I was about 24 years old at the time around 2014, I had grown up in Toronto and was still living there at the time, dating through BBWCupid. I saw this wonderful Brazilian woman in her early or mid 30s, about 5'8" at maybe 270 to 300 lbs, incredible pearshape body, black hair, beautiful eyes and tan complexion. She might have been working as a babysitter at the time, but also may have worked as an interior designer, I don't believe she was making that much of an income either.
We chatted for a bit and decided to meet at Yorkdale male, I took the subway up. I then met her there and she was incredibly more attractive in person, we went for coffee and walked around.
Now, at the time, I was still in college, I was still working retail at a Canadian Tire store and had just gotten my license. I was driving around my mother's minivan at the time. I must admit it wasn't a good or classy look, I think I might have looked like a bum back then. I did try to dress in dress shirts and nice dress shoes for dates, but rolling up in a van, ugh, I think it was my downfall.
I saw her on a second date in Richmond Hill, I this time picked her up in the van. We went for sushi, the date may not have been going as well, because it didn't last long. She got a phone call and asked me to drive her home. She was still pleasant. I dropped her off after a quick conversation about seeing her again.
Later on when I tried to date her again, she sprung this big lie about "...My VISA and Passport has expired, I am going to have to return to Brazil...". Which I could see right through, I could see her on other dating apps trying to match with people in Toronto.
Maybe if I had a different car and was living on my own, the outcome could have been better. I regret that.