>>78805 When I was in highschool I opened my phone to show like 5 of my friends some funny video but when I unlocked it it opened to picrel and I just saw them go wide eyed and quiet. I played it off like it was funny that I got caught but after that they all knew what I was into and would tease me about it. Stuff like id mention i was talking to a girl or something and theyd just say "how fat was she??" It was really bad for my self esteem but it made me accept it a little more and now as an adult I can openly date and love fat girls so im alot happier than when I was hiding it.

>>78805 >>78806 A few years ago, I was sharing my screen on Discord to some friends. afterwards, I forgot stop sharing and accidentally showed them all USSBBW picture of Lois Griffin from ProfessorDoctorC on DeviantArt, outing myself as a filthy degenerate who looks at fat porn in a call.

>>78807 Its one of those things that would be hilarious if it happened to anyone else lol I lost a couple friends over it but overall not the biggest deal and honestly at this point im just sick of having to hide shit Another time it happend was i was at a friend's house and as a joke they put just normal porn on the TV but I said it was nasty and one of my friends who saw the bws art on my phone was like "this isn't what you watch?" To kinda egg on the others to question me about it. I dont blame them tho if I had a friend that was into feet or something id give them shit the same way

>>78806 >as an adult I can openly date and love fat girls so im alot happier than when I was hiding it OP here, not saying we'd be ashamed because it's fat women, just like my client has no reason to be ashamed for being gay. More that we're sharing "unusual" porn with the world, what most people consider a fetish. Like, porn is bad enough but now they know my particular kink as well. >>78807 Man I'm lucky I grew up without the internet. I'd have outed myself 1000x before I was 18. At least it wasn't a work zoom! >>78809 >if I had a friend that was into feet or something id give them shit the same way One of my high school "friends" — of course the biggest ball buster of the bunch — found some drawings of fat women in my room. They didn't give it to me too bad, all things considered. I had a fat gf they made fun of too, but after a while she just became part of the group and they stopped. Years later we were home from college, everyone was more mature, and he said something to the effect that he thought it was cool I was into bigger women. FWIW.

>>78816 >OP here, not saying we'd be ashamed because it's fat women... I agree that theres not really anything wrong with it its just that at the time I felt like I was evil or there was something wrong with me so it took time to work past that. I think its because I grew up around particularly fat phobic people.

First day on the job, and I accidentally butt text my boss an image of ssbbw Kellie Kay before the shift started. He never commented on it or acknowledged it's existence. But he saw. He saw.

>>78806 Having friends that know what ur into and u know what theyre into is the best really

>>78835 This is definitely true. My girlfriend and I laid out what we were into one day and we became alot closer for it. Plus she lets me feed her sometimes now

Somehow no, or if I have nobody's brought it up. There was an unrelated situation where I posted a meme of a (admittedly not my type) fat woman and my friend pulled me aside and was like "you know I'd accept you if you were into that" and I told him I wasn't (which was true). Ironically, he's now dating a BBW.

ive always been really careful because of how embarrassed i am of this shit and one time i flew really close to the sun i was in a Discord server with a bunch of people from school, and we had this Homework answers channel. i was kind of retarded in school so I'd never really contribute in any way, but this one time i actually had my homework done so i wanted to help out this was during the pandemic and i had alot of free time on my hands so i would just jerk off most of the time, and i genuinely dont even remember why but i had some LMBB video copied so even though I thought I had my homework answers copied, i basically Ctrl v'd porn into my school chat instead thankfully i deleted the link fast cuz nobody ever brought it up to me

>>78872 I'd totally forgotten until this point because I didn't think it really counted as "outing" myself, but I actually have a pretty similar story to this. I was in the Air Force, and during BMT (basic training), there used to be a portion in the second to last week of training called BEAST Week that was basically teaching and simulating skills and situations you might encounter in a deployed environment. This is relevant because instead of the MTIs (drill sergeants), we had "Cadre" that were a lot more laid back and hands-off as long as you didn't fuck up so blatantly that they had to do something about it. Anyways, that's just background for the situation we were in. I can't remember the specific details of what we were doing, but I remember that I was in my tent with half my flight cleaning or getting ready for something or other and we were "alone," meaning no Cadre, which is rare for BMT except for Saturdays and Sundays. Some of the guys were shooting the shit and the subject of hot celebrities or celebrity crushes or something came up. I mostly stayed focus on the tasks at hand when we had time like this and didn't really engage in those kinds of conversations normally, mostly to not get caught slacking by the MTIs since they were always in the dorms with us, but also because there was a lot of stuff we had to have squared away and I'm generally a slow, methodical worker. Regardless, they were talking, and one of the brought up Megan Fox from the first Transformers movie and how hot she was it in. I usually get a feeling about when someone's about to ask me a question I'm not comfortable answering, and I was right. They asked me what I thought of her and I answered, "She's too thin," or "She's too skinny," which is true. Fat fetish aside, I have a massive belly button fetish, even bigger than my fat fetish, so I can still appreciate thin women, but even still, I'm not a fan of the super-skinny, hard abs look that was in in the 2000s. I thought the scene where she looks under the hood at the Camaro's engine was hot in that she's showing off her belly button in it, but that look genuinely just isn't my type, even for thinner women who are in shape. Of course, one of the guys I considered a friend immediately jumped on that and said, "Oh, so you like fat chicks, then?" or something to that effect, and the other guys started laughing at me. I just tried to ignore them and go back to what I was doing, but of course, they made fun of me for a little bit. I might've tried to deny it, but that just made it worse. The guy who initially got on me eventually went on to go to tech school (job-specific training) with me and would occasionally tease me for it, even though I insisted I wasn't into fucking fat girls, which is also technically true since I'm not actually into penetrative sex. In retrospect, I played the whole situation completely wrong, like I kept rolling nat 1s on all my charisma checks. What I should've said instead of talking about her being skinny was that she just wasn't my type and left it at that. Then, when they started teasing me, I should've taken the Walter White, "You got me," approach and played it off like a joke and went along with it, but I've never been good in those situations. When Among Us was big in 2020, I'd always clam up and say the wrong things in situations where I was either telling the truth and couldn't prove it, or someone came to the correct conclusion for the wrong reasons, which is what happened in this situation. To this day, I still don't know if the guy bought my excuses and just kept it up because he knew it annoyed me, or if he knew I was lying and kept doing it because he knew I was lying. Either way, there it is, so on the off chance one of the guys from my flight was also a closeted fat fetishist who was mentally wiping the sweat from his forehead that I was taking the heat off of him and is lurking in this thread, one, you're welcome, and two, yeah, you did get me, you were right.

I was giving blood in one of those bloodmobile vans in a parking lot, when I saw a pretty SSBBW climb out of her car and start waddling toward the store. I guess it noticeably increased my blood flow because the nurse came by and leaned over me to look out the window, saying "See something you like?" Busted by my physical reaction to a fatty!

My dad caught me watching a Isabella video one day and I was mortified. He wasn't close to me though, and I don't think he knows that I like fat women lol. He always talk down on dating women who are fat. I also accidentally sent a screenshot of Kianny to one of my friends and they reacted so disgustingly. I quickly deleted it and played it off as a joke. Only one person knows I like bigger women, and she's a little heavy herself. She was around 350 at one point before losing 200 of that (I met her after her losing the weight). We even dated at some point and I was to first to actually like her body, especially her belly in which she doesn't hate it anymore. We're not together now, but still friends with her, and right now she's between 170-180 (she's like 5'1-2").

I accidentally sorta outed myself today. I was showing a colleague some pictures of work I need to do in the house, and then this pops up. She's an AI creation I use to make some pretty hot shorts for myself - it is slow at work lately, so I have been doing a lot of that - but I am not sure how it got in the middle of my photos of the bathroom remodel. Fortunately he was pretty cool about and just had the good taste not to make a big deal, but I was mortified inside, even if cool on the outside (I mean, what could I do, plus he is a pretty chill guy). Afterwards, though, thinking about it, it kinda turned me on that I had shared that with someone irl, even if not an afficianado).

>>79352 >gets outed as a fatfag by accidentally showing off his AIslop >not real bbw porn lmao lol

If anyone ever found out about this fetish, I would kill myself. I believe my girlfriend started noticing I'm into it but I never brought it up. There were times where I'd kiss her belly or stare at it especially after a long meal and she may have noticed an erection, though I make sure to hide it well/

>>79352 I think masturbating to an AI cartoon is embarrassing but it’s at least less sketch than the horrorcore stuff like Miss T

>>81767 Why would you not tell your GF you'd like if she was more curvy?

one time like in 2015 i was buying a new laptop at the apple store with my then girlfriend and the worker was showing me features on it, and how to connect my phone's images to it, and when he loaded the thing up on the laptop like 50-60 pictures of boberry popped up lol. my girlfriend was on the other side of the table just looking at other products but the worker guy completely lost his train of thought and was just staring at it, and then eventually after like 10-15 seconds was like..."let's just get this off the screen for you there..." lmao i was mortified

>>78805 Gfs of mine like to stalk my exes, and they start to notice patterns.

Quite a few times: My friends once saw my search history when we were in high school. The term “big fat blueberry woman” came up. Forgot to close out of shit after a morning wank. I opened up my browser on my phone during a game of D&D, full volume, “Do you like this fat belly, daddy?” Could not fucking make that timing up. >.< A girl I dated briefly in HS texted me and exclaimed that she had lost 5 lbs, and I instinctively responded with “that sucks, are you okay?”

>>81771 So, uh, was your gf a fatty?

>>81770 I'm afraid she will tell her friends or sister about it and the information will spread, they share everything with each other

My wife got pretty upset with me about the amount of candy and fast food I give her/our kids and she asked me if I want them “obese like she used to be” (wls) and I nodded yes pretty hard before saying “no”. 100% conflicting.

>>81798 Don't push this shit on your kids, dude. If you want a fat wife, that's one thing, but don't fuck up your kids' health and futures.

>>81793 why do you care about that?

>>81775 >“big fat blueberry woman” Blueberries are NOT fat, Oompa!

>>81798 LARP

>>81806 Debatable. Lol 😂

>>81802 > Don't push this shit on your kids, dude. If you want a fat wife, that's one thing, but don't fuck up your kids' health and futures. Dude frankly it’s none of your business what a sovereign citizen does in his own home.

>>81802 Also nothings being forced on anyone. Where did it say I was force feeding children or whatever neckbeard fantasies you’lr projecting.

>>81798 > “obese like she used to be” (wls) You marry some desiccated old uptight Becky and don’t be surprised when the sex stops and she gets WLS as a fuck you to the marriage after having kids. Totally get the frustration. >>81839 He’s out of line. He had a point but he’s going about it in a completely cow knuckled manner.

>>81839 You outright admitted to deliberately bringing a ton of candy and fast food into your house and giving it to not just your wife, but your children as well, so much so that your wife is concerned and angry enough to bring it up. I won't even address the "sovereign citizen" drivel, because that kind of retardation speaks for itself. You're the one with the degenerate fantasies if you're allowing it to override your responsibilities as a father by letting your children get caught in the crossfire of trying to get your wife to gain. >>81847 Out of line for calling out how gross it is that he's allowing his desire for a fatter wife to bleed over to other parts of his life and affect his children? He literally admitted to pushing the unhealthy food on his family to such an extent that his wife is angry with him about it. How is that "cow knuckled?" How would you have done it? What else is there to say other than not letting his sexual desires for his wife affect his children in ANY capacity?

>>81798 >>81839 >Sovereign citizen I love it when retards just out themselves willingly

>>81850 >>81852 You have no idea what it’s like to be married. Bet you’ve never touched a woman.

>>81854 A bunch of clowns who’ve no idea what it’s like to be married or a parent think they have valuable input to add.

I think I’ve told every single one of my friends that I like curvy girls. I’ve even told my female friends, lol. I think the only person I didn’t tell was my dad, who didn’t like overweight women and preferred skinny women, and who said that being overweight is a disease. The only thing I ever told him was that I like women with big breasts, which he doesn’t like either.

>>78805 What if it wasn't accidental and the gay porn actually was relevant to the project

i accidentally did. i was showing him something else and accidentally swiped, though we don't really mention it in front of the others since he also accidentally showed me vore porn by accident lol

Decided to watch a pirated film with my younger brother. Made the mistake of plugging my laptop into the TV before opening the screen. Never did that again.

>>82000 ROFL!! That has got to be one of the funniest posts.

>>82000 I gotta ask. How big are we talking, and have you corrupted your younger brother? I sort of outed myself 25 years ago when I was 21. I was away with friends and a group of girls were in a bar, one noticeably fatter than the rest. We'd seen them a few times and one night some fucking young dumb fucks were giving her little verbal digs. I went over and made a thing for them all, asked them how their holiday was going etc, when of course the 400lbs woman wasy preference. Ended up having a bit of a holiday fling with her. I was pretty surprised by my friends lack of response, they knew all my exes were chubby busty girls, regular fat if you like, but this girl was 400lbs. A massive exaggerated equivalent of what I was into. That was a good week. One of only a few who really liked their body and eating.

>>82009 It's funny how people notice things that you don't think they do. Or that they don't say anything: like, my friends when I was younger must have noticed that the women I was interested in were mostly fat (though I had the odd gf who was not, though that was just casual/short term). What really made me realize this is that at home, I don't talk about my preferences when the kids are around. They must know that I found their mother hot, but I always figured they would think it was because we were married and I love her, not because I love very fat women. I am careful with my porn viewing, but maybe not careful enough? I don't recall how it came up, but we were talking about things I like/things I would want, and my younger son suggested I loved very fat women. He wasn't wrong - and we did not discuss this further - but I was really surprised he knew that about me.

>>81854 That actually seems like a less pathetic situation than not having told your fat wife that you like fatties.

I had an accident and was in hospital and my girlfriend looked through my phone to try and find my travel insurance letter. She came to visit me after my operation and said she saw loads of bbw/ssbbw porn

>>82020 My wife’s was fat when we met. She’s since gotten WLS because my insurance is good. I’m not unhappy about it but glad I never told her about my personal preferences. That’s have only made it worse.

>>82031 So you had a fat partner and never got to really enjoy it, never got to do any kink stuff around it, always had to tread lightly and hide your preferences. Great, sounds awesome. I think I'd honestly rather be a virgin than live with that much self-denial and, presumably, shame.

>>82027 And it was never mentioned again?

>>82088 Two things: • It can be really difficult to confess these things to a fat woman you care about. Not because you're ashamed of being an FA, but because fat women tend to have major body issues and admitting you're attracted to them for their fat is a constant reminder they're fat, which they don't like. Unfair but that's life. Even women who are ultra body positive and all that really don't like being fetishized. Bottom line is that you don't want to risk fucking up the relationship with your kinks by being too honest up front. Best to wait until you've built up a certain amount of trust. But more power to you if you do find that fat babe who's cool with her body and down with FA fetishes where she enjoys them herself. I'm sure they exist but there aren't many of them so most of us have to "settle". • Relationships aren't all about sex. In fact it recedes quite a bit as a priority as years go by. Imagine this, in terms of the dude you're dragging: He's physically attracted to the fat version of his future wife (and hopefully other things as well). He falls in love, gets married, and suddenly it becomes more about her happiness than being his perfect fuck doll. In terms of marriage or LTRs I'd rather be with a happy human skeleton than an unhappy 500 pounder. Thankfully it's not usually that stark of a choice.

>>82101 Yeah, like, unless you hit the jackpot.... Basically every fat girl you date is gonna take like 8 months or more to stop thinking you're just prankkng her and are actually into her. Embracing your sexuality as a sexually traumatized person isn't easy. And it's not easy for the girls that are actually fully into it either. Ever wish you weren't an FA? Of course you do. Now imagine if you were actually fat and also get to that natural state of mind where you're annoyed about not being able to just be a normal person. At least we can walk around without the burden of literally ALWAYS being fat.

>>82101 This isn't my experience at all. I'm always very up front, have been in three (one ongoing) long-term relationships with fat women who were at least at peace with their bodies, and were happy for me to enjoy them and to indulge me with feedism play, and have had sex with quite a few more. I only date in the 200-300lb range or so, and probably that's the differentiating factor. But damn, I wouldn't give up fat sex and at least light feedism play, or accept being closeted like that, for anything. It'd be so incredibly unsatisfying that I'd probably rather just be single.

>>82101 You're not wrong. I have been an FA as long as I have had any sexual interests, though started off as wanting chubby/big tits and through the years wanted fatter and fatter, with less interest in tits and more in hips/thighs/calves. And certainly at first, I had a hard time admitting even to myself that I was attracted to the women society told me were unattractive. But gradually I got more self-confident and was honest with both myself and my potential partner. There really is no point hiding it, because if you want to find a woman you want to be with long-term and she should be fat, it is a mistake to try to sweep what you like under the rug. You need to have that conversation at some point, cause you need to know if you are both on the same page. Again, through experience I learned that there was no point wishing someone would stop hating themselves and come to accept themselves for you. I had a few very hot relationships where my gf hated being fat, and it really is horrible when you have to hide who you are just to please them. That is a recipe for long term disaster, so guys really need to be honest and broach this subject. But be gentle in introducing it - wait a while until it is clear she likes you, and when you have that conversation, I would not start off by telling a 300 lb beauty that you love 600 lb hotties and hope she will become one one day, but ease into the conversation more gently and talk about - in a non-creepy way! - about what you find attractive about her. But if you absolutely won't be in a relationship with a woman who is under 500 lbs, you also should be honest about that at some point, even if the relationship ends because of that. (And if that is the case, it would end at some point or you would be in for a lifetime of misery.) I feel different than you about LTR - I want a fat and happy wife. But I also love my wife and realized that at some point she would have to lose; it just came sooner and happened more abruptly than I expected (and there are other issues at play here, like lack of trust that her weight loss is incidental and not a goal). And I never got the 500 lb woman I always wanted, though I knew that was going to never happen and it was only a dream. (Though if we suddenly went back to our 20s today and could start all over, I don't think I would have ended up with her because there is so much more to chose from in 400-500 lb women in their 20s and early 30s that just did not exist back in the 90's.) And you are also right that sex does not happen as much - previously because her lack of sex drive really cut back, and now because I cannot perform as much and I don't find her physically attractive anymore. But man, I love a fat woman and used to showed it to my wife, cause enjoying her fat body is about more than just sex. And that I miss.

>>78805 I've never not been "out." Shame is for the feeble.

OP here to say it’s great (not really) to have this devolve into yet another “oh woe is me I like fat chicks” thread. But really the -fat- part is secondary. I meant to share stories about getting caught being into what is — let’s face it — an unusual preference. There’s no specific shame in it, could be feet or heavy BDSM. It’s a big world. Just that this happens to be bbwchan.