Early 20's here and I've had no luck dating whatsoever. Hopefully I get a 600lb+ morbidly obese gf before the Ozempcalypse makes fat girls a thing of the past.

>>55087 Best of luck dude, you’re probably in a better position to pull it off than me, being in your early twenties.

>>55103 I’m not really fine with those things, no lmao. Don’t really sound like options that make for a good relationship.

>>55083 What part of the country are you in? I had no problem finding plenty of fatties at least to have sex with, back in 2019. Tinder - I found a few girls you can tell are fat just by their face..they’ll likely not be comfortable with their weight and could be desperate. But also probably are down for feeding, gaining etc. WooPlus was pretty good at least in 2019…lots of fat girls on there back then.

>>55106 Great Lakes area. And it’s crazy, like, maybe something has changed in the last 5 years? Because the dating apps are completely devoid of really big girls from my ongoing experience. And any time I see one in public they’re with a guy or have young kids.

>>55108 They’re all getting snatched up lol

>>55151 Apparently so. Feels like I arrived way too late to the party.

>>55151 >>55108 Two factors: a preference for fat/thicc being normalized and ozempic. There are few women with education, good job, etc who are choosing to be obese because of ozempic (if she can afford makeup, nails, hair, stylish clothes she can afford to control her weight). The women who look better fat and like fat sex are way more in demand than ever. If she’s got a phat ass or big tits even Chad can date a 250 pounder and not be embarrassed. (which plenty of fat women don’t look decent overweight). The leftover fat women are poor, uneducated, or have ozempic preventing comorbidities that explain their weight: pcos, autoimmune, pysch meds, etc.

>>55154 So basically, I’m fucked. Good to know, I guess.

>>55167 Best bet is leaving the country. All women in developed nations all only go for the top 10 percent of men

>>55188 1. No I’m not leaving the country 2. I’m in a bad spot but at least I’m not delusional enough to think what you said is true. A walk through any public place proves you wrong.

.>>55083 Describe your hobbies/interests. What race are you? >>55154 Where did you hear that those comorbidities prevent Ozempic? Unfortunately most PCOS/autoimmune disorders don't make someone not a candidate for Ozempic

>>55210 I’m white, and I like drawing, reading, video games and tv/movies. Idk I know that isn’t really that specific but I’m never really good at answering these types of very general questions.

>>55210 > Unfortunately most PCOS/autoimmune disorders don't make someone not a candidate for Ozempic Evil feeder comment of the year people. Some conditions and medications for those conditions.

Make a ssbbw of your own, whether if you make one from a real live woman, or just draw one. (If you wanna do the latter where you make a ssbbw character, you must follow the golden rule above)

>>55212 So little disclaimer that I'm not the person who asked you about your hobbies, but I've also got some thoughts about this. If you're looking to share similar hobbies with an Ssbbw gf/wife those sound pretty much ideal. None of these hobbies requires to go outside, or any physical activity plus you can do these for hours on end (maybe expect drawing if you got a fat heavy arm??) and keep snacking while you're at it. And since many ssbbws are major snackers this could really be to your advantage. Only thing is maybe thight seats in movie theaters but that's pretty much it. On the other hand sitting all day at work and then only doing hobbies in bed/sitting is not really ideal if you try to minimize health risks. Theories speculate that something of that nature actually cause Kasstheblast to die after a short flight she had taken. You know all the risks on the flight with her massive obesity and probably physically unable to move her legs to try and prevent blood clots. Probably also an Uber back to the hotel room just to head straight into bad and watch a movie just do die hours later... :/

>>55213 How is this comment any more "evil" than the comment I was replying to? >Some conditions and medications for those conditions. What the fuck does this mean? How are you an American and you can't speak English clearly. Fuck you.

>>55212 Is your art Western or Eastern style?

>>55214 >Make one from a real life woman I don’t imagine there’s anyone I could ever find who’d be willing to do that. >Or just draw one I don’t see how that can possibly help tbh, considering it’s literally just a drawing…

>>55215 Your response feels very much like putting the cart before the horse

>>55220 I draw both, I like messing around with different styles and draw a lot of different things.

>>55223 Idk if I understood your figure of speech correctly, but I was just noting that if he finds an Ssbbw there is a high likelihood that she might have some hobbies with him in common...? Not saying that he needs to pick any of this hobbies up before dating an Ssbbw or that he can only date one who shares some hobbies...

>>55226 Just to clarify, I’m the op and wrote that response to your comment. And I wanted to say sorry if my comment came across as dismissive or rude. Basically what I was trying to say is that that’s good to know, but I need to find someone before any of that starts to matter.

30 man you're too fucking old im only 22 and already had 3 bbw gfs and my current girl is in the 400 lb range man. Just go on wooplus and not be a weirdo its easy to get fat girls

>>55247 >you’re too fucking old I genuinely don’t even know what you mean by this but from the tone I’m gonna say fuck you too? >Just go on Wooplus I am on wooplus. I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong but it’s not been a good experience.

>>55248 >I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong Your 30 and not a millionaire. Your only options are single moms and trannys. It sucks but that's just reality in the America

Jesus, these replies are so pathetic. I mean, I know it's bbw-chan, but lol... get a grip. Anyway, I'm also in the same position as OP, age-wise, background-wise(minus the dating experience, lol), and interest-wise. We are in a tough spot- I haven't even gotten to really trying yet, but all I ever hear is that less people are pursuing relationships, birth rates are plummeting, and then when you go to look for advice you get seething incels trauma-dumping for a reply... I do think there are some ugly truths about women, who they pursue and their general mindset towards relationships that we both have to keep in mind, but it's definitely not over or anything. I think especially in this corner of the sexual world, they are gonna be just as nervous, scared, defensive, etc. as whoever pursuing them may be- whether it's due to their weight or whatever other reason among the infinite that are available. Really I'm just talking out of my ass here as a near-wizard with almost zero experience, but I always felt like volunteering and generally getting out in your local area might be worth a shot. My armchair psychology degree has me guessing(projecting, maybe) that OP, like me, touches grass infrequently and has interests that keep him away from people, as well as some potential unconscious mechanisms steering him away from relationships and vulnerability. We'll have to step out of our safe zone, and we'll have to really want it. I can't read minds, but even a significant amount of effort on dating apps is zero-risk, so to speak- get out there, or if you're not willing to get out there yet, work on yourself. >>55212 You were asked here what your interests were- find a way to hammer that vague answer into a marketable, interesting set of characteristics. Be open and up-front about what you want sexually, and sell it as uniquity. Good luck!

>>55271 >I think especially in this corner of the sexual world, they are gonna be just as nervous, scared, defensive, etc. as whoever pursuing them may be- whether it's due to their weight >Really I'm just talking out of my ass You are. What you said was true 15 years ago but now that cat is out of the bag, fat women know how in demand they are and so their standards are going to be just as high as any other women

>>55273 Things are better than ever, back 15 years ago 90%+ of fat women were poor, ugly and horribly cared for (matted hair, stained sweatpants, multiple kids, etc). Now there are fat women with some form of pride in themselves. A lot of us tall, handsome, in shape men with great jobs like fat women thinking they’re attractive enough to work on looking good (good shape, good clothes, good makeup). I’ll agree plenty of shooting out of their league, moat know that guys like me have to work to roster fat fuckbuddies, the smarter more experienced ones know the demand is flipped for dating (fat women can get good dick anytime but struggle to find the same caliber of guys dating them…but this is true for all women. Guys got 5-10 roster spots vs 1 gf position open). If you can’t score casual with fat women you will need to simp much much harder to make up for being short/ugly/outofshape/low-rizz.

>>55274 >rizz. You have a high paying job despite being in middle school good for you

>>55197 If you live in the USA, I don't think you're going to live in an underdeveloped country because you're not going to survive, you're used to a country that gives you everything.

>>55276 Lol have you ever been to the US? Calling it a developed country is pretty laughable

>>55275 > You have a high paying job despite being in middle school good for you Im a 35 year old data scientist who spends all day online, playing video games and lifting while working from home and rostering up women in their early 20s. Seethe harder homo.

Made this post hoping for even the slightest bit of reasonable advice but instead it’s full of people saying women are garbage, telling me to leave the country, or bragging about how amazing and hot and better than everyone else they are. Guess this is a lost cause after all.

>>55281 > the slightest bit of reasonable advice You’re just too big a bitch to take the advice listed here: grind harder. Get in shape, get hobbies that are social, be less of a introvert, have friends, get educated, get a good job, just be a winner… once you do that you can have your pick of fat girls, or mack like no straight man can. It’s awesome. Everyone’s saying the same thing: more fat women than ever and they’re hotter than ever: get some. If you want easy women: go deformed or butt ugly (plenty of fat women have no standards just not the good ones). But there is no advice for getting women that’s gonna work with your bitter, self defeating worldview.

>>55282 Yeah but you’re making a lot of assumptions about me asshole. I am in shape, I do have friends, I am educated, my job isn’t great but it’s decent enough… I just literally go on these dating apps and they’re barren. I go out to bars and stuff with friends and there’s no single fat women there. I have a self-defeating attitude because people are saying I’m not doing things I’m already doing and I’m still failing.

>>55280 >Im a 35 year And you talk like a 13 year old? I guess you are just young at heart

>>55269 This once you hit 30 women on apps are going to see you as nothing but a beta provider. Try lying about your age and making yourself look as young as possible in your pfp

>>55281 >reasonable advice from a chan board

>>55287 As opposed to where else?

>>55273 I feel I addressed that- yes, standards have certainly increased for some women, but no one is without insecurity. It doesn't need to be solely about weight; we're all human. 'Standards', broadly, can be a matter of pride/vanity/ego, but they can also be a self-defense mechanism of sorts. That's one of those ugly truths worth mentioning specifically- I think dating standards have risen to an unreasonable high across the board with many women (and men, for that matter) regardless of their appearance or actual value to a prospective partner, due to a combination of influences mostly coming from the internet/social media. The reason it manifests itself, though, varies wildly from person to person- it could be a grotesquely inflated ego, it could be the result of social engineering or "clan-seeking", it could be insecurity/fragility about image and interaction online vs in-person, etc. etc. In that way, I don't think it's a simple enough topic to handwave it as women having high standards in that sort of traditional, negative sense.

>>55286 >Lie about your age to the people you want to get into a relationship with Are you insane?

>>55292 It worked for me I'm 32 and started having way more success on apps after I started pretending to be 26. As long as you don't have receding hairline and shave your millennial grizzly adams beard you won't have any problem passing. And you should focus on at least getting a hookup first before you start worrying about getting a gf

>>55294 This is a terrible idea for any long term relationship

>>55294 My tinder is just a constant stream of people I know, so unless you move somewhere new that sounds like a recipe for disaster

Just stay active on dating sites, don't be a creep, and treat SSBBW like normal people. Don't fetishize their size or comment too much on it unless they've made it known they're okay with it. I'm not a beefcake or tall by any means, but I am reasonably attractive and have managed to land plenty of SSBBW mainly by not being a creep.

>>55224 Attend anime conventions and try to pick up girls there.

>>55083 Believe it or not i had some luck on wooplus

Autism? OCD? Are people lying to you and you’re just ugly or no fun? There’s no excuse for not fucking fat chicks, just hit them up for sex and see where it goes. Don’t try to come at them all gentlemanly, they’re not those kind of ladies, they’re fat and used to being fuck meat for dudes who pull.

>>57548 I disagree with this entirely. I do find that being more of a gentleman results in better outcomes

>>57980 > find that being more of a gentleman results in better outcomes Found the John. Try being gentlemanly with your pocketbook closed bitch boy. Sad truth is that’s the game these days, you’re no hero for trying to force the game to be played by your personal moral code.

I know I’m kinda late to this, but WooPlus really isn’t as bad as people say it is. Just be really upfront in your bio that ur into feeding (but not in a weird way), and the girls on the app who actually have a fat fetish and aren’t just obese women who got shadowbanned on tinder will match you (provided you’re reasonably good looking). Remember, fat girls don’t get a lot of action, and fat girls with this fetish get even less action from someone with the mutual interest. The only reason why models like Lana and Layla get laid is because they’re models and basically invite over their Coomer fans to make sex tapes, most fat chicks who get off on being fat don’t have that so just try to appeal to them. (This has worked for me multiple times)