>>84665 thanks man ive enjoyed the ride so far most definitely, her bmi is statistically around 38 rn with her being so damn short and shes got a belly but hardly any over hang, its kinda all gone to her lower half in the recent years, which dont get my wrong, gets the rocks off most definitely but its been the past year that the fat on the arms, the ass is getting less juicy and just fat in general (which i love), shes built a respectable double chin and has solid rolls. but like i said i wouldn't mind making pig up to 2302-50, i wanna know if itd be a bad idea raising that 38 up with her height and all or if i should just play it safe and stop hitting til i get 21. shes kinda feeding herself atp which is sexy as shit, like 5-6 full meals a day. meal after meal shes definitely getting wider but id like seeing if bigger is possible.

>>84708 shes actively losing the pixar mom build that most guys would objectively go for anyday and starting to just get blubbery and bloated and i love it, somewhat reminiscent of candi kayn but kinda all ass and a belly but no overhang yk, i understand some girls arent built like that but i wanna push it yk

>>84690 We have been together a couple years now thank god, and kinda? Her appetite has definitely gotten bigger, but it's only recently she has started to outgrown her clothes in a "this straight up does not fit" way. She gained fairly slowly until recently, and seeing her in last years summer clothes in the heat was beautiful. Watching her shirt slowly ride up her belly is like crack cocaine

>>84717 Yeah, i mean shes really comfortable with you now, so shes probably less strict on herself, but yeah, i love it when porkers wear summer shit, some the dresses they wear really bring out the best in their figure.

I was finishing a 72 hour fast yesterday and I discovered a way to deal with the psychological hunger (as opposed to physical, I don't really get physically hungry) is to buy treats for my wife in a vicarious way. I stopped at a bakery by work and bought four different desserts, she ate about 3 of them last night and probably finished then today. She's been talking about her weight lately since she is down a bit from the last pregnancy, when she got huge (340ish, now 330)

>>84708 she has a doctors visit and she hasnt been on the entire time of being together so im a little nervous but we were showering together today and we were talking about her body and how confident she feels but shes worried their gonna tell her somethings wrong.(so am i ofc, but more importantly that they’ll tell her she needs to lose weight) and i said “if the doctors tell me i cant have a big bitch anymore i might die inside” and she said “they cant make me change that”. ive never felt such a feeling of peace and ease when it comes to making a bitch fat but holy shit ive never felt more in the green.

My girl is over 200kg at least, she gets upset when I ever bring up that she might be getting bigger, while also somedays complaining that she hates being fat, and wants to lose weight. Well today she made herself a 1 litre milkshake, without a glass big enough she guzzled it straight from the blender with a straw, soon followed up by a bag of chips and a pizza, and then of course Ben and Jerry's for desert... I almost couldn't believe she at all this by 4pm, so of course she needed dinner and snacks later throughout the day. She's already so fat it's hard to tell whether she's gaining or losing in general, but her mobillity and general fitness are getting worse by the day, even though we don't have the money she mentions ordering delivery everyday because she's too tired to cook, at only 26 I can't imagine the toll this will takenoj her body by 30

Really amazing moment tonight. I had sex with my girlfriend who is looking fatter than ever and afterwards we both take a shower together. She says to me, "ya know what would be great right now? A dairy queen burger." We cuddle next to each other and she's just crushing this burger in a sloppy way. It was beautiful. This fatty is only getting fatter.

>>85170 Just wait. She'll discover that GLPs can make all her dreams come true and your nightmare will begin.

>>85432 This is a good point actually, her mother has been heavily pushing her to go on one, but she's conflicted, any tips on how to convince her not to start them?

>>85446 Ozempic face, muscle loss, cost, lifetime use, rebound weight gain, nausea, digestive slowing and paralysis that can persist after stopping, personality changes, the FDA warning, ongoing litigation, it's unnatural, joy of food, diet industry rejection, intuitive eating. Lotta good reasons. Need to work them into daily life and conversation. So when the doctor suggests it, her impulse is no. Even better if you can get her advocating against others use.

When my partner was at her biggest around 430pounds on a trip back home she reclined the car seat all the way down to have a kip wich exposed the top of her double belly could barley consentrate as i saw her belly constantly jiggle about in her leggings shes was in no shape or form into this fetish or did she know how big she was turned me on

Not that my wife needs much of an excuse to indulge but made sure her Mother’s Day had all of her favorites. Started with some French pastries and a latte, couple hours later she needed to stop what we were doing for a snack break, sipped on a bottle of prosecco all day long, then ordered a buffalo chicken tender personal pizza for dinner, washed it down with a beer, then topped it off with a big ice cream.

My girl regained to 230 from 190! She has always known I’m into this and recently told me she’s done with dieting and asked me if it’s okay if she got really fat, even “a lot” more than her peak at 260. I don’t even have to encourage her, she’s eating 2500 cals at least every day. She is anxious about weight, like most women raised during 2000s anorexia culture, but recently actually threw the scale out and always mixes food with sex now. She’s pretty tall and it seems like her hips and gut are getting big first. She isn’t trying to gain but is definitely taking advantage of me being very okay with it

>>85468 Your girl has an absolutely lovely shape. Love how all her fat settles into such feminine areas

>>85468 Living the dream. Stay ahead of that anxiety. Run defense on the bad experiences that will trigger a relapse.

>>85472 Definitely good advice for anyone here, I’m buying her sized up cute clothes often so she’s confident, she also cut off toxic people who would make comments. She decided to go from 260 to 190 lbs a few years ago because of those reasons. A big help in this is making it fun, like a couple date nights a week at least and normalizing fast food any time we’re out. She got a long term desk job so I’m really hopeful for the future and just appreciating the journey.

>>83282 Another little update. We've had a couple more conversations about the size of women that I like and she seems almost enthusiastic that im into big girls. Since then shes ramped up her snacking and basically given up on self control because ill think shes hot anyway. Yesterday I looked around her place and saw candy wrappers, empty cookie boxes, and empty tub of ice cream and at least four bags from door dash orders. Its crazy to see how much shes sort of embracing being a big woman and just doing whatever she wants. She doesnt weight herself but she has at least a couple new stretch marks on her belly and back.

>>85628 Tread carefully here. If she makes the weight gain about becoming what you like, when it goes wrong you are at fault. Lean into supporting her autonomy, confidence, independence, freedom of choice, etc. Get her to lean into showing off what she finds attractive about her body. Validate it. For the gain to be durable, it needs to become part of her identity, and she needs to feel like you're into her, not the day on her. Great opportunity in front of you, highly envious.

>>85641 Ill be sure to be gentle with how I talk about it. I make sure i dont encourage her to do it and even got her a gym membership so she could come with me and make sure she gets good healthy food when i cook. Early on I set it out that im not a feeder or anything and she doesnt have to change anything for me. Doing everything I can to not make this last.

2 halloumi sticks starters, Tgi chicken, fries, garlic bread and onion rings. And this wasn’t even dinner or lunch. Very proud of her recently

>>85815 Is she too fat for her belly piercing now?

>>84688 Same anon, just spent £90 on food for her, take away delivery and something I got for myself it came to 60-65 just for her. I just gave her my phone and told her to add whatever she wanted. She was worried about how much it was but was still happy to add on two deserts to share when I said she could treat herself (She ate most of it). Is this how I realise I'm into fucking findom? She ate most of it except one of the sides, and let me feed her the desert and rub her belly when we finished. I almost feel kinda bad for getting so fucking turned on when she is literally just eating and doesn't even know about this but fuck I can't lie when I say I want to see her order more next time. No this is not larping

>>85843 Im lucky I buy my girl dinner most nights and it only ends up being like $30 whether I cook or order something and shes always hungry again later. Lately shes taken to using her own money on door dashing from dessert places almost nightly. Shes not even into gaining or anything just loves to eat.

>>85815 Bro is back! How has the gain train been going, she looks well, a double belly looks to be appearing too!

We went to a hockey play off game last night in club seats, free food and alcohol, I had 6 light beers and kept the buffet to under 1200 calories with just meat and veggies, my wife on the other hand ate so much by the second period she was talking about how stuffed she was and that she needed to unbutton her pants ("skinny" jeans that made her apron belly look amazing). She almost physically got sick she stuffed herself so much.

>>73494 My wife went on a frantic weight loss regimen like 2 months before we got married so her “arms wouldn’t look fat” in her pictures. She knows what I’m about, I don’t push endless weight gain on her but she knows and it’s whatever, she knows she’s got some runway to avoid diet and exercise and I’ll still love her so all is well. Anyway she would come home from work, do a few minutes on the peloton, ate more veggies and less everything else, and be miserable. To her credit it worked ok, she lost a few pounds which made her feel a little less self conscious while she was “on display” but not enough to low key bum me out but it was so obvious how miserable avoiding bread and sugar made her. Since the wedding that peloton has basically been turned into a towel rack, I kinda had a moment where I thought she’d stick with it but I’m just keeping my mouth shut and letting her live her fat and happy life.

My fiancé has gained 70 (150-220) lbs since I met her 3 years ago and recently started getting stretch marks on her belly. She’s always had an ass and wide hips (48 inches around last time we measured), but now she’s got a proper gut and her tits have ballooned too. She claims to want to lose weight and goes to the gym pretty regularly. But she also typically eats 3,000-4,000 calories a day and knows I’m turned on by her gain. I’m not sure how far this will go, but I’m certainly living the dream. Wouldn’t mind seeing her get to 250.

My finance gained at least 125 pounds since I got her on board with the lifestyle. She’s not really a feedee but she can’t help herself around junk food and fast food and she really just can’t do diets so after her last one failed she just stopped trying to lose weight and I have been able to push her to eat more and more and she ate 3 sandwiches at Arby’s last night! She’s literally too fat for all her clothes that aren’t sketchy waist bands like sweatpants, she doesn’t seem to be able to wipe herself and now catch her using the shower wand to clean up after! She’s literally the stinkiest sweaty pig these hot days and I cant beleive she’s the same woman who tried keto so many times. I’m watching her right now polish off a whole sleeve of Oreos as a snack, she didn’t eat dinner and has been eating a thousand calories snack every hour since five pm basically, hahahah, like she’s losing weight skipping dinner if that’s what you’re fat ass is doing.

>>85924 Sweaty stinky pigs are literally the best.

>>85924 How much does she weigh in total now? Do you encourage her to stay stinky? Sounds like you're in heaven man.

>>85899 Never believe that a woman only "claims" to want to lose weight. She doubtlessly does want to, but she just doesn't want to put in the effort to lose. That is the danger of GLPs: you can be both lazy AND lose weight effortlessly.

>>85952 Thats why i was so relieved when my gf said she had "0 interest in losing weight or dieting" so she'll never use glp1

Not sure where to ask this, as there are no active threads (as in with messages in the last month or so) for discussion of WL by partners at the moment. My question is: how do you tell your partner you no longer find her attractive? That you still love HER, but you no longer lust after her? My wife is looking saggy after losing 100 lbs, and she probably is still losing. She is still ok looking, from certain viewpoints, particularly when I don't clearly see the sag (like standing up, her legs don't look a lot thinner, but sitting down, you can really see the fat loss). So I am not grossed out by her naked (yet), but it also REALLY depresses me seeing her nude, cause it makes me confront the loss and potential future loss. Like hurts me to my core. But I don't know how to tell her that in a nice way. I am frankly surprised she has never asked me about it - I previously was all about feeling her up (so much so that she used to sometimes complain about it) and wanting to see her nude, but I have not done any of that in a couple months. Also, she is a very nosy person - one of the traits I don't like about her - which adds to my wondering why she is not asking, unless she thinks she knows the answer but for some reason (again, she is normally not shy to confront me about things she doesn't like) she does not want to ask. She told me this morning she was going to take a bath, which previously would have caused me to beat feet to the bathroom. Heck, just hearing the bathwater running would do that. I told her that's fine, and left it at that. She came to tell me that I was confusing since sometimes I complain about her not telling me she was taking a bath (which I have done, but not in several months) but then sometimes I seem to not care (which at this point I do not, as it is a measure of self-preservation so that I don't spiral into depression). What is surprising is that she did not ask the obvious question, namely, why did I no longer want to see her naked (or have any other sexual contact with her). I assume that is coming at some point, but I wonder how others might handle the issue when it is forced.

My girl just bought super stretchy office pants and told me it’s so it takes longer to grow out of them, I have no doubt this means 300 lbs. She’s replacing her whole wardrobe with stretchy, baggy clothes. We used to do one date night a week, but lately I’ve been able to feed her a big meal every night. She got a desk job and has absolutely been snacking and blowing up lately, up 35 lbs from her lowest just 10 months ago, and getting closer to her highest quickly. She isn’t trying to gain, but recently has told me many times I should pamper her and make her fatter. I think she’s about 230 right now, maybe 10 lbs bigger than this photo, she threw our scale out so I don’t know exactly. She gained to the mid 260s on accident when we first met, then chose to lose it, but we are on our way again and she is loving it. Not sure how big she’s okay with but she’s tall, so maybe mid 300s?

>>85949 >>85945 She’s super stinky these days and it’s more than just fat girl funk. She broke the screw bidet last year so she’s really stuck with doing a two stage “drop and plop” (shower cleanup) or wafflestomp (not her first choice but it’s happened). She needs a shower chair so she pretty much only uses the walk in shower and bathroom, which is fine because she’s broken the seat off it a few times. Really can’t beleive how wide and deep her ass is getting these last 50 pounds and getting sat on by it these days is a trip to another dimension of smells. The best part is she thinks she smells like roses and I compliment her and has her up constantly that she’s not a fat smelly pig and she beleives me for whatever reason. Idk keeps her eating so I don’t ask anything.

>>85955 It's probably pretty fucking obvious to her why. This shit does not get better if you ignore it and withdraw your attention. Any incentive for her to have a body you like goes away. The relationship will atrophy. Without sexual attraction you just friends. She's fundamentally become a different person. You don't lose a hundred pounds without changing dramatically. You gotta decide if you're into that version of her. If not, try to make regaining more fun than continuing to lose. That's the only option left for you. Either she turns things around, or the relationship is over anyways.

>>86018 Sounds based as fuck. Keep us posted on your piggy's progress in gains and decline in hygiene. Having a fat stay at home braphog that doesn't care about her smell is my dream. Sadly mine discovered bidets right before we started dating. her ass stinks decent enough when I stick my face in it after work but wish I can undo the bidet.

>>86100 What’s the point of dating a morbidly obese woman if she can clean her asshole like it’s the fine china? I’m not helping someone get up, shop, cook, carry food to her; throw out plates, and help her get into and out of the shower if it all ends in basically no smell and no fun. My suggestion is sabotage her bidet.

>>86033 We actually do still have a pretty awesome relationship. Just the sex side is gone; I would rather whack off myself than get depressed at what was having sex with her. As I said, I love HER, just I no longer lust after her. That said, if she wanted sex and initiated it, I would do it with her. Much in the same way she would have sex with me for many years even though she was disinterested (not because it was with me, but because of hormones making her totally not interested in sex), I would do it for her. I just would not initiate it or accept an offer just because she thought I wanted sex. (She did offer once when we were on a cruise and I said no, and again, it surprised the hell out of me that that did not initiate some sort of inquiry on her part as it was totally out of character for me over the 30+ years she has known me.)

>>86134 Almost my exact story. Depends what about her being at fat was the allure. The best story I could tell myself, is that the history of carrying all thay weight was still written into the saggy skin, silver stretch marks, etc. The loss of inevitable. Knowing some changes are irreversible markers of how fat she got helps, but it ain't the same thrill. I leaned in and have at least stalled further loss and maybe seen some small reversal. It's been much better than when I was ignoring it, and I've gotten her engagement on playing some food games. Turns out chasing a directional change gives a lot of the same thrill as a peak size. I dunno if there's a breaking point of too small for me. There might be. I aim not to find out.

>>86101 >I’m not helping someone get up, shop, cook, carry food to her; throw out plates, and help her get into and out of the shower if it all ends in basically no smell and no fun. Based. The payment for caretaking for super fats is enjoying the incredible fat smells Trapped in their folds

>>86100 > Sadly mine discovered bidets right before we started dating. her ass stinks decent enough when I stick my face in it after work but wish I can undo the bidet. There is, one supposes, a particular poverty to the unlived life: to pass through this world never having encountered the singular atmospheric bouquet acquired by the pedal extremities of a generously proportioned woman after a long summer day spent upright, laboring, perspiring, and—through the dubious liturgies of modern hygiene—engaging in the practice colloquially termed “waffle stomping.” Such conditions cultivate, within the humid ecological republic of the foot, a microbiological terroir of astonishing complexity. The resulting aroma does not merely offend or delight; it matures. It develops. Like a neglected monastery cheese or a stubborn natural wine, it acquires notes—earthy, saline, faintly animalic—that speak to time, heat, friction, and the strange alchemy by which the human body insists upon becoming more itself.

Fuck it, I’ll share something that recently happened. So my girl and I have been together for a few years. We met online, cute alt/goth girl, tattoos and piercings. She was curvy when we first met, maybe slightly chubby. Very kinky by default, so that worked since I’m also into bdsm. We started as friends, due to long distance. Super sweet girl, genuinely cares about me for me. We see other people, but always stayed in touch. Our things with other people fizzle out, and we start flirting with each other. We have the kink talk, and I allude go liking chubby girls. She’s receptive, thinks it’s sweet. Eventually I mention incorporating food into bdsm, to which she’s even more receptive. I basically come clean, explain Feedism as a bdsm dynamic, and she gets curious. Starts sending me pics of her snacks, even sends me a belly pics once I mention I like bellies. We decide to meet in person, and I force feed her. Immediately she’s hooked. 5 years later, I move to be with her and she’s gained 80+ lbs. She’s shaped a lot lot TianasTummy. Fast forward to today, she’s getting ready for work. She has a more goth aesthetic nowadays, and dresses very “corporate goth”. She was putting on a pair of stretchy tapered black dress pants, and was struggling to button them. She’s breathing heavy and failing to button it over her belly. She turns to me, with her belly between her button clasps, and says “This is all your fault, by the way”, and gives me a smile and wink. She knew exactly what she was doing. She ended up wearing a dress instead, but not before coming to me for some “belly appreciation”, as she puts it, which mostly turns into me kissing her belly and getting her worked up. Flirted my way into having a goth feedee girlfriend.

>>86101 >My suggestion is sabotage her bidet. I'm considering it. I'll just need to time it accordingly. She's a teacher and won't be working for a few months after this one. So may try next week where she won't have an urgency to keep up appearances for work. She's a regular stoner too so i Need to find a way to break her down to be fat weed smoking slob this summer that doesn't gaf about her smells or cleanliness. >>86381 >>86389 She sat on my face only once when I surprised visited her one weekend and she had little to time to shower/wipe properly, and brothers the smell was indescribable. My headwas pounding from snorting her asshole like smelling salts and my tongue was numb after eating her dirty pig ass out after... I need that high back.

>>86389 > after a long summer day spent upright, laboring, perspiring, and—through the dubious liturgies of modern hygiene—engaging in the practice colloquially termed “waffle stomping.” Such conditions cultivate, within the humid ecological republic of the foot, a microbiological terroir of astonishing complexity. The resulting aroma does not merely offend or delight; it matures. It develops. Like a neglected monastery cheese or a stubborn natural wine We went to Disney World with the girls and between the hot days on her feet alongside the tight bathrooms at the condo (where she legitimately could not fit in it and forcing her to get creative in the shower). She begged me to give her a footrub. I ended up licking her feet clean, and I’m telling you if I could bottle that smell and sell it as a truffle oil people would buy it.

>>86492 I never sabotaged a bidet but I did make my ex girlfriend shit herself on a long car ride. I rushed her out of the Airbnb after a big breakfast because we had a long car ride and I knew she’d never be able to use the bathrooms along the route we were taking through the mountains, she tried once or twice but the only handicap stall she found was too messy for her to use. She kept holding out but I kept driving and sooner or later it happened. Highlight of my lifetime. God the feeling of winning plus being trapped in that smell for another two hours was golden. She got cleaned up in a sink but it wasn’t enough to stop the smell. I just wished she was up to fucking during the rest of the trip because that made me so horny but we had plenty of problems.

>>86689 How big was she?! Did she ever entertain your ass smell fetish outside of that incident?

>>86707 She was pretty massive, would not let me weigh her and since she was short it was probably a surprisingly low number. No she did not entertain the smell fetish sadly, one more reason I wasn’t destroyed when she dumped me

>>86689 If you’re not making your girl shit her pants you’re not a real man.