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The Ones That Got Away Anonymous 01/07/2026 (Wed) 19:52:39 Id:e25750 No. 77186
Curious what other’s experiences have been with feedist relationships that just didn’t work out, and what they learned from it
Not really a feedee, but I dated a girl for like 2 months. She was one of my coworkers and we quickly got together. She was around 225 pounds. She didn't like her weight, and hated her belly, but somehow I made her like it a little. I kept calling her hot, and rubbing her belly. However her personality was a deal breaker. She was very stubborn, and our personalities kept clashing. She was the worst when she was pissed off, outright ignoring me, refused to talk, etc. What turned me off for good was when I tried to help her with a problem she was having, and she told me to worry about my own. We broke up officially like 2 weeks later. I wouldn't say I could've made her a feedee, but she definitely seemed like the type to get bigger unintentionally. I don't even bother trying to get with someone else rn, since all my relationships keep ending up being so similar to each other.
>>77219 man that sucks, because it could've been a good relationship for you, but i think you should consider that maybe the people you're dating could be the reason why you end up getting the same results, you probably are into a type of girl who clashes with you personally
A few years ago I went on a date with an absolute bombshell, she has over 130k followers on instagram, 4’11, over 350 lbs, so fucking hot. The issue was she was the clingiest person I’ve ever met, if we were on a phone call and a Song was playing in the background she would send me 3 messages of her singing that song, if I was playing a game she wanted to watch me playing the game on FaceTime, if I didn’t send a text within a minute she would call me 3 times. It’s such a shame, she was so goddam hot I almost was willing to look past it. Our first date she got out of her house shoving a doughnut in her mouth apologizing because she didn’t think I’d be there early, then ate 2 appetizers and a Main, hour later asks if we can stop at mc Donald’s, I’m expecting maybe like an ice cream of something, NOPE orders a 20 peace nugget meal with a side poutine and a Sunday, fucking eats it like she just was stranded at sea without food for a year.
>>77235 her ordering poutine at mcdonalds should’ve been a huge red flag
>>77223 I wouldn't say everything clashed with each other, but I'm a quiet guy who isn't that expressive or vocal about myself, which is proven to be a problem time and time again. I'm aware of that, but I can't help what keeps naturally happening lol. I'm also a realist, and girls hate realism. But if anything, I do not want someone that clashes on all cylinders. Everyone I had dated was fine initially, but as time went on, the more we know about each other and how we are personality wise and then it ends up not working. Only one relationship didn't end badly, but we both decided to just be friends instead. Add that to the fact that having someone chubby, maybe a feedee, it's near impossible lmao.
>>77262 >>77235 >Canadians fighting…about poutine Lol
Right this may sound fake as I don’t get how I got so lucky. But when I was 17 I was chatting to this girl a few years older than me. Short like 5”2-5”4 huge ass and just round all over. When we met she picked me up and we went for a drive. She drives just outside of my city to this like abandoned road along side the new dual carriage way. And we stop to “chill” we soon kissed and then she wanted to fuck in her car. Now I was a 17 year old horny virgin for fat girls. But I had never had sex. So I fumbled it. Can’t remember it exactly but it didn’t end awkward we just never met or spoke again. What annoys me is that her man is slim tall and ginger like me lol. It littlerly could has been me. I’ll find a pic and post it in a min I’m sure I can find her.
Went on a few dates with this one girl freshman year of college. She seemed nice, but it didn’t quite work out. Two years later, I’m on no other platform than fucking Feabie and I see her there about 80 pounds heavier. That I fumbled and honest to goodness feedist relationship still pains me.
>>77302 Just pain, was it like a flytipping road too, or nah? I fumbled a British baddie, can't imagine it feels great for you either.
14-15 years ago, when I was just entered junior high, I met a senior classmate who is pretty big for her age. And I was already a chubby chaser back then so, I've been checking up on her even during classes. (Yes, my school was experimenting with moving class system back in 2011-2012). I had to move to another school for some reason just after a year so, I lost contact with the big girl since. Although until this date I still followed her on insta. And just today, I got a chance to see her again in a nearby cafe from my house but, it seems like she somehow forgot who I am. That sucks considering she grew up into a hot looking borderline SSBBW during these years we were apart.
>>77462 how much did she weigh when you dated her?
>>77302 Hey, at least you didn't get her pregnant.
Not as dramatic as many others here, but around Christmastime '24 me and this colleague I was seeing at the time went to a dive bar and I saw this gorgeous girl there who was easily pushing 400 sitting with friends, it was a pretty quiet night and I noticed she kept eyeing me thru the evening and when I was buying the girl drinks I noticed she was looking at us and smiling. The girl I was with was big, but not as big or pretty as her so I wonder if she just enjoyed the sight of seeing another big girl on a date. Anyways my colleague quit and moved away a month or two later so there's that. I've been many times back at the same bar around the same time in hopes the same girl shows up, but have never seen her again. Truly the one that got away, had I been with friends instead I would have 100% approached her.
>>78073 You have a Norwegian flag, so I assume this was in Norway? That is incredibly rare to meet someone like that here. Hope you meet her again.
>>78182 You are right, and thank you. I also saw this jaw droppingly huge girl in her early 20's working at Europris a few weeks ago, I found someone who I'm 80% sure was her on tinder the same evening and sent her a super like but never heard anything back from her. Kinda sucks because now I can't go back without seeming like a creep, but what else could I do. Asking a random retail worker for her number or asking for a date isn't exactly accepted in our society
>>78188 Dating super fat isn't acceptable either. You have to learn: get what you like when you can get it because no one gives a fuck if you decide to live out your life as someone who never even made attempts at approaching super fat women
>>78188 tbh, it's worth risking looking like a creep for a chance of getting with an enormous woman
>>78188 I don't know anything about Norwegian society but I know human beings. No, you can't just ask for her number but you can start a short, stupid conversation with her and then do it again the week after and check her reaction. If she seems more or less happy to see you (I know Scandinavians aren't the most demonstrative people on earth) say "Hey would you like to get coffee?" and take it from there.
This was the only time I ever had any luck on Feabie but about two years ago this very skinny very conventionally attractive woman hit me up out of nowhere. I was going to blow her off because I'm not into skinny women and I assumed it was just some wannabe OF person who wanted to make money, but I saw she lived in my city so I said fuck it and spoke with her. So we got to messaging and turns out she is legit, but the reason she hit me up is because I'm a fat fuck myself (I weighed 280-300lbs at the time). She she was a feeder herself and while I am a fat fuck I'm not a feedee so I was again thinking of blowing her off but she explained to me that she had recently put on 20lbs herself by unintentionally and it turned her on. This intrigued me so I kept talking to her. Eventually we meet up, I've never met anyone who had this fetish, so I asked her about it towards the end of the night. She tells me that basically she is some sort of female coomer and that she is so into this fetish she can't get off unless it theres some type of feeding/gaining element to things. The date went well and we made out to end the night, the next night she invites me to her place. She asks me to pick up fast food on the way and gives me a list of what to order, which is like this massive $55 Mcdonalds order for the two of us. We have a mutual feeding session with each of us feeding the other, somehow her skinny 130lb ass is out eating me too. Afterwards we hooked up. We did this two more times and those three nights are the hottest things I've ever experienced, I can get turned on in seconds just thinking about them. However, this woman was probably the stupidest person I ever met in my life. She openly admitted to me it would take her several minutes to respond to even short texts because she struggled to read and had to constantly look up anything beyond basic vocabulary to understand what it meant. While we were seeing each other she got fired from her retail job because she couldn't do simple math. Along with that many other things that are ordinary knowledge to 99% of people she didn't know. She also wanted to be a stand up comedian and constantly told jokes but was one of the least funny people I ever met. Like I said I was already very fat at the time and while these encounters did open me up to the possibility I'd be open for mutual feeding/gaining in the right circumstances, I wasn't about to blow myself up to 400 plus pounds for someone who was this stupid and irritating. Sucks because she'll probably be the only ever women I ever meet who would let me feed and fatten her up. But I had to end things. I watched her profile from afar for awhile and to her credit she was serious about the fetish and went from 110-180lbs in about a year. However, she dropped off the face of the internet. It's fun to fantasize she's out there somewhere getting fat as fuck but who knows.
>>77186 There was an outrageously hot girl on Feabie who was moving to my city after college, I had just graduated and it felt like a great way to get some hook ups out of my system and then when she moved maybe we could see where things went. Big blonde girl who played rugby in college I think, put on a bunch of weight when she finished her final season, pretty face, big but not like “dude why are you with this girl?” big, fun to talk to, it was a perfect storm. Move fell through when she took a different job elsewhere but I still wonder sometimes. Many such cases. I also had a chance to go to Iowa to meet up with a girl from feabie who does content now but it’s something super generic, thebigassbbw or something? Big Arab girl. I still have her on snap but we haven’t spoken for awhile.
My wife is fast approaching the feeling of the one that got away. Don't get me wrong, I love her to bits and I completely get that at 41 being 440lbs is probably not great for longevity, but damn do I miss her being that fat. She's down to 300 and says she doesn't want to be too skinny and once she hits 250 she'll stop and only diet again when she's 300, but fuck, I miss the fat. I've never outright said I've a massive fat fetish but figured she has to know, I met her at 350lbs and she put on weight just from being in a loving relationship. On the one side I like the fact she's far more mobile and says she's got a new lease of life, on the other the sex just isn't the same. Fucking hard work trying to size down what's attractive in your head. I guess grabbing ssbbw files from here doesn't help.
>>77235 Can we have her instagram?
>>78338 If it didn’t directly link me to this page I would, but she’s extremely internet savvy and I don’t want this reaching her because she would know it’s me… so just remove the periods between each letter a.m.y. Then g.e.o.n
>>79041 As someone who has also dated an internet famous bbw model... It's quite funny how this is simultaneously the thing you would say if you are lying, but also exactly what you would say if you aren't lying.
probably doesn't count but I was hitting it off with Creetchure on social media for about a day until I asked to meet and then I got ghosted
>>79058 Creetchure is so fucking hot it’s absurd, rip bro
>>77262 Red flag - that you should keep her! Anyone willing to eat fattening shit like that should be a great gainer.
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Missed my chance with a Thai BBW last year. She worked as an escort and I was a client. First meeting she went 4 hours past the hour booking with me. Pretty face, massive tits and belly, she just wanted to fuck all day. Ended up seeing her a few more times and even took her on two dates. Walking around darling harbor with her while she was barely dressed stressed me the fuck out. Plus she drank a lot of cider, and at dinner had two plates and even took me to a desert restaurant after so she could get a chocolate platter. Pic unrelated but kinda how she was built. Ended up cutting it off since we had nothing in common, and I didn't like the idea of dating an escort again after the last one. Plus she wanted a baby after like two dates. Kinda miss her now that im 30 and cant seem to get any dates, you just know with how much she ate she would have blown up fast. Here's to you Mina.
>>79351 Mcdonalds poutine is just garbage quality and small portions is all. If you want something that'll really fill someone to their limit (and tastes delicious) you'd go to a pataterie or a chip truck and get a family size that would normally satiate and fill 6 average people.
Probably my 2 best one that got away were both exes from highschool, first one she had dropped out at 17 total NEET living in a shitty little apartment on government money, short and already over 200lbs I should have just kept her around to make her grow, but my worst fumble was the second one from my last year of highschool she was probably already pushing 300lbs and as much as we didn't work together she was despite to do anything to keep me and I regret not just delivering the ultimatum of "you gain or I'm gone" because it almost certainly would have worked and I have no questions she would be well over 600lbs by now
I was about 24 years old at the time around 2014, I had grown up in Toronto and was still living there at the time, dating through BBWCupid. I saw this wonderful Brazilian woman in her early or mid 30s, about 5'8" at maybe 270 to 300 lbs, incredible pearshape body, black hair, beautiful eyes and tan complexion. She might have been working as a babysitter at the time, but also may have worked as an interior designer, I don't believe she was making that much of an income either. We chatted for a bit and decided to meet at Yorkdale male, I took the subway up. I then met her there and she was incredibly more attractive in person, we went for coffee and walked around. Now, at the time, I was still in college, I was still working retail at a Canadian Tire store and had just gotten my license. I was driving around my mother's minivan at the time. I must admit it wasn't a good or classy look, I think I might have looked like a bum back then. I did try to dress in dress shirts and nice dress shoes for dates, but rolling up in a van, ugh, I think it was my downfall. I saw her on a second date in Richmond Hill, I this time picked her up in the van. We went for sushi, the date may not have been going as well, because it didn't last long. She got a phone call and asked me to drive her home. She was still pleasant. I dropped her off after a quick conversation about seeing her again. Later on when I tried to date her again, she sprung this big lie about "...My VISA and Passport has expired, I am going to have to return to Brazil...". Which I could see right through, I could see her on other dating apps trying to match with people in Toronto. Maybe if I had a different car and was living on my own, the outcome could have been better. I regret that.
>>77235 Wow, she is very hot indeed. Looks like she has an incredible belly! Must have been a very difficult decision indeed. That VBO would win me over every time... I had a few dates with an absolutely crazy woman. She was trying to win me over with fake stories about past trauma and how she was cutting her stomach, went to ER, wanted to be admitted to psychiatric ward, even got me as far as to accompany her to a psychiatrist to speak about her fake trauma. I was very suspicious from the beginning, so I hold back and immediately cut off all ties when I had the undoubtable evidence that it was all fake. Afterwards I regretted that I did not play along for a while because I could tell she had a very nice belly. I wish I had taken advantage of her. After all she had shamelessly been abusing my kindness so I should have lived out some of my belly play and feeding fantasies with her as well.
Sophomore year of college. Went bowling with some people and as we're leaving i see this colossal pear shaped blonde, around 380, standing outside. I mean, she was gorgeous. Hair, makeup, nails all done, all prettied up. I had never even spoken to a fat girl outside of sone drunk hookups with chubby girls that I could blame on the drinking. So the next night were going to a party as some random house and who waddle uo to the door from the other direction? The blonde whale from the night before. She talked to me and my friends and I would break off and chat with her a bit. There was some dorky dude who kept trying to hit on her, but he was a little more in the FA closet than me, and whenever I walked up to them he would bail. I found them outside and he left, so we got to talking. I kissed her and she grabbed my crotch. Then because I was a pussy at the time I backed off when my buddies came outside. She kept asking for someone to walk her hone after that and I didnt have the balls to do it. I met up with her and and her friends a couple more times but nothing ever happened. Her body was so perfectly shaped that its cemented in my spank bank 10 years later even though I only saw her when I was drinking. She started losing weight after that year and is like 230 now. Extreme fumble on my end that I dont think ill ever live down.
>>79655 I'm sure we all here have fumbled something, but that's the level were you still keep screaming at yourself 10 years later. Sorry to hear that man lol but yeah that sums of youth dumbness pretty well.
>>79655 I would agree that was a major fumble. But you’re not a sophomore in college anymore, you will no doubt have chances to meet other people in the future and save the game.
>>79655 I had a bit of a similar experience, though I saw her once or twice again. She was smaller (I would guess around 275) but had the most fantastically fat calves (disproportionately big compared to the rest of her), which I totally loved but was too much of a pussy to feel. However, my reason for commenting is same thing happened: I saw her again a few years later and she had lost a bunch of weight. In some ways you could say we missed out on something; on the other, you could say we dodged a bullet and didn't get into a relationship with someone who hated the very thing we loved most about them. Come to think of it, my last gf before I met my wife was the same way: upper 200s and a bangin' bod - great tits, fat legs - but we drifted a bit (she lived where I went to college, and I moved about 90 minutes away after that) and were kind of off-and-on-again. So I was looking for a relationship online and had found the woman who would become my wife, but we had not met in person yet and I had to travel by plane to get to her. Of course, my gf reached out around then, and I gave her one last chance to tell me that I was the one she wanted (she had been seeing another guy - long story there), and that if she did, then I would cancel my trip out to Oregon. She wasn't sure, which made me sad - even guys want their girl to fight for them - and so I said screw that. Not only did I get my wife and two amazing sons out of that, I dodged a bullet cause she always had a thing about being fat (best example was that she did not like wearing shorts because they showed how fat her legs were - but then she would wear skin tight leggings, which showed every dimple and roll) and I know she would not have gained. And I looked her up on Facebook a few years ago and she looked old and barely plump, so I definitely made the right choice, even though I felt my life's love had gotten away from me at the time.
>>79674 >>79669 Yeah I grew out of the FA closet once I got to grad school and have my share of bbws and ssbbws under my belt now, lol. That one was just the one that got away
I had an online feedee for 3ish years. 5'2, 22yo. We'd text all day, chat on webcam. I'd pay for her groceries and stuffings, she'd log her meals. She was mid 300s when we started talking. When we 'broke up' she was 560. The part that makes her 'got away' is that she was a true pervert like me. She legit wanted to be bedbound. Fetishized her cpap and supplemental oxygen. I once watched her eat 14,000 calories in a single stuffing. At her biggest she got fired from her cleaning job because she was getting too fat to stand. She immediately called me on skype and was masturbating in her car. Shit haunts me. We talked about meeting in person but she was halfway across the country and we were never able to make it happen. She was also extremely mentally unwell so I think in hindsight this was for the best. I'm happily married to a 450lb cutie now but she's not a feedee, just fat.
>>79832 Holy shit, I had to imagine there are about 40 other amazing stories you could share from that time.

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