I’m not a gainer and I think fat men are disgusting as fuck. But girl gainers you can never go wrong with. The way they fill out with bigger tits, fatter ass, softer bigger tummies with a cute double chin. Fuck I love me a fat gainer girl so much.

>>83515 Im a guy and I managed to put on like 50lbs last year. Im not really "fat" yet but its been alot of fun.

I've thought about gaining. Would love to get myself up to 500+ lbs with a huge belly. Unfortunately, I am now middle-aged and my joints already ache, plus I'm cheap and don't want to have to invest in multiple new wardrobes. And most importantly, I don't have a partner who would support that. So I'm stuck at 260 lbs...

>>84177 Im in my early 20s and sitting around 240 so far. I think im young horny and dumb enough to really give it a go

>>84081 FACTS BRO

>>84081 Preach How any man could become obese and physically inept, on purpose, is beyond me.

Guy gainers are kinda gross, you shouldn’t want to be a fat male. A lot of male gainers want to be females too idk the correlation

>>84252 People shouldn't want to be fat anyway, and yet here we are.

In my mid-thirties now, but always had a desire to be big since I was a kid (but was fit & skinny ’til my twenties) I’m 6 foot & went from 160ish to 285 but got “down” to 259 in early March. However, I caught the gaining bug again & have since gotten back up to 280 in the last few weeks 🤷‍♂️

intentionally no, i never thought about gaining myself but in the past 1,5 years somehow i managed to put on 55lbs, going from 175lbs to 230lbs i had some trouble with clothes and stuff like that im still 21, im not sure about gaining more but im not saying no tho

>>84252 Maybe I am too BBW brained but I genuinely see obesity as part of the sexual dimorphism between men and women. I find fat men absolutely revolting and cannot stand them, like I hate fat men equally as much as I love fat women. So I cannot ever see my self as a gainer. Also without even factoring in my own strange psychology into the matter. Men get more issues than women do at obesity, develop health issues faster, and at lower weights. So I don't really understand why any man would intentionally want to be super obese and beyond. I think if men want to get bigger, they should try to put on muscle mass and try to look like Super Sayian Grade 3 or Olivia Biscuit, that makes more sense to me.

>>84321 This thread is really weird to read as a female because in my opinion it’s the opposite. Women should be lithe and graceful (although I’m sure some of my own internalised misogynistic ideals of what our bodies should look like is talking there) whilst men are meant to be bigger. I think male gainers and fat men are extremely attractive because they embody the kind of size and attitude that is inverse to mine. Being able to be the biggest in the room and eat what you want with no restraint is definitely sexy to me whilst fat women just make me feel disgusted.

>>84322 You are definitely the minority here

>>84323 I’m well aware. I just think it’s strange how we have the opposite view.

>>84322 >fat women just make me feel disgusted. All I had to read to tell you're a total fag!

>>84332 Seems that you are the only faggot here. Might wanna try reading it again

>>84333 Hey buddy.... leave the lady alone.... phahahahahahahahhaha

>>84334 Guess we better break out the mandatory tits or gtfo

>>84335 EW! WTH? I'm not showing anything like that to you! That's weird to another guy!

>>84336 Not you. Her>>84322

>>84337 Hiding behind your little VPN now I see, heh.... I won't show you anything still perv! Nice try, troll!

>>84339 Lol. No vpn. My asn likes to change between canada and us sometimes. Dunno why, but it does

>>84340 That is a funny coincidence, actually thought it was another person to try and mess with lol

>>84341 Nope same dude. Its kinda funny using streaming services. Sometimes its us and others its canada. Canada is far superior. Way more shows and movies

>>83515 I dont understand why ppl here act like mutual gaining aint a thing. i think most ppl on here didnt even have a lot of actual gainer partners in the long run, or maybe even fat partners for that matter. I am around 230lbs and all my partners liked my body, and most were significantly fatter than me. Its not that uncommon, at least in my country, for fat people to like fat people too. Its good to feel attractive for the same thing you find the other gender attractive, plus i feel like you need to be fat to know how to maintain a lifestyle that encourages loving fatness and accepting your love for food, as oposed to forced, objectifing and fetishistic. Most fat people (over 200ish lbs) i met were fat from childhood, and its more of an constant than a desire. With time you start to accept and enjoy it out of necesity, you are and will be fat. You love it and cant stop, there is no winning from feeling guilty over your nature. Most fat people i met had a fat parent or relative. As such had the fat admiring, feeding and gaining scenarios from childhood. Just the the simple fact that it is ok to be fat or like fat people is normalised in your family. One of your parents at least does it. Maybe you even see a subtle grin when they put a huge plate of food in the face of their loved ones. Where do you think fat people actually learn to find comfort and peace in eating? Most fat people i know want to feel normal good about their body and find partners that like and desire their fatness, its just basic attraction. You attract people that like your body, and you probably like fat people too. It takes one to know one.

>>84322 I think discipline and ability are extremely masculine traits. Men can't really be care takers if we are so big we can't move or can't practice restraint.

Yeah. My bf knows Im into fat girls and he can tell Im getting a little fat too and he's too sweet to leave me over getting too fat but I am so, so worried he'll quietly resent me for gaining weight. Also Im old now and worry about the health risks. Life is hard enough. I just want to be soft and round and happy and adored.

>>84366 Post id: db00ba

>>84364 This thread is kind of retarded. Obviously people that aren't into dudes are gonna think fat dudes are gross. And like most feeder situations have 2 people playing a different part of a dynamic. You could easily have 1 masculine guy and 1 feminine guy with no restraint. Or even a masculine woman and a feminine guy.

Female feeders exist and they’re probably about as common as women who like fat men. Plenty of women will tolerate a fat man. The mega obese dude I knew struggled enough with women (had girlfriends just not nice ugly fat ones) but if he went out to a gay club because she was a fag hag he was getting hit on by in-shape decent men, just waving them off with his ham hock of an arm.

>>84364 I think the subversion of that is part of why I find it so attractive. Men are stereotypically supposed to be hard and rough around the edges, so I find it really cute when a guy has a soft spot for sweets or extra softness on him. Even if I find it gross myself I can see why fat women are appealing though. It's just a natural extension of being into curves and wanting to spoil someone.

>>84384 Bake me a cake then woman

I was a skinny guy for most of my life but would on occasion feel a desire to gain weight. I've indulged several times for a while over the past ten years and have gotten up to 230 pounds. I'm currently in another gaining phase and fantasizing about developing a food addiction and getting as fat as my partner, which would require me to really pork out.

>>84322 >>84364 so does this just come down to people having internalized gender norms and societal pressures about how *their bodies* are supposed to look, while not having the same baggage when it comes to the opposite sex?

>>84667 I guess so. My fat fetish definitely developed from coming from a very ‘fatphobic’ family focused on looks. However these standards were mostly applied to the women in my family while with men it was said ‘it’s okay, they’re men’. So having that ingrained into my mind from a very early age, being exposed to weight gain in cartoons and finding that fatness couples well with the masculine traits I find attractive quickly led to me developing this bias.