>>74749 It was that easy for my past girlfriends as well. If she loves you and knows it turns her on she will say yes and be turned on with you being turned on by it.

some people just have it all huh bros...

Damn, lucky! I told mine a while ago and she's not into it at all, doesn't want to give it a try either. Always goes on about how she's already gained enough weight since we got together and that I should be happy with that lmao. Still hoping she wants to do it for me one day though

>>74758 Sounds like mine. If you just ride it out shell.prob keep.gaining

Good lucky bro. Hope everything goes well AND she plumps up nicely. Mine does not want to put on weight but sure its gonna come along the way, she snacks pretty much every night with me and does not like to move that much. She already put on 4 kilos since last month, so...

>>74758 Sounds like she doesn’t really love you and you should leave. Find a girl who is down to get fat as fuck with you. Yolo man

>>74763 Thing is she really does love me though. We've had some emotional discussions about this where she was sobbing about wanting to please me with getting big, but she prioritises not losing herself and I can honestly only respect that. I want her to be happy too, but yeah the urge to see her get big probably won't go away.

>>74759 Gained about 50lbs in three years, and moving in together last year definitely helped. We'll see how it evolves now. Right now she's at a size where it has gotten hard to shop at her fav stores, and she refuses to shop plus size. As a result she definitely started to watch her diet a bit more, but I try to bring enough snacks home still lmao

Issue with mine is even tho she said yes I know it’s going to be a bit tough She’s kinda obsessed with how she looks and still want to stay in beauty standards yk I gotta find a method to make a change in her standards but it ain’t that easy to rewire a way to think

If anyone have any advise on how to get your girl confident about the weight gain, it’d be super helpful !! Thanks

>>74781 Get a new girl who wants to turn you on and cares what you find hot and not what random men outside of your relationship find hot. Dump her and find someone else.

I hope this is true for you. I've had several girls gain weight for me and there is nothing like it. One went from about 180 to over 260 and one went from about 210 to over 300. It's exciting and sexy and I couldn't keep my hands off of them, which just made them gain more. The second was only 5'1" so she looked huge and she played into it with fat talk in general and gain talk during sex. She was REALLY something.

>>74831 That sounds nice Idk if she would go as far as 300 I kinda doubt it tbh Just tryna make her enjoy the process but it’s tough task

>>74780 IMO this is the best of both worlds, willing to get fat but determined to keep getting dolled up and maintaining self-care / hygiene. Sounds like a win win. Fat bimbo >>>> fat slob, at least in my book.

>>74749 my advice is to not do it because you will get extremely bored with her outside of sexual interactions, unless that is the only reason why you have a girlfriend in the first place.

my Gf is 5,0 tall and has always been a bigger girl but always hated it when I brought attention to it but now that were closer I brought up her gaining and she absolutely loves it now and has already put on 30+ pounds in only a few months. Wants to get real big too

>>75032 Well today she asked me to grab and play with her belly so I guess she really is trying to commit Let’s not loose hope

willing to tel my girl im into this fetish but im afraid she may break up with me, what should i do?

>>76557 Tell her. If she breaks up with you for you being into this fetish she was never the girl for you and she would be doing you a huge service by breaking up with you so you can get with a hot girl that is into your fetish. Enjoy your life while you can and don’t waste your time with a normie.

Just totally be into her when she's eating/full and make sure she cums hard or several times when she's hella full. Everything will follow

Pretty sure my Wife is catching on that i have a weight gain fetish. She already knows i like fat girls (shes about 270lbs), but recently shes been saying things like "you just want me fatter" or "Would it be hot if i downed this whole pizza?", etc. Then finally she sent me a belly pic from the side yesterday, mind you she use to be extremely self conscious about her body in general. I think she's secretly into it.

Came out to my girl and she didnt give it a single thought she kinda ignores every attempt i make even related to her gaining she never talks about it with me and has never asked questions and it feels as she pretends this side of me doesnt exist its been 2 years of us going out and i just find it strange

>>77702 Probably because she doesn't like it gang

Do you guys not just be upfront with this stuff? I told my current gf right out of the gate and didnt hide this fetish at all. I guess it did help that she is a recovering anorexic and already wanted to gain weight. She was super receptive, I just helped speed up the process. She has stuffed herself for me many times since, drinks heavy cream with all her coffee and teas, and drinks nutritional shakes, etc. Been slow going with only 30lbs on her over two years, tall ectomorphic ex-swimmer build so her metabolism is stupid high. But I sort of like the challenge, in a weird ironic way she is the perfect girl for me.

>>77702 I think that generally, the advice that's been given here is pretty bad in terms of breaking up with someone because they don't share your kinks, but this is one case where I think it might genuinely be in your best interest. If she's just totally ignoring it and avoiding the subject entirely without giving a definitive stance on the subject, there's probably something else festering under the surface. Refusal to communicate is a major red flag, at least to me. Granted, my information is limited, but I'd get this thing figured out sooner rather than later before it blows up into something ugly.

>>77702 She likes you in spite of your kink. She does not want to participate.

>>77720 I'd imagine it's because admitting to this particular fetish is super embarrassing. It's not like BDSM where it's super common and everyone is at least vaguely aware of it. No way I'd just come out and say, "I want you to get really, really fat for me if we get serious," the first time or within the first few times meeting a girl that I really like and think I might have a future with. That kind of talk tends to scare normal people away. Anyways, congrats on your success with your current girl. Have you posted her on this site before and if not, would she be cool with you doing so? Tall, lanky girls are super rare in this community, so I'd be interested to see how fattening one up would look in terms of distribution.

>>77720 In my experience, being upfront (or in my case, cultivating a reputation as a 'big game hunter') takes all the guesswork out of everything. You'll know right out of the gate who is/isn't going to be a waste of your time. If you're open about it socially, girls start setting you up with their fat friends. Ofc this is all assuming you meet the bare minimum of sociability, hygiene etc.

First time poster in this thread. I’ve always slept with fat girls but never properly been with one. I think it’s because I never know how to bring up the conversation that I want them to get fatter for me. I’m worried how they’ll take it, if they’ll think it’s weird etc. I’m interested how any of you have brought this conversation up with your partner that you want them to get fatter for you? But in the least weird way possible😂

>>77702 Depends what you mean by "come out", if you treated like you were confessing to being gay or something I could see why she'd be apathetic. Honestly if you went into detail about how exciting you find it, how cool it would be if she got bigger, how much you want to rub her tummy then she might able to empathize with your passion and reciprocate. ...or you might just end up scaring her away for good. 🫠

When I told mine she wasn't keen at all and said if I ever made her gain she'd leave me. However since then she let's me grab her belly during sex and often puts my hands on it. She was wanting to lose weight but reduced her efforts, saying that she wants to be a bit smaller but knows that I'd prefer her a bit bigger, and reduced how much she wanted to lose. She did lose 5 - 10kg but gained it all back plus some. She really doesn't seem to be all that upset if she finds some old clothes don't fit and gets rid of them swiftly saying "am I really going to fit that again?" Since being together she has essentially replaced her whole wardrobe up a size or two in some cases. She canceled her gym membership too but does quite a lot of walking and occasionally lifts some weights. Recently she hurt both her knees badly though so will probably cut back a bit. She's a wonderful cook and I always make sure the cupboard is stocked up with snacks, though she'll go through phases of being really snackish and then not snacking at all. The turn off is that she doesn't find herself sexy at all and no amount of compliments or sex or feeling her up seems to change that. If I try to compliment her or tell her how sexy I find her during sex she'll usually just disagree with me and I find that quite challenging. Other times if I'm especially horny with her she'll ask if I find her really sexy because she lost weight? Confuses the hell out of me because it's usually when I think she's looking bigger! There's no winning answer in that conversation. Despite her saying that she knows I like bigger women and that I'd like her bigger she always acts like losing weight will make her sexier but then doesn't lose much weight or for long. Women.

>>78077 >Women. Realest shit I ever heard.

>>78077 God, the weight loss talk is just so tiresome. Luckily with my current gf it stopped after the first year when she realised I was serious about preferring her bigger. It's tough breaking through the years of societal conditioning telling her that maximal thin-ness is synonymous with beauty.

>>78077 > The turn off is that she doesn't find herself sexy at all and no amount of compliments or sex or feeling her up seems to change that. If I try to compliment her or tell her how sexy The problem is she doesn’t find you sexy buddy. You’re fine to keep around as her gay best freind who buys her stuff, but, be honest with yourself faggot, she doesn’t want to do the sexy stuff. She doesn’t care about you being attracted to other women more because she can’t imagine any other woman giving you pussy. She finds you disgusting and by extension your fetishes. You’re either ugly, in poor shape, short, needle dicked or just kinda a sandy vagina she doesn’t respect. I’m betting on that last point being big true.

>>77759 Yeah it requires some social grace to pull off for sure. We also had lots of conversations about her eating disorder pretty early on and how she always wanted to be curvier, have a bigger butt, etc. Which gave me the green light and I played off that and the convo snowballed from there. I started hinting at how I liked her bloated belly when she ate well, growing butt, etc. If she made fun of chubby/fat girls in front of me I would say something to the effect of "nothing wrong with it" and slowly it changed her opinion on it seeing that the man she liked was okay with it. She still has moments of insecurity and doubt though. Helps that she puts it on mostly in her lower body too, her thighs and butt have exploded (have had to buy her new pants 3 times already). Barely any pudge on the tummy yet. Tits were already big and about the same as when we started. Maybe, she def is still small by this sites standards and she has some pretty unique tattoos. Might do some before and afters if I can get away with it. It is exciting though, her weight was 118lbs when we started dating (we were friends for a bit first and she was 114lbs when we met and before that she was even skinnier), we originally agreed to have her gain to 130lbs "just to see", after she got to that she wanted to go to 135lbs, then 140lbs. Took her on a trip for NYE and she stuffed herself nonstop for a week. Literally one day on the trip she just kept eating/drinking/snacking all day to the point where she could have been mistaken for a woman in the early stages of pregnancy, even the other people we were traveling with were commenting on how much she was putting away, "how do you stay skinny eating like that?" Since then she hit 140lbs (actually went a little past that she is currently 144) so her new goal is 160lbs. Funny how fast the goal moves when she reaches it, skipped right past 150. All the stuffing/bloating def stretched her stomach out she whines about food now too whenever she gets even slightly hungry. And she is getting less and less insecure about it, still does not want to go full on "chubby" though, but in her mind "chubby" is what I would call "fat or obese", her version of chubby is "thicc" (love that this is trendy now), honestly though with her weight goal moving up the scale more and more every time she gets to it, I don't think she is going to be serious about this long term. It's pretty obvious she likes it but is still denying it a bit. Time will tell. It's like a fantasy dream I had when I was 13 coming true man.

I was never able to convince my gf to actively gain weight, but luckily she was able to put on the pounds through the years. When we first started dating i never told her about my fetish but i would touch her tummy but she thought nothing of it because she wasnt fat at all. It was when she gained weight i told her that i liked her thicker and came right out with my fetish. She doesnt plan on gaining weight on purpose and i would never force her, but i bring her desserts and food all the time and she indulges. She'll even play into it when we're intimate and likes that i find it attractive. It depends on the person but setting the proper boundaries and respecting how your partner feels goes a long way for them to accept and indulge in what you like

>>77781 Exactly. Saves a lot of headache long term and I really think it's just better being real and honest with people from the start. I still like to keep my preferences between me and the girl I am seeing though. The women who I want to know, know. I am sure people in my circles could guess though, I don't exactly hide my attraction for them either.

>>78093 Bullshit. SHe's just one of those women who makes a big deal out of criticizing themselves and shooting down any attempt to praise them. Ain't you ever met one? God they're exhausting.

>>78111 These pictures are so fucking hot! You got yourself a prize my dude!

>>78123 Very lucky!

>>78111 With tits like those, she is predestined to gain (unless she tries real hard to fight mother nature).

Looking for a bit of advice fellas. About two years ago, I used to see this girl who was around 250-280lbs mark. She looked unreal, a great face card. Anyway, we drifted, both got into other relationships etc. however we have just recently reconnected. She has lost just under 60lbs though. After hinting in the previous time that I’m into her getting bigger and eating, I told her out right last night that I love when she eats. She asked me if I wanted to fatten her up, so she clearly gets what I’m getting at. She seems to be kind of into it, says she’s going to start eating big portions and showing me, however doesn’t want to gain the weight back. What do I do here? My thoughts are, if she starts eating a lot more food and showing me, surely she’s going to end up gaining weight eventually anyway?

>>80590 Pay for the gas, let her drive, and enjoy the ride. ;) Her body is hers, man. Doesn’t mean you can’t connect sexually and explore different things together, especially food related. Make it fun and hot for her, and who knows maybe she’ll change her mind. 🍩 If not, that’s okay too.

>>80590 If she lost 60 lbs and starts eating for you, the regain will be crazy quick, like 6 months. She's dreaming if she thinks she can eat hearty and not regain.

>>80590 Maybe she will gain, maybe she won't. But even if she does gain, she is always going to want to lose weight. People are just deluding themselves that things like this will just "happen" and somehow their love of food will overcome their drive to lose. She's already shown she knows how to lose weight, and you gotta face the likelihood that if she gains, she is very likely to lose again. Get back with her if she is someone you really love, but don't do it because you want her to get 300+ lbs. You'll be in for major league disappointment and heartbreak if you do it for that.