>>81824 Run.

>>81824 a bit dramatic. we're all just some guys finding pleasure in what the world has to offer.

>>81828 OP's the kind of guy who jerks off once on friday, then spends the rest of the weekend crying to his priest about it (he goes to church on saturday AND sunday).

>>81831 Wild projection >>81824 Consider jerking off less often OP.

>>81824 When I was younger & in your situation, I took all that frustration and energy and poured it into: *working out *getting on 4 different date sites and writing excellent ad copy *committing myself to a date per week, usually sourced from date site(even if ugly/skinny, practice makes you better) *working on my conversation game/vetting process *work on cooking game

>>81925 Thank you for the advice man, I'm gonna do my best to follow it.

>>81925 I did all the same stuff, now I’m also short and balding and a bit dyslexic. I’m not gonna be able to run the same game he’s playing here, so I can elaborate further. You can try hanging out around the stores in the mall selling plus sized clothing didn’t work for me but I also live in a big city and have found doctors offices for eating disorders and obesity specialties and hang out in their ground floor cafe if your feeling brave. Fat shut in nerds are getting more common and working at a record store and game shop has almost lead to getting some numbers too with gen-z ladies.

>>81960 Man do not tell this guy to lurk outside a Torrid trying to pick up chicks lmao OP just get on a few dating apps, you'll find em. Dont be weird about it when you talk to them. Most of them let you smash pretty quickly if youre not hideous or creepy.

>>81824 Very relatable. It gets a bit better once you find someone, but soon after you will be lurking again to look at bigger girls. Don't let the people mocking you bring you down, because they are exactly the same, otherwise they would not be here.

>>81972 This is so damn real it hurts lmao. My gf has gained a significant amount of weight and right now genuinely looks like the girls I looked at before I met her. In that time the girls I looked at on here and other places have just kept growing and growing, and makes me hope I can get her that big one day

While I don't feel consumed by the fetish, I also am married and so I don't harbor a belief that the right USSBBW feedee is out there for me to find. And that is where this fetish can be a problem for the single - and this is a general problem for young people now, it seems - is that perfection/the ideal is becoming the enemy of the great. Whether it is women who think the perfect man is out there who will tick every one of her huge list of boxes or a man here who is trying to find a feedee who is going to let them feed them to an unrealistic size, getting too into the feedee scene can be dangerous to their sanity if not properly managed (i.e., be realistic and happy if you find someone who ticks most of your boxes, unless you are some uber-Chad that women drool over and have some super-high-paying job that would allow any woman to choose the lifestyle and career she wants). For you guys, I would counsel not only being less picky, but also get a good idea of what is going to keep a woman fat. Just cause she is now, doesn't mean she always will be. From my experience, you want someone who is a little "simple" - not dumb as a sack of rocks (though that would probably work too), but one who is going to be a little easier to manipulate and who won't care so much about what others think. A smart, forceful woman will always do what she wants and hang the consequences, which is fine if she wants to devote herself to getting fatter, but this is where you gotta get realistic and realize that it is pretty much impossible to find someone like that. And the women who are chubby now and gain some weight in the relationship are unlikely to become USSBBWs. There's a big difference between going up a few sizes and growing into the territory where you cannot find clothes and get winded just putting on their socks (if they even can do that). Even going from 150 to 300 is unlikely, unless they are very young. Psychologically, there is a big gap between being chubby and SSBBW size, and very few smart women are going to let that happen to them. Someone a little simpler, though, probably won't think much of it and won't get bothered by getting so fat (though even that is not a guarantee). And also make sure that they are comfortable in their body and not traumatized by being fat. That may be repressed for a while, but at some point it will rear its ugly head and they will take the easy way out with a GLP. I know from experience on that, and am depressed because of it. And it can also be unhealthy for those in a relationship as well. It's great to have a community to talk about these things and our fantasies that our partners do not share, but seeing all the fat women out there who are sizes you wish your spouse was can depress you. I mean, my wife was 385, and in what world should that be too small? When I was in my 20s, a woman that big was pretty much unheard of (and would probably be at least middle aged), where now that is "run of the mill" fat and there are plenty of 400+ pounders in their 20s (and even 500+ pounds is not uncommon). I think what you see greatly influences how you perceive your partner, and if there were few women over 350, I would have thought 385 was enormous. But you see so many 500+, 600+ women out there that you see that as the benchmark, and even though 385 is still big, it seems small in comparison to what you perceive as an achievable ideal. So feeder chat can be good as long as you don't let it become all-consuming, and same with feeder porn, insofar as you can get your rocks off to someone who is your ideal who you will probably never meet in real life (I don't mean that model in particular, but someone that size). And by all means try to find the ideal woman. But make sure you have other outlets/hobbies/ways to have fun so that you don't become some troll who spends all his time on message boards talking about feedism (not only is that not good for you, but you are almost certainly going to turn off that ideal woman when you meet her because you won't know how to contain your excitement for something she has been told for so long by so many is disgusting and unhealthy).

>>81968 nah lurking is fine

>>81989 No neighbour, i have been down this path before. You will never be satisfied with your own pigs size, you will force her to be uncomfortable with your comments and lose her. Right now you should think about what size you really find acceptable and evaluate if she's gonna stay that size for the foreseeable future. En lekkere frieten voeren toch, poh.

>>82476 Fair enough, I see where you're getting from. I feel like right now i'm at a place where I like her current size, but wouldn't mind her to get fatter. It would be okay if she doesn't, but preferable if she does.

I've tried to quit multiple times, but I think I'm permanently fucked with having this fetish/kink. I'm trying to just accept shit in life, and this is one of the things I accept that's going to be a part of me forever.

>>81930 My advice, if you have any creative bone in your body, is to become a brooding misunderstood artist. That shit worked wonders when I was 19 / early 20s

>>81824 Yeah man. I'm a fucking consultant working in DC. You think you'd be able to meet some gorgeous fat girls here, it's just so fucking sad man. Shameless self plug: any fat chicks in or near DC want to meet up and get food or drinks or something or whatever, that would be swell. Everything sucks lately and I'm so fucking bored.

>>81960 > live in a big city and have found doctors offices for eating disorders and obesity specialties and hang out in their ground floor cafe Trying this out for wfh on Friday this week. Any suggestions? Do cafes have a drink per hour minimum for WiFi, I was thinking I’d hotspot.

>>82735 I definitely don't want to be a creep. Sounds desperate and weird dude. I just want to break from the monotony and the seriousness of all this bullshit.

>>81824 I probably am consumed to some degree by it. I genuinely can't find skinny women attractive, and while I do find women well over 800lbs sexy I am aware that I really don't want someone who would do that to themselves and also just not be capable of having and raising children. I used to be very anxious about having this fetish, but I sort of came to terms with it and just embrace that I love fat women. I come here to goon to fat hentai. But I do frequently masturbate or at the very least ogle at the picture soft women with ample body heat and pretend I am in their embrace them to cope with loneliness. Though I mainly come here because 4chan sometimes sucks with their bbw threads, DeviantArt is ass, Pixiv is okay, and X is a disorganized mess for finding new BBW art. I haven't really had much success with dating apps, and the issue is partially that I don't find a lot of the women attractive, which just compounds the issues that everyone else runs into where the person they do match with isn't quite right, or say you end up in a relationship and you aren't satisified because someone who let themselves get to a BMI of nearly 70 has very different life goals and ethics from you that will make being together hard. But man, it is so paradoxical feeling lonely, and then some of the women I try to match with or end up dating second guess my intentions because they think I am super handsome or smart. Even asking me if I am with her for some prank or because she would be easy. I guess my standards are really high for the narrow slice of the female population I am interested in.

>>81960 Are you actually retarded? Don't act a loitering creep, you are actually wasting your time and will put people off. You got to insert yourself into a social situation. Get on a dating app, go to a club, talk at social gatherings. Look at what is going on in your town. I know it sounds normie tier, but Instagram is a good place to keep in touch with your local community's social activities. It's also important that you do something to break the ice. A compliment or kind gesture goes such a long ways to starting a conversation. Hold a door for lady, compliment her hair, compliment her attire. Just what ever you do NOT give her a compliment for being fat. A lot of fat women do not like the fact they are fat because of social stigma and health issues, its only after they become comfortable with you and are not concerned about other men that maybe she could one day be complimented for it.

man i just spent like 400$ on pre recorded videos from dm messages from onlyfans and she kinda skinny I feel like shit idk what to do i feel like i made a mistake.

I feel caught in a trap and was depressed so I made a very bad decision and don't know how to stop myself from this porn addiction that is eating my life away. I cant believe I let myself get carried away because I always told myself to stop but now I feel I have no control over my bad habits. I feel really scared to ask anybody I know irl for help because this is a embarrassing to talk about. How do you seek help? because I know this addiction cant be natural!

>>82757 > Are you actually retarded? >Don't act a loitering creep, you are actually wasting your time and will put people off. >You got to insert yourself into a social situation. Get on a dating app, go to a club, talk at social gatherings. I love getting this advice from some high tier Brad who thinks he’s a plucky loser with grit. The rest of us aren’t some trust fund boytoy who has normal looking, normal intelligence women throwing themselves at him.

>>81824 I feel you, Balkan bro. I walk around my city for about 3-5 hours at a time every week (outside, in malls, markets, etc.) and big girls around my age (mid-20s) who are single seem to not exist. The streets are filled with loner dudes like me, but rarely any girls. I've tried Feabie, waste of time, only 12 girls around me and the male:female ratio on there is 9:2. On standard dating apps I managed to meet up with one fat girl but unfortunately she had a lot of psychological troubles. She rarely left her house though, so maybe most of these girls are just sitting at home and not going out.

>>83272 I guess I should feel flattered being called a high tier brad. Its kind of weird to be given an insult of being a high value male. Do you really think you are going to get someone to date you by acting like a stalker or a predator? There are situations where people feel open to socializing and then there are situations where they don't . Nobody is going to the doctors office with the expectation of meeting their future boyfriends there. Additionally trying to pick up chicks at places where women will feel the most self conscious about their weight is a horrible idea. This should be common sense. Remember you are trying to get a date, not a restraining order or security called on you. If you are already in a relationship and you are someone she trusts, this changes the dynamics of these environments since you then can act as an outlet for her insecurities about her weight. But that is all after you are in a relationship. Anyways, since you projected me being so high value of a male on to me. It does no harm in trying to make yourself attractive. Going to the gym, not being a fat fuck yourself, brushing your teeth, dressing presentable, being clean shaven or grooming your facial hair, and taking care of your face really does go along way. If at the very least it makes it easier to have confidence if you know you can make yourself more attractive. You can absolutely increase your value as a male at least aesthetically. Going from a 4/10 to a 7/10 in /r9k/ talk which you sound like you should be more than familiar with.

>>83581 >Do you really think you are going to get someone to date you by acting like a stalker or a predator? Yes >There are situations where people feel open to socializing and then there are situations where they don't . More Brad shit. I’m not going to go to a club and stand out among all the roided out manwhores. Horrible advice, you got to make opportunities happen. >Remember you are trying to get a date, not a restraining order or security called on you. Coach said we’re trying to score touchdowns and flags are gonna happen when you play tough. >If you are already in a relationship and you are someone she trusts, Best way to get a gf is to have a gf? >no harm in trying to make yourself attractive. Going to the gym, not being a fat fuck yourself, brushing your teeth, dressing presentable, being clean shaven or grooming your facial hair, and taking care of your face really does go along way. Am I supposed to be confident or neurotically be trying to fix my supposed “flaws” while the women just get by existing. >Going from a 4/10 to a 7/10 in /r9k/ talk which you sound like you should be more than familiar with. Do you understand how skeletons work? I can’t change my bones.

>>83609 Look, I can't stop you from stalking people like Mr Ryan Clark and Ridiculous Cake. You can see where that gets you. I can tell you wont get the 800lb gf of your dreams doing that. This woe is me bullshit is going to get you nowhere and doing nothing to better yourself is only going to leave you worse off in every situation not just in getting into relationships. I don't how having a manlet skeleton is going to stop you from taking basic care of yourself and taking pride in your appearance, but you can explain that one after you explain what the next part of the fan fiction you wrote about my college ball career.