>>76934
Been about three, maybe four times in the 6ish years they've been running it.
In my expierience, this is definately not for the guys. It is for the 'clique' you mentioned, and most of thr attractive, larger fat girls are either in relationships to extremely picky. Ironically the last time I went was with my long term friend, who wanted to (she is around 300ish herself), because she wanted to meet other girls her size to be friends with and NOT be hot on by guys, asking me to keep an eye on things.
Im not a 10/10, but im confident and don't have any problems talking to women and getting dates usually, but Indulge felt off and the women not very open to talking. The FA community is so small that it's just very difficult to find like-minded people. I remember there was a women, who was around 450-500lb at the time who had become recently single and she was SWAMPED. There are just far more men than women for this kind of thing, and it's not designed FOR us.
I understand they have an 'after dark' indulge that is specifically for swingers as you mentioned, which isn't for me either.
As far as the drag themed stuff, you are going to really struggle to find women that are over 300+, confident in their size that AREN't in the body positivitiy movement, which has a large crossover with the LGBTQ+ community. You're gonna really struggle to seperate the two.
My advice is stick with feabie, try the feabie meetups (ive only been to one or two of those over the years but got laid after both, but what i will note is that i was speaking to girls BEFORE both events, it was just the first time meeting in person). But again, the odds will be against you.
I recall one of the larger girls at the events, who was particularly attractive with a great figure saying that she gets well over 100 messages a day on Feabie and WooPlus.
Stay strong, its better off trying on the apps and hoping to get a girl whos not in the community who you can introduce (Most of the larger women ive slept with over the last 10ish years have NOT been from feabie / wooplus / fantasyfeeder etc.(