>>80470 >What is it with you people and this obsession with consent?

>>80470 You sounds like a creep and an idiot. I literally can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not.

>>80429 >but I would like her to at least value my opinion sufficiently that it offsets all the crap others have given her about her weight, and at a minimum in our bedroom if not elsewhere. If you lived on a deserted island, she would probably not mind, but now she has to go out of the safe haven to go to work, visit friends and family, go to the store etc. As FAs, we only see the beauty of fat, but we have not lived in a fat body and have not grown up fat, so it is diffcult to understand what that fatphobia does to someone. My wife also knows and loves that I love her big body, but I keep my fantasies in check. Sometimes I just want to say how big and fat she looks, but I don't because I know she cannot see it as a compliment. She also wants to loose some weight. She is down from 330 to 285 already and wants to loose some more but assures me she never will be skinny. In my ideal world she would be much bigger, but I try to enjoy what I have, and I don't worry about the weight loss because there is still some margin for her to loose some weight and there still be enough for me.

>>80376 Yo chill 😭😭 im the dude who posted that. Not that it was solicited, but we just met up recently for the first time and thought that id maybe come back to update for anyone who cares. TL;DR: she is a walking weight gain deviantart story and ill prob be breaking things off soon because i cannot deal with the guilt or resist the urge to enable her. Ik im shitty im dealing with it. So, our first "date" was to go see avatar fire and ash per her request. She really insisted on this because she said shes been wanting to see the movie but to be honest, i could tell she just wanted an activity where we were in the dark and didnt have to talk or look at eachother the whole time because shes shy. Didnt bother me to be honest i love the movies. When i go to pick her up, i ring the doorbell and her grandma opens the door (owner of the house) we meet and have small talk and then she tells me that shes waiting for me in the living room. When i go to finally meet her im actually fucking shocked. Shes fucking enormous i couldn't believe my eyes. She told me she was 405 but there was just 0 way. After some small talk we got in the car. I drive an SUV and i had made sure the passenger seat was as far back as possible before i picked her up. Still wasnt enough room and i could tell she was cramped. Shes genuinely heaving out of breath and sweaty just from this short walk and maneuver. Then asks if i had a seatbelt extender and when i said no she said she was too lazy to get hers from her car and that we can just go without it. Fumble on my part i know. Im in fucking awe. I genuinely could not believe this was real life. Otw to the movies she tells me that shes sorry and she lied about her weight because she was afraid tbat if she was too big she would scare me away and admitted that shes actually pushing 490ish. Of course i expressed that it was all a good thing lmao. Anyway, were talking but the entire time i can tell shes super nervous and insecure and constantly trying to hide her stomach with her hoodie and shit yadda yadda. She doesn't get out much. We got to the movies and before i could park she had me drop her off at the door because she said walking too much would make her sweaty. Adorable. Anyway, i implore her to order whatever shr wants from ghe concession stand. 2 beers, large caramel popcorn, mozzarella sticks and m&ms. We make it to the theater and its completely EMPTY, we were the only 2 in there. Shes completely overflowing in the seat next to me pounding back the concessions while we have casual conversation since nobody else was there. After it was over, i pulled the car around, and then she very reluctantly asked if she could actually sit in the back seat for space reasons because she was uncomfortable on the drive over. To be honest, this put me off at first. Idk, we were kind of on a date and just starting to really warm up with eachother and then i was gonna like, uber her. But ofc i accommodated and said yes. But to be honest? It ended up being kinda fucking hot. We still had great conversation. She was a little tipsy and hungry so we went to a steak n shake. She orders huge and was telling me that we can eat the food when we get back to her place. I hand her the food in the back, we start driving back. Im talking to her, then i start to realize that shes picking at a fry or 2. Then more. Then taking the carton out of the bag and eating it. Then its gone. Its like she didnt even realize it?? She then apologizes for eating in my car, when i told her it was 100% okay, she said "okay!" And then finished literally everything else before we even got back. We smoked a joint, talked some more, and really got to know eachother. But even after all this, she still tells me that she sincerely does want to get thin for her health but "isnt motivated right now" and "wants to have fun" but like. This is a slippery fucking slope?? You dont start having fun at nearly 500 idk 😭 her weight is literally the turn back before its too late red flag. And as much as i want to be with her i just dont know if i can win the battle of brain vs dick. I dont want to fuckup this girls life. I feel awful enough already but we genuinely did have an amazing time. Havent done anything yet but well see what happens

>>81017 Also, i had never hugged a girl that i couldnt fully wrap my arms around. That shit hit like a fucking drug. I got a rush like crack you guys have no idea. God bless obesity

>>81017 You need to think about whether her losing weight would make you hate the relationship. If she would lose the weight but you would still want to be with her, than just stay with her and help her lose the weight. Otherwise, just break it off in a way that's as close to "normal person breaking off" as you can manage. You really don't need to go all in on enabling her gain, just like you don't need to go all in on hardcore weight loss. She "she sincerely does want to get thin for her health", so ask her when she would want to do that. Once she wants to do it, just do light shit like swimming or walking, if you want to be with her enough buy her a treadmill/walking pad so she can walk and still be a neet. Same in the other direction, you don't need to be giving her 20,000 calories a day, just keep getting her the food she was getting anyway. You never elaborated on how much she can eat re: "This girls appetite is fucking INHUMAN and this is her not even trying.", (I still want you to elaborate) but no matter how much she can eat, if you both start to care about her weight you can have her just switch out some food for healthier alternatives to eat alongside her main meals, just for starters. I think you really just have to ask her more questions dude, what weight does she want to be for her health? Does she kinda know when she's gonna want to start? How much effort is she willing to put into it? And you gotta ask yourself some questions, because you pretty clearly think "If I'm not her angelic weight loss savior I'm the devil from the bible", when you can realistically be somewhere in the middle, step up when the time calls and don't when it doesn't. If you think the time should call sooner than make it, if not don't.

>>81020 Yeahhh youre honestly completely right man. Tbh, i really did have a great time and ive been thinking more and more about just manning the fuck up and doing the right thing. Which is essentially what you said. Sucking it up and supporting her on either side of the spectrum etc. Also, you wanted me to elaborate on her appetite. I can talk about that rq. Leading up to us meeting i had been pretty frequently buying her meals and restocking her snack drawer in her room (all per her request). At first she was really bashful about it but once we warmed up she was pretty much asking me everyday. Typical meal for her is like 45-60 dollars depending where its from. For some examples, i remember one meal she ordered was from a Japanese place. She got 6 rolls of sushi, 20 teriyaki wings, a miso soup and 2 slices of fried cheesecake. This is like, normal filling meal for her. One night we were up all night playing games together vis discord. I ordered her a pizza and cheese bread around 12:45ish-1am, then around 3-4am she was sheepishly hinting that she was hungry and asking if she could maybe get something else. McDonald's. 2 double cheese, 2 mcchickens, 40 piece nugget, large fry, drink, and 4 pies. Then she falls asleep on mic almost immediately after and snores. Like this is my fucking dream girl?? 😭 i hate being so conflicted about this relationship because this is EVERYTHING my 14 year old brain was wanting. Idk, those were 2 instances off the top of my head but tbh ive fed her online so many times atp they blur together. Really waiting for the IRL feeding opportunity ngl. Thats gonna be my lebron moment fr

>>81017 Nah you're fumbling the bag. Your story comes off that you aren't prepared to date obese women. This is a feedee in the making who is so close to 500lbs. Let her be with a real feeder if you can't understand and be prepared to date ssbbw's. Always always have a car large enough and a seatbelt extender.

>>81044 Well he said he's never hugged a girl he couldn't fully wrap his arms around, this was his first time dating obese women. You can prepare as much as you want beforehand, but you're also allowed to learn as you go. He can buy an extender now. The backseat is fine for someone he just met, and if he wants to upgrade the relationship he can upgrade the car when he pleases. Not everyone is born with the knowledge of ssbbw dating, everyone's got a first time and he can learn as he goes. Besides she "VERY recently found out about feedism". This is two people new to the life experiences that they're participating in. If he can get through this without abusing her, moderation and all that, it'll be fine, and we'll get some fun stories out of it.

>>81045 Thank you for defending me glorious anon. I couldn't agree more. I literally already ordered a seatbelt extender on amazon and plan to come way more prepared for our next hang. This was a first time for me, im only 21 and have barely been in any relationships, let alone a feedist centric. Im super stoked tho. I think im gonna see where things go with her. Were going on another date tomorrow before i have to leave for a trip. I have tons of pics of her and of meals shes fucked up and other things, i just would ultimately feel the lowest level of shitty on here sharing those types of things lmfao

>>81053 Hell yeah, don't share any pics of her without her consent (and probably don't ask for a looong while). Pictures of her food, probably wait a long time and still probably ask consent. Hope the next date goes well.

>>81045 Sorry, but you cannot say that just because it was the first time he couldn't fully wrap his arms around a woman that it was his first time dating an obese woman. You have to be pretty huge to be that big - my wife is a 350+ lb pear, and the only place I even come close to that is her hips/belly, and even there I can touch fingers. I've only ever gone out with a woman like that once, and I have dated plenty of obese women in my time, so that is a ridiculous metric to say he never dated one before. And to OP, I gotta say that is a pretty mature attitude for someone only 21. I would NEVER have felt conflicted like that if I had found someone who shared my proclivities - hell, after 28 years of generally happy marriage, I still sometimes feel like I wish I had found someone who was maybe a little slower and who was 400+ lbs already and/or who would have enjoyed getting fatter. Never underestimate the need to be turned on by your partner, even though women will try to tell you that loving "who they are" should be enough. So maybe keep trying with her and see how things go before making a decision on what you should do longer term? You might find you are not compatible and no matter how hot she is, you don't enjoy your time with her. But you might find that she is "the one" for more reasons than just her smoking hot bod, and then you can better determine what you need to do to make the relationship work.

>>81070 You're right, I should've said dating a woman *that* obese. And to >>81053 (who isn't actually the OP of the thread, just the main subject of conversation rn), wait until tomorrow's date and see how you feel about her, and maybe confer with us considering how conflicted you seem to be.

>>81053 This is sick you guys are as bad as those feeders preying on women with Down’s syndrome and stuff that makes them perfect feedees

>>81017 Honestly, as long as it’s two consenting adults, I’d say go have fun. Just because you *like* that she’s fat doesn’t mean you’re the reasons she’s fat. In all likelihood, someday they’ll have gone their separate ways and she’ll have lost tons of weight. I think it’s awesome they get to do all this exploration and have a good time while they’re young.

>>81081 Ehh, just got back from our second "date" and it wasnt as great as the first time idk. Wasnt a total bust, i had fun and it was definitely much warmer than last time but she just kept bringing up how she has been wanting to lose weight forever and she really wants to lose 100 pounds because her back kills her and she cant walk short distances without getting sweaty and out of breath etc. idk. I have a feeling shes been talking to her close friends about me and maybe even some of the feeder stuff and theyve been telling her that its a bad idea lol. She was kinda hinting at some convos or something. Might be over in that department. She kind of repeatedly told me that she wants me to actively help her diet and say no to her cravings because she has no self control and shes scared that being with someone like me will cause her to gain super rapidly. Idk. Conflicted about all this. Tbh i was a little crushed seeing how kinda adamant she was about it because last time (literally a few days ago) she seemed pretty open to at least "having some fun" with the feedist stuff. Im kinda at a crossroads. I do enjoy her personality, and we have good chemistry but im not in love by any means. Not yet at least, were still getting to know eachother. A really big part of me wanting to see her was because of her weight and like, i dont know 😭 a part of me wants to wait this out to see what actually happens and the other part wants to sort of let it fade out before im in too deep and kinda committed to like, reverse feeding her lmfaoo. I just wish she could see herself how i see her. Shes literally the most gorgeous woman ive ever laid eyes on. But she doesnt even have this kink. To her, fat is ugly and she sees herself as completely undesirable to any human being. Its like shes ruled out the possibility of someone ever finding her attractive in her life and has just given up. Its honestly really sad to me and it breaks my fucking heart. Every fucking birthday wish since i was 11 was for a girl EXACTLY like her to enter my life. She is 100% my type physically and we do get along very well on top of that. Idk guys. It might be over. Is there any world where i can show her that shes perfect exactly how she is or do i need to wrap up the delusion and circus act

>>81130 Also maybe it means nothing, but to follow this up, after i dropped her off at home she sent me a lengthy text apologizing if she came off as rude or abrupt in some moments and thanked me for taking her out and explained that she had a rough morning etc. idk. Could be the case but there was 100% truth behind the words

>>81130 Well, if you think you can have some fun with her in the meantime, why not. But don't go for helping her lose unless you truly love her for her and not her looks and you want to be with her, no matter what her body does. I don't think it would be bad though to be honest with her - assuming this is how you feel - and tell her that you love her the way she is and that you want to be with her, but you are not in the right place right now to start a relationship with someone who does not love herself and wants you to fix them. I fully understand how this sucks - I have been in several relationships with women whom I thought were gorgeous but who did not love themselves for various reason, but all hated that they were fat and could not accept that I thought they were beautiful. Believe me, it won't end well. Better to be honest even if that means ending a relationship now than trying to be something they want but that is totally not you just to keep the relationship going.

>>81142 Thanks man. Really insightful. I think the biggest thing im conflicted about is the constant mixed signals im getting from her. Like even after posting all this, just 5 mins ago she texted me asking if i can get her doordash because she wants to stuff her face??? Then when i brought up the weight loss shit she just kinda got kinda sheepish and said "ill start another day when im motivated" but like 😭 wtf do i do here?? Every feeder instinct in me is telling me to enable, but then another side of me just feels like shit because of what she was saying to me earlier. She obviously genuinely doesnt have any self control when it comes to food, and now the ball is in my court to play angel or devil. Fuck this man i might have to get out

My main concern in this situation honestly is the financials, ie that she's just using you as a meal ticket. You keep putting quotations around "date", why do you need to feel the need to do that? But assuming you make a decent salary and you're on board with that (it's kinda hot), then have at it. But you are clearly more interested in the morality of the situation. My 2 cents: she's gotten to this point without you, most likely because her family is full of enablers? She is not suddenly going to "be more motivated" unless they start taking drastic steps to cut her off financially. I feel like you owe it to yourself to enjoy the situation. As long as you're not forcing anything and encouraging quality food, the moral calculus seems very similar to some of the government programs that provide clean heroin to addicts.

>>81146 I totally get the frustration with the way the conversation went. Weight loss talk, especially so early in the relationship can be a total mood killer. If I were in your situation, I wouldn’t give up just yet. Since so many other things are lining up well, I would see how all this plays out. She’s never really been with someone like you, so she probably doesn’t really know how to quite feel about everything. A lifetime of people telling you that you’ll never be happy if you stay fat doesn’t just go away after a couple of nice dates. In terms of the morality, I definitely think you’re overthinking it. She’s going to be fat with or without you—but with you it actually might be fun.

>>81146 Honestly this message was the most revealing of her mindset and yours as well. She'll always want to lose the weight, she's concerned enough with it to want to hide her weight in the dark on her best days, and say that she wants to lose weight on her worse days. And yet, she's fine with not doing anything about it and knows that she's with someone (you) who will enable it. 1). She's always going to say the things she said on date #2, and date #1 shows that she really does believe it (wanting to have a movie date to be in the dark and not be looked at). 2). And yet she's always going to be addicted to food, and she's going to use you to sate that addiction. If 1). didn't exist and she had made peace with her addiction, whether as a feedist or not, indulging her addiction would be somewhat morally fine. It would be two consenting adults continuing a transactional relationship. But 1). does exist, she pretty clearly hates her body and wants to change it, but doesn't have the willpower to. Frankly, I think you should get out, because of one sentence you said: "another side of me just feels like shit because of what she was saying to me earlier". 2). shows that she's never going to stop saying these things, 1). shows that she earnestly believes all of it. You saying that this makes you feel like shit is a bad sign because it's not going to stop happening. This situation is going to continue for a long time unless you curb it right now, one way or the other; either by getting out, or enforcing that she takes the weight loss thing seriously. And really, you've only been on two dates with this woman, the second of which you didn't describe any of what was actually done in the date other than the parts that made you feel like shit, which was evidently all of it other than looking at her. If you this two dates, one of which was bad, is you knowing her enough to double down and help her lose weight, go right ahead, but as >>81070 said, "Never underestimate the need to be turned on by your partner". If you help her lose weight you stop being turned on by her as much, but if you don't you're constantly going to feel like shit because today and tonight are going to become regular cycles with her. Unlike you and nvr2fat I'm pretty bitchless, but I'd like to think anyone can figure out that "Damned if you do, damned if you don't" is a terrible saying to base a relationship on.

I'm just wondering how the hell you guys met, considering she doesn't leave the house by the sound of it

>>81171 Feabie, according to >>79629

>>79629 > Because as we get to know eachother more, shes been sharing her childhood traumas and her health conditions etc, basically the reason she is a huge shut in. Imagine finding a child rape victim and destroying her body to fit your fantasy. No better than that guy feeding his retarded wife to death.

Jesús Christ you guys, give the girl a chance. Anon said she was awesome to connect with generally and she’s got the body he’s been wishing for his entire adult life. They’re young and this is their first time doing anything like this. Let her find out if she can warm up to this type of relationship and let Anon get some experience with an SSBBW.

>>81146 Welcome to dating women! :D Seriously, though, fat women go through a lot because of their size. There is so much hatred thrown their way because they are fat, and someone who is supersized even more so. When they hear the message ever since they were a kid - not talking parents, though they can help screw things up to, but their peers at and outside school, as well as in social media - that fat is bad and they are ugly because they are fat, that it is hard for that message not to become ingrained with them. Did you get ever get the impression from her that she liked being fat and getting fatter? From what I could gather from what you said, it sounds more like she likes eating a lot and enjoyed you helping to finance that. Again, from what I am reading here - and I know that we don't see the full picture - she probably doesn't like being fat but doesn't care enough to do anything about it, but there still is an underlying desire to cave to society's pressure to lose weight. And if there is always that voice inside her head, there is nothing you can do about it, and you're going to have to deal with that as her real desire. You may luck out and she yo-yo diets her way to even bigger than she is now before she just gives up, or more likely, once she can afford it, she is going to go on semaglutide or do WLS because she feels too fat. Her doctor will frankly play a big part in this too: if she keeps getting the same message about how better she will feel and how much her health will improve if she just loses 50 lbs, then your voice will ultimately mean nothing and she'll decide to lose. Unless she is kinda slow and eager to please/afraid to lose you so that she is more inclined to be fat and happy with you than risk your relationship on getting thinner as she thinks she wants to be, her weight loss is always going to be out there somewhere. (And by "slow", I am not talking like this moron who keeps saying we want to fatten retards; I just mean someone who doesn't think too much about the consequences about what they are doing to their bodies long-term.) She may keep it buried deep inside and not talk about it, but at some point it will bubble up to the surface and become an issue. And honestly, someone that big at some point will have to face losing weight for medical reasons, whether it be joint pain or mobility issues or diabetes or high blood pressure or whatever. Humans just aren't made to be that big long-term. (I am not one who thinks that anyone 500 lbs is going to be dead within 2-3 years, and I am one who really loves USSBBWs, but I am also realistic enough that someone who reaches 500 lbs in their 20s and then never gets smaller is not going to have a really long life.) Now, one thing you have to weigh against this slow-burning desire to lose weight - and I am surprised nobody has raised the issue yet - is the probability of finding someone her size again. Unlike what some of the idiots here will say about how easy it is cause they could do it no problem, it is VERY difficult to find a woman who is in the 500 lb range. (Even more so at your age.) And don't expect to find a 300 lb woman who is going to be fine gaining up to that size or that this will happen "naturally". There just are not very many of them out there. And to find one with the self-confidence to not care about her size (as opposed to one, like your gf, who seems to have been beaten-down by all the negativity and bought into it) or who actually loves it/loves gaining? That is like expecting to find a unicorn. So pretty much any 500 lb woman is going to be like this woman you are dating, and it's going to be a crapshoot whether/when they will start losing. (And unlike say someone in the 300s, they really will need to do so at some point for their health/mobility.) You really should give this more time and try to make it work, or at least see if it will. You may find she gives up on trying to lose and accepts who she is and enjoys eating, and you'll enjoy some great times together until she decides to start losing. Or you may find that not too long it becomes a deal-breaker and you can no longer stand the self-pity and drama (or possibly she is a very weak personality, since she seems to want you to help get her to lose cause she cannot do it by herself, which can be a turn-off). I just hope we'll get to continue to hear your story and maybe at some point get a pic of you two.

>>81191 yea no this thread is a reminder for me not to let this retarded fetish control my life these dudes are insane

>>81202 >>81204 Men on this site literally coach each other into poaching young women off the short bus or in doctors offices. They call it the “retard pill” and blame feminism for their inability to score non-disabled women they can control.

>>81130 >I have a feeling shes been talking to her close friends about me and maybe even some of the feeder stuff and theyve been telling her that its a bad idea lol. Judging by her change in manner on your second date I'd say she has discussed it with someone. There's some great advice in this thread, I'm shocked it hasn't gone the other way. For what it's worth, I'd cool it with the feeder stuff and concentrate on the relationship and getting intimate. The relationship you have now is basically transactional, you're buying her food and getting a casual girlfriend type vibe from her through digital contact and a couple of dates, that you referred to as a "date". Find an actual relationship out of what's currently there, it sounds like there could be, just steer it away from the feeder/feedee set up you currently have, cos she's not really onboard with it. She'll still stay incredibly fat. At nearly 500lbs, if she loses 50lbs it isn't gonna make any real difference to you, and as you haven't had any sexual encounters with her you've nothing to base it on. At this minute in time tho you're a free meal ticket and her muse. Get something more out of your situation, cos this isn't a relationship the way it stands. Hope you haven't gone in too high. I had a few 500lbs flings 20 years ago (500lbs is fucking rare in the uk even now), and it was hard sizing down, I basically stopped even trying to date after the 2nd girl as the fatness had rotted my brain for a while. Whatever you do, enjoy, you're 21, there'll be plenty of other fat girls out there if she isn't the one, but for yourself, get more out of your current situation or get out and plough the field. Best of fucking luck to you man.

>>81191 Dude jumped straight to childhood rape. “Childhood trauma” could just as easily be parents getting divorced or a brother getting paralyzed in a car accident. Sometimes I can’t tell if dudes here like being as judgmental about women’s weight for sport or if they’re actually just as ignorantly self-righteous as a local Karen.

>>81210 Exactly. I suspect they're typing with one hand and jacking off in the other hand. There are some sick little puppies about on this place that have never so much as put a hand on a pair of tits since the fat teenage girl from next door used to babysit them as kids.

>>81210 Virgin incel comment. Totally common for rape victim to pack on the pounds out of ptsd and an attempt to be too ugly to rape. I’ve gotten with my fair share of models and women in the scene. It’s so common. (I mean this is the thread where the guy doxxed his gf while soliciting advice on tampering with her medicine to sabotage weight loss in a hyper obese person?)

>>81218 It's also common for kids of divorced parents and people who's loved ones got paralyzed to stress eat, because that's how trauma works. There's no reason to off rip assume it's specifically childhood rape. And the thread's OP didn't dox his wife, just both of their faces, which was foolish but not malicious. And he didn't do anything to his wife's meds, just told us it was something he was thinking of doing, and proceeded to not do once people with cooler heads told him off. You seem pretty aggro in this thread, but you gotta believe that people can change and be better than their worst day.

>>81223 What is it with you MAGA FAGGOTD and down playing child rape?

>>81230 Kisame here, MAGA is obsessed with the war. I think we're post Charlie Kirk, Tucker Carlson. I watch Fox News.

>>81230 It's because undereducated Americans never learn critical thinking skills, so they interpret their own cognitive dissonance/ learning new information that changes their opinions/outlooks is a negative thing, so they engage in this cult-worship behavior and double-down, even when it means supporting someone who was a proven pedophile, rapist, conman, and liar well before the Epstein files proved it quite literally thousands of times over. Again. That, or they'll lazily just lean on the fact that conservatives have co-opted Christianity, despite the large majority of them exhibiting the antithesis of Jesus' teachings (going back to their whole 'lack of critical thinking' above). I just hope they eventually learn it's not about right vs. left, their squabbles & fears are all fabricated social issues whose flames are fanned by corporate-owned media channels. Trans people, immigrants, queer people, and 'wokeness' are all paper tigers they've made to distract their target audience from the fact that their own government is run by corrupt pedophiles (or, pedophile apologists) that are robbing them, their communities, and their children's futures for their own monetary gains. Republicans AND Democrats. MAGA isn't a disease, it's a late-stage symptom of an entire government that prioritizes corporate & foreign interests over the lives of the people it governs, and it's not even particularly good at hiding that fact. This is precisely why the country is becoming more and more of an AI-powered surveillance state pointed at its own citizens; because of their own carelessness, we're the closest we've ever been to class consciousness... and they're terrified.

>>81236 I am far right Kisame and I don't have time to read this monologues. I hold down a part time job as a fry cook. I don't know why people keep going in a screed. It's Tuesday learn to chill

>>81236 >That, or they'll lazily just lean on the fact that conservatives have co-opted Christianity, despite the large majority of them exhibiting the antithesis of Jesus' teachings (going back to their whole 'lack of critical thinking' above). The prevalence of religion in these communities cannot be overstated. It's not simply a belief system, it's EVERYTHING. It's community, it's authority, it's conformity. Even among the people who "aren't religious, but spiritual", they won't give up all the baggage that comes with Christianity. It's pervaded their families and communities. And the kicker? Their church and figureheads have told them Democrats are wrong. They're evil. They're scum and unsafe and they're coming for everything you have. Reasonable people know they're not, hell Christianity isn't a voting block. But to go against their families, their church, their communities? May as well go against God. It's a huge cult in terms of conformity and you aren't allowed to question it or bring reason into the conversation. The problem they can't shake is Donald Trump is the furthest thing from Christ-like but he's the head of the Republican party and Jesus is a Republican. So you get to live with the cognitive dissonance and hear them spout absolute insanity trying to justify the Republican agenda against the Bible. It'd be hilarious if it wasn't horrifying.

>>81238 I go to church and it's rising among zoomers who think the city is a scary and lonely place..l

>>81238 I don't know why people are having this discussion of politics on a fetish board. I thought Paxton got kicked out of the primary along with MTG cause they don't want to bomb Iran

Jesus fucking christ i step away from the board and mfs are talking about childhood rape?? Wtf did i say that hinted that 😭😭 she just had a deadbeat dad and her mom died very young so shes lived with her grandparents her whole life and they dont get along, amongst some other things. Holy fuck some of you guys are rotted. As for the people who gave kind and genuinely reasonable advice, thank you! Were working things out slowly but surely. Im easing up on my feeder pedal (or trying my hardest) because we genuinely do just get along rlly well. I think we have great chemistry. And this is gonna sound shallow as fuck of me but even if she absolutely stays adamant about not participating in feedism shit, id still rather be fucking a fat girl whose not into it than a thin girl whose not into it lmao. Someone here made a comment about how im getting in the game at too high a weight and im not gonna be able to go thinner after we break up because the fat will corrupt my brain lmfaoo. I thought that was funny. Also someone else asked to post pics of us. Funny enough, im not super thin myself. Im like 270 pounds, but standing next to her actually makes me look like a fucking twig 😭 its kind of hot. I rlly wanna post pics of us or her but i think thats crossing a line morally that will eat me up inside. Because i know some of you fuckers are gonna be wacking your shit to my girl and i genuinely dont even blame you. Pushing 500 at 25 is deadass like finding a unicorn like someone said. She also dresses like fucking morticia im actually obsessed. She is the type of girl i made birthday wishes about when i was 10. Anyway, nuff said about that. Well go on more dates, and were taking a trip upstate in may together. Soooo, ill update if i feel like theres something to update, but thank you all for your insight and help thus far. Definitely found things worth value in this thread. Wasnt expecting such a huge amount of people to respond Additionally, i said "date" in quotations because it was really just us taking my dog to the dog park and then getting ice cream after. Idk, more of a hangout imo but i could see people calling it a date. Also you gotta be the lowest level of retard to spew your unwanted political views on a fat fetish board

>>81207 >There's some great advice in this thread, I'm shocked it hasn't gone the other way. I jinxed the fucking thread, completely derailed! To the guy who hijacked asking for advice, read the better advice given and find where you sit in all of this. If it ain't going anywhere, go somewhere else. Don't waste a summer in your 20s, the grass is greener elsewhere for a good few years if you want it

Eh fuck it. Snapped this pic when we were at the movies the other day. Literally cant see her face or anything of notoriety soo like whatever lmao. Shes fucking huge. Overflowing out of those recliners. What a babe

>>81268 Cool you commented again. Yeah, that was me, re fat rot. Maybe hyper size escalation sounds better. Basically the fatter they are, the fatter you want, lost track of the 2nd B in SSBBW. It's kind of porn addiction but fat infactuation. FWIW, UK FA approved. Enjoy

>>81268 Is she the one with the deadbeat dad who touched her when she was young? Nice score either way.

>>81272 Shes never even met her dad mate but whatever u gotta tell yourself to get off ig

>>81276 Sorry man. I can’t keep track if your tragic lolcow was touched by her dad for grandpa. Any advice on finding women with these kinds of emotional issues? She sounds like the submissive feedee jackpot and will do anything for attention.

>>81272 >>81279 Yeah, keep your weird ass incest fantasies off this board. You all already ruined /elite 🤮

>>81313 How come everyone on this board has an emotionally fragile socially isolated mentally challenged woman they get to feed past the point of no return. A lot of us are freakin jealous.