You could use a scale that has bluetooth and wait for the day she weighs herself

>>73393 You probably won't even need to be connected at the time. Mine stores the weights on it and when you connect to it at a later date you can add the weights to the app.

Just wait. Eventually she'll blurt something out about how much she weighs or how fat she is and that can open up a conversation. I started dating a girl and was avoiding the topic even though I desperately wanted to know her weight and one night I called and asked what she was doing and her answer was "Sitting on the sofa eating Reese Cups and watching myself expand." From there we talked about her weight a little bit and she eventually just told me what it was. I couldn't get over there fast enough.

It's only a matter of time. I started dating a fatty who 'wasn't into it', yet three years later is now 100 lbs+ heavier and is desperate to be even more so.

>>73417 Did you convince her to be into it/give it a try, or did you just silently enable her?

>>73428 I always let her know how much I enjoyed her body and size and I've always enabled her. But it wasn't until just over a year into our relationship that I discussed what I want with her, which she found very exciting. We immediately went into full feederism and have been ever since. Before meeting me she was actually trying to lose weight, when we first met she showed me how loose her jeans were. And she wore an Apple watch to make sure she was meeting exercise goals. Now those jeans don't even button, the goal with Apple watch is to make sure she doesn't meet any goals, exercise is avoided entirely and eating is near constant. As for weight, it's now a source of pride for her whenever she steps on the scales.

Back on the topic of finding out a partner's weight: My ex refused to tell me her weight. When I looked back at older pictures, I could tell she had gained a significant amount of weight, but I can only gues. I only found out my ex'es weight when she had moved out and I found a WLS referral letter that she had forgotten to take with her. Approaching the topic can be tricky, especially when you have not been together yet for very long. With my current wife, I was affraid she might get self concious about it, so I never really approached the subject. I only found out when she wanted to go on a diet for our wedding. She did a starting weigh-in and measurements, and let me help with those, so that was kind of fun (even though the numbers were shrinking in the coming months). She has been more open about her weight since then. Pregnancy was also fun, because she was doing belly measurements to track progress. Any way, my advice is to approach the topic with caution and to just be patient. Alternatives could be to go to a recycling station with her where the car is weighed before and after, and then afterwards return without her "because you forgot something". Other idea: our local zoo has a kind of scale where you can step on that will then say that you weigh "0.05 elephants" or something like that. Maybe she is willing to step on something like that togther with you

If you were really wanting weight her stealthily and you were up for a bit of technical assembly you could fashion your own scales and build them into some furniture like a couch or bed or chair. 50kg load cells are quite cheap on Ali express or ebay and you can wire multiple up to a arduino or raspberry PI quite easily. 8 load cells could weight up to 400kg quite easily and all the electronics could be concealed. Weigh your girl every time she sits on thr couch or gets into bed. Just need to factor in the weight of the furniture and clothes but over time it would average out to give you a solid reading.

>>73634 Honestly I had the same thought once of a hidden diy scale concealed in something like a doormat or other furniture. If he ain't that tech savvy to do a fully diy scale I'd build a doormat frame that houses a high weight capacity Bluetooth scale which gets covered by a wooden board to which you'd glue doormat material. Only problem: How to get her to stand still on the doormat for the scale to get an accurate reading? Another idea is to go to a local dump with a car weighing scale with her inside the car under some dumb pretext, like "Oh, I totally forgot I wanted to dispose of some junk. Do you mind if I drop by the junky yard?". Fpr this to work you need to weigh the car once with her inside and one time without. Then just take the difference and bam!

>>73635 Fuck it, imma build one and document it for anyone to copy.

>>73635 Those usually round up to nearest 10 kilo in my experience but it sure is way better than nothing.

>>73638 That's the spirit. I've been thinking about building one just for fun, but I can't justify that atm. As far as materials I was thinking somthing like: - wood for frame and top board - esp32 microcontroller for bluetooth/wifi connection - some database to store the weight results (or an simple android app for one time connection/viewing over bluetooth) - 4 load cells (one for each corner) with sufficient capacity (i.e. 100kg x4 ~400kg total; better to add some head space) - doormat for final cover - HX711 or some other ADC for reading the load cells - powerbank

>>73634 >>73634 fucking hell i love how sneaky we all are with this fetish

>>73645 Think something like this:

>>73728 Its a good idea but I feel a wooden frame around a doormat that is several cm thicker than it needs to be would be too conspicuous. Also it might be a bit hard to get someone to stand still on it for enough time to get a good reading. The design I was gonna try out was a sofa, the couch I have is a similar style to the one pictured but with motorised reclining and USB chargers built in (handy to tap for the for 12v electronics). The feet are also a bit more hidden under the frame. With a sofa its very easy to modify it too without changing the external appearance and people generally sit still on it for long periods of time to get an accurate read.

>>73730 Yes that's true. Only "downside" is that a sofa often is quite hefty in weight, so this needs to be accounted for. Plus I don't know what modifications you'd have to do the sofa's legs to add load cells. In any case this sound very interesting. Definitley keep us updated!

I wonder if there'd be a way to conceal a scale in a car passenger seat. For example some advanced version of the sensor that detects if someone is occupying the seat.

>>73731 The basic design would be this, not all sofas are the same but mine has the feet hidden underneath the sofa itself, unless you were on the floor with a torch looking under the gap you wouldn't see them. The load cell would be attached to the bottom of the feet and an additional wooden plate would be added on the floor. It would raise the height of the sofa a little bit but if it was too noticeable then the legs could be cut down by the needed amount. For the weight I've just checked online, my sofa is 95kg, so that leaves 305kg (672lbs) for the wife. Not that she hides her weight from me anyways, she's 125kg and growing :D >>73733 Possible but would be a lot more complex and potentially dangerous. Car seats are bolted to the frame of the car (for good fucking reason). A pressure sensor under the fabric inside the seat might be able to be calibrated to get very rough estimate of the persons weight, but I'd imagine most of the ladies we want to weight would spill out of the seat a fair bit.

>>73733 >>73737 This. Plus a person sitting on the car seat would normally have their legs on the ground (touching the car floor), so the weight would be inaccurate. In that case it's probably easier to weigh the car twice (once with the gil inside and once without) at a car weighing station/junk yard/waste collection center/etc. and make up some excuse about throwing some old junk away and them needing to weigh your car.

You'd be surprised how many fatties don't even know how much they weigh. Generally if someone isn't concerned with being in shape they aren't going to have a scale around to check their weight, unless they're one of those people that endlessly fools themselves into thinking that they're *really* going to get in shape soon. I've been with my girl for like a decade now and she's hovered between 220-290lbs but the only time that she has an accurate read on her weight is when she goes to the doctor which sometimes doesn't happen for a few years at a time. Anyways, most fat women are insecure about their weight and if you get to know her well enough I'm sure eventually she'll talk about it with you. Obviously don't just straight up ask how fat she is but there's definitely ways to bring it up.