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Getting normalized Anonymous 05/25/2026 (Mon) 21:56:28 Id:4dafe6 No. 86682
Not really but I feel like I see so much either relating to meme like pounding tortas or people making/using straight up fat art for social posts. Don't know if it's just a me thing though
What the fuck is even your question. This did not need its own thread. You did not need to bump lock an old thread and delete it to post this fucking nonsense
>>86685 I think he's saying it seems like fat fetishes are getting normalized. Anecdotally, it seems like the normies on my social feeds are expressing awareness that other men out there like fat girls, and I've seen some people go public about how they like fat girls, but I'm not sure if I would call it normalized yet.
I feel like it's kinda more like people are starting to be aware that we exist and that it's less uncommon than a lot of people thought Obviously that also leads to more people creating related content and memes (about themselves or others) There will always be people joking, mocking and posting mean comments, it's the internet.. But I feel like it has taken a step away from being similarly treated like being gay or other non standard preferences Which can also be seen by all the confident plus size women (who are not necessarily body positivity advocates) wearing more revealing and less don't look at me style outfits imo
i damn hope it gets normalised! people like sadie special and fatmisst should be the beauty standard yall can fight me on that 😈
I feel this is getting more true in the younger gen z generations on instagram and tiktok reels where a majority of the comments instead of talking about how much of a whale a plus size girl is, instead they say things like "hear me out" or "it should've been me not him". Most of these aren't even in fetish model or feederism community and are just in meme jokes. https://www.instagram.com/p/DXZ2aFwmutq https://www.instagram.com/p/DYgg_4olJpr
I have a feeling that plus-size bodies were trendy in the 2010s, but that's over.
Because of ozempic, being skinny is easy and therefore less valuable. Fatness is authenticity. It seems like it’s mostly younger men who are into women with curves, people who leave hate comments tend to be old or in the closet. It looks like a return to normal to me, the boomer ideology that women need to be small, weak, hairless, seems predatory.
My Theory is that it's just exposure/ sexual imprinting. There were more fat women in the 90s than in the 70s and there were more fat women in 2000s than in the 90s. As a result more guys who are entering into the teens/20s now were around fat women growing up than in previous generations. The end result is that it's possible more guys are into fat women now than previously.
>>86733 I'm a younger millennial but I am straight up jealous of younger gen z. It feels like there's so much less shame around being fat and dating fat women. Plus fat girl fashion is actually good now.
>>86742 Older millennial here... Yeah, it was pretty right gorijg through middle school and high school with this preference during the 2000s
Rough going*
>>86740 Yeah I was pretty surprised when I saw a conservative-ish normie on Twitter talking about he thinks there's a difference between people who are fat because they enjoy life versus those who are fat because they're lazy slobs. Maybe we'll head back to 19th century norms where being fat was an impressive, but not too uncommon novelty.
I think the peak of fat appreciation (whether your own or someone else's) is past now. You see the trend being reversed. Women who embraced their curves are starting GLP-1's and soon we will get the question too whether our gf considered them, or worse, that we should suggest it to them.
>>86741 I think theres something to this. I grew up in a small midwest town in the early 2000s and remember how rare it was to even see a skinny woman. Like my brain never even had a chance to consider skinny women. Id hardly even seen them. I def agree with the thread that liking fat girls is becoming more mainstream now though. Soon we'll probably see some Timothy chalamet type openly date a 300 pounder and the floodgates will open
>>86733 I thought you would be linking to reels on woman-on-the-street interviews and you linked to anime memes wtf, of course anime gooners are leaving comments like that, but it's much more arguable whether that's normalization.
GLP ones are reversing this trend. Nice while it lasted.
If you are blob sized, Glp1s can help you lose a hundred pounds so so. The easy weight. After that you actually have to start trying. And these girls didn't get to these massive weights by being good at trying. My lady is on glp1 and hasn't lost a single pound in like 9 months.
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even the memes are turning me on ... is that from an anime serie or smth?
>>86884 Reverse actually. Ozempic is seen in as trashy, sell out, or soulless behavior. Its in the same cultural lane for gen z as Ai or Israel, where sure theres definitely a decent chunk who accepted it, but it's at best, embarrassing to admit to supporting them. There's also now a huge counter push against it that's def creating a new wave of body positivity but in the vein of woke 2.0
>>87345 > Reverse actually. Ozempic is seen in as trashy, sell out, or soulless behavior. So is plastic surgery. Turns out normies, especially normie women would prefer to look like an ugly lazy sellout with money.
>>87359 Plastic surgery is not the same kinda trashy tho. It got accepted because it can be done subtly now so it's much more "tasteful" for normies. The only way to hide the effects of ozempic is to work out so you dont end up like a bobble head. But being on ozempic in the 1st place means they very likely aren't gonna do that lol. Plus, and this is the big part, they need to KEEP using ozempic forever basically. I already know a few ppl who stopped after a year and gained it all back and then some. Unless something new develops it'll just be a fade tbh
I kind of see what you're talking about. There's a vtuber I watch who did a face/body reveal a while ago and turned out to be fat even though her streaming avatar isn't. I expected the comments section to make fun of her for being fat IRL but was surprised to see the majority of the comments be positive/horny. I think there's only a specific kind of fat that's becoming mainstream acceptable, though. If a girl mostly stores fat in her lower body and has a comparatively lean face and waist she's much more likely to be accepted than a woman with a big stomach and double chin.
>>87388 Guys have always loved thicc women. PCOSal land whales with no self awareness are not attractive. Women made skinny popular.
I feel like this is a strange play, she is a weight loss motivation account but she post thumbnails with ridiculous fat edits people make of her. She has to be somewhat into this
It's sad how many SSBBWs that are ok with being fat end up losing weight because it's more difficult to get around. We need some way to normalize mobility scooters.
It’s important too to talk about Mukbang or overeating content getting normalized for a while now, I’d argue that ALL of it is performative eating and therefore fetish content. Women are way more popular with it (just like porn) and the most popular ones all visibly gain.
>>86682 It's been a long game played since before you were born to lessen a social stigma of a once unspoken but absurdly common preference. The social conditioning has been machined at a managerial level with big finance behind it, and at the unconscious individual level which only serves to uphold the former elite effort which directs it. Social media is legacy media rebranded with the illusion of open speech, and the same social conditioning applies. Men who like fat women aren't some tiny fraction of the population, they are a significant percentage and that breeds coordinated effort. For better and for worse, you are seeing the fruits of these labors ripen. Twenty years ago, women would fully cover up if they were even a little chunky. I see women of breeding age with their fat midsections, love handles and shockingly even bellies proudly on display now in most public places, it's not even an open secret anymore that men like fat women now that the internet is everyday life, it's merely another preference in a world of preference. This has benefits and repercussions of course, there is such thing as too much of a good thing, and you might burn yourself out on the hedonist treadmill.
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Call me psychotic or delusional, but with the way the digital landscape has essentially killed off modern and accessible newspapers, articles, tabloids, and magazines; I do believe social media is the only way to grab attention when it comes to anyone in the first world these days. For every ā€œMy 600 lb lifeā€ episode, ozempic/mounjaro/whatever the fuck you want to call it peptide advertisement, and open social (and overtly judgmental) commentary on obese people; another gordita loses their wings. This board along with many other message boards become a niche public forum where we can exploit and fetishize body dysmorphia no matter how subtle or extreme the case is. Having or desiring romantic/sexual interests with or existing as fat people is taboo because being fat in itself is taboo. Fat people are stereotyped as lazy, dim-witted, withholding a severe lack of self control, compulsive, gluttonous, greedy, and even downright disgusting. ā€œEw! Nobody wants to look at that!ā€ ā€œWhat the fuck is wrong with you! Do you have no shame?ā€ ā€œWow you’re so brave for wearing/doing that! I wouldn’t be caught dead looking like thatā€¦ā€ Put simply, society as a whole associates obesity as an undesirable trait to begin with. It’s shocking to see when you’re not used to seeing it. The body positivity movement was only effective enough to gain tolerance and eventually acceptance to the disabled/handicapped where obese individuals remain in the grey zone between social acceptance and moral scrutiny. Obesity in itself is a disease unfortunately, and may as well be genetic at this point since habits, compulsions, traditions, and even family traumas mold people into the way that they are later into adulthood. A brief but unpleasant reminder everyday by each and everyone of their peers would drive anyone mad should the roles be switched within the same and/or similar environment. The odd but interesting parallel in all of this is that it follows a similar social dichotomy to each and every person who deals with body dysmorphia, or even certain phobias that relate with their self image experiences their daily lives. I may sound genuinely retarded by saying this, but you look at it in an abstract angle, feedism is essentially body building. They’re lifestyles that revolve around appearance and aesthetics. Divided into subcultures where achieving a certain appearance/way of living are optimized towards. I have a running horseshoe theory where obesity and severe anorexia are at the extreme ends where as appearing or better yet being at a healthy weight for your age, genetics, and demographic are at the very middle. The takeaway I can get from all of this is that appearance achieved and associated with self identity can either be defined by ego or be more inclined to conscious decisions based around the environments and resources available to them. I’m gonna start to ramble about my personal experience and idealized preference and in a way that it is molded into what I’ve always desired. I’m not afraid to admit that the idea hedonism and indulgence is sexy. If anything, I’ve always associated it with prosperity. That’s the main reason I’ve always had an attraction towards bigger women. I grew up a fat kid that got bullied into submission and now I’m just some scrawny weird guy with many unfulfilled hobbies and interests that daydreams every waking minute while starving myself by only eating once a day. Maybe I was just born into it or this is another day among many where I behave and react in a certain way I’ve been raised to be a giver rather than a builder. Why do you think fat girls love gym bros? It sounds unobtainable on paper, but in reality they both have so much in common that they may unknowingly be truly made for each other. Body contrast, behavioral comparability, emotional familiarity, and empathy. Strong guys can play rough with soft girls. Strong men can be gentle giants to their plush partners. Both spend the same amount of time following their passions hobbies and interests with an eerily similar caloric intake. They’re both nerds in one way or another. Opposite needs, wants, and desires, different settings, complementary lifestyles. So maybe the problem isnt ā€œWhere are the fat guys/girls?ā€ Maybe the problem is why aren’t you being a better person and finally answer the most heated question the crowd is always thinking. You love fat girls and are proud of it. With enough reason I’m pretty sure that vast majority of us all on this board all do, and I think now is a better time than never that we stop hiding that. It’s high time that fat people stop secluding themselves from the rest of society because they shouldn’t be social outcasts because of their appearance. Hell, I believe that all body types should be celebrated and accepted but the most anyone can manage is tolerance and indifference. Social media is making people more and more self aware and even more self conscious about their appearance. Instead of just ostracizing or fetishizing them, we should be openly accepting and socially inviting to bigger folks all around us. Sorry for the wall of text lmao, anyways I’ve been stuck on a deep dive these last couple of days trying to find out what outfits clothes and accessories gooners find hot on fat girls and materials and fabrics bbws love wearing. I want my tubby bimbo to be cozy in attractive and comfortable loungewear where I can fuck her in a moments notice wherever and whenever we want in the house… Also cute shoes and jewelry to compliment her nails, hair, and makeup. I want her to be comfortable in her slutty element wherever she goes with me.
>>89223 >feedism is essentially body building. Strongly agree. You know, many of those bodybuilders you see at competitions aren't particularly healthy either since they abuse steroids, but you don't see people moralfagging about them in the same way as gainers/feedees
just from what ive seen irl there’s just a lot less shame about surface level kinks especially when it isn’t displayed as a fetish with a more neutral/vanilla phrasing if it, having a thing for fatter people won’t really turn heads
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Happy 4-th of July
>>89606 nigga put that away
>>89606 I wish they were all that size in America.
>>89606 Yoo another Estonian!! Wondering how many Estonians have this fetish (or if they have but haven't found the online community yet).
>>86682 Yeah I'm never believing this shit is getting normalized, not with people like this >>89223 >open social (and overtly judgmental) commentary on obese people; another gordita loses their wings.

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