Want to be an asshole and egg her on knowing it's the path that she's trying to avoid for her wellbeing? Or respect her wishes and help her break a generational curse? Keep in mind any "healthy weight gain" is thrown out the window the moment genetics come into play, especially when she's already a prediabetic.

Prediabetic at 210lbs when she's only 24 is pretty trash-tier for gaining genetics. Diabetes is easier to manage these days due to GLP-1 drugs (even people who don't lose much weight on them can see big improvements to their blood sugar), but I'd write off any hope of her getting much bigger.

>>77860 For real. My girl didn't get diabetes until she was over 600. OP your girlfriend has ZERO talent for being a big fatty

>>77861 Too bad bc she’s got a BC Skylar build (hence the picture) and a thin face. Also, 600 lb? Feel like you’re trolling but post pics if true.

>>77862 Some people are more lucky than others with that stuff. Chubby Chiquita is only nearly prediabetic despite being over 400lbs

>>77856 If she was opposed to intentionally gaining then I think you have a non problem. She likely won't get "skinny", but it would be in her best interest to change her diet, and to not get much bigger. That doesn;t mean she will. It doesn't mean she won't eventually get as fat as her sister or something, if thats what you're hoping for. Enjoy the fatty that you have, not the fatty that you could have.

>>77856 Don’t have any good advice. But posting just to say she’s really cute. And if I were you I’d also ask to visit family, to see her bigger sister and SSBBW mom, haha.

>>77856 >sister is 300+ Date the sister.

>>77856 Take her on hikes and make her diet healthier for a bit. Get her health under control. You can still do this and have her gain if you feed her enough. She can still gain weight eating healthy foods. Added bonus is if you get her out of the prediabetic state she might lax up a bit and you can turbo charge the gains for a bit. You only live once anon. Make sure you live it to her fullest.

The bright side is she probably will gain some anyway given her family history so you don’t need to try much. Her being opposed to weight gain is kind of pushing back against the inevitable. She’s prediabetic at a young age and it’s technically obese already, so she’s going to get diabetes at some point regardless of your influence, unless she turns into becoming a fitness enthusiast. She might as well just prepare for T2, honestly. You could split the difference here, give her some healthy influences while still enjoying her being big without feeling like it’s something you caused, or even worse, having her resent you. The odds are overwhelmingly on the side of her slowly gaining anyway. What does she say about her sister? If she sees her as kind of a cautionary tale, it’s possible that as long as she remains a little smaller than her, she’ll feel like she’s on the right track.

>>78172 She commented on how her sister used to be an high school athlete and steadily gained by eating, drinking, and smoking too much in her 20s. She also told me she wants to lose weight, but if she can’t, she hopes she never crosses 250. Right now she can kinda hide it, but in her mind 250 is when ppl start looking at you and thinking you’re fat as fuck. She has gained about 15 lb in the 2 years we’ve been together. So I guess at that rate she’d be 300 by age 30.

If the fetish really matters to you, find someone else. I'm 20+ years married to a chubby wife that has now decided to crash diet from her high of 236 with a goal of like 130. Do you know how miserable it is to be in a marriage with a woman that you have lost all phyiscal desire for because of weight loss Not to mention when you've been enjoying cooking, dining out, drinks with friends for taht long and she becomes hyper focused on weight loss - your life is now a living hell.