I want to ask you guys for some advice, and if you've experienced something similar. I've been with my gf for 7 years now and when we first started dating, she was rail thin. Like ribs and dick minus the dick, about 130 lbs at 5'7". After about two years I eventually told her about the fetish. She seemed hesitant at first but as I started talking about it more, she opened up and eventually started gaining. To make a long story short she got up to about ~230lbs and I fucking loved it. I couldn't keep my hands off her, yadda yadda. This went on for about two years (which were amazing), but her self esteem seemed to take a hit and she worried about clothing a lot. This culminated recently into a major crash diet where she dropped all of the weight in about 6 months (she's ~165 now). She's a lot more confident and seems to be enjoying it more on a general level. The problem is I can't get hard for shit now, and our sex lives have taken a huge hit. She also doesn't really play into the feedism aspect of it anymore, which is my favorite part, and is generally iffy when I bring it up/try to touch her belly. She still gets horny in a vanilla way but I just can't, I either make an excuse half the time or if we do get into it, it's half-hearted and I think she's starting to notice. I miss the chub too much bros. Do you guys have any similar experiences? How did you cope with your partner losing weight? I want and try to be supportive now but it's hard when I think she looked amazing and (sexier) bigger.