Man, that's rough. I don't understand how y'all have such bad luck with this. I'm pretty up front about it (hard not to be, as I'm fine with it and it's incredibly arousing) and nobody reacts poorly - at worst disinterest, but the usual response is intrigue, and relationship partners have always been happy to indulge me and have some fun. It's not a lifestyle thing for me, though. I'm very happy with occasional scenes, some amount of playing into it, teasing, fat talk, belly rubs etc. I think it may actually be the autism/tending to date fellow neurodiverse people. Hell yea.

>>82362 This is fucking rough brother i dont even know how youd bounce back from this to be honest. Shes obviously uncomfortable with it and im not sure if it will never not be in the back of her mind. Hopefully you guys are able to talk it out with eachother and shes at least able to come around to understand it. I havent had an experience exactly like bow you're describing, but when i was a freshman in college, i met this girl in passing literally on orientation day who was easily over 500 pounds. I saw her in a crowd (how the fuck could you not) amongst the rest of the fresh faced 18 year olds like myself. I felt like i was striking fucking gold. Even in the most obvious reality that this woman didnt share the fetish, it was blowing my mind that i just moved out of my parents and had the opportunity to have the fat girlfriend i been wishing for on birthday cakes since i was 10 lmfao. We met, got along great, i took her on a first date and it went pretty well. we talked and texted more, then on the second date, at the end of the night after wed been drinkin a bit, she turns and looks at me straight in the eyes and says "please be completely honest with me. Do you have a feeder or a fat kink? Or do you like me for me?" And me being the stupidest most moronic idiot young dumbass drunk 18 year old responded with "why cant two things be true?" And then her face got kinda sour and she welled up with tears and then got up and left and then blocked me. Felt like fucking shit A week later we saw eachother in passing and she was making an obvious effort to not make any eye contact with me so i just took the hint and let it be. Anyway, moral of my story is that i wish we could have been more, and i would have been happy to not engage in any sort of kink stuff if i was with her, but for a lot of women, they just cannot shake the thought from their minds. Rightfully so ig. This "community" has a horrible reputation

>>82365 It absolutely sucks but she would have figured out either way and then get pissed off that you lied to her. But of course she was 18 and probably inexperienced, might have gotten burned by some feeder lunatic beforehand. The "supersized" girls I've chatted with definitely have known what's up despite never directly touching the topic, they aren't stupid they know they won't be the first choice of an average weight relatively well adjusted guy who isn't into this. Maaaybe you could have saved it by rejecting feeder fetish but saying you prefer larger girls but wouldn't put my bets on that.

I've been there and I read your post clenching my teeth. You have my sympathies but I'm sorry to say that within my very long (and otherwise pretty great) relationship I haven't cracked that code yet. Here's the problem with being an FA: We like something our partners (usually) dislike about themselves, which is their fat. Barring major health or mobility issues, they dislike being fat mostly because the rest of the world — often including loved ones — tell them they're ugly, lazy, disgusting and so on. Often from early childhood. Body positivity only worked so well at its peak a few years ago, and it's collapsing now with GLP1s. So we do this dance where we praise everything else about them but avoid the main thing that turns us on sexually. Then it becomes the elephant in the room (so to speak) where we have to fall back on "softness" or whatever. Which any woman past the love-drunk first few months of a relationship ain't gonna buy. I mean, she will, if she's into you otherwise, but she's not gonna swoon when you tell her how much her huge, dimply, wobbly ass turns you on. A dude with yellow or jungle fever doesn't have to deal with this. Their partners may be victims of racism and hold internalized self-hatred over it but even a 40 year KKK member doesn't hold it against them as a personal failing. (And even in 2026 most of the world believes racism = bad... Can't say that for fatphobia.) Even a foot fetishist may be ashamed of himself for being weird and his partner may think he's weird too but most women have feet and so they're nothing to be ashamed of. She can play along or not but it won't be gouging a hole in her already rickety self esteem. I generally hate "oh woe is me, FA" comments and so I'll qualify all this by saying I'm glad I have this preference/fetish/whatever because it led me to the woman in my life, and other great people and experiences before her. And unlike being gay I've never had any serious pushback in any aspect of my life except some side eye from friends and family (and if you can't handle that, turn in your man card and go join a monastery til you've figured it out). Still it would be nice if I could be 100% with my partner as I try to be with most other aspects of my life, but I just don't see that happening.

>>82365 As somebody who is on the back end of things and is married to a really awesome fat partner like >>82383 , I have a hard time believing that one is “dumb” for sharing about your sexuality with your sexual partner. Like any sensitive topic, context and timing is important as well as framing things sensitively. I think the main thing is that women want to be ‘found.’ The idea of a “fetish” is a turn off because it’s so objectifying—it seems impersonal, interchangeable, and divorced from mature motivations. But if you can figure out a way of showing that your sexuality is something you’ve come to see as a benefit to “find” the right person, I think it can work. It true that being an FA means you get access to other amazing women that others write off. That’s a superpower. But that can also devolve into just being a degenerate or overly promiscuous because you can get away with it more. If you want to be partnered long term, you got to reel it back in to Normalland. I’ve had pretty good success over the years just being frank when the topic came up—I had my own shame about it when I was growing up, but became thankful in the long run because it let me date amazing people I wouldn’t have otherwise. I think that framework leaves the opportunity open for that non-sexual romantic connection that women usually actually want. The sex comes later. Everyone is different, but in general this has worked well for me.

>>82362 Man, that sucks OP. I really felt that sense of shame in your post. For what it's worth, you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed about. I think you'd probably benefit from taking to your partner again about this, as uncomfortable as it might feel. There's a great chance for connection here. Going to therapy and talking about the shame you feel around your sexuality would probably benefit you too if you can afford it. On a different note though: while I get why a lot of fat girls might be uncomfortable with men into feedism and might have had bad experiences with FAs in the past, the idea of being put off by someone having a kink in this day and age is so unbelievably lame. That would make me side eye any potential partner.

The girls I've been with have generally been pretty happy when I tell them I'm a fat girl appreciator. I guess maybe I've just been lucky? Granted I've only dated a couple of fat girls so far, and they've both been the outgoing type.

Yeah asking for measurements is viewed as weird lmao, big alarm bell, shouldn't have thrown you off. But we all have to learn, I was so autistic about asking for measurements and weights with my first gf. Eventually you get to the point of bbw Understanding where you realize weight doesn't really matter and there's just tiers along the way from starter belly to hog and you can recognize what tier your girl is in and what a girl of her body type will look like in the next tier and hopefully just enjoy the ride. But I get the appeal of measurements. It is a point for dating titcows tbh. Anyway the best case scenario is just being matter of fact and most importantly separating it from your ego. Ultimately yeah most women are gonna find it a bit cringe and odd. It is what it is. There are things you don't like about them. You deal with them. They'll deal with it. >>82428 The female hivemind (non-derogatory, male hivemind has essentially the same views on this) conception of feedism vs. fat admiration is huge here so different guys are gonna have different experiences. At least I assume. Like I assume there are guys out there who need to be shoving donuts in someone's mouth occassionally to feel fully fulfilled sexually. Whereas some guys need at least a gain, other guys (towards FA side of spectrum) just need a fat body, just a body part for the guys over on /tits/ et al, some guys need "meta"-feedism (good fat chat with a skinny chick). All that to say measurements are inherently feedism coded and feedism is inherently autistic creep Cleveland show redneck 600 lb murder FREAK whereas fat admiration can at least be chicken soup cute Midwestern. (Or woke, as always this shit is so much easier if you're willing to go woke [I'm being descriptive not prescriptive here]). But the trick is to be able to do feedist stuff while only being a fat admirer in her mind and I think the key to that is aggressive preselection filtering for gluttons airheads goofballs etc. >>82364 Probably plays a very large part, yes. The only woman I've dated who 100% genuinely had interest in this stuff (as in had hard evidence of being so prior to influence from a partner) was adhd past the point of quirk and into minor developmental disability lol. Acquaintance of mine is a minor model, one of the actually into it tumblr girls, and she also has adhd and is spacey in a slightly "hmm way", as is the fattest woman I know (450 before 25), though she doesn't have much interest in the kink.

I remember when my girlfriend found an incognito tab I left open. It was the youtube homepage but I think a vid of Layla was recommended. She had to go suddenly and I could tell something spooked her. We were dating for at least 6 months, she ended up folding when I asked what was wrong and mentioned it. I was able to play it off saying my roommate and I learned about it and were just bullshitting on the internet. She didn't entirely believe it, told me it was okay, half kidding about gaining a few pounds for me. Sounds likr a dream come true but I was too ashamed of myself to go with it. This was in 2013 I think, she's 5'8 and was around 200 lbs, slightly heavier than athletic, still conventionally attractive but a little extra for me. 2026, we've been together for 14 years, married for 4 years. By 2018 she was probably around 240ish without any impact from me aside from casual enablement. She has a sweet tooth and definitely loved to binge and I definitely wasn't there to stop her. Eventually she found out I truly loved fat girls just by general cues, how I'd act around other fat women, how I'd touch and grab and squeeze her body. I still felt guilty about it but after the winter this year, she really threw caution to the wind and managed to hit 280. I definitely enabled the fuck out of her this time, I guarantee you she has one of the nicest bellies you'd see online, nice and round like Layla or TCG. I can't keep my hands off it and she's still got that ass she's always had but definitely lost that hourglass she used to have. The bad news is that she is definitely prediabetic now. Dark skin on her neck and cheeks, our niece asked her why she has bruises on her face. She's been humoring me and letting me take photos and videos to indulge my feeder side and I love her for that but it is a sad swan song that I am trying to cope with that this is the peak. I'm sure I'm not the first to go through this but she is my best friend. We do everything together, we've developed our same music interest, we share my wow account now where I play the content and she takes the decor I earn and builds out my house with her sims skills. She's brought so much good in my life that I can't possibly live without her, fat or skinny. I'm popping on here for comradery instead of jorking it, I've done that more than I'd like to admit, it's never impacted intimacy with my wife. Sometimes she's just knocked out cold or out with her family and if I don't keep busy, I'll end up looking for aomething visual. The content my wife has given me has been doing the trick and then some, I wish I asked her for it sooner. My eyes only, I pitched sharing but she's not cool with it, sorry gents. If I were to give OP some advice, don't spiral IRL if someone questions you on it. There's ways to word it without coming off like a degen. Just be real with who you date and real with yourself. No matter who you meet, true feederism isn't going to last forever. My wife isn't truly a feedee but she always appreciated that I never made her felt bad about gaining like a lot of guys would. Once you get to your 30's with whomever, healthy life choices become more important. I probably rambled a bit incoherently but I hope my story does something for you.

>>82429 You probably got a little lucky. You also might be better at communicating than a lot of us. If you approach it like a normal thing it's treated like a normal thing. If you treat it like a weird thing, it's treated as such. At least in the aggregate.

>>82365 This shit is so stupid. She's so traumatized she can't understand that basically EVERYBODY in the world in a relationship was attracted to their partners body before they got to know them and continue the relationship.

>>82362 Refuge in audacity works particularly well in these cases. My ex was just barely chubby and I just blatantly told her how she should get fatter and she just thought I was joking but was like "hmm maybe ehehehe" If a girl REALLY likes you she'll do it. She'll get apocalyptically horny too

>>82698 I applaud you on your autistically blunt approach, but I'm pretty sure that most anons on this site would probably take the autism side of the bluntness up to 11 and scare whatever girl they've landed away. It seems like this tactic only works outside the U.S. as well, because from what I've gathered from reading this thread and similar, only South American and mainland European guys have found much success being that straightforward.

>>82751 Can echo that the pathology among anglosphere girls is twice as strong. I ironically think our relatively less fatphobic culture makes it so. In other countries where fatphobia is prominent its much more blunt "dont get fat or you wont attract a man" but here in the US where nominally "all bodies are beautiful" (but really women, and many retarded men, still encourage other women to be as thin as possible) girls internalize this weird pathology where they have to repeatedly choose to want to be thin and cannot so easily eject it is a concept.

>>82698 > If a girl REALLY likes you she'll do it. She'll get apocalyptically horny too It’s sad how few men on this site will ever experience a woman’s attraction in the least. Even the ones with gfs and wives.

>>82362 The biggest mistake I keep seeing on this board (other than the psycho tampering with his wife's medicine) is that people treat this shit like they're coming out as being gay: essentially priming their partner to get stressed out. If you are going to explain yourself, it is crucial to treat this like it's no big deal. Besides, out of all the things you could get your rocks off to, a woman gaining weight is hardly the worst.

I’ve always be honest on my “ fetish “, and showed adeline at her biggest to make them understand how insane i am, my gf is pretty big ( not too much but obese) and my exs too, and if i wanna play with her belly i simply can, but you have to play it cool, like “ i like super obese girl but since it’s not healthy i prefer you this way, and obviously i like your inside a lot more “ and bs like that, make her feel ok and confident about her body and that you don’t care if she gets to the size of an elephant ( i do joke a lot about this with my gf)

>>82452 Late to this but I'll say she most likely is autistic too not just ADHD. Believe it or not ASD is still massively under diagnosed especially in women. It's a genetic racial condition related to Neanderthals. If you don't believe me see the theory on rdos.net. I believe it relates to this fetish actually. A lot of autists like fat people more than socially conscious normies

Every single time and I’m not joking here. Every single time my girlfriends found out I was into them gaining weight and the feederism fetish they jumped right into it and tried gaining for me. I have never had a girlfriend not get into the fetish. All my girlfriends who found out got fatter for me. It just depends on how much you mean to them if they want to give it a shot or not I guess.

>>82365 It's for the best. Better now than the guys who are decades into the marriage, then fall out of love when their wife loses weight for her health.

>>82889 Dude it’s soul crushing, all I really have to fall back on is at least we’re still a fat household, hell eve our boys dog is fat. Fuck that bitch tho.

>>82784 It might also be your anglo culture of never being straightforward that makes the straightforward approach incompatible with your women. Might be even worse in places like Japan.

>>82908 >This post coming from a German, the most literal people on the planet Lmao, the jokes write themselves.

>>82909 What are you talking about? The blunt approach works very well with German girls, at least in my experience.

>>82751 As >>82800 says, the best way to get people to understand is to say tell them with full confidence and in a way that makes it sound completely normal. You have to speak like you're telling them what day of the week it is. The more normal you come across, the less likely a girl is going to "get the ick". Going about it like you're a stammering wreck makes you look like a gross degen who believes it's fucked up. People tend to copy the mood of people around them and it affects their opinions.

I got caught dick in hand looking at some huge women online bitd. My gf was 5'1" and weighed about 225 at the time. She said "it's ok - we all do it." and wanted to see what I liked to look at so I showed her. She obviously already knew I liked fat girls but I don't think she realized HOW fat. She seemed to accept it and gained more and more weight the entire time we were together and got up to 312. I was in heaven.

OP again here after a month. Unfortunately things ended sadly and suddenly, and its been weighing on my mind. First, after a week after this initial post, we resumed talking and went on a nice date over at mine and it was pretty normal. At some point, in what seemed to be a nice, quiet time towards the end of the night, I gently anted to follow up about the panic attack and aborted conversation we had the prior time we hung out, regarding this kink - which spurred the initial post here. I gently brought up the incident, and tried to explain, calmly, respectfully, truthfully, and in as least of a "weird" kink way as possible what I was into regarding this kink. I explained how for me, its like 90% simply liking a bigger female figure, the softness, the curves, etc. and 10% actually being into the expansion, weight gain, feeding element, which is mostly a fantasy for me anyways. I stated that I didn't want them to change, I liked their body how it was, and it wasn't a big deal in my opinion. I thought I explained myself pretty well. Unfortunately, it didn't go over well. This did tip them over into a panic attack of their own, and they went frankly catatonic for a period of at least 30 minutes, They held a fixed, puzzled, almost disgusted expression, and wouldn't or couldn't respond or move They just laid there on the bed silently with that face stuck like it was after I explained myself. Eventually they felt a little bit better, and began moving and talking again, and we went to sleep for awhile. They woke me up around midnight to say they were getting an uber back, which was the initial plan at the start of the night. We kissed goodbye and and then they went away. We exchanged a brief set of messages the next morning about an Instagram reel or whatever, but after that, radio silence for a week. I sent an occasional "you okay?" message, but to no responses. After a week, they reply with a simple "I need space". Another week of space, and then I follow up again. I ask if they still need space, and the next day they reply that they indeed do. Another 2 weeks pass of silence. At this point, I sort of get that this is fully dead. The silence is a message enough, but after our warmth and closeness for 3 months before all this, I didn't expect this cold of a drop off all of a sudden. Another small bit of context to this story - I had been planning on leaving town sometime this season for a new job elsewhere, and they had known this, so this relationship had a expiration date all along. Which frankly calls into questions why I needed to even reveal this kink of mine and not just hide it for another month, but it was asked point blank and I wanted to be honest - to myself as much as to them, really. But this relationship was 3 months, and had always been a pretty temporary, but real, relationship. Finally, just today, I get a message. 2 days before I'm set to leave town. Apparently, the conversation about this damn kink sent them into a ED relapse. They knew that I only meant the best, and that I meant anything I said to be positive, but it was enough to trigger an eating disorder relapse. It wasn't only that, it was other factors int heir life like a grandparent passing and uni stresses and ongoing depression struggles. But because of the conversation, that was a trigger to fall into an eating disorder again. What the fuck. I didn't fucking mean to cause that. Fucking hell, I triggered a goddamn eating disorder episode? Because I wanted to be honest and calmly tell how I felt, address a vulnerable thing about my brain and try to be at peace with it on my own end. I should have kept quiet and shut it for the night. But it wouldn't have made a difference, I suppose, with it all ending soon anyways. But it's just such a sour end to an otherwise good thing, a really nice thing it was. And this fucking kink, this abnormality of my psyche had to muck it all up. I guess that speaks to underlying incompatibilities. If this was enough to trigger the episode, then even if I avoided the trigger then, it would have come up another time down the road. Or it would have ended more organically soon after, we were both busy at the end anyways. But if it had ended more gradually, I wouldn't be some freak in their eyes like I must be now. Some sicko fetishist, alright to drop with a small paragraph goodbye text after 3 weeks of silence. Anyways, that's really all there is to it, thanks for reading if you did. I don't know what to take away from this experience. Mental illness and weird relationships with their bodies seems to come with the territory for the women we're attracted to. I feel like I fucked it all up at the end of a nice relationship cause of this weird twist of my brain. And then it all had to vanish away and break apart so quickly. I don't know what's going on in their head at the end of the day, but frankly, I feel disposable and abnormal and a bit of a fuckup right now.

>>82362 Consider your relationship done. Also, get over the guilt and find someone you can indulge your fetish with

>>84466 Never feel like you were the problem. This woman has some mental health struggles to deal with. The fact she put it on you as your fault shows she can't take accountability for her own eating disorder. You dodged a dumpster fire here. I know it will be tough but you did the right thing here.

>>84468 Yeah mate, its done. Knew it was done after a week of the cold shoulder, but to finally get closure and its pinned on this kink makes me feel shit. >>84476 I think the incompatibilities would have grown over time. Wasn't the first time they had a sudden "I need space" break for some mental health episode and retreated away with no warning. And if a calm, truthful explanation about this kink or just what I'm attracted to, which i can't help or get rid of, if that sends them over the edge then it's not right. It still hurts though. It feels mean and cold to end it this way.

>>84466 Sounds like it's not your fault really. She's got to deal with some of her issues first before having a productive relationship. My wife was really receptive to my preferences very early on. I don't think I ever really said anything about feederism but she's seen the porn I watch, so she probably has some idea. I probably wouldn't bring it up straight away, but I think it's fine to be open about your preference for larger women. I feel like a lot of women are receptive to this. They just want to be loved and provided they know you aren't making fun of them, they are happy for you to explore their fat (even though they don't like it themselves). It just happens gradually as they take time to build confidence with you. I feel like to some extent being open about liking bigger girls is step 1. When my wife and I first had sex, I was grabbing her stomach and she got upset (understandably). It just takes time to build that trust. Usually this brings up "you're only with me because I'm fat". Definitely have an answer that shows that to not be the case. They don't want you to love their fat, they want you to love them. We've tried feeding during sex etc and she's probably put on 30-40kg during our relationship (125kg-167kg ish) not by me though. She's got her issues with emotional eating and such. But you just gotta be there as a team (I'm sure some was caused by me). At the end of the day, you like what you like and there are lots of girls out there who will be more open to your preferences. Best of luck mate.

>>84466 I think the lesson to learn from this is that dating women with poor self-esteem/who hate their bodies is a bad idea, and it's not even a good time (sexually) anyway. None of this stuff "comes with the territory" in my experience. It does seem to come up in a lot of posts here, but I can only speak from my own experience.

please look at this from her perspective: - some guy she just met and her start going out, but he's taking a new job and moving away - says some awkward shit one night about my hip measurement and being attracted to and wanting to make me fat - has a panic attack like a fucking retard - whole thing is bust within a few days and he continues being clingy even though he basically made me so uncomfortable - i have moved onto my other 3,500 hinge matches just do better next time, OP. have a plan, own up to your intentions, and have some discernment for what's appropriate with people. It's an uphill battle having this kink with the media perception, but welcome to the club. It's usually not easier to be different than the average People may not generally have a good time finding the right person and that makes them take stuff like what you guys went through harder than normal.

>>84466 That's rough. Like others have said, that's more a reflection of her hang ups with her body than anything to do with you. Also based on hyper critical way you're talking about yourself in these posts, I think you'd benefit from chatting to a therapist. You clearly have a lot of shame around your kink/sexuality (I'm sure experiences like this don't help). Fwiw, there's nothing wrong with you. Be kind to yourself.

Just this kinda random fat girl I've been sleeping with a few times. Maybe 300 lbs. After meeting a few times and getting comfortable with eachother during foreplay I just touch her a bit everywhere and briefly touch her belly during this round. I notice it seems like she actually enjoys me touching her stomach more than other parts of her body, I carefully touch her there more and more until I start full on fondling her fat, and to my misfortune I suddenly cum from doing that which is always a slight mood killer. I kinda just laughed it off and carried on and fingered her until my body did a reset, but she seemed a bit puzzled how that out of all things made me blow by load when premature ejaculation haven't been an issue previously. Next time we meet up she clearly gets uncomfortable when I take my hands too close to her stomach. Maybe I flew too close to the sun and she saw me thru as some creepy feeder pervert. Not that she has said anything but girls always notice so much more than they tell you. So in my experience it's always eeeh you never know, there isn't any winning to this most of the time.

>>82362 I've been there brother but I made the mistake of directly saying it, I hate to break it to you, but the situation is probably fucked, with the amount of media that feeds into people's anxieties around feederism, ranging from "oh my partner is going to fatten me up without consent" to "He's only into me for being fat" if she's not into it she's not going to trust you. >>84466 Just saw this I was in a very similar situation, with one of my first relationships being with a girl who has an ED, didn't realize it at the time and mentioned I had the kink, she tried it out, and then later suggested I get electroshock therapy. I'm sorry it ended badly for you bro but it's better than spending like the next couple years repressing yourself in the worst ways and hating yourself before the relationship ends.

>>84498 Therapy is 100% the moves, I had to go to therapy after my relationship that ended for similar reasons, alongside some other preexisting conditions outside of the relationship, and it helped me come to terms with myself, because otherwise you do just torture yourself over this kink

>>84498 I suppose you're right, I do have a lot of hang ups myself around this kink. I came out of a pretty fatphobic family, which probably was the reason I have this kink to an extent, but it created a lot of mixed feelings and shame around my attraction. Hasn't stopped me from dating big girls but you run into tricky situations like this one. >>84508 But will therapy help me truly accept this kink, I'm skeptical, never been to therapy before and i know its silly, but I dont think I'm "the type of person" who goes to therapy, as silly as that statement is.

>>84553 Most of it for me was just processing the fact I have it and that I’ll need to contend with it the rest of my life, unless you want to go the route my ex suggested of electroshock therapy there isn’t really a way to conversion therapy your way out of this, so it’s worth a shot

>>84553 Yeah, I’d say that mostly the therapist I had took the approach of “you like what you like” and focused more on how to not have so much anxiety over it. Like, basically how to be a mature well-adjusted person with the sexuality as-is. People think therapists are there to decide if you’re crazy or not, but really they just provide you researched tools to de-complicate all the shit going through your head.

>>82362 Maybe its just the type of girls I happen to like but I've never had bad experiences simply saying I like bigger girls. Even if I tell girls I'm dating who are objectively not fat that I'm into this, aside from asking why I chose them (my answer to that us always that personality always comes first) they immediately change their behavior without me even asking, like taking my hands and putting them on whatever tiny amount of belly they have to grab when cuddling or getting on top of me and weighing me down if they're horny.

>>84695 Lucky, maybe I've had bad luck over the years, (also plenty of fine luck, had wonderful fat girls too), but I remember early on in my sex life, a curvy but not fat girl who I was making out with, I touched her belly briefly and she asked me why I did that with a disgusted look. I only briefly touched my hand there, not even a fetishistic way, and I said that I liked tummies and thought they were cute. She shook her head no and it kinda ruined the vibe and I don't remember what happened afterwards but I soon stopped seeing her.

>>84555 jeez that's fucked up lol

>>84802 You and I may be older than the OP you're responding to. Shit was way way worse for being open as an FA back in the day. Shit was pretty damn bad when I was in high school in 2004. Just the rumor that a fat girl liked YOU was enough to lose social capital. But openly dating one, shit, the fat girl herself is probably gonna judge you for that one in 2004.

>>84921 Oh please. I was in high school in the 80s in a middle class, all white school. I dated the 2nd fattest girl in our class and I took a little shit at first but it wore off and stopped being a thing. It was way worse dealing with her body and self esteem issues in trying to lose my virginity with her.

>>84918 It was but it's whatever, like she had a bunch of issues so I don't really blame her ig? Last time I checked her socials she's body positivity posting cause she blew up so I at least have schadenfreude from that

>>84695 Same. Surprisingly how many average girls are like “oh, you like fat girls? I’m perfect for you then…” You just want want to politely say “call me in a hundred pounds” lol (but you don’t because you’re not a complete asshole.)

>>82383 >Here's the problem with being an FA: We like something our partners (usually) dislike about themselves You can literally just avoid this problem by actually dating feedees. FFS, are other kinks this full of idiots? This thread is likely literally the equivalent of someone on a BDSM forum complaining that their partner wasn't into rope-play or something. STOP GOING AFTER WOMEN WHO AREN'T INTO THE KINK! Literally if all the whiners in this thread did that none of the sob-stories would exist. The fetish is more accepted and popular than ever and yet there's still somehow just as many of you fucking sad-sack losers whining about "how can I convince my GF to get bigger?" or "I'm worried about telling my wife that I don't want her to go on a diet." as there were like 20 fucking years ago when you had like....Fat Celebs forum and Stuffer31 in terms of available content to consume.

>>85366 Because people have lives outside of this fetish. Because they're well-adjusted adults who know how degenerate this fetish is and don't want to ruin their healthy, stable relationships. Because they respect their partners. You are the faggot here for trying to reframe normal behaviors as the problem because they don't fit into your porn-addled brain's perception of reality. There's more to life and relationships than how you can get your rocks off.

With my girl we were so fucked up off Molly I just full sent it, and said yeah I like a girl who eats and don’t care about putting on a bit of weight. Shawty a strong 330 now and counting. Her cut off is 350 but she looks so good at 330 now. Big ole round belly