If you want to get normal fat woman yes you need to be lean, not skinny. Preferably muscular. Otherwise there are ways, you could get rich like that Stefan guy or date women with a room temperature IQ or slight genetic abnormalities.

>>77732 Almost every couple on the continent has at least one fat person. I don't believe any of this "I can't get a GF cause I'm fat" nonsense. I'm sure you are struggling to find a partner, but it is not because of your weight.

If you don't like being fat and aren't getting pussy because of it then put in the effort to lose weight. It might seem unfair and it is because dating as a man isn't fair. Back before the internet you probably could have gotten away with being fat and getting a fat gf but now women in general get heaps of attention and fat women especially get it from dudes who just wanna hit and dudes who settle for them. >>77741 Relating to what anon said, fat dudes get conventionally hot gfs all the time cause they met them in an environment where they can show that they have a good personality. So improving your personality will help you with dating

>>77749 idc really about my weight tbh. I am pretty neutral on it. I was curious if anyone else succeeded in this. >>77735 Shame but true. I always thought I;d be easy but they got the egos of super models these days.

I’m 6’ & 280ish (so while not big, certainly not small) and I’ve never had trouble scoring thick chicks or smaller ones too… as annoying as the saying is, it really comes down to four words: “just be confident bro” seriously tho! If you can just be yourself, be assertive & not be self-conscious (both men & women can smell that from a mile away) you’ll be just fine.

I’ve been a fat fuck all my life and I’ve never really struggled with picking up women, fat or skinny. Of course when your fat it’s going to limit your dating options a bit, but as long as your keep up with your personal hygiene, have decent style, a little confidence and can hold a conversation you should have a shot with many women still even if your fat. Now if you’re going after online SSBBW models these women are of course going to have very high expectations because they get flooded with men who want them. But most regular SSBBW women I’ve met have no issue dating fat men. Biggest problem I’ve had as a fat guy dating SSBBWs is we really enable each others love for junk food. When I met my current girl we were both around 270, now I weigh 350 and she weighs 340.

I am sure there are plenty of fat women who like fat men, but it is a numbers game. If 10%* of people are fat and 10%* prefer fat, it means that only 1% of women is fat and likes a fat partner. Finding a date is difficult for a fat woman on a regular dating site, because only 1/10 men will prefer a fat woman, and you can't really tell from their face, so it is difficult for them to take initiative and search for a man who likes big women. When they go on a site like Feabie, it is different, because in principle everyone there likes a fat woman. However, as a fat man on a site like Feabie, you will face the same issue as a fat woman on a regular dating site: only 1/10 will like a fat partner, and because the site is full of men who like fat women, they have plenty of choice and can they can be very picky. If you contact a woman, there is only 10% of chance she likes a fat man, and you can't tell upfront. If you want to keep the initiative in your own hands, it might be usefull to go on a website for fat men. There it is much easier to take the initiative in your own hands because you know that everyone woman there prefers a fat man, so you can search for a fat woman and you will know that at least body type should not be an issue. Or go on Feabie and search for woman who label themselves as FA. * These are just random numbers, no idea what the real percentages are, but if I check on Feabie, there are16500+ women with a profile picture, and 3700+ label themselves as FA, so that is more than 20%

>>77773 > Finding a date is difficult for a fat woman on a regular dating site So you’ve never talked to a woman before ehh? Anyway you’re all retarded tall men who can kick your ass aren’t fat… fat men means short little dicked losers who’s barely pass ICEs physical fitness exam. Bitch tits and that sorta stuff.

>>77786 The media doesn't know anything about ICE. Its been quiet and events are small. Greenland, Minnesota are just performance art. Even schizo like Kisame are gone. You aren't going to get an unironic Neonazi, just podcasters zoomers too lazy to work

>>77786 Maybe I will vote Gavin Newsome

>>77773 I would say that some if not the majority of those women who label themselves as FA are labelling themselves as into everything to increase their onlyfans sales / using simps for money, and are not actually on there for relationships.

Not looking to date a model. Just your average 300+lb fat girl. Is it over for fat dudes then?

>>77820 I felt the same way before taking the retard pill, which took a huge weight off my chest. It’s not like normal women are that smart anyway. Just go full disabled and find a gf today. Her parents will probably be really nice to you if you can act normal. Wish I’d realized this is high school.

>>77830 what are you even talking about?

>>77836 There’s no law that’s stopping you from dating less conventional women. I know a guy who talks about meeting his now wife in special ed (him ADHD) back in HE and it just sounds a lot easier than dealing with normie women and their inflated egos these days. Easier to fatten and less likely to be some shrill harpy addicted to Chad’s dick. There are also people like Dumplin with rare genetic conditions that make you hungry and gain.

>>77850 Bro just out here just casually asking developmentally disabled super fat women out on dates who are rolling around in their mobility scooters with "hi my name is Chloe I'm lost please call my guardian" stickers on their shirt and acting like it's not essentially the equivalent to being in a relationship with a literal child lmao

>>77850 This dude is such a power incel that he considers any man who doesn't date actual literal retards to be 'Chad'. It hurts my head to even put myself in this headspace as an act of empathy. Fuckin A bro....

>>77864 Look the retardpill is not about “preying on disabled women” or whatever bullshit this faggot is talking about. Taking the redpill means understanding women and the retardpill is just an add on for today’s sexual marketplace where plenty of dude, good dudes, normal dudes will not be able to form a pair bonding relationship in any traditional sense without dropping some standards. Western women are ruined, if you can afford to import a bride from submissive ukrain or China or whatever fine, but the rest of us are doing what we need to and aren’t above eating crumbs if that’s our lane. Calling him an incel couldn’t be further from the truth, the RPill is about leveling up and lowering your standards till you get laid. Incels who won’t do that are volcels.

>>77867 I don't understand where this idea comes from. Watching too much real housewives? Like for real, where does it come from? It's so antithetical to my life experience I gotta assume y'all are fucking up someway. I mean the fact that you think you need an Asian mail order bride to find a partner is a pretty big red flag lol. I've been broke and homeless most of my life, never had a hard time finding good looking gainfully employed fat women to fuck. If you can make em laugh and feel safe, you're good to go You only need to pay women to be around you if they don't feel safe around you and think you fucking suck Nothing about how you write makes me think you've ever made a woman laugh

>>77850 You need to spend less time on incel forums and 4chan and touch some grass. I'm not sure why there is so many on men on this board who hate women, I'm a man and I think women are great. But I guess some of ya'll can keep angerly typing on your keyboards about "Chad," or how feminism has ruined women. Meanwhile the rest of us will be fucking fat girls and enjoying life.

>>77869 >>77871 Good for you? Nice brag? I’d bet you’re not so smart or nice or funny and just another trust fundie with 50$ haircut claiming life’s easy. This is a thread giving guys like me advice for actually getting laid. You guys could contribute or stfu.

>>77867 > leveling up and lowering your standards till you get laid Actionable advice. No moral grandstanding or suicidal empathy or needless victim shaming.

>>77873 Ah yes, the infamous chronically homeless and broke "trust fund kid", lol We are contributing, you fucking retard. Go touch some fucking grass, bitch. Get off the retard forums, stop throwing away legit actualll advice from people who be fucking, and learn how to fuck

>>77873 Trust fund? Last year I was making like 20k a year working at a warehouse part time and then doordashing the rest of the day to make money for rent. I was broke as shit and I'm also a fat fuck who weighs like 280lbs myself. My best advice is if you enter into every conversation with a woman with some sort of Incel type thoughts circling around your head or already assuming she's going to reject you, you already lost. 1. Women don't want to date men who hate women and think they've been ruined by society. 2. One of the biggest turnoffs to women is a lack of confidence, this doesn't mean approach every woman like an asshole with your chest up high but you have to atleast pretend like you have some belief in yourself. A significant number of men who say they can't get women sabotage themselves by saying some weird incel shit to them, rushing things to fast or being openly unconfident.

>>77876 >>77875 Samefag is spreading bluepill propaganda. Who could have seen it coming? >>77874 It’s all about leverage, either you have it or you don’t. Read Machiavelli and practice stoicism. Accept what you can’t change and make it work for you. We can’t put the genie back in the bottle. At least enjoy the decline of western civilization.

>>77876 Hey bro, I'm not saying no one on this site deserves good clean advice from socialized dudes... But the guys in this conversation seem wholly underserving of help. They're doing everyone on the planet a favor by choosing to be this retarded. Making a girl laugh and feel safe is blue pill propaganda? Get the fuck outta here, ya retarded ass incel fags

>>77869 It really depends on where you live dude. Like where I live fat women are getting enough attention that "just show up and make them laugh" isn't good enough. Most of them are also kind of nuts to begin with, too. That said I've never dated someone who was more than "tiktok autistic"

>>77876 Will never forget the time I fumbled a beautiful big alt girl a couple years ago because I started talking about how generally lonely I felt at the time, and even got choked up about it! lol I was doing so well with her but got hit with a depressive episode. I was doing so well with her and then that happened and when I took her home I didnt hear from her for days and it was over when I finally did. Anons, the true black pill of dating isnt even looks- its that if you experience depression and it gets in the way of romance you will be alone. Its better to be ugly, happy, and confident than to be decent looking but depressed/low self esteem.

>>77889 This is true, unfortunately. Not just a "getting with chicks" thing, either. This applies whenever you're trying to meet new people, make new friends, date someone new. If you come off as desperate and lonely, both totally valid feelings, you lose all social value and are cast out. I had this happened to me for like 6 years trying to make friends in a new city. Eventually I got kind of a chip on my shoulder because it wasn't working. Well, at the end of the day, the chip on the shoulder ended up being the biggest thing holding me back I think this is what incels are experiencing but their retarded theories are misguiding them. It's the chip on their shoulder , not the blue pill or whatever shit they talk about Once people get to know you, it's a totally different story. You just have to make it past that initial first hump and then you're golden, once you've been let in. Not before. Never before.

>>77890 People underestimate how much of a demand it is to ask a man to never show genuine insecurity or depression. He can be sad, sure, but he can't let it affect him. That's not realistic, it's actually less realistic than skinny-loving normies expecting their wife to stay 120 pounds her whole life. It's especially hard now that theres a huge industry of content for femcels that just exists to perpetuate male insecurity for things like height or weight or balding (ironically not dick size though... that really is one thing most women genuinely dont seem to care about as much) If we wanna help incels we have to figure out how we can help men who struggle with self esteem when the world is genuinely telling them they're unfuckable losers. It isnt just in their heads. And then the game is if they almost delusionaly ignore the hate, they will do ok but if they actually let the hate get to them they will drown. How do we keep these men from drowning, especially when so many other men actually encourage it because that means less competition? This is why I dont moralize incels anymore. They are a byproduct of society, not a collection of individuals failing individually.

>>77869 > If you can make em laugh and feel safe, you're good to go What century is your advice from? Modern women say they’d feel safer around a bear than a man.

>>77864 >Bro just out here just casually asking developmentally disabled super fat women out on dates who are rolling around in their mobility scooters with "hi my name is Chloe I'm lost please call my guardian" stickers on their shirt and acting like it's not essentially the equivalent to being in a relationship with a literal child lmao This is good advice but without the pedo allegations. >>77830 > I felt the same way before taking the retard pill, which took a huge weight off my chest. It’s not like normal women are that smart anyway. For real tho. I’m tired of buying funko pops as gifts and watching Netflix next to some mouth breather who demands I respect her intelligence… same as I would respect her athleticism.

>>77891 > If we wanna help incels we have to figure out how we can help men who struggle with self esteem when the world is genuinely telling them they're unfuckable losers. It isnt just in their heads. I think the world would be better without so much cancel culture and nanny state involved in the bedrooms. The problem here is the asymmetry with freedom to self determination— women are free to follow their biological imperatives to obtain the highest quality alpha sperm and raise it with the highest quality beta provided support. Men on the other hand are constrained by so many fucking laws and double standards that punish the male directives: paternity, rape, age of consent, incest laws, laws against bride prices, etc. These laws all have their place in a functioning social system where women and men exist in concert with each other needs, but nowadays it’s suicidal empathy to let women operate in a laissez faire romantic marketplace while punishing men for deviating from 1950s breadwinners behavior.

>>77897 Actually I agree to a degree. At this point I have decided to focus on myself. I will say fat women or woman in general at least were I live don't seem to mind me coming up to them and chatting. I even have flirted before. I'm 5'8 213 pounds. Average looks, but I reckon most woman don't mind if you treat them well. I don't know I kinda just chat and let things go naturally. Don't really care if I land a date or not anymore. I certainly try but for me learning that one woman rejecting me isn't the end has helped me at least.

Dating is indeed tough but not impossible, the standard advice applies. Look good, compliment her, be yourself, if you struggle with confidence like i have, talk to older women, pay attention to how their husbands treat them and other men and learn what they are doing. I find if you can get close to an older woman, they can give good advice. Join a church or service organization, get a hobby or join and group and just go for it.

>>77897 Rape and age of consent are not male directives. Women rape and prey on kids more often than our data suggests. But either way. I hear you and I don't think I agree but I get where you're coming from. 90% of the modern dating imbalance is because ~15 social media companies design it so. Billionaires (no not just the Jewish ones...) want us to fight one another instead of them, while they monetize dating AND all the products people buy to cope with loneliness. They are grooming women to be whores and the fact that more of them arent literal man-hating prostitutes shows how women are not actually as bad as some people say. It's taken an assload of time money and resource just to get them as fucked up as they currently are and while we can all complain we can hopefully agree theres still plenty of good ladies most of them are just taken

>>77889 It sucks and the only reason I learned is from experience, I used to really struggle with my self confidence and I would let it show in the little comments I made and ways I acted. I had to learn how to fake it until I made it. Once I did I went from someone who basically couldn’t ever get laid to sleeping with women pretty regularly and I’m not some sort of “Chad” as a few on here would say. It does get better, if you’re with someone whose genuine eventually you can open up to them about your struggles little by little.

>>77901 > Rape and age of consent are not male directives See this is where you liberals lose out on winning over libertarians. You can see the legitimacy in everything from puppy play to paying teacher to groom kids into cutting up their genitals. But the retard-pill is a bridge too far? Just because a man gets his dick wet without paying a pink haired prostitute you get your panties in a bunch.

>>77956 See this is where you alt right morons lose out on being human over liberals. You think being in a relationship with someone with the emotional capacity of a 4 year old is basically just the same as puppy play, and you unironically think teachers groom kids into cutting up their geneticals. You go around crying about how males aren't able to express their emotions, as if there the actual issue that is keeping you from findii intimacy with a woman, while simultaneously you say creepy ass pedo shit like this, or random ass retard republican propaganda that only advanced dementia patients believe like they're eating the cats, they're eating the dogs. Of course no woman wants to fuck you, ya fuckin retard. Not even a therapist is gonna be happy to give you emotional advice, lol. You're what we in the industry call "literally not worth helping"

>>77956 Protip: you can't compare being in a relationship with a developmentally disabled woman with CNC stuff because when you're legitimately retarded, you aren't fit to give consent.

>>77976 I am conservative and don't know what that means. I think Bluesky became an echo chamber where everyone accused the other guy of being MAGA. The truth is normies don't care for social media

>>77978 So? I am mentally challenged, and I don't care. Y'all just want Chris Chan to be governor to avoid making tough decisions and LARP as Peggy Hill

Hakeem Jeffries isn't going to give up his wealth for the NOI, just like how Mrs and Mr Black Regular loves the police. Michelle Obama doesn't want to run cause y'all can't bootlick hard enough to say madam president

>>77976 >I hate America and think right wingers aren’t human. This is why no one wants to listen to the lefts moralizing, it’s just divisive nonsense.

>>77985 What left? The left are consistently online and jobless. Artists can't even afford rent on blue state taxes.

>>77732 I‘m almost identical as you, I‘m 5‘10 (178 cm) and weigh 265 lbs (~120 kg) and I never had problems that women rejected me because of the weight, it was more because of weak self-consciousness and charisma. However I found my love and I’m together with my bbw gf since almost 7 years. I don’t think this plays a role, with that height and weight you look chubby but not super fat and I‘m sure 90 % of the BBW/SSBBW women who really look into slim or muscular men have anyway a shit character. Women with a high emotional intelligence and who find your size attractive might be difficult to find but definitely not impossible. Wish you good luck and show humor, charisma and self-consciousness, this is a recommendation I can give you.

>>77864 > Bro just out here just casually asking developmentally disabled super fat women out on dates who are rolling around in their mobility scooters with "hi my name is Chloe I'm lost please call my guardian" stickers on their shirt and acting like it's not essentially the equivalent to being in a relationship with a literal child lmao I think if it’s just physical there’s nothing too bad about it between two consenting adults. People do “age play” and pretend to be pdf files— which is their right in their own bedrooms if they consent to it. I can see how it’s not ideal to date/marry someone in a significantly different level of intelligence, but I don’t think it’s immoral to love someone whose not the brightest bulb either.