happen on tinder.
>>76897 Think it's not so much about the algo but the country. I travel a lot and there are countries in which every second girl on tinder is a fatty. In my country just the opposite. Like literally 0 fatties on tinder and other dating apps.
>>76899 But the thing is that on other apps I've tried I dont seem to have any bigger likelihood of receiving likes from big girls. It's probably just a coincidence however. In my experience the amount of big girls on dating apps vary massively from country to county in Europe, even though there aren't that massive differences statistically. Dating apps in NL were completely useless for example.
>>76171 Do you have any advice for FB dating? I can back up that there's a plethora of fat chicks on their, but I can barely get any of my matches to message more than 3 times in a week. I kinda feel like I should quickly jump to asking them put to drink/coffee at this point
By being a passport bro, unironically. If you can afford/have the time for it, get out of the USA. El Salvador is a gold mine
>>76899 Same here brother
>>76303 They were both local sites that don't exist anymore
I did the the Tinder thing and came across zero fat girls. Pretty much all of them looked like standard Instagram girls or Fitness Influencer types. I think there is a general lack of fat girls in Australia or at least where I am.
>>77266 I found hinge is better for finding fatties. If you use hinge only like fatties and after a few days the algorithm will see that you like fatties and only show you fatties.
>>77267 Have Hinge as well, Pretty much the same type of girls as Tinder kept popping up. I just don't think there are a lot of fat girls here in Perth.
>>76899 Oh yeah, it's so bleak. You can't evwn train the algorithm when all girls are 60kg B-cup STICKS.
>>77268 >Perth Yeah it's over for you
>>76168 If you live in the USA, fat chicks aren't hard to find.
>>77268 There are plenty they’re just not interested in you.
>>77266 I live in the southern US where fat girls should be plenty and tried using Tinder. I'm convinced fat girls no longer use Tinder or the algorithm is just not showing me them to keep me swiping. I genuinely think only 2-3% of the girl recommended to me were actually fat. I think
Another issue for eurobros (at least one I have encountered) is that the fat girls that I do find are... just a bit dim. All of them are largely uneducated, and most possess the character depth of a potted plant. Sure, it's fun to have a night with one of these fat girls, but when it comes to finding an actual girlfriend I might as well marry the potted plant. I'm not asking for a fat bitch Socrates here, just someone who can think ahead further than whatever they are doing next week. I still haven't found any reason for this. Maybe being fat is something you can only do when you're retarded?
>>77406 There's got to be some algorithmic bullshit going on. I swear I see normies on reddit complaining that the only girls they can find on the apps are all morbidly obese, but then the guys on this site complain that they only see thin women.
>>77416 Same issue here. Where da fat women at?
>>77268 Why dont you go outside and find one instead of waiting for one to aopear on your screen?
>>77415 I mean obesity directly correlates with education. I'm an uni student that works at a student bar part time and we have surprisingly many fat girls hanging around, and pretty much every shift I see at least a few hot ones and its likely the reason why I haven't quit a long time ago. I currently have my eyes on this regular who is an engineering student who's both really sharp and fat. Granted this is a high acceptance school so it's definitely a varied bunch you see roaming around campus but the average IQ level at work is definitely higher than at some random dive bar.
>>77415 You think european fatties are dumb? Have you... heard of America?
>>77420 You're very lucky on that. Hope you manage to get something out of her. I have never seen a fat girl on my campus - chubby at most. >>77421 At least America has more than 5% of the female population be fat. We ain't got NOOOOO ONE here.
>>77431 Thank you, although I do recommend checking out such venues still as you never know. But yes Netherlands as a fat admirer is hardcore mode, been there many times and never matched with a single big girl on tinder. I follow a few fat ones from there on tiktok but my feed there is definitely not representative of the population. If you are still in university I'd seriously consider an exchange somewhere with a higher average size instead of moping. Ironically my student adviser tried to send me to Rotterdam but I'm very reluctant to go somewhere I won't really find women I'm attracted to.
>>77434 Yeah... Considering I've only ever dated foreign exchange students before (mostly not even chubby), it might be worth getting out of here. Dutch women are... well I do like that they're tall but the rest is just dismal. No curves, no pretty faces (usually), no cool interests, no nothing.
There is only one way you can: You have to go out somewhere. Anywhere. It's hard to find a decent bar/pub these days, it's a far cry from how things were in the 90s I'm told. But if you have friends who want to go do literally anything, always go. Some nerd I'm friends with invited me to go to hobby/game/comic shop for their card night, and within an hour I had met a fat woman. If you don't have friends, just start being nice to everyone you meet. They'll help you be social eventually, and they may even hook you up with fat women they know that no one wants to date. >>77416 100% there is something going on. I've had the same discussion with people over on 4chan as well. They get endless fatties on their end, and I never get shown them. I'm wondering if men who like BBWs to begin with are generally more attractive, and as such, the algorithm doesn't want to show us women it considers unattractive. >>77415 > just a bit dim. All of them are largely uneducated, and most possess the character depth of a potted plant. Talking from experience here, the dim ones are better. They question you far less than the smart ones, and their guard isn't up 24/7.
>>77460 >they question you far less That's awesome for a night with one of them, but I kind of want a girlfriend who is an interesting person outside of being fat. I've had my fill of fat sex, now I want fat love.
>>77468 You want to dare a dumb woman, preferably not retarded but either just almost there or uneducated enough to just eat junk food all day with no real concept of nutrition, my ex was like this, she never had a parent who properly taught her to make meals and so her knowledge on food and nutrition is stuck in that of an 8 year old who wants something tasty and just to fill the stomach because you know you have to eat things in a day. Fucking pushy doctors these days tho will prey on these women to get sales money from WLS and injection medicines and shit.
>>77478 Yeah it’s definitely the doctors preying on them. Not you, the guy suggesting dating girls with low intelligence and little nutritional knowledge to take advantage of for your benefit
>>77486 It’s never been easier for people to educate themselves. Performative transnigger.
>>77415 I am out of the dating scene since quite a long while, but I feel your pain. It was the same here in the northern part of Belgium. Very few fat or even chubby women on dating sites, and the few that were on were chubby at best and didn’t come across as smart or well educated. I always wondered if they were so insecure that they were hiding behind pictureless profiles, or used old skinny pictures, or simply not on these dating sites.
>>77502 Says the inbred loser from an island of discarded inbred British criminals. Australia is the only place that rivals the uS south for fat drunken uneducated wife beaters and ugly butch women (Layla is your hottest model, just saying).
>>77505 God, I wish I could be catfished. Just doesn't happen, ever.
>>77505 I don't think fatfishing is that rare. Happened to me once and I can't even complain, almost drove right past her when I was picking her up for the first time. Also saw a girl I briefly dated later on tinder, her only full body pic was from when she was 14 when she was going 20! Other than that I've also been reverse fatfished. I've seen some girls who have typical traits of a girl trying to hide her weight, round face, possibly a double chin, no full body pictures, wide shoulders but when you see them irl they aren't fat just are built like that and take shit photos. I noticed this built was pretty common in NL.
>>77513 Not only do I get no fatfishing, I get reverse fat fishing. I need to throw myself off of a towerblock ASAP, dear god is it BLEAK
>>76899 The EU might get fatter because of the Mercosul deal.
>>77521 I will eternally submit myself to God-Emperor Lula if he manages to pull this off.
>>77478 My girls got this genetic thing called prayder willies disease. Solidly the most real feedee I’ve ever dated and def not gonna be graduating from business school anytime soon. I’m talking mayo out the jar and washing it down with Mountain Dew.
>>77541 Prader-willi? Isn't that the one they are constantly hungry and they look like they have Down a bit? Also, isn't that super rare?? How do you even find them lol
>>77541 >PWS often causes intellectual impairment, though cases with average intelligence exist. I really hope your girl is the exceptiom to this rule, anon. Feels a bit fucked up to make someone who can't think about the consequences gain inordinate amounts of weight.
>>77548 >>77543 Yeah that shit. It’s not that bad,‘she’s not downsy that’s mean, it’s mostly impulse control and tantrums and stuff. She can’t have long nails or she picks her skin but that’s the worst of it. They said it’s cause her dad is really old or something but the dudes loaded.
>>77549 >can't have long nails or she picks her skin Nice anecdote anon, but is she self-conscious enough to realize what she is doing to herself? Temper tantrums and no impulse control are not necessarily traits I associate with aware and sentient people. Is she really aware of herself?
>>77478 >You want to dare a dumb woman, preferably not retarded but either just almost there or uneducated enough to just eat junk food all day with no real concept of nutrition Bingo. These women are the most content with life, and there is far less friction when dating them. Everything brings them joy. I've been with a "smart" fatty before, and never again.
>>77555 I mean. Almost every model is debilitated physically and mentally. Jae, Adeline, etc: soul crushing depression CC: autism PP, JJ: Lipedemia As if it’s soooo much more noble to destroy a woman’s life despite her being salvageable. Someone with one too many or one too few chromosomes isn’t nearly as aweful as killing a woman with a future.
>>77612 >PP, JJ: Lipedemia Who?
>>77612 I find the animosity against autism on here amusing, because this kink (like most others) quite obviously appeals disproportionately to neurodivergent people. Like, the irony is wild. Half of the people complaining about autism are probably themselves autistic.
>>76168 You don't. I've wanted a feedee for going on 15 years, just been scammed or they've lost interest. You get to the point where both optimism and misery feel pointless, do you revel in apathy
>>76168 Have you tried not being autistic or a poorfag?
>>77618 Completely agree. >>77549 >They said it’s cause her dad is really old or something but the dudes loaded. $$$ all I’m saying, get your bag
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What do all the losers complaining about not being able to fuck fat bitches (or any bitch for that matter) have in common? >Netherlands - 6% African descent >Australia - 1.6% African descent >Norway - less than 1% BLACK BITCHES AIN'T INTERESTED IN FUCKING YOU TIMMY.
>>77612 >fat models are all insane Yeah, and I do not strive to replicate that if I get a girl to feed. I don't need to feed someone until they die, let alone ruin their lives. I just want to have someone be a bit bigger by eating a lot. This isn't death feederism. Jesus christ, man.
>>77597 Explain this.
>>77637 It’s easier to get fucking fat when you’re simple minded enough to eat because it’s fun, not workout because it’s hard, and not think about long term consequences because it’s a downer. These women aren’t about to go to a museum, they’re happy sitting on a couch watching reality tv eating bag after bag of snack food. Smart fats are usually self hating fats, they tend to be people who want to lose weight and lack the willpower, and become neurotic about it. Actually regarded people, and other genetic abnormalities is considering preying on the incompetent and for people obsessed with manufacturing “consent” that’s a big no-no. But for real, I’ve seen people here overfeeding their kids or dog or a bedbound aunt and shit and that doesn’t sound any better than dating a hot woman with downs and taking her to the fat farm.
>>77641 I mean, part of the process is convincing a self-hating fatty to embrace it, right? As for the second part of the message - just because there are worse people out there, doesn't mean that it's okay. I am not obsessed with consent, but I want someone who knows what she is doing and is into it. It is just that much hotter when a girl is exactly aware of it, and not just some oblivious piece of cattle that will be shipped off to the glue factory when the consequences catch up to her.
I had a summer fling with this girl about 350 pounds who was clearly pretty intelligent and studied some pretty heavy shit. I noticed that she had pretty much no friends however. Basically just a good old fashioned nerd/shut in. She was genuinely super cute and we had many nice conversations but after a few months I realised why she didn't have any friends and no social skills and I don't think either of us could handle talking with eachother so she ended up blocking me. At least in this relationship it was definitely not her being not stupid that was the issue. If you think lack of intelligence is bad, lack of emotional intelligence is even worse.
>>77646 > I am not obsessed with consent, but I want someone who knows what she is doing and is into it. It is just that much hotter when a girl is exactly aware of it, I only rape and assault people capable of feeling victimization isn’t the moral high ground you think it is.
>>77652 You're taking my statement out of context. I mentioned the non-obsession with consent in response to the allegation that was the only thing I valued in preferring a woman without (intellectual) disabilities.
>>77555 What is this obsession with “aware of herself”? Plenty of people how all kinds special minds, are they not supposed to have sex ever? Your as bad as those people who ruined Anna Stubblefield‘s life over a nothing burger.
I feel like even meeting fat chicks at the bar is near impossible now. What the fuck happened?
>>77707 The Internet has allowed fat women to find the highest quality chubby chaser dick in their general area and get simp attention/money from around the globe. It’s over for normie men unless we’re willing to dip into less “conventional” populations of fat women, or women who can easily become fat.
>>77715 They overestimate their worth because some men want a quick fuck (even tho these men would never be in a serious relationship with them)... It's over
>>76168 Seriously. I feel like 600lb women would be super easy to bag if I could find any.
>>77715 > dip into less “conventional” populations of fat women, or women who can easily become fat. Impoverished, uneducated and maybe retarded women are my bread and butter. Not proud of it but they’re easy to clean up with. Back when I sold pills I had a lot more luck but those women were not quality and mostly there because I had supply plus pills didn’t help them stay fat. Weed heads and alcoholics are also pretty easy to fatten if you have the bankroll (I don’t).
I downloaded WooPlus and I noticed half the women around here have profiles with the "I'm looking for this in my partner" section filled with something like "Needs to be loyal and shouldn't cheat". I thought "not cheating" was a given. Is the bar really that low for men who date fat girls?
>>77756 Yeah, I wonder about this. I assume everyone writing that has been cheated on, but I also think a lot of ppl of both sexes on those apps are running more than one opp at once as a matter of course. So maybe the meaning is 'I want to be the only woman you're working on right now'. Which would be totally unreasonable as it's very much a numbers game for the men.
>>77756 >>77731 I have now dated a few women, all of whom are well past being overweight. I don't think of my self as being that amazing of a man, although I could just be too hard on my self. But nearly every woman I have dated thought I was the most amazing man they could ever have, or at least the best they could get. While I personally don't want a woman with a low self esteem due to the number of issues that brings and mine not being particularly high. I think a lot of plus sized women feel inferior and that they would never be someone's first choice or would have to settle or would be cheated on the instant their man could find someone "better". I recall when my ex and I started dating, she asked me something about if I was with her because she was "easy". Which I had no idea what she meant at the time, but she meant "easy" as in an "easy pick because I guess I look so attractive and hopefully would have a good paying job after college while she was an unemployed USSBBW. It just feels strange to think about, since I only find obese women attractive and find biggest of that group to be the most physically desirable to me, so I didn't feel like I was picking someone well below my looksmatch I guess. >>77775 Dating apps also actively throttle how many matches you can get, and paying for them usually doesn't do you much better. So using multiple apps simultaneously is the only effective way to really get matches in a reasonable amount of time as a man.
>>77776 >>77775 >>77756 You guys are really this naive? These women regularly fuck guys with skinny wives who have a fat kink or want to change things up. That’s it. All the shit you’ve written makes sense to you, but it these women really though so reasonably they wouldn’t be single hoeing it up hoping it’ll work out different with this new Brad.
>>77785 This is why it’s over for regular joes. Every woman thinks some 6’ tall 6 figure man in their DMs is going to marry them, instead of just trying to fuck, which is already unfair enough that these women are fucking men more attractive than their leagues. We’re only 60 years into the invention of birth control and 15 years into Internet dating/social media. Men are doomed as a species.
>>77785 I don't think this is true, most of the women on there are only chubby, not especially fat enough to be sought after by married men with fat kinks.
Any actual women want to chime in on this?
>>77954 Plenty of men with skinny wives like fucking chubby women… that’s why it’s called chubby chaser. Totally common complaint among chubsters.
>>77776 >I have now dated a few women, all of whom are well past being overweight. I don't think of my self as being that amazing of a man, although I could just be too hard on my self. But nearly every woman I have dated thought I was the most amazing man they could ever have, or at least the best they could get. It really is this easy. There's just too much Doom Posting on this site because the Men here aren't trying this IRL, and are having their reality distorted by the internet. All the stories they hear from women online? Not true. Those very same women who post these whiny brain dumps, if a guy talked to them normally for an hour or two would be naked and in bed with them that same day. There was an anon here who fucked an SSBBW in a wheel chair that he met all in one day. She even made him dinner, which, if she's wheel chair bound, is a real fucking effort. That's how easy it to get these women: Be nice, talk for a bit, make her feel good, and she'll be making you feel good in no time. Also the growing Zoomer population on here is fucked. The Zoomer mindset is incredibly black-pilled, and nothing gets a woman more turned off, even a fat desperate woman, than the zoomer mindset. That's why you see so many women in their early 20s throwing themselves at men 35+.
>>77989 > That's why you see so many women in their early 20s throwing themselves at men 35+. It’s the economy stupid. “Women like men with money who can buy them stuff more news at 11” —You, A Boomer
>>77994 Nah. I've gotten tons of pussy over the years with 0 dollars spent. You probably haven't experienced this cuz you're a wet blanket of a human
>>77994 > It’s the economy stupid. I don't buy this for a second. At my job we are constantly short staffed because no one wants to work. I get all sort of perks with my job because I consistently show up for work everyday. And just yesterday the Cashier at the grocery store was telling me she was swamped because they're short staffed because all the young little shit workers call in, not because of sickness, but because "they don't feel like working". So no, it's not the economy, it lazy zoomers who want instant gratification and aren't willing to put in the hard work to get it. Fuck it isn't even hard work, it's the bare fucking minimum you lazy shits can do. >Boomer Sorry, I'm a xillennial. >>77997 And it's soaking wet because he cries himself to sleep every night. How could this happen to such a innocent little angel! The school system said he'd make a zillion dollars if he just went and got a masters degree in basket weaving!
>>77998 No one wants to work for starvation wages that don't even pay the bills.
>>78002 >starvation wages There's plenty of jobs even right now that aren't filled that pay above minimum wage, that all you need is your high school diploma. If you manage your money properly, you should be doing just fine.
>>78003 Of course. The jobs you mentioned aren't in that category. Cashier? Give me a break. It's wild to me that you look at the administrative policy of intentionally running businesses with skeleton crews and just in time supply chain strategies and blame the worker. If a business can't pull in workers that's the fault or the business not the workers
>>78002 What the hell are starvation wages? Minimum wage is 17 and I work at Shake Shack
>>78004 Cashier's at grocery stores here pay above minimum wage. Even then, you can still live comfortably if your not a retard with your money. I had friend who dropped out of high School who did a min-wage gig full time instead of going to college, and by the time most of us graduated, he had put away close to 100K by being super frugal. > If a business can't pull in workers that's the fault or the business not the workers No, it's because the younger generation are legit fucking lazy and have no work ethic. But hey, more bonuses and perks for me because the Bosses love it when you show up every day and don't bitch and moan that you don't wanna work today.
>>77998 >>78002 >>78003 >>78004 I'm a zoomer. None of us want to work the shittiest jobs that barely pay over minimum wage and internationally cut hours so you can't work 40hrs a week. Which forces some to have to work two shitty jobs. Leaving them with options of still living with their parents or moving into a mediocre apartment with 2 other guys.
>>78005 Starvation Wages is code for "I'm a lazy fuck who would rather mooch off everyone around me then put in 5 minutes of actual work". >>78007 Manage your money better then. I have no sympathy for poor fags. Especially the Zoomer Participation Trophy generation. Jeez no wonder 2/3's of your lame ass generation hasn't even held hands with a woman.
>>78008 I like my 21hr a week job. Better than working 7.25, 60 hrs, hoping 20 hrs of overtime kick in. 40 hours are cut cause normies aren't spending to show off their wealth or spending on daddy's credit card.
>>77989 >>77997 Thank you black gods for gracing us pathetic white cuckolds who will never know a woman's love with your divine knowledge.
>>78014 I guess Kisame with his bipolar was too optimistic and corny?
>>77736 > Impoverished, uneducated and maybe retarded women are my bread and butter. Not proud of it but they’re easy to clean up with. I think a lot of us do the same, or are in complete denial of how much of the fetish involves slumming it with the lower social orders.
Anyone have tips on having sex with a BBW when you have a below average dick?
>>78030 Learn the art of eating/playing with pussy. It'll engorge everything making it easier to make her orgasm. Even if you have an average or above average dick you should be doing that.
>>78030 Work out on pelvis movements so you can keep on going for long at a high tempo. A higher pistoning speed can make a difference.
>>78030 Aim for younger women’s that haven’t been run through yet. They tend to be less spoiled and demanding. The problem is them not you.
>>77972 Agreed. I'd like to hear from a lady how their partner attracted them.
>>78066 > I'd like to hear from a lady how their partner attracted them. You’re asking a fish about good bait. Literally the dudes macking on retarded girlies in Special Ed have better advice.
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>>76168 Make them from scratch. (warning: expensive $$$)
>>78113 I took the retardpill and legitimately am swimming in pussy. More ass than a toilet. My bitches come in flavors.
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>>78126 You sound like one of these. Somehow, I am disinclined to believe it.
>>78113 Feedism is hard to get someone good for - but it is all worth it. Home-made fatties taste better, don't you know?
>>78158 >don’t believe it Simple mathematics. With the sexual market dynamics present in modernity your average man’s league is depressed relative to himself enough to justify building a harem out of social rejects for many men in the lower mid-quartile. Even the average man’s league includes some retards (reminder on average: 5’9” tall, $42k income, 5.5 inch penis, associates degree… IQ 100). Consider the “league” of a IW 75 woman (not retarded just “slow” and not hideous just homely). I know these women, they’re getting with guys like me and rejecting guys like you.
>>78161 Lucky that I am not this "average" then, lmfao. God, Americans are tiny (and short, that too).
>>76183 /thread Thanks based architect >>76362 Not him but met my 230-->280lb gf 5 months ago at uni. Most fat women are fat because they LOVE food, and have been told their whole life that it's bad to enjoy that which they love the most. Enabling that part of them, even just a little bit, will not only make them depend on you for self esteem and approval, but will also make them BALLOOON. I told her about my fetish and she had a very good reaction, and now she lets me feed her during sex. Her words, "i get dicked down and fed yummy foods? Why wouldn't I love that?" I love her. We would never do porn, even though it would be fire. You don't want your gf doing porn either anon. Find a real fat girl and tame her like the true feedist you are
>>76168 IDK I've kinda just given up
>>78193 > I've kinda just given up Don’t give up, your expectations are blocking any success you could have. Just ride the decline and try to open your eyes to women you might not have ever considered dating. Not everyone has to be dating attractive girlbosses with her own apartment, if you can imagine fucking a girl try asking her out. Doesn’t matter where she works or how intelligent she is.
>>78196 if you can imagine fucking a girl try asking her out. Doesn’t matter where she works or how intelligent she is. I understand what you're trying to say, but telling a guy with a fat fetish to imagine fucking a fat chick is a fairly easy thing to do lmao. I've matched with several girls on dating apps, but it rarely went anywhere. The best interactions I've had are with women in other states. I'm the common denominator in all my failures so I'm focusing on improving myself if I ever intend to try again.
>>78205 You sound neurotic. Just take the retard pill. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. You’re “respecting them” too hard and seem like an microdick doormat. American women aren’t that bright or nice annyway anyway so they know you’re being a phony. Talk to them with righteousness not flattery. She’s no princess and you’re no gentleman. Get your dick wet young sir.
I've had 0 luck. Maybe once College starts I'll be meeting more people than I did during HS.
>>78343 This was a while ago now, but there was a dearth of fat (or even just chubby) girls in my high school. Lots of options in university though.
>>78346 College was kinda a letdown. After cleaning up in SpeEd in HS I couldn’t get with anyone but a couple townies through state college.
Be either rich or extremely attractive, if youre not at least a 8/10 women wont look your way. Also stay away from dating sites as most women on there are spoiled emotionally immature brats
>>78838 Am neither. Still pull tail. Just be funny. And a joy to be around. Guys who talk like you are the opposite of a joy to be around, lol, so you will never learn the truth in this. But it do.
>>78839 Its just a fact, women are getting pickier and pickier and beauty standards for men are getting more and more unrealistic.
>>78838 You need to start extrovertmaxxing. Be a person people want to be around in social circles. Be cool with everyone but give a majority of attention to the fattest girl in the room. Not that hard to be seen as a social person in our introverted societies, and people genuinely appreciate it. Pulled plenty of girl this way. I'm also short, broke and skinnyfat. That being said I do put effort into looking approachable, it has more to say than many other factors people worry about. And obviously don't overdo it either, they want someone that is funny, but not a clown.
>>78844 This this this. And if you just can not do the extrovert thing, and you've got a bit of creative talent (which I doubt considering how the guy you're talking to communicates), then you can lean into the mysterious brooding artist vibe. That shit is super hot fire if you can pull it off . Maybe an awkward and goofy artist if you can't pull off mysterious and brooding.
>>78841 I see unattractive people with GFS/BFS all the time, your mindset is the issue, the more authentic a women finds you, the closer they'll be drawn to you. Step outside, shot shots build that experience and you'll see the results pay off.
>>78210 > Just take the retard pill Kids these days are fucked.
I can pull skinny girls all day irl but fat girls are always suspicious AF if I'm hitting on them like they expect me to pull some mean prank any moment. Online though I can pick them up easily just by sending nude videos talking them up and making it clear I'm attracted. I've been with a few models and even the hot fat girls have no real self confidence it's just a front which makes me sad they feel that way about themselves honestly.
You all really are living in fantasy land
>>78859 > even the hot fat girls have no real self confidence it's just a front which makes me sad they feel that way about themselves honestly. This is all women. At then end of the day if your self esteem comes from being an in demand wet-hole faking her face through makeup you’re not gonna be for real happy. Be useful, be smart, help people.
>>78864 People rarely like when others don't want to take accountability for their own life and decide to blame others for everything.
>>78942 So not denying reality is the same as not taking accountability
>>78210 >Just take the retard pill. I don't think I even go for the smart. Either way Ive had little to no success, so I'm going back to the drawing board.
>>78960 Not OP but “taking the retard pill” helped me get with my first ssbbw. We’re dating and yes she has dyslexia and dressed very weird so probably autism. I used to be terrified of being seen in public with a “weirdo” but getting laid regularly 100% makes life so much more bearable.
>>78970 Lets be real. If youre trying to date ssbbw they are more than likely gonna have some mental disorders, most people dont get to 400+ pounds without having something messed up about them or because they are taking some meds that make them gain weight
>>78997 My girl is so dumb I don’t now how she graduated high school. Idk it’s the south. No one bats an eye at a slow housewife.
>>78999 I could never stand being with someone who is genuinely dumb, they dont have to be super smart or anything but at least not an idiot
>>77549 post her nails
>>77548 Retard moralfag. She's probably more mentally well than most leftists.
>>79009 That's an incredibly low bar to set, considering most people in this country have some sort of mental illness.
>>77420 I went to one of the most selective schools in the world and there were almost fat girls. I think you have the correlation backwards. Also, education isn't intelligence.
>>79011 >almost no*
>>79011 Youre from the US, it has nothing to do with intelligence. Obesity is directly linked to low economic standing and if youre low income you wont be at a school like that.
>>79009 A bunch of death credits hear getting jealous another man is getting laid. SMH
>>79021 You're saying it's different in Europe? IQ has a positive correlation with fitness and income. >if youre low income you wont be at a school like that. Harvard doesn't consider the finances of applicants and gives free tuition for those who need it, and even though I didn't go to Harvard, what I said still applies to it. It's possible the admissions staff is biased against fatties though but I don't think that's it.
>>77548 >If other guys are getting high quality pussy and my dick is dry it’s because they’re preying on vulnerable women. No dude, men are the victims here getting predated upon by women and their corporate algorithms. No guy wants their league to be leftovers, and a lot of us are already social outcasts. Im not tall, I don’t earn a lot of money, I wish I had the confidence to even try to flirt with a slowbus Becky.
>>79047 Fuck do you mean harvard doesnt doesnt take financial status into consideration? You have to be in the social elite to enter those schools, the only ones to get free tuiton there are a handful of geniuses but if youre not rich you legit have to be on a genius level
>>7906 Ivy League works for the rich but isn’t composed of rich white men. Harvard is a few rich Jewish people importing Indian and Chinese visa holders to replace the American man as the corporate manager. It’s rife with DEI minorities and women who are complicit in the whole scheme.
>>78945 Nope im saying no one likes a whiny dude. It's a feminine trait.
>>79066 >>79080 Harvard was a Christian college before it became secular. It's free because the job is to provide a religious protestant education, at least before it became a party school.
>>79098 And so what this country was founded as a white Christian state. Didn’t stop the Jews from importing a bunch of Indians willing to work for crumbs same as they did at Harvard. Place smells like curry and DEI.
>>79065 > men are the victims here getting predated upon by women and their corporate algorithms. This is what the feminist corporate autocracy was about making men desperate enough to work shit jobs for shit pay for the right to buy some Beckie’s subscription to another streaming app. Men lose and the elites win while women get their cut.
FYI, Harvard isn't "free," by any means. With room and board you're looking at $80k per year. Their admissions policy is need-blind, like most universities. This means they don't take an applicant's financial situation into account. (Officially, at least.) Once you're accepted, most universities will work with you to put together a package of financial aid and loans to make it happen. This is how I wound up at a college my broke-ass parents could have never afforded. The caveat is that (as whiny, inferior white victim types will tell you), there are many scholarships and grants out there that are only available to minorities. None of which come close to making up for 200 years of institutional and ongoing societal discrimination in this country. So stop whining about DEI, losers, or Da Jooz. You're being played. A white man in the USA is still born on third base and if things didn't work out it's because you're dumb and/or lazy, period.
Actual Harvard grad here, and >>79115 is pretty spot on.
>>79108 Kisame here, I am too medicated and restrained to entertain conspiracy theories. I am now a slacker and lower class with no interest in politics. I am destined to make 24k as a cook before I drift away. My fleeting freedom will consist of travel
>Wake up >No cute 200+ lbs nerdy BBW laying in bed beside me The lights get dimmer each day
>>79130 The blood is thinning and drying up
>>79115 People like you should get out of the country now. The "whiny, inferior whites" despise you ten times as much as you despise them and their Criminal in Chief is giving them carte blanche to hang libs from lampposts. Harvard is part of the liberal apparatus and as such is currently geared towards empowering minorities whose interests are inherently tied to a multicultural conceptualisation of America. Unfortunately for them, law and order isn't respected by the people in power, and the voterbase itself has shown that they don't respect the very concept of law by electing a "convicted felon." It doesn't matter how many Chinese and Indian-American lawyers graduate from Harvard, their time has passed and so has yours. You are not ready for the poor white's hate.
>>79162 Ah yes the multicultural conceptualization of a country built on stolen land by a bunch of white colonizers who eradicated the native population and built their society on slavery that wasnt abolished until long after the rest of the civilized world had already done so. There were many concepts in the US but multiculturalism was never one of those
>>79127 lol how many harvard grads you think are into this shit
>>79162 Those who don't get an education.... Are doomed to say retarded ass braindead shit like this, lol. Stay in school kids. You don't want a brain so mushy you'll let a guy like aAndrew Tate shape your brain however he wants it to be shaped
>>79162 He’s know they tried the same playbook in Europe. Now the whole place is stained yellow from turmeric.
>>79176 Kisame here, charter schools in the states have been taking money from both parochial schools and school districts cause red counties to consolidate. Elite schools like Dwight Englewood, Horace Mann, Greenwich Academy are for rich kids.
>>79162 Harvard and the ivy League are notoriously protestant. William Buckley, a Catholic, couldn't fathom the post war WWII era.
>>79162 I think anon is taking about financial aid or the bursar. You can get lots of money if you go to a community college and public college like SUNY-CUNY, but it's not as fun as Ole Miss or Florida State. CUNY was free but the fiscal crisis of 68 made it broke. Shame, 70s NY was comfy along with 80s, anywho No Child Left Behind pillaged the Education department and now it's runned by the WWE
I think what conspiracy nuts forget is that SUNY went bankrupt because it's runned by teachers who fight the president and campus politics can get medieval
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>>79177 I met several while I was there. It’s true that the Harvard student profile skews wealthier, but I’d chalk a lot of that up to access to elite education leading up to college. As far as “DEI” goes—and this may amaze you—not every smart person is a white male. https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/newsplus/celebrating-bigger-bodies-tackles-fat-phobia-permeating-college-campuses/
>>79213 Kisame here, the problem is they're not fat the same way Rachel Ray and Bronson's wife are in that you breed with them. They're dumpy white women
>>79213 I know we're white supremacist here and allat, but that girl's very pretty.
>>79228 Incorrect. Literally the photo is a counterpoint. I wish there were more fat people at Harvard though. Smart, fat, and successful is such a hot combination to me.
>>79252 > I wish there were more fat people at Harvard though. Smart, fat, and successful is such a hot combination to me. Faggoty bitch boy here likes “smart women” and that’s why he can’t get laid. Sorry dude, your either gay or have to just take the retard pill and fuck dumb obese bitches like the rest of us.
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>>79252 >>79270 Kisame here, I can confirm I am weird and that will follow me which is why I am not destined for greatness. My eccentric behavior just doesn't blend well with the conformity of the modern internet. Everything is becoming a doctor, lawyer, get a house in the burbs.
You guys are the most useless sacks of shit I have ever seen. No one is interested in the politics of the fucked administration regarding upper education. I want to find out hot to meet and fuck fat women. Pull your head out of your asses and actually contribute to the topic of the thread.
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>>79292 I am a weirdo in a conservative town. I am not interested in fat chicks.
>>79213 how do you meet feedists at harvard
>>79270 I didn’t say I had a hard time getting laid. I just said I wish there were more fat chicks. Wouldn’t think that’s controversial around here. >>79295 Honestly, I don’t remember the play by play, so much as I’m willing to put out feelers and see where it goes. Commenting positively on food or fashion and then engaging in normal small talk from there. We are lucky in that fat girls are pretty easy to spot. It’s honestly harder for them to find us.
>>77548 > I really hope your girl is the exceptiom to this rule, anon. Feels a bit fucked up to make someone who can't think about the consequences gain inordinate amounts of weight. What’s the general consensus here? I didn’t think that it’s the feeders job to prevent women from getting fat. Like half our favorite models are obviously trapped in some kind of pathological disregulation.
>>79204 >tfw showing up to harvard with a mayonnaise jar full of acid like michael hollingshead
How likely am I to hookup with a fat chick if I just went to a random bar tonight?
>>79408 Where do you live?
>>79410 South of Atlanta, Georgia
>>79408 Are you above average looking? Tall? Well built? Got a nice beard? If so then more than likely. If not try again next life
>>79412 I'm 6'2. Family tells me I'm handsome, but I don't see it personally
>>79408 How did it go?
>>79436 I got distracted and forgot about even going
Going out with the intent of finding a hookup is destined to fail, it's one of these unwritten rules of life just like how the moment you light up your cig the bus shows up. When I've gone out like that wearing nice clothes, cologne, styled hair I've been rudely rejected by girls who look like ogres, but going out to just chill while wearing casual clothes has however yielded some real cuties. Even in foreign countries where the odds are stacked against me.
>>79066 I mean you're a Europoor retard who doesn't know shit about my country. >>79115 >Their admissions policy is need-blind, like most universities. Stopped reading there. Thanks for demonstrating your retardation and cluelessness early on and saving me time. >>79115 This is a samefag retard. >>79127 Sure ya are bud.
>>79213 >As far as “DEI” goes—and this may amaze you—not every smart person is a white male. Affirmative action was a thing for decades. Unless you specifically mean since the laws changed in 2023, this isn't even debatable because it was an explicit policy. Funny how the only top college I got into was the one where I reported that I'm black. Must have been a coincidence.
I'm a graduate from the Wonka school of Candymaking and Candy Finance. I earned my bachelors in Oompa Loompa Studies and a Masters in Total Gum Chewer Death Studies. My current occupation is running an undisclosed blueberry farm in the American countryside. I can't tell people what I do there because I've signed a real long contract that I couldn't read at the bottom.
>>79471 Bro is living in an actual 3rd world country and talking shit about europe. Wild
>>79408 What kind of dive bars are good for picking up fat chicks anyway?
>>79471 >>79472 We got some serious Dunning-Krueger Effect over here. You do realize your inability to learn new information is part of the reason you’re saying stupid shit, right? Insisting that only white males can be smart is such an idiotic position.
>>79536 brrrraaaaappppppppppp >Y-You need to listen to m- BRAAAAAPPPPPPPPPP
>>79361 Yeah, that's fucked though. Call me a weak moralfag but I couldn't live with myself if I made someone who is clearly not in their right mind ruin their own life for my pleasure.
>>79717 > moralfag but I couldn't live with myself if I made someone who is clearly not in their right mind ruin their own life for my pleasure. Ok moralfag. The models had no problem draining my bank account. It’s cheaper to just find some woman who needs housing and fatten her up. I’m trying to get the courage to do so, so thank you to the poll posters.
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>>79721 >The models had no problem draining my bank account No one wanted to tolerate you enough to be your Valentine, huh buddy?
>>79721 >models Models are retarded bt virtue of being internet whores. Just get a real girl. You can do it. If she is fat and has insane standards (i.e. rejects you), she isn't worth it anyway. The only thing I objected to is picking a barely sentient sped girl as your feedee. There are a lot of fat girls in the US. You should count yourself lucky and get the best the land of the obesity pandemic has to offer.
>>79728 ^^This^^ Also, I feel most people fail to see is that most people gain weight with age and this goes doubly for women. Just get a girl. Then if you like her and can, then have kids. Don't miss the forest for the trees gents the mightiest oak didn't start out on top.
>>79728 > Just get a real girl. You can do it. If she is fat and has insane standards (i.e. rejects you), she isn't worth it anyway. This is literally the plan. If I could find a smart employed traditionally feminine *submissive feedee* I would. My last girl could barely read and couldn’t drive but let’s be honest she had decent hygiene with a waddle and could put away the Arbies. That got my dick hard as shit.
>>79717 Fucking moral fags will find any reason to shit on other guys getting feedees: she’s too young, too dumb, too crazy, too fat, too thin, someone’s mom, someone’s kid… it’s fucking exhausting.
>>79745 I'm pretty sure those are around too. No need to scour the ball pits for the bottom of the barrel. >>79751 Is it moralistic to want a woman who can file her own taxes?
>>79753 I’m not sure how things work in Dutchland but in America dating is a war zone and men take what they can get.
>>79754 There aren't much if any fat girls at all for the pickings here. You're lucky in that regard. As for taking what you can get, I don't know how bleak your self-esteem must be to adopt such a mindset. Unless I am talking to the baldest 165cm circle of obesity I think everyone has a chance if they just conduct themselves decently. This isn't me saying "oh just win bro it's not that hard", I moreso mean that it is possible to begin with. Everyone will get their time in the sun - though in our case, it's more like "time beneath the heaving fat ass of our partners."
>>79745 Dumb women give the best head. Plus if they’re on govt income they’re probably gonna be thankful for the meals and treats.
>>79751 Dude tell me about it… my ex loved eating and didn’t mind getting fat until people like the annoying douche that you responded to started putting her into fear of it and basically scaring her right into a gym. I respected her decision to give up on gaining weight and wanting to lose it all and get in shape but I had to break up with her. It’s just not the kind of girl I want to be with sexually.
Is anyone else annoyed by the sudden normalization of liking bigger people? Not to say it's never been a thing, but within the past 2-3 years it feels like everyone wants a "fat/chubby gf". The last fucking thing I need is boys swooping in when I've barely just started daring people.
>>79833 In a time where weight loss comes out of a syringe, it probably isn't the worst thing in the world for being attracted to fat women to be normalised. It's one less impetus to lose weight, at least.
>>79833 lol what planet do you live on? I’ve never gotten the impression it’s been “normalized” per se
>>79842 He’s just an autistic retard pay him no attention.
>>79812 You’ve got to get your girl paranoid about doctors… attend meetings to “protect her from creeps”, tell her the doctors are fatphobic and being mean to her.
>>79842 >>79847 Thank you to the one person who actually trie to engage with what I had to say, and for the other faggot, suck my cock. Anyway, normalized isn't the right word. But in some spaces, it's definitely becoming more acceptable to admit to liking and looking for a fat gf.

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