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Need relationship advice Anonymous 01/10/2025 (Fri) 10:43:46 Id:e68096 No. 58797
Been in a relationship with my gf for some months now. We came together with some good chemistry but with one big issue, she's really thin. I let her know early on I had an attraction to fat and it was a big thing for me, and she seemed cool with it. She's really not into any of it lately and seems to have sorta grown to hate when I show love to her belly which in turn has kinda killed my attraction to her but she doesn't want me to leave and begged for me to stay after we nearly broke up. What should I do?
Call it quits. At some point you're gonna cheat or pick up a porn addiction because you're not getting what you need. Unfair to both of you to keep it going.
>>58797 Sounds like a problem. Get out. If you like fat girls, date a fat girl. Especially if you are having any sort of fantasies of her getting fat, and she's very clearly against it... yeah. Get out. You're attracted to the idea of her getting fat, not her.
This shit will ruin your life brother. Obesity is a burden. Every day. Take the partner who is capable with less risk of health problems. Have a future together. Don't live for your dick, making her fat a third wheel. It's not worth the constant overhead. Fat bitches be crazy too.
Not sure why you would even want to entertain a skinny chick with just her personality. A relationship is a healthy mixture of both physical and personality. If she doesn't want this to end there needs to be some compromises and if she refuses she isn't ready for a relationship unfortunately.
Go "all in" for this one. Tell her that her sour reaction to the belly stuff is making you want to break up with her and you've had it. It made you realize more what you like and she's gotta get on board with this now. Eating more, belly rubs, etc. If not, she's done. You two were going to break up anyway, so shoot for the stars
You can’t just make a skinny girl fat. Just find a fatty.
This is what's known as a 'fix-er-upper', it's not gonna work no matter how you try, and the begging to stay doesn't give anyone emotional stability vibes. Split up amicably, be nice but firm. I dated one skinny girl in my 20s and as much as she was a sex crazed slut in the sack there was something missing. We fell out, had a week vacation with friends and slept with a 400lbs delight, I was never going back. Go date some big girls and see what you're comfortable with.
>>58803 this, maybe you're able to, but the fact that you're on this forum means that you know what you like and it's girls bigger than her. You will always wonder what it's like and feel like something is missing. One day, you'll meet up with a girl you're attracted to, the feelings might be mutual and then the problems will REALLY start, or you'll get addicted to something that you're actually attracted to
OP here with a bit of an update. Recently I think she's becoming more aware of what gets me going. She complained a few days back that she was underweight and wanted to gain more. She keeps "jokingly" moaning after eating something good, and has recently been eating a shit ton of food, just today she ate some ice cream cake, chips, some pie, bunch of slim jims, and some other shit and has been drinking sugary slop (way above her calorie limit as she's so short). Can't help but be more turned on recently, wish us luck everyone!
>>58797 break up, fuck that shit. i've been in the same position a few times and i am 25 now. i can wholeheartedly say that i am lucky to not have kids with one of them and do not have a marriage. that shit will eat you alive. unless you can somehow manage to never watch this porn again and devote your life to christ. you will always have this need in your brain. don't waste your time, if you were truly in love with her you wouldn't need to ask this. its good that you did, it shows you care but this will just drag you down and drag her down in the end.
>>60291 oh my bad i didn't see this, that is good to hear.
>>60291 God bless, bro. If she's happy to play along on top of everything else, she's a catch. Odds are on your side that she'll chub up a bit over time regardless, especially if you're (tactfully) encouraging it. She might not ever be the land whale of your dreams, but if she can turn you on and this relationship ends up being the one for you guys, it'll be for the best.
>>60291 Confirm to her that you like these new changes. It doesn't have to be explicit. Just make sure she cums when stuffed and she'll be locked in.

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