I've already squandered 2 opportunities to fatten someone up. Next time I'm gonna keep feeding her until she either begs me to stop, or she can't move anymore.

Seriously? Then you aren't a "real one" Have no shame, peers know how big I like em, embrace it and she'll love you for it.

They're gonna be fat anyways. Enjoy it while you're young. Don't marry into it though. Past 35 the health stuff becomes a pain. Either they deflate or you're a caretaker. Maybe both.

>>58475 Wdym a real one

Yall don’t feel morally wrong? Like Ik u can deflate her but why even put her in the position to be at risk in general. I was born like this if I had any other choice yea I’d fuck a big bitch but this being my fetish is ill to me

>>58475 Oh fuck you. Fat acceptance is cute and all on Curvage comments and Tumblr threads, but come on. As an extreme fat fetishist, if there weren't downsides to being fat, shit, I'd be immobile. Unfortunately we are in real human bodies. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being "concerned" about your kink, OP. You have the right thought process. Nobody wants that 550lb burden, nobody sane wants to degrade their health and lifestyle to attain it, and dating someone who has? Absolute nightmare. These fat bitches are CRAZY! My advice to you OP, just get a curvy girl. You will never overcome this fetish. But you can transmute aspects of it, and enjoy them through more healthier, realistic means. In other words, what ABOUT extreme obesity turns you on? The hedonism, the helplessness, etc... you can find those traits in more ordinary women in other ways. Do you want to go on walks with your loved one? I do. That's why I'll never achieve my fantasy.

>>58533 Bingo If you have a ssbbw fetish, go fuck a few of them while you're young and then settle down with a girl who's got some good jiggle but isn't obese. Plenty of girls with big butts and thick thighs aren't that fat overall

>>58533 "Fuck a landwhale but marry a curvy one" Definitely doesn't answer the question and continues the stigma that huge women are only for sex not a relationship.

>>58559 I mean, if a landwhale is what you want, go for it. They're not exclusively for sex, but huge women are not viable life partners unless you are willing to compromise a lot, let's be real.

>>58470 M/23, I just wanna know how the hell do y'all find women that are like 400+ lbs? I'm into super fat women but I have never seriously talked to one. The heaviest woman I've been with was probably 250. The huge ones just do not seem to exist in normal spaces... i.e. Hinge, bars, and even the university I attended... Chubby girls all over the place, no ham planets.

>>58559 The question was "How do you live with it?", and I'd say I answered it pretty well. Also nowhere in my post do I say to fuck land whales (though it's none of my business if OP wants that or not). I actually advise to stay far, far away from these gluttonous leeches. Stigma? Come on. Bottom line, it takes a special phenotype to be morbidly obese and if calling them lazy is feeding into a stigma then I'm not the one perpetuating it, THEY are.

>>58534 100% this. I married a near-landwhale, and won't do it again. The sex was great... until the honeymoon phase ended, and it became weekly and not daily. The post-nut clarity comes at you quick. Do you want a partner who shares in your hobbies? Who can travel with you, go on walks, go to movies, go out to dinner? Someone who can eventually co-parent with you? Then what you want is a fat girl -- jiggle and flab without the disability.

>>58569 What did downsides did you hate the most?

>>58570 Not OP but I’ve wrangled my own herd of cattle over the years. Downsides: She’s physically disabled and can’t do much now. She was probably always mentally disabled too. Takes a special kind of retard to eat yourself into crippledom. Also the laziness (and pride to never ask for help and see it accurate). The smell coming from the shower drain.The stigma. Her farts are worse than death. Expensive, get ready to pay more for everything in life to experience less.

>>58534 Better yet, don't ever marry.

OP- Well I've watched this video of psychiatrist explaining the fatter you are the more your brain shrivels. So it's scientifically supported the fatter the woman the more retarded or mentally I'll you become. Which is why juicy Jackie and Jae mentally fell off. >>58589

>>58618 They also mentally decline as they become more isolated. When your size keeps you at home you only get socialization from TV and social media, which is the opposite of healthy. You lose the mental stimulation that comes from being out in the world. Making these women dumber and more narrow-minded.

>>58618 I'd like to see the primary literature on this. What are your sources?

>>58625 1. A. Dipshit, "Stuff I Pulled Out of My Ass" (Waste of Oxygen Press, Mom's Basement, 2009), 34-40.

>>58630 >>58625 A Dr. David Amen interview about adhd which he briefly discuss things that will weaken your brain (around 23:30secs) https://youtu.be/ycTZ_t-aiuU?si=nmMlLI2EoWYiV6Jn-OP Who's the dipshit now

>>58645 > Alarm bells ringing: He talks with extremely high confidence, whereas most legit researchers always have tons of caveats. > Then I go on his Wikipedia, he sells supplements based on his SPECT scans, which have not been proven to actually show what he claims they show. > From reading the wiki, it seems his patients are paying for these scans themselves, 4000 USD, which to me sounds super problematic as the evidence is so questionable. > Stay critical....

>>58651 Understandable but spect scans is 3d imaging of organs and if he scanned 3500 people across 3 different studies n he was able to correlate the 3d images of the brains sizes to being smaller in bigger people

>>58651 MRI's also on average cost $1325. So I can see how a digital 3d image can cost 2.5x as much

>>58589 this is absolutely fucking killing me. "takes a special kind of retard to eat yourself into crippledom" is one of the funniest things ive ever read

I’d fuck them for pleasure and maybe even date and I have one long term but they’re not marriage material unless you find a one in a million, even then you’re looking at either long term health issue and probably not able to have kids etc. You see how fast being that big ages most women. They’ll look like shit by 35-40. It’s just not a good long term lifestyle and most of the really big ones I knew lost the weight in their 30s. If you plan on being single long term or just hooking up do as you please but you’ll miss out on a full life. Pounding fat plushy women is heavenly but you’ll find most of them are either mentally ill, raging narcissists, or hate themselves and you won’t save those one from hating. A dated a woman long term who was high 200s until she found my porn stash and then turned herself a 400lb fuck toy only to wake one day and blame me for it. Anyone who’s willing to do big gains has mental problems, and the ones who are huge and just accept it will either die young, turn into a goblin, or lose it all and then turn into a even worse mental case. Settle for 200-350. It’s more than enough and lots of normal women are in that range.

>>58561 Try Feabie. As long as you’re not a dickhead, you’ll have a competitive advantage over a lot of the other dudes on there, which will make you look even better by comparison. Honestly, any “safe space” where they already know that you find them attractive helps.

>>58765 Gonna have to argue that Tinder or pretty much any other app has given me a much higher success rate than Feabie. Like, even to the point that I'd message a girl on Feabie and hardly get a response, but message her elsewhere and get a great conversation or even meet up.

>>58765 > Try Feabie. As long as you’re not a dickhead, you’ll have a competitive advantage over a lot of the other dudes on there, which will make you look even better by comparison. Are you a faggot, a woman or a virgin? Literally every woman on feabie complains about fucking the same handful of dickheads they pass around. Be tall, be muscular, have money and be ready to lay down some solidly oversized pipe if you want a competitive advantage over other men. But being a supplicant bitch isn’t gonna make women drop their panties.

>>58765 Be prepared to sort through all the scammers and women on Feabie who immediately ask you for food money before even asking your name

i find the rest of everything else is equally as absurd as well the issue i have is that i would like a similar level of acceptance for my personality; i’m sensitive. somebody that i legitimately care for and who legitimately cares for me, kind of helps bridge that gap sometimes

>>58778 Gay comment and reeks of projection. There's a huge difference between being a "supplicant bitch" and respectfully hitting on a girl. Have you ever used Feabie? One look at my local competition and realized I had a huge advantage already just by being young. 6ft, a job, and a good personality is literally all you need to hook up with a local fatty. Not sure where you're looking from, but most of the big chicks in MA don't "pass around" the same men, and if they have a bad time they usually try to exile the dude because they have nothing better to do. >>58816 I understand brother. Many of these feabie women are also broken in some capacity and I've found the younger, slimmer (<400), and sometimes uglier ones are the best for conversation or connection. Find local people you can connect with, build something, and see where it goes! That's the only way you're gonna solve your problem.