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Ever Out Yourself? Anonymous 02/03/2026 (Tue) 16:16:47 Id:e6d6bd No. 78805
A client sent me an email that was supposed to have links to references for a project we're working on. Two of the links went to gay porn. I did the gentlemanly thing and didn't mention it, and went so far as to delete them from my reply. This got me thinking I must have done something similar at some point, as I use the same laptop for business and pleasure, often right on top of each other. Though I've never been called out on it. Ever have a situation where you outed yourself to a business contact, spouse, family member, clergy, etc?
>>78805 When I was in highschool I opened my phone to show like 5 of my friends some funny video but when I unlocked it it opened to picrel and I just saw them go wide eyed and quiet. I played it off like it was funny that I got caught but after that they all knew what I was into and would tease me about it. Stuff like id mention i was talking to a girl or something and theyd just say "how fat was she??" It was really bad for my self esteem but it made me accept it a little more and now as an adult I can openly date and love fat girls so im alot happier than when I was hiding it.
>>78805 >>78806 A few years ago, I was sharing my screen on Discord to some friends. afterwards, I forgot stop sharing and accidentally showed them all USSBBW picture of Lois Griffin from ProfessorDoctorC on DeviantArt, outing myself as a filthy degenerate who looks at fat porn in a call.
>>78807 Its one of those things that would be hilarious if it happened to anyone else lol I lost a couple friends over it but overall not the biggest deal and honestly at this point im just sick of having to hide shit Another time it happend was i was at a friend's house and as a joke they put just normal porn on the TV but I said it was nasty and one of my friends who saw the bws art on my phone was like "this isn't what you watch?" To kinda egg on the others to question me about it. I dont blame them tho if I had a friend that was into feet or something id give them shit the same way
>>78806 >as an adult I can openly date and love fat girls so im alot happier than when I was hiding it OP here, not saying we'd be ashamed because it's fat women, just like my client has no reason to be ashamed for being gay. More that we're sharing "unusual" porn with the world, what most people consider a fetish. Like, porn is bad enough but now they know my particular kink as well. >>78807 Man I'm lucky I grew up without the internet. I'd have outed myself 1000x before I was 18. At least it wasn't a work zoom! >>78809 >if I had a friend that was into feet or something id give them shit the same way One of my high school "friends" — of course the biggest ball buster of the bunch — found some drawings of fat women in my room. They didn't give it to me too bad, all things considered. I had a fat gf they made fun of too, but after a while she just became part of the group and they stopped. Years later we were home from college, everyone was more mature, and he said something to the effect that he thought it was cool I was into bigger women. FWIW.
>>78816 >OP here, not saying we'd be ashamed because it's fat women... I agree that theres not really anything wrong with it its just that at the time I felt like I was evil or there was something wrong with me so it took time to work past that. I think its because I grew up around particularly fat phobic people.
First day on the job, and I accidentally butt text my boss an image of ssbbw Kellie Kay before the shift started. He never commented on it or acknowledged it's existence. But he saw. He saw.
>>78806 Having friends that know what ur into and u know what theyre into is the best really
>>78835 This is definitely true. My girlfriend and I laid out what we were into one day and we became alot closer for it. Plus she lets me feed her sometimes now
Somehow no, or if I have nobody's brought it up. There was an unrelated situation where I posted a meme of a (admittedly not my type) fat woman and my friend pulled me aside and was like "you know I'd accept you if you were into that" and I told him I wasn't (which was true). Ironically, he's now dating a BBW.
ive always been really careful because of how embarrassed i am of this shit and one time i flew really close to the sun i was in a Discord server with a bunch of people from school, and we had this Homework answers channel. i was kind of retarded in school so I'd never really contribute in any way, but this one time i actually had my homework done so i wanted to help out this was during the pandemic and i had alot of free time on my hands so i would just jerk off most of the time, and i genuinely dont even remember why but i had some LMBB video copied so even though I thought I had my homework answers copied, i basically Ctrl v'd porn into my school chat instead thankfully i deleted the link fast cuz nobody ever brought it up to me
>>78872 I'd totally forgotten until this point because I didn't think it really counted as "outing" myself, but I actually have a pretty similar story to this. I was in the Air Force, and during BMT (basic training), there used to be a portion in the second to last week of training called BEAST Week that was basically teaching and simulating skills and situations you might encounter in a deployed environment. This is relevant because instead of the MTIs (drill sergeants), we had "Cadre" that were a lot more laid back and hands-off as long as you didn't fuck up so blatantly that they had to do something about it. Anyways, that's just background for the situation we were in. I can't remember the specific details of what we were doing, but I remember that I was in my tent with half my flight cleaning or getting ready for something or other and we were "alone," meaning no Cadre, which is rare for BMT except for Saturdays and Sundays. Some of the guys were shooting the shit and the subject of hot celebrities or celebrity crushes or something came up. I mostly stayed focus on the tasks at hand when we had time like this and didn't really engage in those kinds of conversations normally, mostly to not get caught slacking by the MTIs since they were always in the dorms with us, but also because there was a lot of stuff we had to have squared away and I'm generally a slow, methodical worker. Regardless, they were talking, and one of the brought up Megan Fox from the first Transformers movie and how hot she was it in. I usually get a feeling about when someone's about to ask me a question I'm not comfortable answering, and I was right. They asked me what I thought of her and I answered, "She's too thin," or "She's too skinny," which is true. Fat fetish aside, I have a massive belly button fetish, even bigger than my fat fetish, so I can still appreciate thin women, but even still, I'm not a fan of the super-skinny, hard abs look that was in in the 2000s. I thought the scene where she looks under the hood at the Camaro's engine was hot in that she's showing off her belly button in it, but that look genuinely just isn't my type, even for thinner women who are in shape. Of course, one of the guys I considered a friend immediately jumped on that and said, "Oh, so you like fat chicks, then?" or something to that effect, and the other guys started laughing at me. I just tried to ignore them and go back to what I was doing, but of course, they made fun of me for a little bit. I might've tried to deny it, but that just made it worse. The guy who initially got on me eventually went on to go to tech school (job-specific training) with me and would occasionally tease me for it, even though I insisted I wasn't into fucking fat girls, which is also technically true since I'm not actually into penetrative sex. In retrospect, I played the whole situation completely wrong, like I kept rolling nat 1s on all my charisma checks. What I should've said instead of talking about her being skinny was that she just wasn't my type and left it at that. Then, when they started teasing me, I should've taken the Walter White, "You got me," approach and played it off like a joke and went along with it, but I've never been good in those situations. When Among Us was big in 2020, I'd always clam up and say the wrong things in situations where I was either telling the truth and couldn't prove it, or someone came to the correct conclusion for the wrong reasons, which is what happened in this situation. To this day, I still don't know if the guy bought my excuses and just kept it up because he knew it annoyed me, or if he knew I was lying and kept doing it because he knew I was lying. Either way, there it is, so on the off chance one of the guys from my flight was also a closeted fat fetishist who was mentally wiping the sweat from his forehead that I was taking the heat off of him and is lurking in this thread, one, you're welcome, and two, yeah, you did get me, you were right.
I was giving blood in one of those bloodmobile vans in a parking lot, when I saw a pretty SSBBW climb out of her car and start waddling toward the store. I guess it noticeably increased my blood flow because the nurse came by and leaned over me to look out the window, saying "See something you like?" Busted by my physical reaction to a fatty!
My dad caught me watching a Isabella video one day and I was mortified. He wasn't close to me though, and I don't think he knows that I like fat women lol. He always talk down on dating women who are fat. I also accidentally sent a screenshot of Kianny to one of my friends and they reacted so disgustingly. I quickly deleted it and played it off as a joke. Only one person knows I like bigger women, and she's a little heavy herself. She was around 350 at one point before losing 200 of that (I met her after her losing the weight). We even dated at some point and I was to first to actually like her body, especially her belly in which she doesn't hate it anymore. We're not together now, but still friends with her, and right now she's between 170-180 (she's like 5'1-2").

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