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Theoretically, if you abstained from all porn and FA stimulus, didn't date fat girls for a while, would this fetish go away? Anonymous 11/08/2024 (Fri) 12:30:54 Id:21f2e7 No. 56343
Im not ashamed of this fetish/sexuality. I really really like fat girls, and it feels so authentically true to myself. More than almost anything else, I love fat women and desire the softness of the touch of their skin, the squishy and ample curves, the feeling of comfort, security, luxury and sensuality that the fat divine feminine exudes. However, there are no fat women around me and it's driving me wild. I see twiggy, skinny, small women that I feel almost nothing to, and it makes me feel broken. The plump women here are covered up in draping dark clothes cause it's a source of shame, and are probably a decade or 2 older than me. If I abstained from all FA stimulation, would I form a more normie sexuality? I masturbate like once a day or two, usually to porn but sometimes not. Yes always to fat girls but not like ssbbw all the time. I like where I live all and all, but it drives me crazy sometimes how this sexuality is near incompatible with it.
It wouldn't make the fetish go away, not at all, but it would make you naturally hornier (I mean this in a positive way) and broaden your spectrum, so to speak - you'd still prefer fat, but would probably be able to make hay with thinner girls. Also, just stop masturbating so much, go a day or two between at least (if nothing else, it makes it better).
I don't think so. I'd say if you dated a thinner woman and fell in love maybe you could overlook her "shortcomings." In the way normies might be attracted to a fat woman only in the context of a loving relationship. But I believe our thing is hard-wired and eventually you'll drift back to it.
The fetish would *eventually* go away, but it's going to take a while, and some conditioning to be attracted to other things.
I don't think it would ever go away if you tried this Same with what people tried with gay people not so long ago (I always like to use that comparison, since both is off the norm and set somewhere in someone's brain) It's hardwired somewhere and you can't really rewrite what is part of your brain's core coding ;) Just go for it instead and be happy you like big soft jiggly women with a lot of extras others will never be able to enjoy ;)
Yes it 100% would go away, but it would take a very long time. Porn induced fetishes are caused by your dopaminergic system being rewired, but these changes revert after a long enough time if you abstain completely, but your desire to engage with the fetish would increase dramatically initially, making it harder and harder to keep away. The amount of time it takes depends on your age, how long you've watched porn for and what age you started. Neuroplasticity in general is also a main factor. Dopaminergic system repair can be sped up with sunlight exposure and rectifying any vitamin or mineral deficiencies. It can also help to abstain from things that damage your dopaminergic system generally, such as video games, social media etc. I've also heard anecdotal reports of a supplement called 9-Me-BC speeding up this process dramatically, though I think it has some pretty nasty side effects and has not been researched much so DYOR. That being said if the fetish is caused by something other than porn then this method will not be effective.
>>56379 I guess for 99% of us it is not porn induced I don't think a lot of people around here went down that road Maybe some discovered it that way But for most it was there from the start. Most of us fell for that one fat girl at school when it all started and then went to porn for more I guess ;)
>>56409 Yeah, abstaining from porn might help but all you need is to see one fat girl irl who turns you on and then, what? Nobody is gonna go from this to only finding thin girls attractive.
>>56343 I have a solution for you, but it's fairly elaborate and may change your life forever.
>>56411 Exactly You might be a year out and you randomly see that one fat girl that ticks all your boxes while let's say grocery shopping and you think you suddenly don't think she's cute anymore? You tell me you're not gonna look at her huge double belly, the big saggy boobs and all those rolls visible despite her being fully clothed? Never gonna happen Even if you tried you couldn't resist that damn she's hot coming up on your mind when you have this preference.. Even reading this gets you after a while I promise ;)
BBW attraction could be "hard-wired" SSBBWs are an edge-case USSBBW attraction is porn/experience-induced, how did cavemen cope if it isn't?
Honestly I feel like when I go without porn for a while, I get way MORE turned on by seeing fat women out in public. I feel like porn keeps my libido normalized, and if I quit masturbating I find myself with a way stronger wandering eye when I'm out and about. Usually when I see a hot fat girl out in public and it's really distracting me, it's a flag to get me to realize I haven't gotten off in a few days and it's time to take care of it. If I cut out porn completely, I'd start having wet dreams because my subconscious takes things into its own hands. I don't want to deal with that laundry. I feel like I have things under control, masturbation is a 2-3x/week thing for me. If I was doing it daily or more, I might want to try to get it more under control.
I was obsessed with fat women since i was like 2. That was in 1991 and over 10 years before I had access to dial-up internet. This shit was baked into me.
I’ve been an FA since I was 12. First girl I dated was chubby. Second girl was as well, but had huge knockers. 3rd gf? A skinny C-cup. Guess which one of the 3 made me horny af without fail? (It was the 3rd one believe it or not). Now all of that said, I’m still 100% an FA, but I don’t have a problem being attracted to skinny girls either. It sounds cliché, but there’s more to infatuation than just looks. It’s also chemistry, their personality, character, and whatever niche kink/fetish your personally into (ie. Asian, macromastia, tall girls, etc). Your fat/Wg fetish won’t go away, but it can definitely be managed to a degree
No, opposite. I tend to get way hornier without porn or at least masturbating, especially after an extended period of time. I also had this preference way before I discovered porn.
As someone who quit, stupidly relapsed and plans to quit again at the end of the year. Quiting porn makes you wayyy hornier at first and drives you to go talk to women. Any porn induced fantasies seem to fade but general love for bbw isn't going too. There is only benefits to quiting, and as much as we can say stuff here you need to try for yourself.
>>56343 I don't think so. I've tried. Always end up right back here
Mine would instantly come flooding back as soon as I'm exposed to fat again and I'd coom to death >.>
>>56343 I did nofap for 95 days once, this fetish did not go away. IMO if you have it, you have it.
>>58424 agreed, started in NNN a little late in november and here I am again. Glad to made it to the end of the year and there were some benefits but never really lost my love of jiggly girls. Go figure.
I have dated thin and very fat girls, the fat ones always caught my attention more, I kind of enjoy sex more, I don't know why. Then I discovered this fetish so I think I would always choose the fat ones

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