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Talking to women in this community Anonymous 12/06/2025 (Sat) 13:48:38 Id:a9ea94 No. 74770
I'm making this post in the hopes of helping at least some people avoid headaches for themselves and the bbws whose DMs they might hop in. Some of you guys need to avoid hopping in DMs offering to feed girls if you can't financially afford it at that moment/don't have the money then and there, especially if you're directly responding to a post or story about sponsoring a stuffing. They're going to view it as you wasting their time and you shouldn't be trying to do that shit if it's going to break the bank. It looks bad. Some of you also need to learn to respect boundaries, pick up on signals, and not try to force conversations. If you're getting responses from these women(or women in general) that are very short, they're probably not interested in the convo or in talking to you, which is fine. If you don't get a response or get those responses, keep in mind that plenty of these bbws are getting a lot of DMs, so just keep it moving. You also shouldn't be asking about feeding in person off rip. These women don't know the difference between you and the Zodiac Killer. That's not a dig at you, it's just reality. If anyone has anything constructive to add to this, feel free. I mainly made this post bc of complaints I've heard from both men, and women over the years in this community, including people that I've personally known or at least talked to.
>>You also shouldn't be asking about feeding in person off rip. These women don't know the difference between you and the Zodiac Killer. This is bullshit. Even in normie circles, the standard way for a guy to get to know a girl is to offer to take her out for a meal or a few drinks. Imagine if every girl said, "Euurgghh, no, you might be a serial killer." Procreation would end. I get that feeding and going out for dinner aren't strictly the same thing. Feeding usually means a private affair, say in a hotel room, where the girl could conceivably be a rape target. Dinner in a restaurant involves immersing yourself in a public setting where you couldn't do anything untoward without at least half a dozen witnesses. That's why I always introduce myself with an offer of dinner, and guess what? Without fail, the response is always the same: online feeding first. My boys, ignore this simp and accept that the facts are these. No women are on feederism-related websites because they want to get to know you. They're there because it pays them to be there. Plenty of them openly ask for money, plenty of them don't. Of the ones who appear 'genuine', why is it many of them are conventionally attractive (besides fatness) and yet have had an account for a few years without managing to find a cosy bf. Bear in mind sites like Fantasy Feeder and Feabie are probably 95 per cent male, so it should be easy. I acknowledge that a large number of said males are fat/weedy autistic creeps with all the social skills of anthrax, but that's just a reason why no serious woman would keep an account for so long - unless she was milking them for cash. Assuming they're not old and droopy or an absolute whale, it really isn't that hard for young fat women to get together with men, even if they have to settle for 5/10s, who will take them out and buy them food, even if they aren't expressly into the fetish. Moral of the story: turn your internet off and talk to real people.
>>74777 Based posts. I fucking hate these mentally retarded simps. They encourage the worst behaviour in these women.
>>74777 My post isn't a way to just simp for women or anything like that. That's why I specify that the post is an attempt to lessen the headaches all around. The Zodiac Killer comparison was more me trying to say that they have no basis of trust because you're a stranger and on top of that, because this fetish is niche, chances are that you're going to have less of a chance to meet someone into this who's also local/close to you. You're going to have to travel or they will and women just are less likely to want to do that immediately in my experience and from what I've seen, unless you're talking to a woman on the same level as one of these IG models as far as what she's comfortable with. I also think that you're painting with too broad of a brush when it comes to the women on some of these sites. Some are of course only there for money, but others might have had bad luck dating in the community or probably haven't found anyone that they're genuinely interested in or can trust. Not everyone is a scammer or only trying to get money out of simps.
>>74779 Stfu yuckmouth
>>74777 "That's why I always introduce myself with an offer of dinner, and guess what? Without fail, the response is always the same: online feeding first." You're probably just not attractive enough it does happen. I've even had a model pay for everything for me because I'm not well off and she was
>>74784 "Yuckmouth"? xD You're seething lmao
>>74785 Could be. But I've done a spot of modelling before and I like to think that if I'm good enough for a magazine cover, I'm good enough for some fat hoe.
"If I'm good enough for a magazine cover, I'm good enough for some fat hoe" And this comment is exactly why you get no play and continue to get left on read by these "fat hoes". Honestly? You're all embarrassing and watching you bitch and gossip like the pussies you are, will never not be funny to me. Constantly sat by the computer or your phone, checking bbw-chan every five minutes just aching to bash women online because you're consistently getting rejected, especially by the "fat hoes" you want attention from so badly. I have absolutely no fucking sympathy for any of you. You're all absolutely fucking pathetic and a waste of space. Remember that 🫶
>>74788 Found another simp, guys.
>>74779 >>74786 I absolutely am :(
>>74790 Nah. Their 100% right. Treat woman like people and not just someone you want to fuck and you will be so much more successful. I'm fit and I have a decent face but I pull so much more than I have any right to I'm not that special just a bit above average. Kindness is key
>>74808 There's a difference between treating someone like an equal and being a simp who throws their money at random fat women online who don't even know them. A relationship should be built on a foundation of treating each other like equals. You shouldn't be debasing yourself for a crumb of pussy.
>>74788 Not sure why I'm bothering to respond to this since you write like you're either 12yo or brain-damaged, but since you're of a species that "checks bbw-chan every five minutes" apparently for the pleasure of furiously denouncing your fellow fat porn consumer, I'm not absolutely convinced that you're living the lifestyle of a contented husband or a carefree Casanova. My friend, read and comprehend the posts. Understand that if my face can appear on a magazine cover, it probably is not so offensive as to be a deterrent to women. And my friend, fat hoes are fat hoes. Some women just want money for nothing, and the easiest way for them to do that is sell their body online to gullible, vulnerable males. I feel bad for shattering your delusion, but just because they accept the money you give them, it doesn't mean they're into you.
>>74788 >>74808 This. Personality and charm are way more important to women in general
Was it so fucking hard to properly write what you meant instead of coming across as some arrogant cunt? I mean, you're definitely still an arrogant cunt but the whole "you write like a 12yr old or you're brain-damaged" comment is hilarious coming from you. Boasting about your face apparently being on some magazine cover while calling plus sized women "fat hoes" in the same fucking sentence. Lmao. It sounds to me like the caller is calling from inside the house. Anyways, I'm done with this thread ✌️

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