I'm procrastinating on something right now, so I'm just going to dump all of mine at once. Numbered them for the TL;DR folks.
1.) Boberry isn't even in contention for a GOAT fat fetish webmodel, but, she's an incredible gateway for fat fetishists.
She's the embodiment of societally / conventionally attractive, she just happens to be heavy and wide. Great to get the attention of those who haven't realized they have a fat preference/fetish. As someone who likes everything about fat women (especially the little things as they enter the super-sized territory), she does literally nothing for me. She doesn't have a particularly fat face/double chin, a big belly, or any of the actual fetish appeal of other fat webmodels. The likes of Roxxie, Kellie Kay, Juicy Jackie, HeatherBBW, Adeline, and dozens of other webmodels have a better body of work and are better ambassadors/representations of the fetish.
2.) You're a shitty partner to a fat person if you don't have AT LEAST a basic understanding of fat politics & social dynamics.
I've seen people on this site who don't believe in fatphobia. If you've gone out in public ONCE (nevermind gone to a doctor, visited an employer, or helped them navigate any other notoriously fatphobic spaces) as a visible partner to a fat person, you should know/see first-hand what fatphobia is. So, if you don't believe in systemic fatphobia and just how all-encompassing it is in the daily lives of fat people, you're either an idiot, a sociopath, or just virgin loser who couldn't bag a fat partner (or find a fat partner willing to be seen in public with YOU) in the first place.
3.) The Feedism/Fat Fetish "Community" largely died when Dimensions Magazine lost favor for Feabie, FantasyFeeder, Fetlife, Tumblr, and most notably, accessible social media.
I think the best time for the FA/Feedist community was during the times of Dimensions' relevancy. I JUST missed being of-age to be a part of the community proper (I'm in my mid-30s) on Dimensions, and I was only able to get involved once the community was actively dying in the early 2010s. I was an underage lurker on those boards for years, before finally getting out of a bad relationship in my early 20s and feeling free enough to get involved, and even then, it was too late. People who were able to get involved in that space experienced the most positive, unified community this fetish ever had. Genuinely bummed I largely missed the window.
After that, I've tried every Feedist site, group, page, and app I could find; none of them came close to what Dimensions was in its prime. This is such a specific fetish, that those who were very-much into it or curious about it eventually found themselves in that space. And yeah, it had gossiping and jealousy and cliques like any other community, but it was the best place to feel a sense of belonging that fat fetishists ever had.
I think the forum's format honestly helped weed out the worst the community had to offer. Now? I mean, look at this board; full of literal nazis, MAGA idiots completely lacking critical thinking skills, racists, shitposters, incels (not by name, but by behavior/beliefs) or literal insane people (some are all of the above).
There's no unified place online for fat fetishists and feedists, now. People with this fetish are too scattered across different platforms, and anonymity on social media and places like this brings out the absolute worst in people. Tumblr came VERY close to having a great fat fetish community/space, but I think the format of the platform itself didn't lend itself to fully forming a new community. But damn, did it come close. If anything, it turned into an incredible source of getting to know/meet/date literal tons of fat women for myself, and I'm sure plenty of other half-decent, half-handsome guys around my age.
4.) "This Fetish is full of Idiots/Autists etc." Isn't remotely true, and is an opinion held by people with zero in-person experience.
People who think this are only getting their impression of the fetish is what they see on this very board, which is full of the types of ...winners I mentioned earlier. But also, people on the spectrum in general are drawn to all kinds of fetishes, and idiots are fucking everywhere, in every online space. Have you SEEN a Facebook comment thread that has public access lately? JFC.
I will also say, all the other FAs and feedists I've met have all been as normal as anyone else. I've met plenty of brilliant, funny, and talented FAs and Feedists of all genders. Honestly, the other dudes I've met with this fetish/preference have been some of the more intelligent & considerate men I've ever met.
5.) Saxxon fucking sucks.
I have no idea why he's even relevant. Every time I see that guy's art, I just laugh. I can't imagine getting turned on from that much blank/white space. He makes the type of shit I used to draw in my notebooks in elementary school and Jr. High when I was working out that I had a fat fetish. All the women have thin faces, despite being planet sized, and there's just... nothing visually appealing about it. It's like, FA storyboards drawn by someone whose dominant/drawing hand is too busy holding their dick. Hate to dunk on an artist, especially a fat-fetish artist, but man, his work gives fat fetish art a bad rep.
6.) Ray-Norr deserves more love/relevancy.
That dude consistently makes some of the best fat-fetish art I've ever seen. Nice to see someone considerate of weight, fat distribution, SHADING, and cool/funny concepts. I wish there were more artists like him, as opposed to the mass amounts of mediocre anime-style shit and awful AI sludge that makes me question the mental health of the people posting it.