/gen/ - General Discussion

>>93304 Have you just asked her why she seems so different? Bring up the fun you two had in the past with appreciating her size and ask why she suddenly doesn't like it anymore.

>>93283 The entire body positivity movement in relation to fat women basically exists to make them pretend to feel pretty and valued since they don't fall into a conventional beauty standard. So even though many will talk about how much they like being fat or are into body positivity, it is all a cope at the end of the day for most of them because they are not happy with themselves that they don't meet that standard. So I think when a man who is into larger women and genuinely finds someone with a BBW or beyond body type physically attractive, it reminds them that they are not happy with who they are and what body they have. This also extends to a lot of models who only model because they can use it as a source of income and don't actually like being fat and harbor resentment toward her fans. Which is just ultimately frustrating because the logical thing would be to just look for men who prefer that body type or lose the weight. A woman who is a BBW or SSBBW and is comfortable with her body, but isn't one of these coping activists is the sweet spot. But they are so fucking hard to find.

>>93314 So true that your kinks are kind of a prerequisite for any relationship. Being pent up or lying about what makes you happy never helps and im done with restrictive relationships. Im a straight guy but im insanely lucky with my current big ass gf. When I told her I was into this stuff (explained it very mildly) she decided on her own to quit working out and dieting and even lets me feed her in bed sometimes. We dont do anything to directly make her gain weight but even just having someone understanding enough to let you act things out is a big win. On another note, she told me recently she doesnt care about her weight anymore because she's only worried about looking hot for me

>>93292 You hit the nail on the head. I don't think that this applies only to fat women, but they want you to think that they are beautiful but also not care that they are not beautiful and love them "just for themselves". Basically, they want men to be women and ignore that in our genes, we are predisposed to be attracted to women we find our version of beautiful. I get that for women, "the person" may be most important and how visually attractive they are may not be important, but for dudes, finding someone sexually attractive is a big part of who we fall in love with. Obviously not the only thing (or hopefully not, at least!), but it is a major factor. So don't expect us not to care about it or minimize its importance.

>>93304 > why is actually liking their bodies viewed so negatively? *gestures broadly at society* Gee I wonder It triggers their internalised fatphobia, self-hatred. > fat and crazy kind of goes hand in hand there's no way around it Maybe, kind of, but I'm still not going to date crazy women for the sake of a good cum. Instead I tend to date women who are just fat instead of very fat. This has many advantages, and results in equally (if not better, as they're more likely to be physically fit enough to be good at sex) good cums. If I'm not coombrained enough to drastically alter, restrict and generally fuck up my life by staying in dysfunctional relationships for the sake of my paraphilia, how far gone are y'all jeez. I feel for you if the intensity of your desires pushes you into dating people you don't, really, want to date, and accepting lifestyles you wouldn't choose. > Like yeah I don't expect fat woman to be ok with being called hogs and being force fed Me neither, but quite a few are (maaany people, including women, are into submission, degradation etc.) and it's a real treat. A bit counter-intuitively though, it seems that it's people who feel good about their bodies who tend to be happy playing with that sort of thing. I imagine because they can understand it's not real and don't have horrible self-hatred stuff it triggers.

>>93329 Yeah my current gf isnt into it herself either but shes not really opposed and certainly wouldnt mind me getting a little thicker. I made sure to reveal it when we had a kink talk pretty early on in dating, so that we'd know off the bat if it was a dealbreaker for her. She's even curious about watching me stuff myself and has brought me big boxes of donuts before, or flirtingly talked me into ordering more at a drive thru. She's big herself, but mostly muscle with a layer of squishyness over it (and I love it), and totally a gym rat. But if she wasnt at least open to the idea, it would've been a dealbreaker. And shes thankfully very experienced in kink life, which is a huge plus here (I feel like vanilla girls hearing about feedism for the first time get waaaaay more squicked out and see it as toxic or scary, whereas someone experienced in kink might understand a bit better). >>93317 Having seen this from the girl side of things, both are true. Fat girls get put through the ringer by society if they grow up fat and are often traumatized and fucked up from it, skinny girls who gain weight lose their status and friends over it, and a lot of fat girls got fat because of an ED or drinking problem that was already going on. So yeah, fat girls are statistically a lot more likely to have a few screws loose.

>>93375 Mental health issues also lead to weight gain. Both as a coping mechanism and as a side effect of medication. It comes with the territory.

>>93376 Autism central. Skinny women are crazy because more simps will tolerate their crazy and indulge them in their delusions. There are 5x more girlfriend quality fat women, if you’re dating crazy fat women it’s because you’re not a quality pick brother.

Dude, she hates you bad. She's starting to resent *you*, not your fetish. If she's saying that she would date someone that likes normal sized girls, she's thinking about leaving you. Sit down with her and break up

>>93317 For real though. My 550lb lady friend is a feedee and has a master's degree, a real grown up job, a social media presence with tens of thousands of followers, and owns her own business on top of that. She messaged me on feabie. We have a great sex life. She's very much an outlier though. She doesn't even have a fucked up family. Most normal people I've ever met. She just likes eating and being fat. That being said, I mean... *sometimes*, every so often, she's a little fucking bat shit crazy. But it's only for like an hour though, and she always apologies afterwards. I'm not getting more lucky than that with this kink. I'll take it.

My wife slowly gained from 170ish when we met up to 240 over 25 years. Her figure was absolute perfection. I never pushed gaining on her, but we both liked to cook and go to out to eat. Unfortunately as we are both about 50 now her doc told her she was pre-diabetic and she went on weight loss drugs. She's around 150 now and as much as I try it's really hard to be physically attracted to her. I can't tell you how much this sucks. It's her choice and I'm a jerk to be upset about it. But It really is terrible. Aside from the weight loss, she just doesn't eat meals or want to go out. She has lost all drive to do anything enjoyable and is just a ball of anxeity that worries about everything in life that can go wrong. Aging sucks. Change sucks. Just enjoy every minute of time with your fat woman while you can.

My gf of the time found the browser history and told me she saw a reiina vid and was disgusted, and then went on to make fun of her tatoos as well. Incredibly embarrassing and cringe. Still kinda feel bad she was very self conscious and was always rail thin, and thought i didn’t find her attractive. Gave in a few times pushing her stomach during sex, but it was very short lived after that. Prime reiina gain train was better tbo tho

>>93403 >then went on to make fun of her tatoos as well Based

I met my girlfriend several years ago. After a week of dating, I told her about my preferences. She was shocked and wanted me to explain. Then she said that she would never willingly participate and would not gain weight for me, as she would be uncomfortable in her body. I told her that I totally understand; I don't want to force it on her, and she doesn't need to gain. The rest of the day was awkward, but the following weeks were fine. We understood each other in many other things, and I felt good with her, so I decided to put my preference aside for the relationship. And we nver really talked about it from then on. As years went by, she gained roughly 20-ish kilos. She started to be even more irresistible as it went to her butt and thighs, and she got a starter belly, which I couldn't get enough of at the start. But all that was due to stress, life stuff, and family genetics, I would say. She is really sad about the whole thing and dislikes her appearance. She denies buying clothes for herself, as she will buy more when she loses weight. But eventually, she just buys new, bigger clothes. I got to see her not fit into old clothes, people commenting on her weight, and her stuffing herself. All amazing things on paper, but when she despises those things, it is hard for me to enjoy or get excited, not complaining just saying. I got to see her weight change, and while I found her increasingly attractive, she was becoming increasingly uncomfortable with her appearance. I never intended for her to gain weight, and I never encouraged it. I didn't want to force my preferences on her, and I was happy to put my kink aside for the relationship. She complains about her weight, as is the stereotype, and I comfort her, yet she fires back, "What would you know? You must like this, finally your type, right?" and so on. I always assure her that I never intended for her to gain; I am not doing it in secret or on purpose in any way shape or form. In the meantime, I assured her that I like her as is and would like to help her get the body she wants. So I was asking her to join me for exercise, run, or to have something healthy. She then declines, has an excuse ready, or suggests something fatty instead. She also bakes a lot and eats it before I can even get to it. Our sex life is and was always kinda slow, mostly because she didn't feel ready and is socially awkward about it due to her upbringing. So we started having sex a bit later in our relationship. But I find myself not being attracted to her body even when at her fattest, which wasn't much, just 88 kilos. I don't mind, I don't blame her, and I don't get in her face about any of her gluttonous habits. Yet it hurts me every time she feels uncomfortable in her body or hates her weight; she either tells me that it is my fault that I fattened her up, that I am liking her fat body, or that I am sabotaging her, etc. I tell her that I can help, that I am here for her and will help her to lose the weight she doesn't want to have. She replies that I would surely sabotage her or that she doesn't want to exercise or anything like that. I am confused about one thing, and ironically it comes to me as funny. I confess my fat fetish, she dosnt want to participate so I cross it of as a no go and go on, she then gains weight herself, which I am blamed for, but in the end even at her biggest I dont enjoy it on her, other girls that I notice some gain I find it attractive, this whole online thing like forums/images/fanart etc excites me as well but in real life I dont find her attractive yet I am the one at fault according to her. Does it make sense that her not liking to gain would discourage me from liking it on her? I am already considering therapy, as I don't want to ruin the relationship and her life.

PS sorry for the long rant

>>93412 You are not the problem here. She's both rejected and shamed your sexuality. And continues to do so, while blaming you for the outcome of her food and exercise decisions. That's straight bullshit.

>>93414 This, basically the whole thread. Guys, the most you can hope for from someone who is normal about being fat is they're either unbothered or recognize it's an issue but don't do anything about it. The second they start blaming you is when you become a scapegoat for their growing (heh) insecurities. They need therapy or a good look in the mirror.

>>93403 I showed one of those to my ex who looked like Reiina, thought they'd at least get a kick out of it or think it was funny given the circumstances. They did NOT and kinda lost their shit over it. They even wore all the same clothing brands and did their hair and makeup the same way. Theyve changed up their look a LOT in the years since and I cant help but wonder if that had a hand in setting it off 😬 >>93412 You're doing the best you can honestly, she sounds like she's going through a lot just in general. You've made it openly clear that despite your kinks you want her to have a body shes comfortable in and will help her with whatever she needs, and the ball is totally in her court now. Her stress regarding attraction to her new form is very likely an offshoot of the stress that's been causing the weight gain in the first place. Her being bigger probably doesnt excite you because shes not enjoying it and is uncomfortable in her body because of it, and that's totally reasonable. Also you made your kink clear early on, made it clear you could put it aside, and didnt push it on her or encourage it on her, so you're not being a creep here. She just needs to work her shit out honestly. But it's hard either way.

>>93412 I feel you there on the guilt. I used to love worshipping her fat body before both due to my own fetish and that I thought it was making her more confident,but now I just feel guilty even touching her. I also used to love cooking for her but now I just feel like it's going to make her resent me >>93415 I think both in his and my GFs case it's really easy to blame external factors on something you're unhappy with especially when someone likes your biggest insecurity, it makes you an easy target, and also plays into their self immolation. >>93383 Over the weekend I told her that this situation is making me unhappy. She gave me a lot of excuses but so far has been a lot nicer, but I don't know. I'm giving it until the end of the month and if she starts slipping back to being mean and resentful again I'm going to break up.

>>232022 Thank you for your understanding words. I honestly feel a bit better hearing someone else's perspective. I feel the same that the decision is in her hands, and when getting to know my girlfriend better, I understand why she doesn’t want to gain and is not into it. I don’t think she will magically start to like it. So I think the ball is also in my court if I really want to be in such a relationship, and I am not talking about the kink but about being with someone who makes me the scapegoat for all misfortune in their life. She has blamed her weight, her job, and other life aspects on me even though I am trying to be supportive and motivating; of course, it doesn’t mean I am doing the best job, but I am certainly not trying to go against her. I also thought about if we were to have children; she gained weight during the pregnancy, which is basically guaranteed with her genetics and with what she told me about her mom. Then I am scared to even think about her anger with herself and it being directed towards me, and I am not talking about hormones or general sadness or depression that comes with pregnancy; of course, I would support her and be there for that. If you understand what I mean.

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I am looking into some therapists for help to sort out my emotions, which I am honestly getting mixed up a bit lately, and I don’t want to torment her, make her unhappy, or worse. And I also want to be in a happy relationship, which I would not call ours all the time, which I understand is kinda normal also.

>>93443 >being with someone who makes me the scapegoat for all misfortune in their life >has blamed her weight, her job, and other life aspects on me even though I am trying to be supportive >I am scared to even think about her anger anon. this woman is a bad person. she is incapable of taking responsibility for her problems in life and blames her shortcomings and insecurities on you instead of seeking therapy. she's so rude and unpleasant that even thinking of her anger scares you. your own words. anon. you sound like a good person. you deserve a good, loving, gentle, caring woman in your life. not this harpy. ditch the bitch. all the best.

>>93444 Not one of you is blameless nor deserving of sympathy. You can’t force, trick or trap a woman into your fetish, weather it’s fat fetish, foot fetish or scat fetish. You have 2 options: 1) Dump her and find a woman into it (suggest getting in shape and being less ugly). 2) Love her, as she is, which is a neurotic fat phobic woman who doesn’t trust or really like you because of how you treat her

>>93443 One of two things is happening here: 1. She's a difficult person. It's not your job job to fix someone else's mental hang ups. These problems will only get worse with time. 2. You are not establishing and enforcing boundaries effectively. If this is the problem, it's going to follow you into every relationship. Gotta figure it out. Life only gets harder with age. I'd encourage using the relationship as a lab to figure out what is happening, rather than just dipping.

>>93443 I think you need to have a serious talk with her about how her actions are affecting you, bring up the children thing and how you are already feeling afraid of angering her. Tell her that you love her but her insecurities arent just affecting her. My ex wife was the same way and it was a miserable marriage, it only got worse when we had kids.

My girlfriend knows I prefer her bigger but she's not into it. Fortunately for me that historically hasn't mattered much, she's basically doubled her weight in the time we've been together (roughly 150 to 300). More recently she's been on a GLP1 for like 6 months and dropped like 50 pounds, she still looks great but when I look at pictures of her from a year ago it's hard not to be a little disappointed. She's off it now (side effects were just a bit too much) so I might get some rebound weight back but I'm trying to tell myself I can be happy with her at 250 long term.

>>93480 > I’m a victim because I can’t score with fat women because I’m an autistic loser whose failing to force his wife into his fetish. This is you. Who are you even targeting? The man who told them they’re not perfect victims? GTFO with this gender war slop, if you’re wife doesn’t want to be fat get a new wife. Or the sandy vaginas crying they can’t get their wife to care about their sad little dick?

It sounds like some one is telling her she could do a lot better than you and that you're the cause of her weight gain. They likely told her something like, "get on glp-1, lose the weight, ditch that loser, get a new hot boy friend, and be happier and healthier." So like, here's the thing; she's listening. I would leave this chick. It appears to me, she's already planning on leaving you once she has lost weight and has some one else lined up. It's going to be a miserable ride that ultimately ends in heart break.

>>93507 Not gonna happen. This guy scored one girl once and he’s been dead fishing life ever since, that’s why he’s here crying about it.

>>93507 Real. My long term gf stopped dieting and working out completely when she found out I was into big girls. If your girl is serious about you or if she loves you even a little she'll at least accept your kinks if not try to accommodate them because thats what you do when you love someone.

>>93496 the aim of my last post was to insinuate that you are mentally unstable. your reply proves my point.

OP, This sounds terrible. I'm sorry you're going through this. As someone who has gone through this I can assure you, you are not the problem. You're showing your partner you appreciate them outside of being larger. However, your partner is definitely resenting you, growing to hate you, and projecting blame on you rather than themselves. It is time for "the talk." Where you both put everything on the table. Relationships are 50/50. If your partner expects 80/20 meaning she puts out 20% then it may be time to end this relationship. I fear you both are headed towards a very toxic future that will be life changing for the both of you. Right now she is being emotionally abusive and manipulative with her communication towards you. Best of luck.

Guys how the fuck do you man do this to a girl you actually care about. I've been off and on with this girl on the internet for a long time and we've met up a bunch but we took a long break and I'm coming back to her after a year and a bit. She loves gaining and being fat and we got her up to 160kg at one point and it was fucking incredible. But because we weren't really talking and because she never really had a weight 'problem' just loved being fat the weight fell off. Now I'm thinking of getting back with her proper and we obviously want to gain but fam how do you do this shit without worrying about her health? Anyone fatten up a girl to ridiculous proportions without any sort of health problems? Anyone done it to a girl they actually love?

>>93579 Honestly the move is to just keep ur girl under 300lbs and use porn when you need more. Mine weighs like 270 and we switch from going on hikes and gym trips to going home and stuffing her with cake. Just figure out how fat she can be and still have a life

>>93562 > This sounds terrible. I'm sorry you're going through this. As someone who has gone through this I can assure you, you are not the problem. Why are you gassing him up like this? You’re totally part of the problem if you date a woman who doesn’t share your fetish and then try to trick her into it. lol.

>>93443 >being with someone who makes me the scapegoat for all misfortune in their life >has blamed her weight, her job, and other life aspects on me even though I am trying to be supportive >I am scared to even think about her anger God I would pay to hear her side of the story. Garuntee you this guy isn’t the sad sap being taken advantage of. He’s here hat in hand crying and you know she’s probably right that he’s less than useless.

>>93459 Question: why was your gf on GLP-1's? Was it for medical issues (e.g., to get blood glucose levels down)? Or was it because she wanted to lose weight? Frankly, either reason is not good news. If it's for medical issues, those aren't going away and she may get back on it, just with a different dosage. And if it's for weight loss, well, my friend, that desire to lose weight and conform to society's ideal will never go away. You may be lucky for a while and she'll regain the lost weight (and then some), and she may yo-yo diet, but she'll always go back to trying easy ways to lose weight like the GLPs or WLS. There are hopefully a multitude of reasons for you to stay together, but if you absolutely want to be with an SSBBW and will be miserable with a mere bbw or less, then this will not be a good long-term relationship. (Trust me, I speak from experience - I'm too far along in my marriage and love my wife for other reasons, but I feel disgusted/devastated by the deflated balloon I get to look at and haunted by the memories of the nearly 400-lb beauty I once had.)

>>93579 Date someone who's going to be fat anyway. Some people are destined to waddle. Life goes in phases. Understand high weights are temporary. Make the most of them while you can. The health problems get exponentially worse with each BMI class. Below 35 is the conservative approach. 40 justifiable. 50 is damaging over a few years, but not a death sentence. Beyond that, you're playing with fire.

>>93579 Either you both fatalistically accept that they can't live a fulfilling life without gaining/being really fat, and that their having an otherwise more limited and difficult life and dying young is a necessary cost, or... you just don't. Let's be real, lifestyle-level fetishism of any kind is incredibly strongly correlated with serious psychological problems. I think even the fatalistic response is probably just cope about/denial of this, or even worse clear-eyed submission to it. A merely-quite-fat partner who occasionally eats a whole cake (and occasionally hikes, goes to the gym etc.) is the best IMHO.

>>93579 Gaining some weight yourself can also help. Go on a dirty bulk and add fifty pounds. Once you experience carrying it, even that small amount is easier to appreciate. Double that for a hundred extra, what we're calling barely fat. It's a fucking lot. Eye opening. The extra weight might drop you testosterone a bit, which can quiet the urge too. Some find fat is what the fetish demands. If that turns out to be you, it also gives much More control. Satisfaction is no longer solely dependent on your partner. And living in it, finding satisfaction with smaller numbers is easier. Ten pound changes things.

2 lessons everyone should learn from this thread: - If you like big girls, don't get together with a skinny one and hope she will gain wieght (unless you are absolutely sure she is a feede and willing to gain a lot). (And even more so if she is disgusted by someone loving a big woman.) - Don't get together with a big girl who is not comfortable with you loving her body, big red flag! She doesn't have to be comfortable with her own body per sé (orange flag), but if she is not ok with you loving her body, then leave.

>>93283 >many fat women are incredibly neurotic which makes them unpleasant to deal with. This is a big problem, at least in my country. The fat girls are often either BPD insane women (obvious when they are completely covered with piercings and tattoos more than what's normal), or mentally a troglodyte when it comes to iq. I suppose it is to be expected in a way though, being fat is technically a mental illness, so mentally ill people and retards are more likely to be fat than normal people.

This is tiktok brain shit. Women find other womens' opinions online and immediately think that you're a creep. After that one woman murdered her three kids, I asked my wife to delete tiktok from her phone and she did.

>>93660 >Women find other womens' opinions online and immediately think that you're a creep. many such cases. It's rare to find a woman who thinks for herself.

>>93627 That is old advice. GLPs totally turned that on its head and removed the inevitability. (You may be lucky and find someone who refuses to take them, but you cannot assume that someone who is genetically predisposed to obesity will be unable to cheat her destiny.)

There's a lot of text here so I'm going to keep this brief. I've been married for 10 years. I've had more girlfriends and one night stands than I can remember. Women are nuts. Stand your ground; if she likes you then she'll metaphorically slap herself and make it up to you on her own way (this depends on the woman. Might be sex, might be your favourite meal). If she doesn't like you, nothing will change. Leave her.

This thread is fucking nuts, what a read. That said, here's a good time to throw some advice for anyone who has just started dating a bigger girl, don't fucking shout your mouth off that you have a fat fetish like you're doing the girl a favour. Two guys in this thread have said they have a fetish straight off. You gave her a trump card that they have kept and thrown straight back at you. You got served, simple as. OP, you are killing me, what the actual fuck! >>93266 >In the beginning of our relationship she had never been with someone into fat chicks Translation : I told her I have a fat fetish but I framed it like I was a rescuing hero cos it's okay, cos I like fat chicks. Read your post back and tell me where you actually have anything complimentary to say about your partner? There isn't one bit of your original post that says anything. But it gets worse doesn't it, fuck me > She was really surprised that I was into her body, she told me that she thought that the only people like that were straight feeders, which I am definitely not. She was kind of weird about it at first, sometimes shoving my hand away when I was grabbing her belly, but she said she learned to really like it because I grabbed at her fat so "lovingly". I made sure never to use fetishy language about her, and to compliment her on things other than her weight that sort of thing. Another time I busted a nut all over her back fat Excuse : 'i'm definitely not a feeder'. Translation : You're a fucking feeder! Excuse : 'didn't like the fat grabbing, but now does' Translation : Your self-deluding narcissistic spin is frankly fucking horrible. She normalized it, you self-serving prick. Excuse : 'I made sure never to use fetishy language about her, and to compliment her on things other than her weight that sort of thing' Translation : I need to clean my keyboard for the coffee I just spat. What a cunt. What 'other things' ? Not one nice thing in your whole post. Your actions scream fetish. Fuck me. Excuse : 'Another time I busted a nut all over her back fat...' Translation : That isn't really an excuse, and this isn't a translation, it's the sentence afterwards, that she said she hated seeing her fat and cried about it at high school. Let's be clear here, you're a cunt, an absolute self-serving double fucking cunt. You didn't and you haven't healed her body image issues, you're causing them. You've framed yourself as i'm her saviour, you're her problem. Wherever she got the advice from that she can lose weight and she's followed that path, more power to her. She's realised you're the issue. The rest of your excuses I'm not sure if you're saying you're posting here from being insecure (i'll answer that, you are), or it's her also having insecurities. But here's my take on it, you are insecure, you've lost your fat cushion and now you're crying over it, but framing it as you were her saviour. She's insecure for sure too, but look at that armour she's throwing up against you now, those were some fucking class verbal eviscerations. She tore you a new asshole. I feel sorry for her, she doesn't like being as fat as she was, and in 2 years of being with you, whilst telling you she had issues about her weight and had lost weight because she didn't like it, she put on 70lbs in 2 years. She most definitely has some personal issues that are unresolved, but her biggest issue is you. You're mentally draining her but she's hit back at you. As someone else said, it's a shame we don't get to hear the other side of the story. She will find someone because she is pretty enough, you can be sure of that, and maybe one day you'll realise, man up and apologise that you were a controlling asshole with a fat fetish. TLDR, don't date someone who you have to fix to get to the size you actually want. If you want to date a 350lbs woman, date one. Most women don't like being fat, but when they're with a great guy who doesn't fetishize the fat, they just realise you love the fucking bones of them, fat and all, just don't forget a woman's not just a fat cushion. To the other guy who posted about saying he's got relationship issues. I hope you find your way out, you just gave her a trump card she can use against you by saying i've a fetish. It doesn't do you any favours.Find a fat girl who you love the bones of. My wife was 400lbs at one point, she's 250-270 now, still love her, yeah I miss her body, but then we have a great life, she's still gorgeous and her boobs are still pretty fine. OP, sort yourself out, split up with her, be decent.

>>93715 You make some fair points but please try not to sound like such a faggy redditor in the future.

>>93715 you're calling him a cunt but you're coming across as a giant massive asshole cunt.

>>93715 > anyone who has just started dating a bigger girl, don't fucking shout your mouth off that you have a fat fetish like you're doing the girl a favour. IDK, I’m 6’3” in shape and have a massive dick. It’s worked really well for me being straight up about what she’s have to do to keep me interested. What sort of microdick are yiu packing that liking a girls body gives her a “trump card”?