>>76168 Lonelygirl has been complaining about no guys wanting to date her. Just go hit her up and make it happen. That’s the secret its like looking for houses when they’re on sale to buy. She is currently on the market so try your shot like at a lotto and you might get lucky. This is loneylgirl right here she is a model on curvage and has her own tik tok channel where she complains that there are no men around willing to take her out on a date. Get it while its hot my dude!

I've found most of mine on dating apps and some from school. Facebook dating is pretty good, as it will learn your body-type preferences, so if you start swiping on fat girls, it will give you only them. There's plenty of fat girls to go around so you just gotta get out there and shoot your shot.

>>76169 For the benefit of the hopelessly naive, don't waste your time this way. All the women who whine about why nobody wants to be with them do so for two reasons: 1) every man who's ever met them runs a mile; 2) they're just attention-whoring because they have literally nothing interesting to say. The best way to meet fat women is just to proceed as you would with any woman: just go out and approach them in real life, or you could try a conventional dating app. It's very unlikely you'll meet some who's into gaining, but you could get lucky with a fat girl who's comfortable in their skin and doesn't mind if they gain "accidentally." Just for crying out loud, don't be sucked in by the whores and retards screaming for attention on the internet.

OP, most guys on here aren't dating feedees, their just meeting regular fat women whom you could meet and talk to like any other girl. My current girlfriend weighed 230lbs when I met her, now she weighs 315lbs after a couple of years. She isn't a feedee but doesn't really have an issue with her size and even embraces it because she is very into the body positivity stuff online. She lets me grab her belly when we have sex, buy her all kinds of food etc. Just date a normal fat woman and if she's a feedee great, if not just find one who has some confidence in her size. >>76169 If you genuinely believe one of these models when they say that "no man wants me," "my ex broke up with me because he said I was too fat" etc then you are incredibly gullible. They are just saying these things to get your attention so that you spend money on them.

>>76183 Exactly, just go around in real life, join a social group, church, or hangout and find one. The goal is to treat her like a human first and just be polite and be yourself. True I haven't found anyone to date, but doing this has helped me gain some confidence at least. Plus it's fun talking to women once you realize most of them are decent and you don't take the interactions too seriously.

I hate basically being a hikki so much, especially since I feel that I wouldn't even do too badly with women. My interests are incredibly solitary

>>76168 Id get chunky for my future husband but he would have to be a skelly and financially stable so I can be a SAHM/house wife

>>76168 Be black. >b-b-but I'm a shrimp dicked white cuckold! Tough.

Online dating. Idk whats popular now, last time I used anything was like 5 years ago. Tinder always worked the best for me. Had a roommate who did better on bumble. I guess hinge is good nowadays bc it shows you more fatties if you like a lot of fatties. But online dating is a super easy way to meet fat chicks because if you just matchbwith then and talk to them like people, youre doing better than 95% of the competition.

Imagine thinking anyone on BBWCHAN actually has a partner.

>>76168 Partner 1: IRL, through mutual friends Partner 2: On a regular dating site Partner 3: On a plus-size dating site

>>76300 Would you mind sharing which dating sites you used? Oh, and also maybe some that did not work out so well...? Thanks!

Easier said than done. It's not just getting the fatty but how you get her. If you don't feel so great about yourself and attracting girls, you're going to be happy with the first one that gives you a chance. It is hard these days no doubt. However, you don't want the pain of a relationship. You want the joy. Getting her to "let you" be with her will result in tremendous pain from my experience. Perhaps you'll be luckier but I recommend focusing on increasing your status the best you can. You don't have to wait to be accomplished but at least feel on track. A real good gf will see and appreciate that and that's what you want. Otherwise, you will be criticized, challenged etc and at worst used for whatever a girl thinks your worth. It's hard enough so if you focus inward, get yourself going and then put yourself out there, you'll attract a better woman for you. Best of luck!

Feabie (years ago though), Woo Plus, Craiglist (waaay back in the day), Snapchat, TikTok, being able to have conversation showing genuine interest. Being their type helps too for sure. Focus again more on being your best self and choose the girls who share good chemistry and you'll have confidence asking them out, taking them out etc. Share your interests, post food pics on snapchat and see the foodees and hopefully a feedee respond...Best!

>>76322 We have the original Trump admin to thank for the murder of the Craigslist personal section.

>>76183 How did you and her actually meet?

I'm dating myself here, but OKCupid. It took quite a few misses for things to work out, but bad dates are just practice in hindsight. Dating only worked out for me after I came to terms with the fact that I was going to be open about my preferences (got over my personal hang-ups with being out and about with 300+ lb women as a 160ish lb gym built guy) and got over other confidence issues I had at the time.

>>76321 To this point I'd say that a good first step is just getting out and talking to people in general. Doing volunteer work was a good confidence builder for me. I definitely had better luck dating when I didn't hate myself.

try feabie

Ducking useless thread, probably because no one on this site actually gets any dates.

>>76391 My opinion is probably out of date, as I haven't been single or on a dating site in 10+ years but OkCupid is where I had most success back in the day. I was very honest about my preferences for big gals on my profile, but without going into fetish territory. I've had 3 long term relationships out of that site over the years, all with ladies in the 250lb - 350lb range.

>>76186 Fuck my schizoid chungus life

The more you get out there and meet people in general the better chances you’ll have of course… but… We forget how heterodox this whole fetish is It’s entirely possible to meet 10 women and not have a single one be receptive to gaining a pound let alone indulging in feedism for you, in fact most will be disgusted by the idea of it If you really require them to have a kink for it then it’s safest to either look on feabie (though it’s a cesspit these days) or be upfront about your preferences immediately so you don’t waste time and energy Either way it’s a tough row to hoe

>>76168 Unless you live in America, not happening The American lifestyle seems to enable people to move from state to state fairly easily, it seems to be fairly easy to rent and buy a house, and it's also the only place that really has feedees I cannot, for me to move is genuinely a huge effort. It would require uprooting my life in such a way that I'm just not prepared to do, as well as years of effort to become qualified in a field relevant in another country. I'm not a weird terminally online retard either, I'm not going to build a parasocial online relationship with someone who is probably seeing other people I have to drive a day just to leave my state. There are 2 feedees where I live and Ive shot my shit with both. One of them is an insane middle eastern conservative, and the other is a woman in her 50s who gets off on cheating on her partner. I can speak to others in Australia too, yeah they may have a few more people to talk to in general but the chances of actually getting one? Don't bother.

I'd say tinder is best simply because the sheer number of users. Out of 8 girls that sent me likes first, 7 were overweight. Most weren't even ugly. It almost feels like it has something with algorithms because on other apps I'm receiving plenty of likes from thin ugly girls or other non-conventionally attractive users but that doesn't seem to happen on tinder.

>>76897 Think it's not so much about the algo but the country. I travel a lot and there are countries in which every second girl on tinder is a fatty. In my country just the opposite. Like literally 0 fatties on tinder and other dating apps.

>>76899 But the thing is that on other apps I've tried I dont seem to have any bigger likelihood of receiving likes from big girls. It's probably just a coincidence however. In my experience the amount of big girls on dating apps vary massively from country to county in Europe, even though there aren't that massive differences statistically. Dating apps in NL were completely useless for example.

>>76171 Do you have any advice for FB dating? I can back up that there's a plethora of fat chicks on their, but I can barely get any of my matches to message more than 3 times in a week. I kinda feel like I should quickly jump to asking them put to drink/coffee at this point

By being a passport bro, unironically. If you can afford/have the time for it, get out of the USA. El Salvador is a gold mine

>>76899 Same here brother

>>76303 They were both local sites that don't exist anymore