/gen/ - General Discussion

because like you they're human beings and allowed to have their own preferences?

From what I've heard it goes the other way as well. Fat men refuse to date fat women and in some cases, actively hate fat women despite being fat themselves.

Because women are hypocritical, but also fat is feminine which most of the time doesn't look good on them(unless that's your thing). Men should be muscly and strong not dainty and fat, leave that for women. If you think about it getting fat is like bodybuilding for women.

>>90406 Why do fat women hate fat men? Because fat men have the worst personalities. Insecure, weak, whiny, lazy, entitled, usually poor. Aka losers.

>>90426 Not really fat guys have to cope up for their looks department so they have usually good "funny" personalities most of the time. Whereas fat women are extremely entitled now that they have started to get a modicum of attention.

Can buy it as internalized fatphobia to show they don't have to "settle" for fellow fatties or defy societies ideas that the only people they can date is fellow fat people. Some fat women may prefer to get it on with skinny dudes or hunks and to show that their only dating pool isn't only limited to fellow fat people. But this isn't universal, I'm sure there's fat women who fantasize about being with fat men and vice versa. Cousin did mention times of fat men having this internalized fatphobia. Where some really fat dudes mocked small fat women. Like meaty hourglass level fat, and saying they're super obese and undatable when they're way fatter than the women they bully. If they internalize the double standard that fat men can exist, but women being fat is a horrible sin. That women can't put on weight or be fat, and we must treat fat women being nude/sexual as gross and disgusting. As well as good ol' hypocrisy. Like the scene in family guy when Lois gains weight and she says peter is fatter than she is, and he responds "Lois, fat men aren't fat, fat women are fat".

Being fat is a feminine trait, so its understandable that heterosexual women, regardless of their own weight would not find it attractive. The more estrogen your body has, the more of your body mass will be fat, and vice versa with testosterone. They don't like fat men for the same reason that you most likely don't like incredibly ripped or muscular women. It signals a hormonal imbalance and poor health. Most fat guys I see that have an easy time getting women are usually fat but with a good deal of muscle underneath. But if you're just some big blob tub of lard with a beer gut, yeah you're fucked.

>>90435 >I'm sure there's fat women who fantasize about being with fat men and vice versa. Probably a very small minority, but speaking from experience there's no one that hates fat men more than fat women. Even skinny women are more accepting of fat men.

>>90439 >there's no one that hates fat men more than fat women I doubt that. If you were to look at it statistically I'm sure obese women are probably more likely to be in a relationship with an obese man than a skinny woman. But the truth is that most women find fat men unattractive, regardless of their own weight. Even women with fat partners would probably find them more attractive if they weren't fat.

>>90426 This, and fat men fail as providers thus setting off every alarm bell women have. This thread pops up once every 8 months and it's the same sad faggot posting it every time

The 80:20 rule is now fully in effect for BBWs too

Why do fat men wear shirts that say "No Fat Chicks?"

>>90444 Even if a fat guy was a provider and didn't have any of those negative personality traits, women would still not like him. I don't understand why it's so hard for guys to admit that women simply aren't physically attracted to fat men.