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Ever had a partner and want to know how your fetish could work? You ask and bbw-chan answers Relationship Advice 03/30/2025 (Sun) 17:03:22 Id:3c44d0 No. 62790 >>62873
made this new thread for all of those who have questions about this fetish and being into a relationship, ask for advice and help. i have a question of my own i told my gf about my fetish and she is pretty open to try it out, the problem is her parents yesterday i confessed my gf that i had this fetish, i was so unbelievably nervous and scared she would be disgusted, but she told me its one of the least disgusting fetishes she’s ever heard of, and she doesn’t mind me having it at all, and after i opened up more and more and told her more about how it worked she seemed open to try it out, the thing is that she has been skinny her entire life, because her family was very restrictive on what she could eat and couldn’t, she became very picky with sugary food and gets full very easily, and she even forgets to eat sometimes during the day… and whenever the family saw another slightly chubby family members they’d make very harsh comments, basically they’re pretty fat phobic… I (20M) live alone on an apartment, Her (19F) still lives with her family, and her family is pretty over protective and doesnt seem she is getting a place by herself anytime soon… I told her we could try her gaining some little weight, if she feels good about it and if her family’s comments arent as harsh, then we could continue, but if not then we stop it. So the things are: 1.- she wants to gain weight but we dont know what “diet” we could follow in order for her to gain weight . and 2.- we dont want her family to force her to do something she doesnt want to, and we dont want them to begin “bullying” her.. how could we manage the situation? any advice?
This is what is known as a fixer-upper. You've stated several blockers to your plans. If you really want to date fat chicks, date fat chicks. Making skinny girls try to gain weight just doesn't work. The other side to this is, if you're dating a skinny girl and you're attracted to her, decide whether you just leave your fat kicks to your imagination. My wife yo-yos between 300 to 350 and was over 430 once. As much as I loved it it's hard work When they're so big, it's hot, but it's hard work. If you're sexually attracted to your girl, think twice on whether to go down the rabbit hole lol.
>>62790 Yeah, that is a quandary all right. It is hard enough for your partner to gain weight and then deal with their family's reaction when they visit, but it is quite another thing when they still live with their family and are financially dependent on them. There really is no one set answer on what to do. If her parents are controlling or very fat-phobic, it probably isn't worth the aggravation of taking it beyond roleplay. If they are hands off and are not going to say anything if she puts on a few pounds, then go for it! But be prepared for her to get questioned if it goes beyond just a few and becomes quite noticeable. I know it's a turn-on for you, but her parents are more likely to be concerned about her health and say something. Bottom line I would say would be to be patient and wait until your gf moves out from under her parents' roof.
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I don’t understand why anyone into this fetish dates thin girls in the first place. I could’nt ever be attracted to a girl under 200lbs. Plus if you find a girl who is already at least a little bit chubby and she’s guaranteed to fatten up over time without you even trying. Good luck I guess but if you really have a fat fetish there’s much easier ways to have a fat girlfriend.
>>62916 1. tremendous, excruciating social pressure to not date fat chicks 2. fat chicks, actually fat chicks that are pretty, are actually quite hard to find. 3. a powerful enough romantic and emotional connection can actually make dating a skinny chick sort of tolerable if the stars align But yeah if you have the chance to date a fatty and you just don't... then fuck you
>>62916 Fat girls are my sexual preference. But fat women do not make good life partners. Fun to fuck, not to live with -- especially if you end up as the caretaker. Or stuck at home every night and weekend because your lady can't participate. The ideal situation is to marry a regular sized woman with some bodily feature that can get you hard, and have her at home to raise your kids and show off at work events. And then bang fatties on the side.
>>62936 Or settle for a small fat.
>>62929 Point #1 only makes sense if you plan to never get your gf to fatten up, which isn’t what OP is doing. In young adulthood I also always felt very pressured to not date fatties but as soon as I started indulging I found that nobody cares. Every once in a while a random stranger will crack a joke but I won’t let that stop me. Point #2 is fair enough, but if you can’t get a pretty fat chick you definitely can’t get a pretty thin chick. I agree with point #3. Tbh, for the right skinny or average build girl, I could make it work. But for every one of those there’s probably three dozen BBWs I’d rather date. >>62936 My wife is like 280lbs and we’ve never had a problem going out and being active. Sure, we definitely aren’t going on ten mile hikes, but that’s a compromise you have to make if you want to be with fatties. Other than that I really don’t agree with fat girls not being fun to live with, unless you’re exclusively into like 400+ SSBBWs, then yes that could get problematic and tedious very quickly.
UPDATE: hi OP here, ive read all of yall, this is how stuff is going so far: she doesnt mind at all gaining any amount of weight, in fact she has been teasing me since i told her, she has been telling me stuff like "i want you to feed me" and "imagine if i were bigger". Throught the week we´ve had stuffings, kinda, i bought some things she likes to eat and drink, and she has been drinking them and today she had a pudgy belly, so she is gaining some weight, idk if its just waterweight tho, but the fact is that she is gaining and is into it, ill be updating how it goes, but so far its been so good, and if we keep going like this she is gonna get chubby in no time.
>>62936 I'd have to agree. They make shit partners. Even relatively small fats mostly just want to laze around the house snacking and watching movies. A few days of that and I'm just about ready to neck myself. No judgement to anyone who likes the homebody life and I'm no athlete don't get me wrong but I need to get out and about, go for hikes, concerts, beach days to break the depression. This is why I only date normies. Go get your kicks at the knock shop if you need to fuck a fatty. The lifestyle ain't for everyone

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