I agree with this. I always feel really bad for girls who get into this thinking it’s actually a “body positive” space. A lot of the turn ons within this kink are pretty sadistic, and I think that’s difficult to see at first if you don’t have the kink yourself. I’m a girl with this kink but I think it largely developed when I was young bc of the fear I had around getting fat myself. Admittedly, there’s also a level of disgust I hold towards fat people, which I’m not proud of. But I think the shame/disgust essentially kinked itself into something that’s a turn on. But I don’t genuinely want to be fat myself and hate to say it, think a lot of what turns me on comes from a place of disrespect towards fat people (even if I’d never actually treat a fat person differently bc of it).