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Fat preferences reassurance Fat preferences reassurance 02/20/2025 (Thu) 19:09:43 Id:dbd81b No. 60817 >>60840 >>60870 >>60907
Every time I visit general discussion, I stumble across threads about quitting this fetish, or just guys that are not sure that they want to pursue their fat passions in real life. The theme of separating sexual preferences from real relationships is constantly recurring in our community, and I want to assure you that there is completely nothing wrong with searching for girls with specific types. It's absolutely socially acceptable to date only thin chicks, so why do we have to be any different? I was in doubt myself. Even after years in relationships with chubby and straight up fat women. People always say to us that only personality matters. Fuck this shit. This mentality will only lead you to feeling sorry for your own preferences, Not to mention, that those “only personality matters” faggots will never date a fat girl with nice personality. Attraction is a very complicated process, and looks REALLY DO MATTER. Of course you shouldn't be looking for a very specific type of woman, with specific hair colour etc, or you will end up as a lonely coomer. But if you dick responding only for the fatties, what can you fucking do about it? It's just impossible to ignore your fundamental instincts. All you can achieve is to suppress your true self and get depression or other mental health crap. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life silently watching your skin and bones wife constantly dieting, eating only salads? And just thinking about how cool would it be if she suddenly ballooned out of proportions? And just realising that it's never going to happen. No, this bullshit isn't for me. After years of self doubt i realise that all that i need to accept, is that it will be difficult to find the right person with my fat preferences. Yes, it really will be hard, but not impossible. I just love fat squishy bellies to much, to fucking live the rest of my life without such a belly in my hands. Believe in yourself, handle this burden with strong posture, and stop whining. Because you are all Kings here. I know it's hard to be different, but you live only once. Do you really want to waste your single try without fat cutie cuddling with you around? I don't think so.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 11:42:02 Id:6c18f6 No. 60836
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Dear diary! Today, for once, OP was not a faggot. What a day to be alive.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 13:02:17 Id:aea411 No. 60840
>>60817 Confidence suits you well. Too bad there are so many closet cases out there.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 13:21:38 Id:f90056 No. 60841 >>60866
I thought there were few fat girls in Russia.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 22:11:11 Id:b55a51 No. 60862 >>60867 >>60874
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"I teach you the fat-lover. Normies is something that shall be overcome. What have you done to overcome him? All beings so far have created something beyond themselves; and do you want to be the ebb of this great flood and even go back to the beasts rather than overcome the normies? What is the ape to man? A laughingstock or a painful embarrassment. And the normie shall be just that for the fat-lover: a laughingstock or a painful embarrassment... Behold, I teach you the fat-lover. The fat is the meaning of the earth. Let your will say: the fat shall be the meaning of the earth! I beseech you, my brothers, remain faithful to the fat, and do not believe those who speak to you of otherworldly thinness!" Memes aside, I while I do agree wholeheartedly with your take on the subject, I do sympathize somewhat with the cucks who fail to put through their will in their lives. They bow their heads in shame and ebb out a miserly life, leaving no lasting imprint even on the snow they walk on, so weak is their will. I find myself in the tension of disagreeing with many norms of our society, but (as Nietzsche argued), life is fucking hard if you go against the grain. These people are obviously too weak to do so, even on a relatively minor matter such as a sexual preference for fat. If things are to change and fat de-stigmatized, the discourses and narratives need to be changed. But changing the discourse and narrative on fat requires people to actively redefine the them with great force and elan. And who can actually be bothered to do so in the age of Ozempic? And who can be successful doing so? None, probably. Therefore, the fat-lover truly is the übermensch. Hope you are doing well in the trenches, Ivan. Would be a shame to see such a beacon of based-dom, in a land devoid of such, be extinguished. Know that I stand with you and would not trade the warmth of a soft woman by my side for even the most terrible scorn from my peers.
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 00:04:36 Id:dbd81b No. 60866
>>60841 It's true unfortunately, but with enough effort you can find the hog of your dreams here
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 00:10:20 Id:dbd81b No. 60867
>>60862 Fear not for me, friend. I successfully avoided all that mobilization crap, and from now on only volunteers are going to the trenches. This is not mine war by any means, so i am not participating
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 02:17:53 Id:f9609c No. 60870 >>60877 >>60896
This shit sucks >>60817 I appreciate the attempt at morale boost op but it's far easier said then done. It's not the fear of ridicule or labeling of being a 'fetishist' that I'm afraid of (people can think what they want. You like what you like and as long as its between 2 consenting adults who cares?) it's just the fact that I can't find anyone. There just isn't many where I live and even less who are interested. You meet lots of women that you get on very well with but none fit your preferences I do believe there is something to be said for the idea that attraction isn't purely physical. I completely agree that it matters a huge deal but an ultimate dealbreaker? I don't know. How can I complain of women not liking me for whatever personal reason and at the same time turn down other women who aren't my type either? My preferences for big women are so strong I'm afraid of not being attracted to a thinner woman if I gave someone a shot. And I'm not doing this 'fatten her up' thing, I think it's asking them to change too much I'm just going through a long dry spell atm and a fear of dying alone. Finding someone you match with shouldn't be this hard. I'm just frustrated by how limited I am with this 'preference.' It's laughable that this is literally the opposite problem of what most other people have. When do you know when you should cut your losses and maybe try someone thinner?
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 05:40:46 Id:d816f0 No. 60874
>>60862 This is somehow both one of the most deranged and one of the most unironically inspirational posts I’ve ever seen. Bless you, brother.
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 07:03:53 Id:dbd81b No. 60877 >>60909
>>60870 Well, I have an answer for this. The key is to be clear with your intentions and expand your horizons. And by this I mean that even if you are only into SSBBWs you shouldn't focus only on them - try even just chubby girls. Not conventionally thin, that's what is important. Believe me, even a slightly fat girl with a somewhat modest belly can be a blessing if she is into the game. Not even actively gaining, no. Just who will accept your preferences, and don't have an eating disorder. You can easily make even a completely normie girl overeat sometimes - women like to eat, lol, it's just a fact. And to add more to this: what makes you think that if you will start to search just for any partner you will automatically find the right person with ease? I tried many times to focus on thin partners, and it was as hard as dating chubby ones. Dating just sucks in general
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 15:43:35 Id:6eae04 No. 60896 >>60903 >>60930
>>60870 I keep getting berated in other threads because people think I'm you
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 16:57:02 Id:dbd81b No. 60903 >>60918
>>60896 Are you guys Irish or Italian? Can't say if the last colour of the flag is red or orange on this site
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 18:15:44 Id:ba4d12 No. 60907 >>60922
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>>60817 A-fuckin'-men, Russiabro! Stay proud, stay weird, and stay safe. From one internet stranger to another.
mike 02/22/2025 (Sat) 18:58:03 Id:f08eab No. 60908
world peace united by the love of fatties haha!
mike 02/22/2025 (Sat) 19:16:13 Id:f08eab No. 60909
>>60877 amen to the chubby ones — we know where we see potential, and many women will feel considerably more comfortable gaining (some) weight in a relationship
Anonymous 02/23/2025 (Sun) 02:17:57 Id:66a61a No. 60918 >>60924 >>60931 >>60963 >>60980
>>60903 Irish. There is an American guy who keeps berating me for making whiny incel posts because he thinks I'm the other guy. There are at least 3 Irish guys who post on this site regularly, including me.
Fat preferences reassurance 02/23/2025 (Sun) 06:35:34 Id:dbd81b No. 60922
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>>60907 Moments like this are the reason why i am keep posting here
Fat preferences reassurance 02/23/2025 (Sun) 06:38:43 Id:dbd81b No. 60924 >>60931 >>60934
>>60918 Well, I can understand the guy honestly. Being a chubby chaser really can be overwhelming. But quitting? Nuts! By the way: how is the situation with fatties in Ireland? I am genuinely interested, how many of them are in your country, and how big they are. (I know that such talks are purely speculative, but nevertheless)
Anonymous 02/23/2025 (Sun) 16:44:41 Id:f9609c No. 60930 >>60934
>>60896 My bad big man I know I'm whiny, I like to vent on here sometimes. Also if that American is thinking he's somehow better, he's still posting on a fat fetish board like all the rest of us. He seems to forget that fact
Anonymous 02/23/2025 (Sun) 16:49:35 Id:f9609c No. 60931 >>60934 >>60935
>>60924 Not much were I am. I'm assuming >>60918 is a Dub so they would have more people around so maybe more fat people. It's not like the US where you get more fat people in the South, it's more evenly spread here. None are American sized and if they are they are super super rare What about Russia? The introduction of capitalism and mass consumption must have had some impact on the sizes of Russians, no?
Anonymous 02/23/2025 (Sun) 17:38:30 Id:7994ad No. 60934
>>60924 >>60931 His assessment is pretty much accurate. And he was correct in assuming that I'm from Dublin. If you look at statistics, Ireland theoretically has a high obesity rate. But when you go outside and look at the people on the street, you quickly realise that most of the fat people are middle aged or older. You don't see that many young fat women, and you really don't see many attractive young fat women. However I have travelled around the world quite a bit (including the US) and I have literally never been to a country where I saw a noticeable number of attractive young fat women on the street or at the bars. I don't think a place like that exists tbh. Fat people are obviously more common in some places than others, but that never translates into seeing BBW model -tier women populating the streets like GTA NPCs lmao. Anecdotally I will say that most of the girls I've been with (in Ireland) were in the 180-240lb range, and it's very rare to see any bigger than that. The biggest girl I dated was about 350-375lb and she was one of the fattest people I've ever seen in Ireland, maybe the fattest. Certainly the fattest under the age of like 50 (she was in her early 20s at the time). On the subject of Dublin, I will also say that most of the fat girls I've been with lived in Dublin but were not actually from there originally. Most were culchies (rednecks) and some were foreign immigrants. >>60930 Ah it's all good man. I vent a bit sometimes too. But tbh I realised venting here is a bad idea because you get these "tough guys" just berating you. But like you said it's ironic because they're definitely autistic losers too.
Fat preferences reassurance 02/23/2025 (Sun) 17:48:21 Id:dbd81b No. 60935 >>60937
>>60931 I am starting to think that we are really spoiled by all of these American gigantic hogs. Such sizes only can be found in America, while in Eurasia we all have to cope with much smaller girls. But again, nothing wrong with that. About fatties in Russia… I assume that we have relatively the same level of them here. Big cities like Moscow or Saint-Petersburg are good grounds for dating. We are even exposed to feederism to some extent, believe it or not. My ex had a fetish and gained a lot during our relationship. But we have a big problem here: Russia is extremely fatphobic. We are talking about Asia levels of fat-phobia. This creates not the best environment to be honest. But recently this started to change. Younger females rarely give a shit about their sizes, and in general are more confident in themselves. But when you are 30 it sucks to date a 21 year old. You are just on different levels. So yeah… In general, we have all the means to be fat here, we have american fast food here FFS. But mentality is still very judgemental
eg17 02/23/2025 (Sun) 18:01:11 Id:b06401 No. 60937 >>60938
>>60935 I think that this problem is basically widespread in the СНГ
Fat preferences reassurance 02/23/2025 (Sun) 18:11:44 Id:dbd81b No. 60938 >>60963
>>60937 Nice to meet you, товарищ. Yeah, СНГ is all the same in such regard. Ukrainian girls are believed to be more chubby, but i think that this is just a stereotype
Anonymous 02/24/2025 (Mon) 00:05:26 Id:c56092 No. 60963
>>60918 Lol I feel you, there is another Norwegian frequent poster here who has made a few posts in the same style as me, maybe even two users. Likely two others who aren't as frequent as well. >>60938 Russian regional stereotypes always fascinate me. Briefly dated a girl from there, she would always say "I'm not Russian, I'm karelian". Don't blame her, think only one grandparent was actually slavic russian and the rest was a mix of various minorities. Didn't look or act anything like Russians are stereotyped as here.
Anonymous 02/24/2025 (Mon) 14:26:42 Id:f90056 No. 60980 >>61290
>>60918 He also thought an Aussie was the same person.
Anonymous 03/03/2025 (Mon) 12:50:27 Id:6be948 No. 61289
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The idea is good that you just need to accept yourself but there are other problems for example I am a real schizophrenic with bipolar disorder who wants a girl and at the same time does not because I think too much and can I please her and feed her because Jewish blood flows in my blood because even my toad chokes me when I buy kfc 250 rubles and when I feed a girl even more the toad chokes and on the other hand I am so envious chokes when I see couples because they are so happy then the question is how I am worse than them but I remain alone because girls do not particularly like me and that's right why would anyone need a 21 year old guy who is a real lover of anime and games whole because my friend has already had 3 girls so far I have not had one and at the same time he drinks like crazy and smokes and behaves like a bandit while I am a simple boring guy who is not against even engaging in self-development then I study English then I try to learn to draw in the end I do not understand anything it seems the city is not big but just a big village with the name Volgograd (for foreign friends this is a city Stalingrad) or just the problem is in me?
Anonymous 03/03/2025 (Mon) 13:28:07 Id:de41c0 No. 61290 >>61293
>>60980 There are two or three men on this site coming from American colonies like Ireland and Australia who think they are catches, talk about their height and such, yet only come here to post about striking out with women, and creating vast conspiracy theories that are easily disproven by census data. There’s nothing stopping these men from scoring with women except narcissistic beliefs, FAS facial structure, and hardcore autism. The sooner they realize the problem isn’t everyone else but actually themselves the sooner we’ll all be free of their interchangeable postings. Fat women are easy and plentiful—we’re living through a global epidemic of obesity and these faggots can’t find fat pussy. 🤣
Anonymous 03/03/2025 (Mon) 13:47:11 Id:ad88ba No. 61293
>>61290 >>61290 > and hardcore autism. The most retarded part of this harsh truth, is if these basement goblins had a shred of capacity for self-reflection, they could turn being autistic into pretty hardcore dating game. Women want safety from men, especially fat women, and if you can show them that you really understand yourself as a neurodivergent person who is also in a vulnerable group like the fat girl.... they will open their doors to you and throw away the key. Another pro tip: a lot of obese women are obese because they have ADHD or autism or some other form of neurodivergence. If you're autistic and you can't find a fat chick do date, then you are LITERALLY RETARDED
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