>>174590
“Has job, owns house” already presents as 3x more normal and well-adjusted than most of these women. Also, if she still lives in Bakersfield, the bar is already set so low there when you’re just randomly walking around observing the public.
Seems pretty inevitable when you’re in your late 30s, have probably never had a truly healthy relationship, have whatever baseline mental things that made you that fat to begin with, and live your life on a whipsaw of being looked down on as an ugly circus attraction in real life, but everyone falls all over you on the Internet. Also, she seems pretty free with the booze and party drugs.
Seems like a pretty plausible formula to have absolutely no sense of up and down by that point, and by 40 that’s pretty much a terminal condition you’re not gonna snap out of.
>>174594
They’re always the ones that need it a little themselves