Honestly, yes. Most of the time it’s because the fat woman has no problem getting dick, wasn’t looking and was trying to occupy my freind. I’m tall, and leaner built so tall thin women think they have to date me or some bullshit.

That's actually hilarious. Not exactly the same but I kinda get this feeling whenever some thin girl likes me on tinder that has a group photo where there's some fat girl. If I was more autistic I'd probably match with them just to ask for their friends number. One time I was at the smoking balcony of a club and tried talking to this fat girl and before I even got to say anything she pointed me in the direction of her skinny friend a few meters away who on the contrary really wanted to talk with me...

>>55881 girls never talk to me so no

Not that it's a regular occurance by any means, but I've been hit on 2-3x as much by thinner women than fatties (my type). Especially back in college. It's evening out a bit now that I'm older. I think it's because I'm way cooler around non-fatties because I'm not interested. With fatties I get worked up and weird.

>>55881 I can imagine this being so annoying and depressing to experience in the moment. But on the other hand, it's kinda humorous and endearing in a way that you experience this with your friends. Life can be funny, that way. I think one day, you'll find someone who you like. Then, all of these cruel twists of fate become humorous stepping stones leading to when you finally find someone :)

>>55936 Most awkward recentish example: When I was in my mid-40s I struck up a chatting friendship with a barista near my office. She was a college student (grad, so like 24), short, thin but curvy, cute pixieish face, hipster style but not over the top. Great crush material for normies. I assumed she was just being nice to the old guy who always tipped and had an ok sense of humor. I tried not to overstay my welcome, even if the cafe was empty. Then one day I bumped into her on the street nearby and she started up a conversation. I was surprised enough by this, kinda flattered that she was interested in me — as a friend — outside of a customer situation. Then she fucking asked me out! Asked what I was doing that night, that she had tickets to a buzz indie movie (we'd talked about movies) and if I'd be interested. I was totally blindsided — I have a good rap, I'm decent looking but not in great shape and balding. I'm not poor, dress nicely and such but I know I don't come off as wealthy. Not sure what she saw except maybe a promising guy upon whom to work out her daddy issues. If I was wired like a normal fucking guy this would have been like hitting the jackpot. As it was, I told her I was seeing someone (which was sort of true). She was visibly disappointed but cool. I went to another coffee place for the next few weeks and then things were normal when I went back. And again — this does NOT happen to me regularly, or like, ever unless I lay some groundwork.

>>55882 I run into this same exact problem often. Meanwhile, I prefer short fatties

>>55882 >>57634 I have the opposite problem to you guys. I'm very tall and thin (6'5" & 180lbs) and I seem to attract women who are very short. Most of them were about 5'2" or 5'3". Which is fine when they're like 180-230lbs. But the last one was 5'1" & 350lbs, and honestly she was just too short & fat for me. I still found her body attractive to look at but sex just didn't work logistically. I dated a different one who was 5'8" and 350lbs and that was fine sex-wise.

>>57635 5'1 at 350lbs must've been HUGE

>>58041 Oh yeah she was. Honestly a bit of a butterface though. She had crows feet even though she was only 32. The "fatter in person" effect with her was crazy though. She didn't fatfish me or anything (she was pretty open about being fat & happy with her size etc) but seeing her IRL for the first time was still a big shock. I have been with women who were heavier than her, but she almost certainly had the highest BMI of any woman I've been with

>>55881 My exact problem when I used Hinge. Got decent attention from skinny girls but virtually none of the BBWs I swiped on got back to me. Sigh...

>>58077 Too fat ? You’re on the wrong board.

>>58337 If fat chicks wont date you but thin ones will it’s usually a problem of you being built like a twink. It sounds like the money is good but your dick doesn’t measure up to what a fat bitch needs.

>>58338 Eh. Not too fat overall, but just too fat at that height. Too fat and too short. It was physically difficult, uncomfortable and unpleasant to fuck her. My femurs were just too much longer than hers, it was like a greyhound trying to fuck an obese bulldog. Didn't help that my dick was too thick as well.

It's a hilarious twist of fate, I swear. I've had this happen with a lot of fat women that I first met in-person. All throughout high school, only rail-thin girls liked me, and same with my early time in college. I did finally meet my first serious girlfriend in college who was a little over 200lbs. She just mentally... broke one day, and I'm fairly certain she started cheating on me with any man who gave her the time of day. I always put my all into being the best partner possible for her, so I was genuinely so confused as to why it ended so poorly. She eventually reached out years later to apologize, and blamed the fact that she was never comfortable being with me; since I was the most conventionally attractive person she had dated, she always felt like she was being judged, and said she always felt like an ogre next to me in public. She even hated our body contrast, it made her self-confidence plummet... so she was actively trying to sabotage the relationship instead of addressing her own body image issues and paranoia. I've had that same projection/explanation given to me by other fat women I fancied IRL; they thought I was almost taking the piss by romantically pursuing them. That said, I've never once had a problem with a women I first met on the internet first. Places like Feabie, Fantasy Feeder, and Tumblr (a true FA mecca, RIP) meant that there was zero doubt about my intent, I was here to meet the big behemoth bitches. Lol It sucks and it shouldn't be this way, but many fat women who actively hate that they're fat will self-sabotage or resign themselves to a certain quality of partner to avoid getting hurt. Maybe, in a lot of these cases, they believe you're too good for them and choose to reject you before you have the chance to do the same. That said, maybe try meeting a fat lady online in a safe space where they can know that without a doubt, you're looking for what they bring to the table? That's been my only solution.