My girlfriend and I are in different countries for our postgrad degrees, but we’re pretty close geographically, so we usually see each other often. We both had a stretch recently where we were traveling a lot, so we went almost two months without meeting up.
Now, she’s always been a bit on the curvier side, but nothing too much, never really asked for her weight but around 75kg/165cm. So, imagine my surprise when I saw her again, and she’d put on at least 8-10 kgs. I couldn’t be happier, I’ve always had a thing for this, but I’ve never really opened up about it. It’s been a bit of a private thing for me, and for my own peace of mind, I figured it’d stay that way. But now, seeing her like this has made me enjoy our relationship so much more.
The funny thing is that she is in total denial, just the other day I watched her struggling with her clothes and asked me “I haven’t gained that much weight have I?”, my dick was diamonds, I swear to god I even thought she might have sneaked into my phone and figured out what I like, but no, she really is in denial and just claims shes been bloated. So now I’m wondering, should I actually tell her I’m into it and maybe encourage her a bit? Or should I just let things keep rolling as they are and not bring it up? Any advice on how to handle this, and maybe even keep it going ?