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How do I meet women outside of dating apps? fumbleanon us
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49ef74 10/28/2026 02:14:26
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Hey, this is an update to a thread I made months ago >>>/gen/85767. I'm kinda depressed right now, I met this girl back on Hinge some time ago, she was apart of a sorority or something, got her number and eventually we hit it off. It was my first time being with a woman, it was the most awkward experience ever, I couldn't get it up anyways, eat no kill. We never spoke again, picrel is from after we got done. The thing is every girl I've been on a date with has paled in comparison and I'm worried my gun will jam again. This girl was a DDD and no girl I've dated since has come close to that size. Since then, I've been banned from Hinge and Tinder, all of I have left is FB Dating and Bumble. FB Dating is mostly single moms and crackheads and I hate Bumble with a burning passion. I'm scared even if I find a girl the same thing will happen, sex and stuff is new to me, I'm still technically a virgin. I'm tired of dating apps, Hinge was the only app I consistently got dates, I got 1-2 a week when I was unbanned. I have no idea how to meet women outside of apps, I work a warehouse and go home. I have no energy right now, I have no idea how I'm gonna get a gf/fwb at this rate.
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bcfe14 10/28/2026 02:18:10
by No. 93208
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When they embrass you. Just know they already have a speech prepared for how sorry they are. Narcassitic abuse.
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49ef74 10/28/2026 02:22:33
by No. 93209
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>>93208 To be honest, she didn't say anything rude about the experience or whatever even in the moment. I was just left on read. It was just an awkward experience for me.
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6a3173 10/28/2026 04:24:10
by No. 93210
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Damn bro what are you doing to get banned??
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d4b4a4 10/28/2026 08:30:00
by No. 93212
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>>93210 Yeah man wtf. Are US women that much more report happy on there? Or is OP a legitimate degenerate Several key details left out.
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bb6d03 10/28/2026 08:53:12
by No. 93213
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>>93210 Well He’s posting her nudes without her consent for a bunch of people to see online, that’s probably a good start
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808e86 10/28/2026 08:54:43
by No. 93214
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>>93210 >>93212 Sue me, but this is also the first thing I thought of... I think there are three main reasons OP could have gotten banned. None of which are favorable: 1. Being genuinely creepy trough text/in person. Wether that's creepy comments, sexualizing women from the get go, or anything FF related. 2. Not taking the L and moving on when being rejected, but rather harassing women afterwards. 3. Using fake pics The first reason might not even be down to OP being a lowlife, but rather autism related brutal honesty with no sense of boundaries and a profound lack of situational awareness (i.e. there's a time for sexy talk and possibly even FF related talk (when you find the right woman), but you have to be patient and be able to judge when that time has come). The more unlikely event is that OP really got screwed on two different dating apps by women who get off on reporting men. That being said, OP please explain yourself so that we can offer advice.
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e16375 10/28/2026 08:58:11
by No. 93215
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>>93213 Oh yeah totally forgot about that part. So it's probably an evil version of reason one. >>93214
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678ba6 10/28/2026 14:23:55
by No. 93225
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I got banned from both Hinge and Tinder due to "violent content" as I had a picture of me from my military service holding my service weapon, so it doesn't take much for being banned from apps owned by match.com (Fucking sensitive yanks). For the sex stuff I also suffer from stage fright first time I'm with someone. When I've admitted it they've been cool with it. Just ensure that you make up to it with other things. Finger her enough, eat her out and suck her tits real good. Sounds obvious to some, but fat girls are used to guys pumping and dumping them without putting any effort into the sex so giving them what they want is what you want to do if you wanna have them text you back, ESPECIALLY if you have penis problems.
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3d5041 10/29/2026 01:13:05
by No. 93241
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>>93214 OP here. Yeah, I'll explain. I was texting another girl on Hinge after picrel and to make a long story short. I didn't show up to a date we had planned, I told her kinda last minute, something had come up. She said a bunch of shit over text so I blocked her. The last thing I texter her was, "Idc anyways there's a 1000 girls like you". I got a bunch of spam calls from no caller id #'s over the next few days, so I reported her on Hinge. I believe she reported me too, cuz a literal week to the day later I was banned from Hinge. She was also banned from Hinge too so at least that worked. The thing about Hinge and Tinder, is that they're owned by the same parent company Match.com, so if you're banned by one you're banned by all of them.
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4608b6 10/29/2026 15:23:28
by No. 93252
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>>93213 Not OP, but stop moralfagging. None of girls here, models or not, consent to having their photos shared on this degen 4chin knockoff. Stfu and look at those titties, kek.
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8f80b9 10/29/2026 17:01:46
by No. 93258
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>>93212 You can get banned for fuck all and there is no due process. If you date a girl and then turn her down, even if you unmatch immediately she will have access to report your profile for the next 30 days if she's feeling vindictive. All she has to do is make something up like "he harassed/scared/was rude to me" and you're done. Its an instant lifetime ban from all match apps with no recourse and no way around it. Bumble is terrible and I've never had any success with it but its all I have now too.
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cdebf0 10/29/2026 19:15:52
by No. 93263
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Going by her expression, I'm not entirely sure OP even had permission to take that nude, never mind post it
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3d5041 10/29/2026 20:48:18
by No. 93274
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>>93258 That's literally what happened to me, bcuz of how Hinge works, they can report your profile up to 30 days even after unmatching and once you're banned from one match.com app you're banned from all of them.