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Any UK users been to Club Indulge (Pretty much the only BBW night club event in the UK) ? teddy 01/04/2026 (Sun) 12:51:25 Id:8bc35c No. 76934
Just wondering if any UK based users have been to a Club indulge event and if so , how was it for you? My take is that its not as great as looks on the surface. I've been to 6 of their events. On 3 of those nights , I got to kiss and cuddle with women of varying levels of attractiveness (2 hot , 1 not so hot but we rubbed each others privates , so there's that ) . I got numbers from 3 ladies, but no sex from any lol (ah well) - 1 was really neurotic , 1 barely responded to texts and the other had a unaware boyfriend at home and didn't tell me about this until a couple of days after I was kissing her at the club . When I objected to this, she told me that I was overreacting, and blocked me. Crazy. A lot of the guys who went to indulge were very introverted and shy , so there wasn't much (for lack of a better word) 'competition' for me and anyone else who made the effort to be sociable and look presentable- so with a bit of effort you could at least talk with at least 2 girls on the night . The problem though , is that the women there are mostly part of a clique who attend every event . And this clique is mostly made up of couples who just stick to their little corners and judge everyone . The few single women who aren't part of this clique (from my experience at least) are all weird or awkward in one way or another . Also, every fat woman there, whether clique member or casual guest is capable of being VERY arrogant and cunty , because they know that they are the 'prize' of these nights and can have inflated egos as a result . So yeah , that's my take on it. I Got to enjoy some long kissing sessions with a couple of hot girls and got an outside-the-jeans handjob by one , which is cool. But I had to navigate through a LOT of stuck up weirdos to get to all of that and ultimately I was left blue balled lol. Also, as a side note, Indulge seems to be hosting drag queen events and swingers parties now ,which isn't my thing , so I'm done with it. Its a shame that indulge is pretty much the only game in town for UK BBW meets (unless there are others I'm missing?) but yeah that's my take Anyone else been ?
>>76934 Been about three, maybe four times in the 6ish years they've been running it. In my expierience, this is definately not for the guys. It is for the 'clique' you mentioned, and most of thr attractive, larger fat girls are either in relationships to extremely picky. Ironically the last time I went was with my long term friend, who wanted to (she is around 300ish herself), because she wanted to meet other girls her size to be friends with and NOT be hot on by guys, asking me to keep an eye on things. Im not a 10/10, but im confident and don't have any problems talking to women and getting dates usually, but Indulge felt off and the women not very open to talking. The FA community is so small that it's just very difficult to find like-minded people. I remember there was a women, who was around 450-500lb at the time who had become recently single and she was SWAMPED. There are just far more men than women for this kind of thing, and it's not designed FOR us. I understand they have an 'after dark' indulge that is specifically for swingers as you mentioned, which isn't for me either. As far as the drag themed stuff, you are going to really struggle to find women that are over 300+, confident in their size that AREN't in the body positivitiy movement, which has a large crossover with the LGBTQ+ community. You're gonna really struggle to seperate the two. My advice is stick with feabie, try the feabie meetups (ive only been to one or two of those over the years but got laid after both, but what i will note is that i was speaking to girls BEFORE both events, it was just the first time meeting in person). But again, the odds will be against you. I recall one of the larger girls at the events, who was particularly attractive with a great figure saying that she gets well over 100 messages a day on Feabie and WooPlus. Stay strong, its better off trying on the apps and hoping to get a girl whos not in the community who you can introduce (Most of the larger women ive slept with over the last 10ish years have NOT been from feabie / wooplus / fantasyfeeder etc.(
>>76939 You're right, its definitely a safe space for fat women- the guys attending were an afterthought . And you know what, that's fine- its just that, personally speaking, as a someone who was attending solely to hook up with some fat girls , it didnt work for me ( shallow I know, but I'm just being honest) . >>Stay strong, its better off trying on the apps and hoping to get a girl whos not in the community who you can introduce (Most of the larger women ive slept with over the last 10ish years have NOT been from feabie / wooplus / fantasyfeeder etc.( Yeah man, that's my plan - I'm staying away from the online UK SSBBW/ BBW scene. As you pointed out , its too small and full of gate keepers and egos. I'm trying my luck with the 'real world'- hooking up with ladies in the 'real world' through dating apps and cold approaches is a challenge too but its, at least, a bigger playing field that has more options. I'm also gonna try out singles nights and other non BBW 'IRL' social events too- I mean yeah, I've got a major fat fetish but I wont limit my self to 300 pound women exclusively , I can be flexible.
>>76934 > Got to enjoy some long kissing sessions with a couple of hot girls and got an outside-the-jeans handjob by one , which is cool. But I had to navigate through a LOT of stuck up weirdos to get to all of that and ultimately I was left blue balled lol. Also, as a side note, Indulge seems to be hosting drag queen events and swingers parties now ,which isn't my thing , so I'm done with it. So you were cool with getting a handjob in public from a stranger but you draw the moral line at drag events? We have types like you in the states and they’re almost always covering up pedophilia with an over the top anti-gay attitude.
>>76943 > its just that, personally speaking, as a someone who was attending solely to hook up with some fat girls , it didnt work for me ( shallow I know, but I'm just being honest) . It’s a great place to get laid. Maybe you’re kinda ugly, short, weak or for some other reason off “gay best freind vibes”. Girls do not go to the club to “meet women to be friends with”, how cucked are you to buy that excuse faggot? Did she need to keep you around to buy her stuff or drive her to the club because that is the biggest cope I’ve ever heard from a lifelong virgin.
>>76948 Wait, What? All I said is that drag queen events aren't my thing. If that's all it takes to turn you into a crazed, virtue signalling dickhead then you have nothing to add to this conversation. Also, the fact that you were so quick to bring up the 'P' word , when the subject of this thread has absolutely NOTHING to do with that, say a lot about you, you weirdo. Fuck you.
>>76949 And who the fuck are you, exactly? Your not based in the UK and you've clearly never been to club indulge, so your input isn't valid here. If you actually went to club indulge (instead of staying home and jacking off all day like the shut-in chronic masturbator that you are ) you could read the room and see that the club is more about a providing safe space for fat women than being a place for hook ups. Come to think of it, since you are a terminally online incel dick head , you wouldn't know how to read a room that isn't your bedroom, you little keyboard warrior prick . Fuck you .
>>76957 Teddy, tedders, teddo… you gotta understand how the world works. You’re not alpha enough for that language to make you look like anything but another school shooter with illegal pedo porn. Get a gym membership and learn some social skills, maybe get medicated. Life shouldn’t be this hard.
>>76958 > that the club is more about a providing safe space for fat women than being a place for hook ups Pretty early ending for “most cucked comment of 2026”. Faggot.
>>76958 Small dick energy. That’s the problem. Dude can’t even respond to his own thread because he’s all up in his feels about being called a bitch by a stranger on the internet.
Virtually all the swingers clubs will do some kind of BBW night. Find one near to you and get a membership. The difference is the majority of women that go to the swinging BBW events are looking to fuck.
>>77024 > Virtually all the swingers clubs will do some kind of BBW night. Gross. Poly is one step away from drag shows and the whole alphabet mafia. I’d rather chew glass than support that degeneracy.

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