Not sure if this is exactly your advice, but when I was 19 I met this big girl on tinder. She was around 23-24ish at the time, was super sweet, had her own apartment, bought me alcohol and weed, every college sophomores dream. I used to go to her house late at night (she never wanted any dates, just wanted to chill and watch tv and be lazy), and I would spend the night most nights. I will say, intent matters. I didn’t like this girl just because she was fat, I liked her because we hit it off chatting, I was genuinely attracted to her personality and her being fat came secondary. If you’re just trying to hook up, Tinder should be fine. But I will say it helps if you’re actually looking for something kinda serious, whether anything serious arises is irrelevant.