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Help me choose what to do It’s a throwaway anyway 11/13/2025 (Thu) 00:55:54 Id:d0d511 No. 73707
Hello everyone To make it it short : I’ve been dating a girl for three years. Very thin, very beautiful face. Two years ago while talking about our preferences I mentioned I also like thicker girls with a bit of body fat. I said I still loved her body and that it was no issue for sex or anything. She was surprised but said it was no big deal. I then asked her with humour if she could see herself with a thicker body and a little tummy. She said there’s no way in the world that would happened since she wanted to keep her athletic body. I said no problem as I was joking. Anyways, time passed by and she accidentally packed on a few kilos. Nothing amazing but her ass and thighs grew a little. Last month, I noticed her belly grew a little as well. I’m crazy about it and it feels so good touching all that while having sex with her. I mentioned that her ass grew and that it was hot and she said that she noticed as well. She also thinks it’s hot. The issue is : As time passes by, I really get more and more attracted to bigger girls and I feel like and get less attracted to her even tho she packed a few kilos. I wish she was fatter and that she had a nice and soft belly. I can’t stop looking at fat girls online and she doesn’t really please me with her body anymore. I really do love her and would never break up because I think I found a rare gem her guys but yeah this my issue. I don’t know what to do Should I wait and see if she keeps on getting fat ? She I just not do anything and live with that frustration ? Should I risk it and ask her if she could get fat to please me ? Last option is super risky and there’s a very little chance she says yes since she. I don t want her to think I’m a weirdo or anything and don’t want to fuck that relationship up. She still is considered and I think she doesn’t want to get any bigger than that. Help me guys ! Thank you for reading and sorry for my bad English Have a good day !
Finn 11/13/2025 (Thu) 01:02:13 Id:88e21b No. 73709
Move on. Rip the bandaid before it becomes a contusion. You'll be so much happier with someone who aligns with your preferences. If you stay, you'll end up compartmentalizing and not giving her the emotional and physical shit she needs and you deserve. You'll seek it from someone else and end up cheating, don't roll your eyes. Every man is suspectable to this. Please, do right by yourself. Don't make the same mistake I made. Finn should have been with Fiona.
Same bro Almost hopeless dude 11/13/2025 (Thu) 03:40:51 Id:4dbb63 No. 73716
>>73707 I’m pretty much in the same position as you and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I told her about my preference for bigger girls after a year I think and she was fine with it but she doesn’t really want to gain weight. Over the years she stayed the same weight which is frustrating because as time goes by, I'm more and more attracted to bigger girls and I’m getting more and more confident about my preference. Like you, I’m less attracted to her but i would never break up with her because she’s the one for me. I still have a little hope because she’s not open to actively try to gain weight but I think it would be fine for her if it happened naturally. Normally she would restrict herself when it comes to portions for meals, snacks and dessert but for the last month she’s been HUNGRY. She eats about a 1/3 more than she did and she’s always hungry for snack, sweets and dessert. I hope it makes her gain a little so then I can encourage her and tell her how much I like it and so on and so on. I’m glad I’m not alone in this situation. Sorry if my English is bad. It’s not my first language.
Op 11/13/2025 (Thu) 10:44:13 Id:b8b120 No. 73732
Should I just secretly feed her ? Not because she said earlier she didn’t want to get fat means she won’t like it if it happens right ? She seems to enjoy having a bigger ass and she likes when I grab her tiny belly so idk ? I just find it risky asking her to commit
Anonymous 11/13/2025 (Thu) 11:14:43 Id:a63851 No. 73734
>>73732 Start off small and start switching from low cal to high cal alts. Have her favourite snacks always stock and visible
Anonymous 11/13/2025 (Thu) 17:48:30 Id:424d5f No. 73747
>>73732 Once girls start getting fatter, they don't stop getting fatter until they actively try and stop it. Just leave it and see what happens. If you want to speed it up, make it easier for her to get fatter. Stock up on snacks, go out for meals etc etc. Just don't make it obvious.
Anonymous 11/13/2025 (Thu) 18:21:30 Id:89f4e8 No. 73749
10% d'obésité en France, 4ème pays le moins obèse du monde... C'est vraiment la merde...
Anonymous 11/13/2025 (Thu) 21:13:52 Id:0c02fc No. 73753
>>73749 On a une insécurité digne du Mexique mais pas les tortas qui vont avec. On s'est bien fait baiser
Anonymous 11/13/2025 (Thu) 23:00:20 Id:d0d511 No. 73762
>>73747 Well she isn’t much a snack eater Generally I would buy cakes or cookies and she’d eat a few and never eat them again cause she gets annoyed very fast by that kinda stuff She’s more a diner person, with a very strong appetite tho Diner outside is nice but generally she doesn’t wanna takeover fast food too often which makes it difficult She likes deserts tho I think I should please her with those
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 00:09:10 Id:27e2d5 No. 76276
Definitely don’t secretly feed her If you truly have lost most attraction to her then you might just need to come clean and let the chips falls where they may But beware that fat women can come with their own baggage if you pardon the pun - they might be lazier in all walks of life, less willing or able to go hiking or do things you’ve enjoyed with a smaller partner, and they could flip out and lose weight as well especially if they receive too many negative comments from friends or a doctor encourages it
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 02:00:27 Id:aebf95 No. 76278
Why y'all closeted types date skinny chicks and then try to rehabilitate them into fat girls later, once you've "fallen in love"??? How about starting off honest and date a foodie or better yet, a fatty?? There seems to always be bbws and feedees who can't seem to find someone. If money is an issue, then consider that the kick in your rear to make more $$.
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 02:06:37 Id:aebf95 No. 76279
If you're going to change a woman into a feedee, do it when they're 18 and have an undeveloped prefrontal cortex
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 02:09:01 Id:4c32bb No. 76280
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>>73707 If you're telling the truth, you're being a retard. Fetishes are malleable. Remember that guy who jerked off to women in armor so much that an empty suit of armor could get him hard? If you really love her, get off the fat porn sites, reset your dopamine receptors, and fetishize your girl. If you can't do that, leave her. She deserves better than someone who will never think she's enough as she is.
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 04:30:49 Id:05e490 No. 76292
>>76278 He lives in France.
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 13:34:40 Id:fbf3d6 No. 76305
>>76280 Depends. For real fat admirers it is hard wired and you see fat chick on the street - its over and you are sad.
Í 12/24/2025 (Wed) 13:36:26 Id:dd591c No. 76306
>>76280 All you young guys who think access to Internet porn is the reason you like fat girls make me laugh. I went through puberty during the dial up days, when there were like 3 women in the entire planet making fat porn, and it took 5 days to load one single jpeg. Bros, if you actually like fat girls, that shit is a part of you with or without unlimited high speed Internet fatties to gawk at. If every single fat girl in the planet disappeared, I'd still be into that shit. It's hardwired in, not like some goofy full plate suite armor kink or whatever
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 16:34:43 Id:f3357f No. 76312
>>76292 It's not like fat bitches are banned in france
Anonymous 12/24/2025 (Wed) 22:33:13 Id:f0f384 No. 76328
I’m in the same spot man. I love my girlfriend and she IS hot to me. But I can’t shake the feeling that I’d be more aligned with what I want with a bigger girl. She has a history with eating disorders though and, while she accepts me for having this kink, doesn’t want anything to do with it. And she freaks out about her weight at her relatively skinny weight now. I can’t imagine how she’d handle more. There are other issues too so I am considering leaving but I really do love her for who she is regardless of our problems. My current answer is to just stay unless the other issues get worse or she leaves me. And in one of those cases I find a fat girl who’ll love me. and if things stay good, then I’ll just suck it up. not sure if there’s a better way here
Anonymous 12/25/2025 (Thu) 08:10:58 Id:e50fd0 No. 76342
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There will always be someone bigger and hotter. You got to make your decisions.
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