>>59279
>Is my size really not a problem to you?
I would say that I have a preference for ‘plus size’ or larger women. I wouldn’t say ‘fat’. Women get really weirded out if you say ‘fat fetish’ it implies something untrusting and dark
I was once asked straight out by a girl in the bedroom if I have a fat fetish or something and I was like a deer in headlights. I played the dumb card and was like “no, what do you mean?” 💀
For context we just finished sex and I asked if I could lay my head down by her thighs and gave it away completely when I couldn’t stop grabbing everything, kissing her thighs and burying my face in them. I touched on the subject a month or two later and told her I hope I don’t make her feel like I am fetishising or objectifying her and she told me no, that she really liked how I loved every part of her body enthusiastically and made her feel super sexy. I also said I had a ‘preference’ for larger women so she definitely knew
Is it a ‘fat fetish’ at the end of the day? Probably, but I think women stop caring and don’t really get you to spell it out if you make them feel good and care about them personally. The only reason it's called a fetish is because it’s not mainstream. It’s only really seen as a fetish if you just want to fuck and nothing more, no emotional connection. Only fat activist radfems would say even if you love them while being attracted to them being fat are you still a piece of shit and a fetishist. It’s like the whole “would you love me if I was a worm” type shit. I can’t help what I find attractive so stop shitting on me
Also I was once asked by a girl on a date what kind of women I normally go for and I probably shouldn’t have said this as it wasn’t directly related to but I said I have a preference for larger women. Then did a super beta move and was like “not to fetishise you or anything, I just have a preference for larger women”. She didn’t seem fazed and was fairly confident in herself it didn’t matter
>what is it about big/fat girls do you like?
Most of these have been said already but
Things I would tell them:
- I love the softness and warmth that comes from larger women. There is something so nurturing and loving about it. I just get this immense feeling of satisfaction from cuddling. I think this softness and warmth from the fat compliments their femininity that just makes them so feminine and sexy
- The extra weight compliments a woman’s natural curves
- More woman = more to love
- (This could be seen as a backhanded compliment so be careful) Larger women usually might have a better sense of humour or personality (to compensate for their size, just like short men do). This means I literally get the best of both worlds
Things I wouldn’t tell them but definitely think:
- I get turned on a bit by the idea that they are a bit gluttonous and hedonistic. I love seeing them eat and not care, being a bit greedy and lazy. I also find it super hot when I see them having immense pleasure like them masturbating, fucking them or fingering them. Seeing them in so much pleasured and living a life of pure hedonism like royalty or a goddess just bricks me the fuck up. I guess seeing them like that lets me live vicariously through them in their life of pure pleasure. I’m stuck here having to try and be a man “struggle, be hard, suffer” etc and they then get to just lay back and be worshipped. This is more fantasy but someone did use the word ‘worship’ when she talked about how I made her feel
- I love just being entirely consumed by their bodies when they are on top. I think I might be a bit of a sub in that regard. I just like how the woman is bigger and heavier than me and I just see it as powerful and such a turn on. I like how she could probably kill me just by sitting on me
- The fact that liking fat women is seen a bit as taboo probably adds to it as well. It’s like you are just giving in to your sexual desires and letting go. It feels kind of shameful but so good at the same time to just give in and to admit that you find all that fat which everyone else views to be disgusting as so sexy and beautiful
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>>59329 I agree with you on the belly. I never say it too but they quickly pick up on it when I keep grabbing and kissing it. Thighs as well, and arms, and tits, and ass, basically every part that has meat
- A bit of extra sweat or body odor that sometimes comes with larger women is nice. Not stinky or anything but pheromones and shit. A bit of extra natural smell is really nice. This can sometimes be the opposite as there is a stereotype that fat women are smelly so these women can sometimes go to great lengths to make sure they always smell good. The same can also be true for how they present themselves. They might make extra effort (kinda like some trans women) to appear more feminine or dress well to kind of compensate a bit for them being big. This, while unfortunate and a bit sad, is a huge bonus for me because I really like it when she is very feminine in appearance
I honestly feel bad for people who don’t feel this way a bit. Apart from the social ridicule you get every now and again (people will eventually stop caring if you just embrace it and laugh it off plus you are seriously missing out if you don’t) being with a large woman for me is like heaven on earth. I get so much pleasure from them. I can’t keep my hands off, I feel so much warmth and embrace, their body is so incredibly attractive to me. I get bricked up just holding hands. I get turned on by every inch of their body and just have this incredible calming and content feeling when I am cuddling them. To them I’m just like some 4/10 that was the best they could get but to me they are as sexy as Megan Fox is to most normal guys, I be so rock hard it's unbelievable. Again good for me, unfortunate for them. I can’t imagine most normal guys being this stoked about their partner's body, but maybe I’m wrong
Lastly, I never got my head around people who like fat women because to them it’s like a controlling or security thing. That they date fat women so that they can manipulate them by feeding them and getting them fatter as a domination thing and getting pleasure from controlling their lives or having a fat girlfriend to get away with lots of other stuff because they know their partner will think this is the best they can get. Doing it as a way of getting pleasure from keeping them down instead of raising them up. And also fuck the guys that are just indifferent to their fat girlfriends bodies. Leave them to the people that actually find them sexy (me *cough *cough). Rant over