>>78805 Gfs of mine like to stalk my exes, and they start to notice patterns.

Quite a few times: My friends once saw my search history when we were in high school. The term “big fat blueberry woman” came up. Forgot to close out of shit after a morning wank. I opened up my browser on my phone during a game of D&D, full volume, “Do you like this fat belly, daddy?” Could not fucking make that timing up. >.< A girl I dated briefly in HS texted me and exclaimed that she had lost 5 lbs, and I instinctively responded with “that sucks, are you okay?”

>>81771 So, uh, was your gf a fatty?

>>81770 I'm afraid she will tell her friends or sister about it and the information will spread, they share everything with each other

My wife got pretty upset with me about the amount of candy and fast food I give her/our kids and she asked me if I want them “obese like she used to be” (wls) and I nodded yes pretty hard before saying “no”. 100% conflicting.

>>81798 Don't push this shit on your kids, dude. If you want a fat wife, that's one thing, but don't fuck up your kids' health and futures.

>>81793 why do you care about that?

>>81775 >“big fat blueberry woman” Blueberries are NOT fat, Oompa!

>>81798 LARP

>>81806 Debatable. Lol 😂

>>81802 > Don't push this shit on your kids, dude. If you want a fat wife, that's one thing, but don't fuck up your kids' health and futures. Dude frankly it’s none of your business what a sovereign citizen does in his own home.

>>81802 Also nothings being forced on anyone. Where did it say I was force feeding children or whatever neckbeard fantasies you’lr projecting.

>>81798 > “obese like she used to be” (wls) You marry some desiccated old uptight Becky and don’t be surprised when the sex stops and she gets WLS as a fuck you to the marriage after having kids. Totally get the frustration. >>81839 He’s out of line. He had a point but he’s going about it in a completely cow knuckled manner.

>>81839 You outright admitted to deliberately bringing a ton of candy and fast food into your house and giving it to not just your wife, but your children as well, so much so that your wife is concerned and angry enough to bring it up. I won't even address the "sovereign citizen" drivel, because that kind of retardation speaks for itself. You're the one with the degenerate fantasies if you're allowing it to override your responsibilities as a father by letting your children get caught in the crossfire of trying to get your wife to gain. >>81847 Out of line for calling out how gross it is that he's allowing his desire for a fatter wife to bleed over to other parts of his life and affect his children? He literally admitted to pushing the unhealthy food on his family to such an extent that his wife is angry with him about it. How is that "cow knuckled?" How would you have done it? What else is there to say other than not letting his sexual desires for his wife affect his children in ANY capacity?

>>81798 >>81839 >Sovereign citizen I love it when retards just out themselves willingly

>>81850 >>81852 You have no idea what it’s like to be married. Bet you’ve never touched a woman.

>>81854 A bunch of clowns who’ve no idea what it’s like to be married or a parent think they have valuable input to add.

I think I’ve told every single one of my friends that I like curvy girls. I’ve even told my female friends, lol. I think the only person I didn’t tell was my dad, who didn’t like overweight women and preferred skinny women, and who said that being overweight is a disease. The only thing I ever told him was that I like women with big breasts, which he doesn’t like either.

>>78805 What if it wasn't accidental and the gay porn actually was relevant to the project

i accidentally did. i was showing him something else and accidentally swiped, though we don't really mention it in front of the others since he also accidentally showed me vore porn by accident lol

Decided to watch a pirated film with my younger brother. Made the mistake of plugging my laptop into the TV before opening the screen. Never did that again.

>>82000 ROFL!! That has got to be one of the funniest posts.

>>82000 I gotta ask. How big are we talking, and have you corrupted your younger brother? I sort of outed myself 25 years ago when I was 21. I was away with friends and a group of girls were in a bar, one noticeably fatter than the rest. We'd seen them a few times and one night some fucking young dumb fucks were giving her little verbal digs. I went over and made a thing for them all, asked them how their holiday was going etc, when of course the 400lbs woman wasy preference. Ended up having a bit of a holiday fling with her. I was pretty surprised by my friends lack of response, they knew all my exes were chubby busty girls, regular fat if you like, but this girl was 400lbs. A massive exaggerated equivalent of what I was into. That was a good week. One of only a few who really liked their body and eating.

>>82009 It's funny how people notice things that you don't think they do. Or that they don't say anything: like, my friends when I was younger must have noticed that the women I was interested in were mostly fat (though I had the odd gf who was not, though that was just casual/short term). What really made me realize this is that at home, I don't talk about my preferences when the kids are around. They must know that I found their mother hot, but I always figured they would think it was because we were married and I love her, not because I love very fat women. I am careful with my porn viewing, but maybe not careful enough? I don't recall how it came up, but we were talking about things I like/things I would want, and my younger son suggested I loved very fat women. He wasn't wrong - and we did not discuss this further - but I was really surprised he knew that about me.

>>81854 That actually seems like a less pathetic situation than not having told your fat wife that you like fatties.

I had an accident and was in hospital and my girlfriend looked through my phone to try and find my travel insurance letter. She came to visit me after my operation and said she saw loads of bbw/ssbbw porn

>>82020 My wife’s was fat when we met. She’s since gotten WLS because my insurance is good. I’m not unhappy about it but glad I never told her about my personal preferences. That’s have only made it worse.

>>82031 So you had a fat partner and never got to really enjoy it, never got to do any kink stuff around it, always had to tread lightly and hide your preferences. Great, sounds awesome. I think I'd honestly rather be a virgin than live with that much self-denial and, presumably, shame.

>>82027 And it was never mentioned again?

>>82088 Two things: • It can be really difficult to confess these things to a fat woman you care about. Not because you're ashamed of being an FA, but because fat women tend to have major body issues and admitting you're attracted to them for their fat is a constant reminder they're fat, which they don't like. Unfair but that's life. Even women who are ultra body positive and all that really don't like being fetishized. Bottom line is that you don't want to risk fucking up the relationship with your kinks by being too honest up front. Best to wait until you've built up a certain amount of trust. But more power to you if you do find that fat babe who's cool with her body and down with FA fetishes where she enjoys them herself. I'm sure they exist but there aren't many of them so most of us have to "settle". • Relationships aren't all about sex. In fact it recedes quite a bit as a priority as years go by. Imagine this, in terms of the dude you're dragging: He's physically attracted to the fat version of his future wife (and hopefully other things as well). He falls in love, gets married, and suddenly it becomes more about her happiness than being his perfect fuck doll. In terms of marriage or LTRs I'd rather be with a happy human skeleton than an unhappy 500 pounder. Thankfully it's not usually that stark of a choice.

>>82101 Yeah, like, unless you hit the jackpot.... Basically every fat girl you date is gonna take like 8 months or more to stop thinking you're just prankkng her and are actually into her. Embracing your sexuality as a sexually traumatized person isn't easy. And it's not easy for the girls that are actually fully into it either. Ever wish you weren't an FA? Of course you do. Now imagine if you were actually fat and also get to that natural state of mind where you're annoyed about not being able to just be a normal person. At least we can walk around without the burden of literally ALWAYS being fat.

>>82101 This isn't my experience at all. I'm always very up front, have been in three (one ongoing) long-term relationships with fat women who were at least at peace with their bodies, and were happy for me to enjoy them and to indulge me with feedism play, and have had sex with quite a few more. I only date in the 200-300lb range or so, and probably that's the differentiating factor. But damn, I wouldn't give up fat sex and at least light feedism play, or accept being closeted like that, for anything. It'd be so incredibly unsatisfying that I'd probably rather just be single.

>>82101 You're not wrong. I have been an FA as long as I have had any sexual interests, though started off as wanting chubby/big tits and through the years wanted fatter and fatter, with less interest in tits and more in hips/thighs/calves. And certainly at first, I had a hard time admitting even to myself that I was attracted to the women society told me were unattractive. But gradually I got more self-confident and was honest with both myself and my potential partner. There really is no point hiding it, because if you want to find a woman you want to be with long-term and she should be fat, it is a mistake to try to sweep what you like under the rug. You need to have that conversation at some point, cause you need to know if you are both on the same page. Again, through experience I learned that there was no point wishing someone would stop hating themselves and come to accept themselves for you. I had a few very hot relationships where my gf hated being fat, and it really is horrible when you have to hide who you are just to please them. That is a recipe for long term disaster, so guys really need to be honest and broach this subject. But be gentle in introducing it - wait a while until it is clear she likes you, and when you have that conversation, I would not start off by telling a 300 lb beauty that you love 600 lb hotties and hope she will become one one day, but ease into the conversation more gently and talk about - in a non-creepy way! - about what you find attractive about her. But if you absolutely won't be in a relationship with a woman who is under 500 lbs, you also should be honest about that at some point, even if the relationship ends because of that. (And if that is the case, it would end at some point or you would be in for a lifetime of misery.) I feel different than you about LTR - I want a fat and happy wife. But I also love my wife and realized that at some point she would have to lose; it just came sooner and happened more abruptly than I expected (and there are other issues at play here, like lack of trust that her weight loss is incidental and not a goal). And I never got the 500 lb woman I always wanted, though I knew that was going to never happen and it was only a dream. (Though if we suddenly went back to our 20s today and could start all over, I don't think I would have ended up with her because there is so much more to chose from in 400-500 lb women in their 20s and early 30s that just did not exist back in the 90's.) And you are also right that sex does not happen as much - previously because her lack of sex drive really cut back, and now because I cannot perform as much and I don't find her physically attractive anymore. But man, I love a fat woman and used to showed it to my wife, cause enjoying her fat body is about more than just sex. And that I miss.

>>78805 I've never not been "out." Shame is for the feeble.

OP here to say it’s great (not really) to have this devolve into yet another “oh woe is me I like fat chicks” thread. But really the -fat- part is secondary. I meant to share stories about getting caught being into what is — let’s face it — an unusual preference. There’s no specific shame in it, could be feet or heavy BDSM. It’s a big world. Just that this happens to be bbwchan.

>>82516 I’m pretty open about being into fat chicks. I thought this topic was more about being caught with BBW/SSBBW content — which is a whole different story

>>78805 >>78805 Once I was in college and for the first time in the entire semester so poor guy decided to sit next to me. I open my laptop and a woman laying on her side is on my screen in a bikini. His eyes were so wide and it was so hard to play off. Lucky for me the woman wasn’t too big, she had a beach ball belly and couldn’t passed as conventionally attractive.

Two times in my life. Right before I left Highschool, was showing off my new Galaxy whatever it was at the time, and this was just after Overwatch came out, so I had this lust for Mei. A guy I was in highschool with saw, for a brief moment, some fat ass Mei porn while scrolling. I knew he saw it. He never mentioned it. I never met him in person again after that day either, so I don't know what he said about it... Second time was far more recently in 2023 where I was talking to some friends I game with and in my downloads folder (was showing them how to mod a game) they saw the attatched fat Yuri image. Turns out, nobody was surprised and somehow knew I was into fat bitches way before... Not sure how they figured it out but hey, they were cool with it.

>>78805 I've texted about meeting up at a bbq restaurant and it autocorrected to bbw

>>85604 > Not sure how they figured it out but hey, they were cool with it. You probably did the same thing in the past without realizing it. If it wasn't your downloads, it was probably your opened tabs or auto complete in your browser.

>>81768 what's wrong with Miss T

>>85754 She’s a brain dead waterballoon her feeder props up like a bean bag chair and takes photos of while posting text from her pov.

>>85755 >water Isn't it fat?

>>85929 Yeah he's being metaphorical.

>>81798 so you're a double piece of shit in that you only loved your wife for her former weight instead of any other part about her and the fact that you're willing to ruin your own kids' health and life expectancies just to get your dick wet, got it

Accidentally left a drawing of a fat video game character in the family scanner growing up and my mother found it... she only told me that I left the drawing in there and never addressed what it was but there's no way she didn't see it.

>>86373 I did something similar as a teen, left a drawing inside a word atlas I used as a lap desk. My dad found it and complimented me on the drawing itself but smirked his way through it, given the subject matter. Years later we were talking about my preferences and he basically said he knew it when he found it.

>>86373 out of curiosity who was the character?

>>85929 > Isn't it fat? Most of it is fluid at this point.