>>51017 btw I would just consider it a situationship - I don't want to get into details abt it. I just wanted to mention her ED since it is a heavy contrast to this site

Well the ED thing has a lot to do with what type of ED you’re talking about. I think there are a lot of folks on here that would be happy with a “situationship” with someone with COE, for example. In the end, you do you. Can’t knock what you like.

>>51029 Mainly the anorexia type lol. She would post abt purging & starving herself alot - she even had a mini breakdown when I accidentally called her ass fat onetime lol Its fine I just felt like venting abt it because I discovered this fetish since a kid & always had identity issues with it. Maybe it's fully going away or not but for now I feel as it is

this is off-topic but what's that image from?

>>52827 How old are you that you don't recognize Rei fatherfucking Ayanami?

>>52827 >what's that image from? You will be painlessly transformed into a small pool of Campbell's tomato soup when the apocalypse comes. I don't make the rules. That's just how it is.

>>51017 Maybe instead of coming here just look up JOI vids from regular models on pornhub or something.

Didn't want to start a new thread but wanted to get it off my chest. My wife lost 100lbs and is way happier. I'm definitely less attracted to her and work has been stressing me out. We haven't had sex in awhile. I've been telling her the sweet nothings she needs to hear so that she feels confident and happy and that's what really matters but like.. God fucking dammit man. She knows I'm into bigger women, but she just wasn't happy. My brother in law has a gf that gained easily 60lbs since the last time we spoke and it's so hot. I hate that I kept stealing glances at her because I'm an honest and loyal guy. I'm just upset and this sucks and I hate my life right now.

>>54667 Why are you loyal to her? She hates you bitch boy.

>>54672 I value loyalty and think it helps me to maintain my relationships. She definitely doesn't hate me, honestly just herself, it's rough.

>>54667 When you say she lost 100lbs what weight does that put her at now? My wife was 470 before she decided she couldn't go on like that and lost nearly 200. She now hovers around 300 but old habits die hard especially in winter, so she gets to 350 before she diets back down again. Of course l love ld her fat more when she was high 400s but I completely get why she lost weight. She's still 'fat enough' and I don't think she'd ever want to lose more, she does say she doesn't look like her when she's lower. Rather than be upset in private, tell her you're struggling. 100lbs is a lot of weight to lose and be more mobile you might find there are far more positions you can get her in in the bedroom to spice the sex life back up a bit. When the wife lost she went out and bought a full lingerie set and tightness of hold up stockings and a suspender belt stretching over her fat was more than enough for me. She also got a thing for going on top a lot more, which I always loved but a 470lbs woman doesn't attempt to grind like a 300lbs does. I'm sure you'll get it back. Maybe try getting yourself some St Johns Wort and taking a tablet everyday.

>>54678 From 250 to ~145. She is distinctly slim now. She's great, I love her but man do I miss her belly these days. I want to talk to her about it but she is very insecure from childhood trauma being "the fat girl". I've got her building some muscle with me in the gym these days so hopefully she'll get more of an appetite and be OK with being thicker at least. I'm glad things are going well for you and your lady though. 470 is a whole lot of woman, good for you, even with the weight loss you're in the money. I'll check out the supplement tip, thanks for the input. Seriously, I needed it

>>54682 She despises you bro, it’s not about childhood trauma. Bet you’re either short, passive, ugly, unsuccessful or out of shape. (Probably at least 3 of them). That’s why she lost the weight, being fat to appeal to a loser makes her feel like a chump. Imagine settling for a skinner than average woman in America in this day and age.

>>54678 Please describe in detail how much she struggled at nearly 500lbs… 🤫

>>54683 Damn presumptuous much ?

>>54701 Not really, no. Sounds like the truth. It's like openly, honestly being into tits and hooking up with a woman with implants only to see her have them removed after a year of marriage because they "make her unhappy" and she'd rather have A cups. Clearly there's some disconnect going on.

>>54682 dude I am in the same situation. my gf started to gain weight (on her own) and I thought she would pass 250 (she's around 180) but she stopped and she's now losing. I'm not the person to manipulate or anything so I am seriously considering moving on and finding a new gf. damn with this fat preference

I think Zyahna Bryant deserves an OF, don't you?

>>51017 I don't think there's anything wrong with that. It also doesn't necessarily have to be one way or the other. You can like multiple body types and feel attraction to different things, even if they are wildly different

>>55232 agreed