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Why are you into this fetish? MIA 04/23/2026 (Thu) 04:33:44 Id:700713 No. 84306
Curious if anyone has any insights or theories as to why you and/or others are into this stuff. I recently got psychoanalyzed by a friend who's into that sort of thing, and he analyzed my fat fetish as stemming from a reaction against my thin, neurotic, demanding mother. i.e. a Madonna-whore complex where the mental image of the "good girl" Madonna/replacement is fat and the mental image of the "bad girl" whore is skinny. I realized after the fact that this was 100% the case because I hate skinny girls and assume that they are all evil shallow bitchy whores, whereas I tend to idolize fat girls and put them on a pedestal. Some questions to get the discussion going: 1. When do you first remember feeling aroused by fat girls/feeding? 2. Was your mom fat? 3. How do you feel about your mom? (picrelated lol) 4. Do you have a specific experience that you think gave you this fetish? 5. How do you feel about your fetish? 6. Do you have any particular feelings towards thin women?
>>84306 1. I remember I was like 6-7 years old, it wasn't proper arousal originally but evolved into that when a friend showed me a "gross fat lady" on a treadmill. 2. Fat but got a gastric bypass and lost the weight 3. Mid, had her issues but most of my family was already neurotic 4. For feedism in particular it was one of those "Scenario" ones where it was like sonic characters, I remember it being ass and basically a slide show, I think I got my first boner to them iirc? 5. Drawback because I still find thin girls attractive, but like I can't get it all the way up for them and takes forever to cum when I do sleep with them. Lost my first relationship partly because of this fetish. 6. As I said in previous question, I find them attractive, most of my mindset is if you're hot thin you're hot fat and vice versa, there's an immutable hotness, fat is just a bonus
1)Im not aroused by feeding,but tbh i always remember im into slightly bigger girls since i know myself,so i got little to no clue on those 2)As far as i can remember,nope,but before she married,she states that she got 5-10 kg's (which idk,15 to 20 lbs -maybe 25 lbs max- in U.S system?) extra,but i dont want to talk about it 3)Im not Tony Soprano,neither she is not Livia Soprano,so im not hating her ofc 4)I wont say experience but i like fuller boobs and ass,thick thighs and little belly and fuller face cheeks on women.As almost every past gf of mine was almost built like that. 5)Tbh i see myself as a chubby chaser,i do not intent on fattening my partner,bu if i approach a attractive yet fat girl,i will flirt with her 6)I mean as long as they are not bitches,im cool with them too,as i lost my v-card to a girl who weighs at 120 lbs,but they are not my go-to type like most of the men outside this site
>>84306 I just like fat chicks. End of story. You feeder fags should die
Skinny girls can't suck cock to save their lives. Every fat girl that I've dated or had a ONS was able to drain my balls
My first experience with this kind of stuff happened when i was around 12 or 13 and i found a shitty article with the title; "What if they hottest Hollywood celebrities were fat", or something like that, and it has a bunch of shitty photoshoped pictures of famous celebrities as fat people. Around the same time i found another article showing before and after pics of cute fat woman, but it wasnt related to any fetish, it was a body shaming thing i guess. Eventually in my search for fat related shit, i found a pic of a very young Plump Princess with her belly covering the keyboard of a laptop (if u guys know the pic, share it pls lmao) and well, that was the first time i jerked off without forcing myself to look at normie porn. And yeh my mom was fat, and still is, but tbf most woman in my early life were fat including all of my old teachers and my friend's mothers/sisters. I don't leave around most of them anymore tho, i left my home town like 8 years ago, but i like to believe i keep in contact with a lot of people from that time in my life. To be honest even tho there are a lot of elements in my environment that influenced my fetish i don't think my mom and other maternal figures are they answer. I used to be very fat as a teenager, and i know it's weird to say it, but at the time thinking about fat woman whole grabbing my own fat was a way for me to cope with my obesity, although i losed the extra weight when i was around 17 but that coping mechanism stayed with me i guess. I don't hate the fetish, it's something i don't show to people and Ive managed to hide it from most of my ex partners, but tbh it's not the only fetish i keep to myself lol, and i'm also not that huge of an obsessed porn guy im happy with just watching a fat girl doing hot shit, and if they used to be skinny thats even better, im not a feeder but girls getting fat it's always a hot thing for me. Don't get me wrong, i do love skinny woman too, ive dated petite chicks and i love having sex with them, but if i have the chance to get a fat girl im always gonna take it.
As interesting the psychology behind this is, I feel the Freudians on this page are grasping at straws. >If mum skinny you are attracted to fat women because they are not your mother. >If mum fat you are attracted to fat women because you subconsciously want to fuck your mother.
I’ve been coming back to this for a while. this might be rough but I’ll be as sparing of details as I can be. I was a chubby kid. fairly normal otherwise, outgoing etc. we had a babysitter visit one night, who was a very large man. it was supposed to be his mum who looked after us, but he showed up. he got my brother sorted and put to bed early, then insisted on giving me a bath. told me to strip in my parents room. he then spent some time slapping parts of my body and saying I had “tits like a woman”. afterwards followed this up with some other unsavoury stuff that doesn’t need repeated. obviously gave me the “if you tell anyone you’ll be in big trouble” spiel which worked on my child brain. after that moment I became almost obsessed with viewing any kinds of bodies fatter than mine. like a compulsion I guess. I repressed a lot of that night for almost twenty years and developed a fairly intense eating disorder along the way, and only after going into recovery for that did I remember what had happened. since that time though I remember being quite literally obsessed with finding people with bodies bigger than mine. early days of the internet obviously made the pipeline for searching for things like that a fairly direct one into outright feedist fetichism. I guess that’s another thing to pick apart. anyway sorry for the dump. been on my mind a lot, feels good to type that out.

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