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Fat preferences reassurance Fat preferences reassurance 02/20/2025 (Thu) 19:09:43 Id:dbd81b No. 60817
Every time I visit general discussion, I stumble across threads about quitting this fetish, or just guys that are not sure that they want to pursue their fat passions in real life. The theme of separating sexual preferences from real relationships is constantly recurring in our community, and I want to assure you that there is completely nothing wrong with searching for girls with specific types. It's absolutely socially acceptable to date only thin chicks, so why do we have to be any different? I was in doubt myself. Even after years in relationships with chubby and straight up fat women. People always say to us that only personality matters. Fuck this shit. This mentality will only lead you to feeling sorry for your own preferences, Not to mention, that those “only personality matters” faggots will never date a fat girl with nice personality. Attraction is a very complicated process, and looks REALLY DO MATTER. Of course you shouldn't be looking for a very specific type of woman, with specific hair colour etc, or you will end up as a lonely coomer. But if you dick responding only for the fatties, what can you fucking do about it? It's just impossible to ignore your fundamental instincts. All you can achieve is to suppress your true self and get depression or other mental health crap. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life silently watching your skin and bones wife constantly dieting, eating only salads? And just thinking about how cool would it be if she suddenly ballooned out of proportions? And just realising that it's never going to happen. No, this bullshit isn't for me. After years of self doubt i realise that all that i need to accept, is that it will be difficult to find the right person with my fat preferences. Yes, it really will be hard, but not impossible. I just love fat squishy bellies to much, to fucking live the rest of my life without such a belly in my hands. Believe in yourself, handle this burden with strong posture, and stop whining. Because you are all Kings here. I know it's hard to be different, but you live only once. Do you really want to waste your single try without fat cutie cuddling with you around? I don't think so.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 11:42:02 Id:6c18f6 No. 60836
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Dear diary! Today, for once, OP was not a faggot. What a day to be alive.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 13:02:17 Id:aea411 No. 60840
>>60817 Confidence suits you well. Too bad there are so many closet cases out there.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 13:21:38 Id:f90056 No. 60841
I thought there were few fat girls in Russia.
Anonymous 02/21/2025 (Fri) 22:11:11 Id:b55a51 No. 60862
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"I teach you the fat-lover. Normies is something that shall be overcome. What have you done to overcome him? All beings so far have created something beyond themselves; and do you want to be the ebb of this great flood and even go back to the beasts rather than overcome the normies? What is the ape to man? A laughingstock or a painful embarrassment. And the normie shall be just that for the fat-lover: a laughingstock or a painful embarrassment... Behold, I teach you the fat-lover. The fat is the meaning of the earth. Let your will say: the fat shall be the meaning of the earth! I beseech you, my brothers, remain faithful to the fat, and do not believe those who speak to you of otherworldly thinness!" Memes aside, I while I do agree wholeheartedly with your take on the subject, I do sympathize somewhat with the cucks who fail to put through their will in their lives. They bow their heads in shame and ebb out a miserly life, leaving no lasting imprint even on the snow they walk on, so weak is their will. I find myself in the tension of disagreeing with many norms of our society, but (as Nietzsche argued), life is fucking hard if you go against the grain. These people are obviously too weak to do so, even on a relatively minor matter such as a sexual preference for fat. If things are to change and fat de-stigmatized, the discourses and narratives need to be changed. But changing the discourse and narrative on fat requires people to actively redefine the them with great force and elan. And who can actually be bothered to do so in the age of Ozempic? And who can be successful doing so? None, probably. Therefore, the fat-lover truly is the übermensch. Hope you are doing well in the trenches, Ivan. Would be a shame to see such a beacon of based-dom, in a land devoid of such, be extinguished. Know that I stand with you and would not trade the warmth of a soft woman by my side for even the most terrible scorn from my peers.
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 00:04:36 Id:dbd81b No. 60866
>>60841 It's true unfortunately, but with enough effort you can find the hog of your dreams here
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 00:10:20 Id:dbd81b No. 60867
>>60862 Fear not for me, friend. I successfully avoided all that mobilization crap, and from now on only volunteers are going to the trenches. This is not mine war by any means, so i am not participating
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 02:17:53 Id:f9609c No. 60870
This shit sucks >>60817 I appreciate the attempt at morale boost op but it's far easier said then done. It's not the fear of ridicule or labeling of being a 'fetishist' that I'm afraid of (people can think what they want. You like what you like and as long as its between 2 consenting adults who cares?) it's just the fact that I can't find anyone. There just isn't many where I live and even less who are interested. You meet lots of women that you get on very well with but none fit your preferences I do believe there is something to be said for the idea that attraction isn't purely physical. I completely agree that it matters a huge deal but an ultimate dealbreaker? I don't know. How can I complain of women not liking me for whatever personal reason and at the same time turn down other women who aren't my type either? My preferences for big women are so strong I'm afraid of not being attracted to a thinner woman if I gave someone a shot. And I'm not doing this 'fatten her up' thing, I think it's asking them to change too much I'm just going through a long dry spell atm and a fear of dying alone. Finding someone you match with shouldn't be this hard. I'm just frustrated by how limited I am with this 'preference.' It's laughable that this is literally the opposite problem of what most other people have. When do you know when you should cut your losses and maybe try someone thinner?
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 05:40:46 Id:d816f0 No. 60874
>>60862 This is somehow both one of the most deranged and one of the most unironically inspirational posts I’ve ever seen. Bless you, brother.
Fat preferences reassurance 02/22/2025 (Sat) 07:03:53 Id:dbd81b No. 60877
>>60870 Well, I have an answer for this. The key is to be clear with your intentions and expand your horizons. And by this I mean that even if you are only into SSBBWs you shouldn't focus only on them - try even just chubby girls. Not conventionally thin, that's what is important. Believe me, even a slightly fat girl with a somewhat modest belly can be a blessing if she is into the game. Not even actively gaining, no. Just who will accept your preferences, and don't have an eating disorder. You can easily make even a completely normie girl overeat sometimes - women like to eat, lol, it's just a fact. And to add more to this: what makes you think that if you will start to search just for any partner you will automatically find the right person with ease? I tried many times to focus on thin partners, and it was as hard as dating chubby ones. Dating just sucks in general
Anonymous 02/22/2025 (Sat) 15:43:35 Id:6eae04 No. 60896
>>60870 I keep getting berated in other threads because people think I'm you
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