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The Ones That Got Away Anonymous 01/07/2026 (Wed) 19:52:39 Id:e25750 No. 77186
Curious what other’s experiences have been with feedist relationships that just didn’t work out, and what they learned from it
Not really a feedee, but I dated a girl for like 2 months. She was one of my coworkers and we quickly got together. She was around 225 pounds. She didn't like her weight, and hated her belly, but somehow I made her like it a little. I kept calling her hot, and rubbing her belly. However her personality was a deal breaker. She was very stubborn, and our personalities kept clashing. She was the worst when she was pissed off, outright ignoring me, refused to talk, etc. What turned me off for good was when I tried to help her with a problem she was having, and she told me to worry about my own. We broke up officially like 2 weeks later. I wouldn't say I could've made her a feedee, but she definitely seemed like the type to get bigger unintentionally. I don't even bother trying to get with someone else rn, since all my relationships keep ending up being so similar to each other.
>>77219 man that sucks, because it could've been a good relationship for you, but i think you should consider that maybe the people you're dating could be the reason why you end up getting the same results, you probably are into a type of girl who clashes with you personally
A few years ago I went on a date with an absolute bombshell, she has over 130k followers on instagram, 4’11, over 350 lbs, so fucking hot. The issue was she was the clingiest person I’ve ever met, if we were on a phone call and a Song was playing in the background she would send me 3 messages of her singing that song, if I was playing a game she wanted to watch me playing the game on FaceTime, if I didn’t send a text within a minute she would call me 3 times. It’s such a shame, she was so goddam hot I almost was willing to look past it. Our first date she got out of her house shoving a doughnut in her mouth apologizing because she didn’t think I’d be there early, then ate 2 appetizers and a Main, hour later asks if we can stop at mc Donald’s, I’m expecting maybe like an ice cream of something, NOPE orders a 20 peace nugget meal with a side poutine and a Sunday, fucking eats it like she just was stranded at sea without food for a year.
>>77235 her ordering poutine at mcdonalds should’ve been a huge red flag
>>77223 I wouldn't say everything clashed with each other, but I'm a quiet guy who isn't that expressive or vocal about myself, which is proven to be a problem time and time again. I'm aware of that, but I can't help what keeps naturally happening lol. I'm also a realist, and girls hate realism. But if anything, I do not want someone that clashes on all cylinders. Everyone I had dated was fine initially, but as time went on, the more we know about each other and how we are personality wise and then it ends up not working. Only one relationship didn't end badly, but we both decided to just be friends instead. Add that to the fact that having someone chubby, maybe a feedee, it's near impossible lmao.
>>77262 >>77235 >Canadians fighting…about poutine Lol
Right this may sound fake as I don’t get how I got so lucky. But when I was 17 I was chatting to this girl a few years older than me. Short like 5”2-5”4 huge ass and just round all over. When we met she picked me up and we went for a drive. She drives just outside of my city to this like abandoned road along side the new dual carriage way. And we stop to “chill” we soon kissed and then she wanted to fuck in her car. Now I was a 17 year old horny virgin for fat girls. But I had never had sex. So I fumbled it. Can’t remember it exactly but it didn’t end awkward we just never met or spoke again. What annoys me is that her man is slim tall and ginger like me lol. It littlerly could has been me. I’ll find a pic and post it in a min I’m sure I can find her.
Went on a few dates with this one girl freshman year of college. She seemed nice, but it didn’t quite work out. Two years later, I’m on no other platform than fucking Feabie and I see her there about 80 pounds heavier. That I fumbled and honest to goodness feedist relationship still pains me.
>>77302 Just pain, was it like a flytipping road too, or nah? I fumbled a British baddie, can't imagine it feels great for you either.
14-15 years ago, when I was just entered junior high, I met a senior classmate who is pretty big for her age. And I was already a chubby chaser back then so, I've been checking up on her even during classes. (Yes, my school was experimenting with moving class system back in 2011-2012). I had to move to another school for some reason just after a year so, I lost contact with the big girl since. Although until this date I still followed her on insta. And just today, I got a chance to see her again in a nearby cafe from my house but, it seems like she somehow forgot who I am. That sucks considering she grew up into a hot looking borderline SSBBW during these years we were apart.
>>77462 how much did she weigh when you dated her?
>>77302 Hey, at least you didn't get her pregnant.
Not as dramatic as many others here, but around Christmastime '24 me and this colleague I was seeing at the time went to a dive bar and I saw this gorgeous girl there who was easily pushing 400 sitting with friends, it was a pretty quiet night and I noticed she kept eyeing me thru the evening and when I was buying the girl drinks I noticed she was looking at us and smiling. The girl I was with was big, but not as big or pretty as her so I wonder if she just enjoyed the sight of seeing another big girl on a date. Anyways my colleague quit and moved away a month or two later so there's that. I've been many times back at the same bar around the same time in hopes the same girl shows up, but have never seen her again. Truly the one that got away, had I been with friends instead I would have 100% approached her.
>>78073 You have a Norwegian flag, so I assume this was in Norway? That is incredibly rare to meet someone like that here. Hope you meet her again.
>>78182 You are right, and thank you. I also saw this jaw droppingly huge girl in her early 20's working at Europris a few weeks ago, I found someone who I'm 80% sure was her on tinder the same evening and sent her a super like but never heard anything back from her. Kinda sucks because now I can't go back without seeming like a creep, but what else could I do. Asking a random retail worker for her number or asking for a date isn't exactly accepted in our society
>>78188 Dating super fat isn't acceptable either. You have to learn: get what you like when you can get it because no one gives a fuck if you decide to live out your life as someone who never even made attempts at approaching super fat women
>>78188 tbh, it's worth risking looking like a creep for a chance of getting with an enormous woman
>>78188 I don't know anything about Norwegian society but I know human beings. No, you can't just ask for her number but you can start a short, stupid conversation with her and then do it again the week after and check her reaction. If she seems more or less happy to see you (I know Scandinavians aren't the most demonstrative people on earth) say "Hey would you like to get coffee?" and take it from there.
This was the only time I ever had any luck on Feabie but about two years ago this very skinny very conventionally attractive woman hit me up out of nowhere. I was going to blow her off because I'm not into skinny women and I assumed it was just some wannabe OF person who wanted to make money, but I saw she lived in my city so I said fuck it and spoke with her. So we got to messaging and turns out she is legit, but the reason she hit me up is because I'm a fat fuck myself (I weighed 280-300lbs at the time). She she was a feeder herself and while I am a fat fuck I'm not a feedee so I was again thinking of blowing her off but she explained to me that she had recently put on 20lbs herself by unintentionally and it turned her on. This intrigued me so I kept talking to her. Eventually we meet up, I've never met anyone who had this fetish, so I asked her about it towards the end of the night. She tells me that basically she is some sort of female coomer and that she is so into this fetish she can't get off unless it theres some type of feeding/gaining element to things. The date went well and we made out to end the night, the next night she invites me to her place. She asks me to pick up fast food on the way and gives me a list of what to order, which is like this massive $55 Mcdonalds order for the two of us. We have a mutual feeding session with each of us feeding the other, somehow her skinny 130lb ass is out eating me too. Afterwards we hooked up. We did this two more times and those three nights are the hottest things I've ever experienced, I can get turned on in seconds just thinking about them. However, this woman was probably the stupidest person I ever met in my life. She openly admitted to me it would take her several minutes to respond to even short texts because she struggled to read and had to constantly look up anything beyond basic vocabulary to understand what it meant. While we were seeing each other she got fired from her retail job because she couldn't do simple math. Along with that many other things that are ordinary knowledge to 99% of people she didn't know. She also wanted to be a stand up comedian and constantly told jokes but was one of the least funny people I ever met. Like I said I was already very fat at the time and while these encounters did open me up to the possibility I'd be open for mutual feeding/gaining in the right circumstances, I wasn't about to blow myself up to 400 plus pounds for someone who was this stupid and irritating. Sucks because she'll probably be the only ever women I ever meet who would let me feed and fatten her up. But I had to end things. I watched her profile from afar for awhile and to her credit she was serious about the fetish and went from 110-180lbs in about a year. However, she dropped off the face of the internet. It's fun to fantasize she's out there somewhere getting fat as fuck but who knows.
>>77186 There was an outrageously hot girl on Feabie who was moving to my city after college, I had just graduated and it felt like a great way to get some hook ups out of my system and then when she moved maybe we could see where things went. Big blonde girl who played rugby in college I think, put on a bunch of weight when she finished her final season, pretty face, big but not like “dude why are you with this girl?” big, fun to talk to, it was a perfect storm. Move fell through when she took a different job elsewhere but I still wonder sometimes. Many such cases. I also had a chance to go to Iowa to meet up with a girl from feabie who does content now but it’s something super generic, thebigassbbw or something? Big Arab girl. I still have her on snap but we haven’t spoken for awhile.
My wife is fast approaching the feeling of the one that got away. Don't get me wrong, I love her to bits and I completely get that at 41 being 440lbs is probably not great for longevity, but damn do I miss her being that fat. She's down to 300 and says she doesn't want to be too skinny and once she hits 250 she'll stop and only diet again when she's 300, but fuck, I miss the fat. I've never outright said I've a massive fat fetish but figured she has to know, I met her at 350lbs and she put on weight just from being in a loving relationship. On the one side I like the fact she's far more mobile and says she's got a new lease of life, on the other the sex just isn't the same. Fucking hard work trying to size down what's attractive in your head. I guess grabbing ssbbw files from here doesn't help.

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