Call me psychotic or delusional, but with the way the digital landscape has essentially killed off modern and accessible newspapers, articles, tabloids, and magazines; I do believe social media is the only way to grab attention when it comes to anyone in the first world these days. For every āMy 600 lb lifeā episode, ozempic/mounjaro/whatever the fuck you want to call it peptide advertisement, and open social (and overtly judgmental) commentary on obese people; another gordita loses their wings.
This board along with many other message boards become a niche public forum where we can exploit and fetishize body dysmorphia no matter how subtle or extreme the case is. Having or desiring romantic/sexual interests with or existing as fat people is taboo because being fat in itself is taboo. Fat people are stereotyped as lazy, dim-witted, withholding a severe lack of self control, compulsive, gluttonous, greedy, and even downright disgusting. āEw! Nobody wants to look at that!ā āWhat the fuck is wrong with you! Do you have no shame?ā āWow youāre so brave for wearing/doing that! I wouldnāt be caught dead looking like thatā¦ā Put simply, society as a whole associates obesity as an undesirable trait to begin with. Itās shocking to see when youāre not used to seeing it. The body positivity movement was only effective enough to gain tolerance and eventually acceptance to the disabled/handicapped where obese individuals remain in the grey zone between social acceptance and moral scrutiny.
Obesity in itself is a disease unfortunately, and may as well be genetic at this point since habits, compulsions, traditions, and even family traumas mold people into the way that they are later into adulthood. A brief but unpleasant reminder everyday by each and everyone of their peers would drive anyone mad should the roles be switched within the same and/or similar environment. The odd but interesting parallel in all of this is that it follows a similar social dichotomy to each and every person who deals with body dysmorphia, or even certain phobias that relate with their self image experiences their daily lives.
I may sound genuinely retarded by saying this, but you look at it in an abstract angle, feedism is essentially body building.
Theyāre lifestyles that revolve around appearance and aesthetics. Divided into subcultures where achieving a certain appearance/way of living are optimized towards.
I have a running horseshoe theory where obesity and severe anorexia are at the extreme ends where as appearing or better yet being at a healthy weight for your age, genetics, and demographic are at the very middle. The takeaway I can get from all of this is that appearance achieved and associated with self identity can either be defined by ego or be more inclined to conscious decisions based around the environments and resources available to them.
Iām gonna start to ramble about my personal experience and idealized preference and in a way that it is molded into what Iāve always desired.
Iām not afraid to admit that the idea hedonism and indulgence is sexy. If anything, Iāve always associated it with prosperity. Thatās the main reason Iāve always had an attraction towards bigger women. I grew up a fat kid that got bullied into submission and now Iām just some scrawny weird guy with many unfulfilled hobbies and interests that daydreams every waking minute while starving myself by only eating once a day. Maybe I was just born into it or this is another day among many where I behave and react in a certain way Iāve been raised to be a giver rather than a builder.
Why do you think fat girls love gym bros? It sounds unobtainable on paper, but in reality they both have so much in common that they may unknowingly be truly made for each other. Body contrast, behavioral comparability, emotional familiarity, and empathy. Strong guys can play rough with soft girls. Strong men can be gentle giants to their plush partners. Both spend the same amount of time following their passions hobbies and interests with an eerily similar caloric intake. Theyāre both nerds in one way or another. Opposite needs, wants, and desires, different settings, complementary lifestyles.
So maybe the problem isnt āWhere are the fat guys/girls?ā Maybe the problem is why arenāt you being a better person and finally answer the most heated question the crowd is always thinking.
You love fat girls and are proud of it.
With enough reason Iām pretty sure that vast majority of us all on this board all do, and I think now is a better time than never that we stop hiding that. Itās high time that fat people stop secluding themselves from the rest of society because they shouldnāt be social outcasts because of their appearance. Hell, I believe that all body types should be celebrated and accepted but the most anyone can manage is tolerance and indifference. Social media is making people more and more self aware and even more self conscious about their appearance. Instead of just ostracizing or fetishizing them, we should be openly accepting and socially inviting to bigger folks all around us.
Sorry for the wall of text lmao, anyways Iāve been stuck on a deep dive these last couple of days trying to find out what outfits clothes and accessories gooners find hot on fat girls and materials and fabrics bbws love wearing. I want my tubby bimbo to be cozy in attractive and comfortable loungewear where I can fuck her in a moments notice wherever and whenever we want in the houseā¦
Also cute shoes and jewelry to compliment her nails, hair, and makeup. I want her to be comfortable in her slutty element wherever she goes with me.