Pic unrelated >be me >dating first and only real gf when i get to college >eventually break things off mid-freshman year for distance as per usual >never develop feelings until I stumble across the most beautiful fat girl I’ve ever seen at an off-campus event a year later To clarify, I’ve never dated anyone who falls into my preferences before. It’s not for fear of being judged so much as it is that despite the fact I’m at a southern-ish big university, I’ve just never found a bigger girl I’ve really developed feelings for for any reason, probably because I’m just not that close to any >spend months searching for her >see her again, stumble across socials somehow like a week after >try sliding into her dms >abysmally fuck it up, get deservedly ghosted >spend few more months sad >eventually realize I was being a creep and a loser >lock in, hang out with friends more, start doing more interesting stuff, get some new hobbies, go to gym more often >a couple girls seem to take some interest in me but nothing serious >We live, we laugh, we love Honestly I’m just looking for any advice on how y’all have found bigger women. I’m trying to take dating a little more lightly than before since I have a history of falling crazy hard for my friends and now this random stranger, and I wanna be a little more chill about it in the future. I get hit on occasionally, but it’s certainly not left and right, and I kinda wanna figure out if A, I just need to be hanging out more in groups where there just happen to be fat girls, or if I need to rethink my whole approach and try cold approaching more frequently (and work on my game a little bit). I’m also just genuinely curious about stories and wanna use this to reactivate the college thread since it’s an absolute shame that one’s been bumped past oblivion