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Issues being with fat women Anonymous 01/13/2025 (Mon) 10:10:28 Id:472636 No. 59146 >>59147 >>59166 >>59988 >>63420 >>64853 >>64885
What are the main issues you face dating/being in a relationship with a fat woman? My girlfriend is 5' 8" and about 300 lbs. She snores like a freight train and I literally can never get a full night of sleep.
>>59146 Get her tested for sleep apnea
Travel logistics (plane seats, fat-friendly itinerary, etc.), furniture, dentistry (if you’ve got a ssbbw who can’t fit in a dentist chair, stay on top of her brushing and flossing), and social anxiety due to microaggressions or perceived slights at their size.
Seconding sleep apnea. Wife is 5’8” and 340, the CPaP helps a ton with her snoring and helps her sleep better in general. Other than that, biggest issue we face is her weight puts more wear and tear on furniture - our bed, her recliner, etc.
Get a bidet. There's been tons of threads on this over the years, and several people have said it helps their woman more than anything.
>>59155 >bidet Stop being a faggot and just take a shower yo clean off like a normal person who doesn’t need to shove cold water into their rectum.
>>59157 They have heated water and heated seats now if you don’t buy a cheap crappy one. I second a bidet, we got ours last year and wouldn’t go without one now. You just sound like a broke ass who can’t afford one.
>>59146 In addition to the sleep apnea test (which can take some time to schedule), I recommend getting an adjustable bed frame where you can raise the head up. It's substantially reduced my wife's snoring (and my own, to be honest). We bought a Malouf bed frame recently and it has changed our sleeping life massively. Upgraded to a King at the same time which is also nice just to not be rubbing shoulders all the time. I still do wear earplugs however since I don't tolerate noise while sleeping. I recommend the "Mack's" brand. The main issue beside sleep is just that fat people get tired really fast. Even a walk around the mall can be exhausting without a rest stop. So, just be prepared for that.
>>59167 What are you talking about, exactly? Speaking from experience, here— choose your car carefully. Sure it’s fun to ogle them squeezing into a smaller sedan but when YOU don’t have as much space while driving, it’s a different story
>>59161 I’ve tried a few bidets, honestly more mess for me to clean around than my wife using the shower.
>>59157 This is fine if you are regular just before a shower, and don't go more than once a day, but I'd wager most people aren't.
>>59161 Fun fact: bidets are mandatory in all houses in a town called Zamora in Spain.
>>59146 My girl is around 5’5” and nearing 400 and snores like a truck. It may be hard to fall asleep to but it never wakes me up. She got this little mouth guard thing that helped a lot. >>59155 Fuck a bidet. My girl can barely reach her ass she is so fat and she is bad at wiping. Damnit if I don’t still lick that shit hole clean every time. >>59169 I do agree with this one. I drive a truck. Her mom has this little car that that she barely fits in. Honestly, her mom is fat too and barely fits either. I usually end up in the back seat or driving because their bellies don’t really fit behind the wheel. Not a comfy ride for them. Only issue with my truck is watching her struggle to get in. She has plenty of room though. I have nice seats in the truck too so she is comfortable on road trips.
>>59988 >My girl is around 5’5” and nearing 400 and snores like a truck. She probably has sleep apnea. I'd get that checked.
Come on man, you gotta clean that ass out
This is difficult because most of the things that are "issues" turn me on and I wouldn't have them different. I think I'm with you that the main thing is difficulty sleeping, but it's less because she snores and more because our mattress has to be very firm for her. We've tried this different ways and one of us is always uncomfortable. We're ultimately going to have to go for one of those beds with different firmness on either side.
>>59146 so my wife found this "Queen Tape" mouth tape off of TikTok, works like a charm. No need for a CPAP or anything.
Dating a 240 lbs for a few years now and she gets cracked heels/sole easy. She'll have a few wounds but nothing serious. Needs to moisturize her sole everyday. At least it doesn't stop her to go on long walks, so that's good.
>>59146 Get a set of earplugs. Seriously. You get used to them pretty quick. Biggest issue I have is that she keeps filling the house with snacks for herself, but goading me to have at least some so she doesn't have to deal with the guilt of eating the whole bag/package herself. I've always kept away from snacks by not having them in the house, but that's not realistic when your SO is 300+ pounds.
>>64853 Seconding earplugs. Might need to experiment a little to find a set that works best, but it's a good solution. Re: snacks, cost of doing business as it were, IMO. It's worth it to keep her snacking. Relationship weight is easy enough to laugh off, and if your friends give you real shit over it, you need better friends. (also if you're really worried about calories you can probably adjust by cutting back somewhere else) Source: in a very committed LTR with a plus-sized lady.
>>59146 Idk what bidets are like in the UK but they really aren’t generously sized and tend to make a mess. It’d probably help if my lady ate more fiber and vegetables but we’re are who we are.
>>59988 The demise of the big barge american sedan with bench seats is a shame for fatties. Nothing like a fat girl slopped out over the bench seats of a Buick LeSabre or similar, center arm rest up so you can grab a handful while she chows down on something from a drive thru. Trucks are the replacement but still the bench seats are getting rarer
>>64885 We have a bidet and my wife loves it, doesn't make any kind of mess.
>>59155 >>59199 in every town and city of spain amigo 😂

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