Doing this stuff full time (lifestyle feedism) is too wild for me. It's definitely hot that people do, but I'm simply not coombrained enough for it - there's more to life, and I want a partner who's in good health and physically able to enjoy them with. But that doesn't mean a partner who isn't soft, enjoys their body and that I enjoy it too, and is up for occasional kink play/stuffing. I wouldn't - couldn't - give that up, either. Personally, I'd just break up. I've tried to live with sexual dissatisfaction in the past, and it poisoned the relationship.

Maybe it's because I'm a bit naive and because my fetishes are relatively tame compared to many in this community, but for me the right woman will make you forget that you're not able to satisfy every single kink. Every time I'm on the edge of a relationship I have to gather my thoughts and ask myself is this how I want to live the next 50 years, if the answer is no, what is the point of keeping a relationship? Of course at the same time, is it realistic to find a partner that you are not only compatible with, but also is willing to devolve into your fetishes? Myself I have come to terms that I'm too picky for that to be a realistic requirement for a girlfriend. My current objective is just to sleep with as many fat girls as possible until I stumble over the right one so in your situation I'd end it and hope I'll find someone more compatible thru trial and error.

Short answer, yes. Long answer: It’s pretty complicated. I’m gonna share my experiences. First, I was befriended for almost a year with a pretty well known plus-size model who was for some time in the feederism scene. Friendship complicated things enormously because when I realized that she had opened an account to sell wg/feedism videos there was no going back for me. I asked her to get nudes, stuffing videos and more and we had quite a lot of FaceTime sex. Ofc I paid for all of that. Then we saw each other irl and had quite nice feeding/oral sex experiences. She introduced a pretty hot friend of hers to me (who btw also gained some kilos along her). Sounds like heaven, right? Well to some degree it was. I mean I’ve never been so horny in my life lol. Then things took a wrong turn. She realized that I had quite some money and I pushed her more and more towards having sex with me. Which we also ended up having when we saw each other a second time but boy did she and her friend manipulate me financially. I paid my ass off and lost control of how much money I was spending on them. I should add that I was in a pretty bad mental state when all of this was going on and she knew it. So far for our “friendship”. Before long she and her friend ended up just using me for money. On top of that she was now gaining weight and stuffing herself for guys who paid way less than me or even for free for guys she had a crush on. When the manipulation got so obvious that I literally had to laugh about it (like she wanted me to pay her rent or things like that) I finally went no contact. I had gotten some memorable experiences but paid really bad for it. Not only with money. It also really hurt to see that this person was probably never a friend to begin with. Would I do it again? Yes, but just under some strict conditions. As I said before, I think that things are way easier, and more controllable, if you just have a “business”-like relation with that feedee or model or whatever. Second, never do this if you’re not doing well mentally. As for my relationships, I’ve always been with chubby/fat girls and none of them was ever gaining weight (at least long term) for me. I always tried to introduce them to the kink of wg/feederism but… well they were not into it. However they almost all ended up gaining a few kilos for me for a short period of time, to make me happy. There you go. Sry for the long text. Hope it can give you some insights and advice when it comes to this kink.

>>69924 What kind of food you got in Lillehammer?

Early 30s means you as a guy haven't aged out yet, so you have some time to play with. That said, it's not always easy to find a good woman. It's probably easier if you're not in a woke, western feminist country. If you want kids and your current gf is the one, don't mess it up. If you don't want children, or your current gf is definitely not "the one", then go out and get your feedee. You can mess around for a while and then make up your mind what you want. Good luck!

I don't want to say you're cooked with your current relationship, but you might be. For starters she doesn't share the same fetish/kink. Now that shouldn't be a problem if you're aren't fucked in the head and it gets in the way in the bedroom, but judging by what you said, you are fucked in the head and you are actually losing interest at this very moment. Why? You are talking to other women that share this fetish. Yes you feel guilty, but you're already in the steps of falling out of love because your GF doesn't share your sexual interests. Her not liking her belly touched is already a killer. If you already expressed about liking her body and being attracted to chubby girls for example, and that didn't help her feel good about it (I mean liking it more than she thought she would, letting you touch her belly without any problems, etc), then she won't change her mind. Reason she says she's fine with it because either she knows you like it and is just putting up with it, or too lazy to change it. You could try to talk about your kinks again with her again, but tbh this may be the beginning of the end of your relationship if you aren't sexually satisfied with her. Living out this fetish is possible I'll say that. That don't mean your girl has to be ginormous since that will be a pain, but like, every now and then doing stuffings, bloating her belly, long as it's not overdone it can happen. This fetish is niche (in the open world) I believe so it's just trial and error to find someone who actually interested in it. Most fat women hate being fat. Hell most models are in it just to make bank. Just to close this off and sorry for the yap btw, we aren't here to tell you what you should do with your relationship. You're a grown man and you have your own choices on if you want to keep going or not. But as stated you are falling out of love currently, with talking to other women and even questioning about your relationship here. You're doing her a disservice of not being honest with her. If you want to fix it, talk to her. If you want to leave, talk to her.