>>52325 If your dick gets hard for her during sex, you're definitely at least somewhat attracted to her :)

You're not the only one. You're a feeder right? Get to feeding her, get her into feederism. It's not that hard it's just a feedback loop of positive reinforcement. Get her fat retard, there's enough advice on here on how to do that.

If a fetish is getting in the way of your relationship with her then it's time to break up. I don't care what the dude above me or the comments after this one says, having to fattening her up just to please your urges is a horrible and selfish mindset to have. True love is accepting whatever appearence your partner has, otherwise you're no better than the feeders who fatten these women up and then dump them because all they ever focused on was their weight and nothing else regarding the relationship.

>>52354 You realize not every woman will be ok with this right? Fucking retard.

>>52355 >>52358 Finally, some people here with more than two brain cells.

Let me ask you this, italianon. Can you imagine spending the next 20 years with her? 40? What if she's thin? If you can't, I think your desire for a fat girl is stronger than the desire for you girlfriend.

>>52372 Noweganon is right.

Unsure if I could comfortably date a thin girl at all? I've never had any interest at all for skinny girls, but a few months ago I went on a few dates with this petite girl who I bonded a lot with because we come from the same cultural background and had too much in common with to ignore. But it didn't really go anywhere, probably because she sensed my lack of enthusiasm. Fast forward to today, for some reason I caught myself Googling random people I know and for some reason she pops up in my mind, and a picture of her from 2019 shows up, then I get a huge surprise: she used to be fat as fuck. It made a lot of sense since she had a very pointy chin like some people who lost a bunch of weight have.. It definitely made me wonder what could've been, especially now that I know how hot she looked fat. Despite her size I'd say she used to be conventionally attractive while now she looks a bit plain and way older than her real age. In the old picture she even wore tight jeans with her belly bulging out while now she just wears those baggy semi formal pants you buy at shein.

>>53894 I think you should try to be friends with thin girls and hope you become attracted to one of them over time.

Stop looking at so much porn.

>>53916 So fucking true. I've been with my wife for 13 years and if I go down a bad hole (usually in winter) I'm pretty much awake in the early hours nutting off to 600lbs fatties. It rots your brain big time. My wife hasn't been less than 300 in all the time we've been together, she's recently gained 50lbs courtesy of work stress, and I pretty much want to bone her everynight, but get in a bad way with porn and she's too small for me.

>>54001 Yeah if 300 pounds is "too small" for you, you should try to quit watching porn all together. A bad sex life will always be the demise of any relationship. If you can't get intimate with your partner because this stupid fetish gets in the way, quit and force your brain to wanna get hard for her.

>>54001 You ungrateful man. Yea stop porn if are going into fantasy land and thinking of her getting as big of your house and you can’t get turned on from 300 and a 50 pound gain.

>>54017 I would think 350 is big and love and logic would override your fetish not really want her bed bound. You need some help.

>>54016 >>54001 Nothing wrong with that. Never know if she ever gets to 400lbs could be the point of no going back.

>>54016 Mine went from 350 to 290 and I struggled 😭

>>54001 No offence but I'm glad I don't have this problem. I've posted here before saying that my favourite aspect of fat fetishism is literally just the experience of having sex with fat women. But for me it doesn't matter how big she is, as long as she has some softness / curves / jiggly bits. If I had to pick a minimum weight I guess I'd say 200lbs

A fetish is just that. A fantasy. If you can’t keep your fantasy and real life seperate or understand how to compartmentalize both you’re not better than the homos and trannies

>>54037 Bro you're actually retarded if you think being gay is a fetish. Grow up.

>>54039 And it looks like you refuse to acknowledge that faggots end up getting colon cancer or AIDS, but hey those are just made up medical illnesses created by the CIA just to demonize flaggots who dindu noffin.

>>54039 They’re fetishizing something that is not meant to be. Dicks are not meant for asses, people are not made for the same sex. It had no purpose other than pleasure. It’s a fetish.

>>54052 Ok yank

>>54068 There’s a point to be made that anything except dick in vagina sex is either a fetish or some other kind of deviancy. But that’s fucking stupid and ignores all the social aspects of sexuality that aren’t directly related to reproduction. Studying the animal kingdom, there’s plenty of non-reproductive sex that serves social purposes: (e.g. lesbianism among primates: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0018506X19301503).

>>54040 Are they eating the dogs and cats too?

>>54040 boy, you sure do love talking about faggots and colons, don't you?

>>52325 There have been times when I fell in love with thin girls, probably because I didn’t know any bigger girls at that time. It was only platonic, I didn’t feel any sexual attraction. Luckily I realised quickly that this is a dead end street. I would always feel like I am missing something with them. Since I realised that, I have dated only big girls and never looked back. She must have at least some squish otherwise it will not work

Jesus fucking Christ there are some retarted comments on here. Literally 95% of the people using the SSBBW forum get off on superfat women but don't have a woman that fat at home. My wife is 370lbs of absolute fat godliness but I still download a shit tonne of 500lbs + porn and get off on it. I get the impression most of the retards on here have never had a relationship with a woman, or anyone for that matter.

>>53899 I'm friends with plenty of thin girls, but if I want someone as a life partner I'd prefer them to be chubby at least. Probably the age old dilemma coming into play, do you want someone that has a great personality, or do you want someone who's attractive? Was a bit of a gut punch finding out she used to be a proper BBW when the only reason it died between us was that I didn't find her attractive as thin.

>>54675 You need to kill yourself because you're british and the british are worthless scum, and your accent is so fucking obnoxious. With that said you're right. 99% of the guys on here are straight up incels with zero concept of what it's like to interact with a woman irl, let alone maintain a relationship with one.

>>54148 Like zoo animals, quite interesting how these people have rights to not speak on whether or not they're infected with AIDS. Did that trained monkey known for voicing a pull-up string cowboy make an impact to all the masses and decide to go with it and get infected by that shit? Like a suicide cult with rainbows all over it?