>>73153
Of course it's okay. For one there is a difference between sexual fantasy and reality. Even if a fatter girl is hotter, it also hurts other things I want out of a relationship. So you find a balance.
Also, for me, there are some aspects of extreme obesity I don't like, like how their ass merges into a single shelf with no defined cheeks. It's not repulsive, just less hot imo.
It's just that most people engage with this fetish while they are horny at it lets them down or call it moralfagging if they don't want to subordinate everything in their life to their hyper fixations. Why would you care about them? Then you might as well listen to normies who would call all of this icky and weird.