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Am I cut out for this? Anonymous 03/18/2025 (Tue) 08:49:52 Id:7afd7b No. 62054 >>62066 >>62078 >>62084 >>62124 >>62170
I'm guessing many of you have experienced similar things. I just want to vent lol My girlfriend is like 350-400 lbs range. She isn't a feedee and this isn't a feederism relationship, she's just really fat. She knows I like fat girls but not about feederism. Anyway I don't know if I can do this. I can never sleep because she refuses to do anything about her sleep apnea, and I'm spending like 60 dollars a day on food. I have also gained a bit because she insists on having junk food all the time. How do you guys in similar situations go about this? Is it normal to not do anything about the sleep apnea? And do you just have to work really hard to afford all this junk food? Pic unrelated
>>62054 Post a pic of your gf and I'll let you know your options.
Seems like something completely normal to be annoyed about. Tell her to stop being selfish and get her sleep apnea checked so she can get a CPAP machine. Same as the junk food, she’s being unreasonable…It’s stupid financially and health-wise. She doesn’t have a job or any income? It’s extremely selfish to make you pay for something really unnecessary. It doesn’t matter if you’re dating a BBW/SSBB, she’s still a regular adult that should be aware of what she’s doing and how it affects you.
>>62054 Who that
The sleep apnea thing is something younshould talk to her about regardless of your fetish. You can't sleep, she could fine a solution but doesn't try... just tell her you need her to help you out and look into a sleep study. The part about your money and food, also, should be a normal talk about budget. Either she chips in or there will be less food. You gaining weight is a you problem. Stop snacking or start being more active.
>>62054 Do you think girls end up weighing 350+ pounds by being effective and efficient problem solvers? No; they end up that way by being retarded or otherwise dysfunctional in everyday life. Part of being in a relationship with a fat girl usually entails forcing them to deal with the things they seem too lazy or avoidant to solve. A CPAP machine cuts down on the snoring a good amount but you're not going to get a perfect night of sleep unless she loses a ton of weight.
Honestly that's kinda what you buy into when being with a woman of that size (350+) Quite a lot of them snore like freight trains (not necessarily sleep apnea in every case, but that's common generally speaking) Also there's a reason why they got big if it wasn't you, so yeah they're either gonna eat a lot, or a lot of shit (hormonal causes are a lot more rare and usually still require aforementioned for a weight like that) Health issues, limited mobility/back pain, laziness, replacing broken furniture no matter how sturdy, buying food and treats, and you doing more things than her in everyday life is also part of the package you gotta be aware of You're not gonna get a girl of that size without all of this (more or less of these points depending on what she's like) Sounds harsh, but in a lot of cases you don't get 400+ without the other things mentioned It's up to you if you want that or maybe a smaller girl that is more in the bbw territory So yeah it takes a little more effort and maybe also more money than a slim woman But the reward is worth a lot more ;) The only thing is If she really has sleep apnea (and not just loud snoring itself) you should both look at it It can be dangerous, especially in the long run, and no snoring (if it really bothers you that much) and better sleep for her can be achieved by seeing a doctor and monitoring sleep as a first step It's neither normal nor not normal by the way Some people never see a doctor no matter what they have (just talk about it) Sources: I'm married to an ssbbw of about 400 lbs and I've been living with her for seven years so far
Oh and the point I forgot Yes it's not really unlikely that you'll gain a bit yourself if you're not really watching your weight or work our regularly She's definetely gonna get you into eating trash or sweets because of sharing and regularity I gained about 30 lbs in that time, but plateaued there for quite some time now I kinda like it tho and don't really mind And if you ask this community Her craving junk food all the time is most peoples dream on here So don't put that on the negative side of being with her ^^ I love it when my wife can't resist a treat and literally kills that bag of sweets in no time stating that there's always only so little content and it's always gone so fast ;)
I'm not comfortable doing this without her consent She's mostly belly but the ass and tits and pretty jiggly. If you really squeeze the fat it's crazy how small her actual waist is under her frame
Also, please excuse the change in national flag. I'm on holiday atm
>>62078 That's Chunkymonkey She's either British-Slovakian or Slovakian living in Britain Absolute stunner imo
>>62054 Yeah so about the sleep apnea real quick: So I'm no doctor, but if she was my gf I would definitely talk to her about going to a doctor to get this checked out. Sleep apnea can cause all sorts of bad things i.e. weird blood pressure spikes after waking up (since the body was in survival mode full of adrenaline as she was quietly choking throughout the night), and in bad cases you might not wake up the next morning. So I would not even really talk about how the snoring is bothering you, but rather how you noticed the snoring and it made you concerned for her well-being more than anything. If everything turns out fine at the doctor's or she is hesitant to go you can still bring up the loud snoring to try and convince her. I also encourage you to do your own research on the topic.
>>62123 Can someone direct me to her material? All I'm getting are some bare ass redneck mf.
>>62125 Can you phrase your question as a defense or criticism of the state of Israel and its military actions?
>>62125 5 sec coomer search...smh https://coomer.su/onlyfans/user/chunkymonkeyxoxo https://onlyfans.com/chunkymonkeyxoxo
>>62054 >>I like fat girls >>my fat girlfriend is lazy >>I can't afford all her junk food No, I don't think you're cut out for this.
>>62170 The problem is this place is full of shysters and cheapskates who want free porn and are too Jewish to pay for their fat bitches food bill.

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