Hello people, in a situation and i dont know what cards to play tbh. I need somone to be my jiminy cricket. Recently met and have been talking to a local girl i met off of feabie, we havent met in person yet but weve been texting frequently, calling every night, and plan to meet up very soon. For hindsight, shes over 400 pounds and just VERY recently found out about feedism and has some interest in the kink but it doesn't come to her naturally. Im the first feeder shes ever really engaged wirh and she is frequently still unbelieving that i actually like fat girls lmao. Shes just shy or whatever and wants to take it slow so obv im going along with that whatever. Shes sweet, and has a nice personality but to be entirely honest, aside from some similar video game interests, were like polar opposites. Shes about to be 26, (im younger) shes unemployed and still lives with her parents. Her everyday consists of her waking up at 2-3pm, then just playing video games or mozing around in her pajamas. This is really fucking hot to me, but on one end, the moral implications start to sit in. Because as we get to know eachother more, shes been sharing her childhood traumas and her health conditions etc, basically the reason she is a huge shut in. My brain is telling me im horrible for enabling her to get fatter and maybe take advantage of the situation shes in? Im not doing it on purpose but i cant help but think it to be manipulative to sort of.. keep her where she is? If that makes sense? Ive never been with a feedee and ive wanted to my entire life. This girls appetite is fucking INHUMAN and this is her not even trying. Shes showed interest in gaining but like, this is wrong if i continue to engage right? Idk